“I Dont Have A Phone”: Getting Her # Is A Waste Of Time [Part 2]

The title is my motto for 2014!

In addition to my previous article, I decided to take things a step further, not only as advice for myself but for those reading who are expecting a better success rate with women in the upcoming year.

The greater part of this routine is psychological but would appear very impractical to the ordinary mind.

In my previous post, I advised you guys to “not get phone numbers”…if you’re looking to hook up.

In conjunction to not asking girls for their numbers or any contact information, is if the question comes up as to your phone number (perhaps she asks), tell her that you don’t have a phone.

Feel free to add a bit of back story to the reason as to why you don’t have a phone:

“My son smashed it by mistake”.

“The dog ate it” 😉

“I lost it at the club”

“I dropped it and some thief ran away with it”

“I loaned it to my sister”

“I’m just not the phone type”

If you do decide to follow my strategy/routine for getting more lays, then a big part of bringing that to fruition is to say to the girl: “I don’t have a phone number right now”.

Feel free to use 1 of the reasons I’d cited or come up with your own.

In spite of the fact that chicks want sex, often times (most times), they will do things (subconsciously) that make sex more difficult to come by or impossible.

What I mean is, for example, you meet a girl for the first time, she’s totally into you, she wants to get laid but she calls a cab to go home.

In essence, she’s making sex impossible although she really wants to rip your clothes off and get it on!

To apply this to the topic at hand, whenever a girl asks you for your #, or she suggests that y’all swap, she is making sex harder to come by [whether she’s truly aware of it or not is up for discussion].

Since women are women, you simply have to give them a break on such equivocation [pun intended]. 😉

Ok, so women love sex and want sex but they’ll do and say things which appear otherwise.

One such example, although it doesn’t appear that way on the surface, is exchanging phone numbers.

It’s at that point in the Game of the interaction, you should think to yourself:

“We can continue possibly to sex. Giving her my phone number would mean a possible continuation later in the week”?

“Now or later”?

Well, the best answer to that is “NOW”!

Just as she’s open for sex “NOW”, but needs to be nudged into that direction.

Also, limiting beliefs in men would have you thinking that sleeping with a woman the same day/night you met her is impossible and unlikely.

Such belief is endeared by losers!

Allow me to recount a field report from years ago which illustrates how easy it can be to fuck a girl the same day/night.

Kenny Fucks A Member Of An Opposition-Political Party

I have 3 passions in life: Pickup, Religion [debunking it] and Politics. Since the age of 10, while my siblings were out playing in the park, I was at home watching the history channel learning about the Kennedy assassination or tuned in to C-Span to consume what was going on in Washington politics.

As an adult, I’ve been an officially registered member/supported/contributor of the Antigua and Barbuda Labor Party (ABLP) since 2003 [in the Caribbean that is].

The ABLP political party in party colors

The ABLP political party in party colors

Politics all year around is huge in the Caribbean. It rivals that of professional sports as far as enthusiasm and participation from young people.

Anyway, some years ago, the opposition party [UPP] held a major public rally in conjunction with their convention. Since it was a public event housed outdoors, non members were expected to be among the supporters.

As a staunch member of the opposing party (ABLP), I was last to be expected to show up. But as an ardent Pick-Up Artist at that time, as long as there was a congregation of hotties (irrespective of differences); I had to be there! 😉

So I showed up! Being in enemy camp can be a real fucking tense situation might I add! 😯

Alright, details of the interaction are very sketchy (after all, this was over 6 years ago). To be honest, I don’t recall an iota of the dialogue, but what took place and how it all culminated are still etched into the memory bank.

Anyway, spotted the girl at the outdoor convention. She was with 2 other girls, but I somehow found a way to woo her away from her circle of friends.

We chatted for a while [no recollection of the dialogue], no phone # swap!

I repeat, No phone numbers were exchanged!

At that point in my game, I was the Same-Day Lay king! Every girl I interacted with, my sole intention was to sleep with her that same day or night! This girl was no exception!

Somehow, I got her to leave the convention grounds with me to take a walk.

This was in the evening, possibly before 9 PM but later than 7 PM.

Our verbal interaction lasted no more than 90 minutes. Due to various-existential occurrences on that day, I’m able to assess that we had only been talking for about 90 minutes.

I can recall using the classic PUA line in order to get her to my abode:

“Why don’t we stop by my place real quick to check out some photos before we go back to your party’s convention”.

I didn’t wait to hear a yes or no. I led her to my apartment.

Now that I think about it in retrospect; I wasn’t big on phones. This was a huge reason as to why I never got her # or gave her mines. I actually didn’t have a working mobile phone or sim card, so it was pointless to swap #’s but it was a blessing in disguise because it pushed me to pursue sex on the spot. Since I was constantly traveling between NYC and the islands, my service wasn’t active on island.

Also during that time, I’d dubbed myself “One-Night Stand Kenny” since that was my modus operandi.

Ok, back to the field report. So I got her to the apartment and we fucked (she rode me the entire time until I came). In those years, I never wore condoms so I fucked her raw as possible.

I took her back to the convention of her party and called it a night. I frankly didn’t remember her name then or now.

Once again: no #’s exchanged!

The Mystery Method Model Of Pickup Is King

A great part of my success in being able to pull girls for Same-Night Sex, was the model of Pickup in which I had religiously subscribed to (and still do): The Mystery Method Model.

Mystery, founder of the Mystery Method Model (MM) Of Pickup

Mystery, founder of the Mystery Method Model (MM) Of Pickup

In retrospect, the MM model was based on One-Night Stands and NOT getting phone numbers and setting up dates.

Hence MM’s 7 hour theory of meet to bang.

None of Mystery’s classic stuff was based on dates, phone numbers and text game! It was all about fucking the girl now!

[Videos below: Mystery teaching The Mystery Method]

With that being the case, In those days, I never seen a flake!

I didn’t know what the fuck a flake was!

I never got flaked on since I didn’t take girl’s phone numbers!!! 🙂

You cannot get flaked or stood up when your game is all about sleeping with girls the same day.

As the Pickup community started to shift with the times [Facebook, texting, online dating, etc], most of its material began catering to phone game and every company and Pickup coach started to advise “how to get her phone number”.

That shift inevitable enjoined with it the reality of girls flaking. When prior to this shift, a PUA didn’t have to worry about flaky bitches.

Now as for the girl and the field report which I’d written in the previous passage, was that an exceptional case?

Fuck no!

It was the norm for me!

When I first started out in Pickup and into my intermediary years, almost all of my lays came by way of One-Night Stands from bars, nightclubs or cold approaches on the streets during night and day game.

That’s some crazy stats when you think about it! But that was the culture of Pickup in those years. If you weren’t able to fuck a girl that same day, you somewhat felt ashamed and less of a man.

That feeling drove you to perform better, work harder and tweak your logistical issues (since poor logistics are your worst enemy in getting laid).

This hearkens to an article I wrote back in 2011 where I almost fucked a girl in back of a dumpster outside of a nightclub. She was an “Almost” case, but I’ve done this numerous times over the years.

Due to bad logistics, I wasn’t able to bang her then and there.

Now tell me, had I taken her phone # to try to get her on a date or to come over to my place at a later date, would she had shown up?

Hell fucking no!!!

Therefore, it would’ve been pointless to get her phone #!

Such is the case with 90% of the girls you will meet. It would’ve been pointless to get their phone numbers.

Guys, y’all need to understand that flaking isn’t the exception but the NORM by far!

As I touched on in the previous article, If you were to get 5 phone numbers today, 3 to 4 of those would result in NO results! 3-4 of those would be flaky waste-of-time girls. All 5 being flaky is a strong possibility also. But to get 5 phone #’s and expect all 5 to sleep with you is rather delusion. The reality is, only 1 of the 5, or 0 of the 5 will have slept with you.

Social Media, Smart Phones, Texting And Online Dating Have Diminished Your Chances Of Sex

I’d written about this in the past and it still stands true.

Just as the cellphone is killing your chances of getting laid, quite the same with social media and online dating.

When I first got into Pickup, Facebook and Twitter were nonexistent.

The term social media wasn’t a household name. In fact; it wasn’t even a name at all.

Texting wasn’t the main mode of communication. People was still actually using the phone to talk and have human-to-human interaction and not texting like robots.

Along came Facebook and the amount of girls I slept with had began to decrease dramatically.

It wasn’t Mark Zuckerberg’s fault, it was my fault for allowing myself to get away from what works (same day hookups) to getting engulfed in the female-dominated world of social media.

Just as I advise guys all the time: You cannot pick up random girls off of Facebook and into your bed!

The only how you could pick up a girl on FB is if she’s already in your social circle, already knows of you, and the 2 of you share some mutual friends.

That’s it!

However, to spot a random hottie on Facebook and think that you could pick her up and sleep with her is NOT going to happen!

There’s a 40% chance that she may reply to your 1st. message (from curiosity), but once she notices that she doesn’t know you; that is it!

Even if it does go further and you do get her phone #, 9 in 10 time, it will not go anywhere!

As with everything I write about, I’d field tested this by over 100 times by trying to pull random hot girls over Facebook.

Guys need to realize that Facebook is NOT a website in which to hook up!

It’s where girls go to chat shit, gossip and get attention.

Women do NOT sign up to Facebook in order to find guys they can bang [that’s what dating sites are for]! It’s just a medium to communicate and chat.

This is part of the reason as to why social media kills girl’s willingness to want to fuck.

When there was no Facebook, if a girl got your name of phone #, she knew automatically that it was about sex.

Nowadays, if you chat up a girl, name and number swap, she’s readily looking to Facebook you or add your phone # to Whatsapp where she can cyber text you to death but not actually want to hook up in the real world.

As a man, a smart man, it’s your job to counter the bullshit by stop trying to pick up girls online, stop adding them on Facebook (unless it’s networking and business), stop giving them your phone numbers, and stop asking for their #’s and Facebook.

The only 2 exceptions to this is if it’s a chick in another country or perhaps another city which you’ll be visiting shortly.

You can use tourist game in order to seduce and bang her.

The other exception is online dating sites where you pretty much have to get the girl’s # in order to take it off line and hook up.

Apart from those 2 exceptions; getting a girl’s # is worthless if your goal is to date or hook up.

If you’re looking a phone-pal or texting buddy: then that’s fine! 🙂 😉

In keeping with the topic at hand, when interacting with a woman, you should be looking to exhaust every possibility of hooking up before even thinking to get the phone # if you do decide to go that route.

By exhaust, I mean try to get her to go on an instant date, try making out with her, try kissing her, flirt, touch, try getting her back to your place, try fucking her in the nearest public bathroom or something!

If all fail, I would leave without giving my #. But if for some reason you think that you have another shot, then you may give your #, however I advise that you don’t since the likelihood of it going anywhere is next to zero.

Believe me, you’ll have more success in getting a girl to meet up with you by saying to her: “Meet me at this exact same spot on Thursday at 7 PM”, than you would have by swapping numbers and trying to set a date via phone.

When you refuse to give a girl your # and refrain from getting hers, a sense of loss develops in the girl’s mind…that is if she’s into you from the initial interaction.

To eliminate this sense of “I’m gonna lose this great guy”, she will be forced to hook up with you that same day. This is the underlying theme of One-Night Stands.

By swapping #’s, she would not have had this sense of loss.

This was the hidden key to me pulling One Night Stands every 2 days when I didn’t have a working mobile number.

I would meet a hot girl, we’d hit it off, she would totally be into me, but I had no way to keep in touch [Facebook wasn’t around] so we had to hook up NOW or Never!

On that note, for 2014, if a girl whom you’re chatting up vis-a-vis (face to face) asks for your phone #; do NOT give it to her!

Fabricate some crazy-ass excuse as to why you don’t have a phone currently!

Seducing women is about being smart, smooth and cunning and using the logistics in your favor.

As Todd Valentine recently said in a video of his, “What is the point of getting a girl’s phone #? Is to meet up at a later time. Well if that’s the case, you have the girl right here right now. Why wait for a later date when you’re with her now”!?

Think about that shit!

Why the fuck would you ask a girl for her # in order to meet with her some other time when you’re there with her now!?

You have your chance now!

I leave you with another awesome talk by Todd Valentine as he encapsulates everything I spoke about here including Same Night Sex, logistics and why to not go for the phone number unless you’ve already executed everything possible!

Related posts:

Get off the phone you asshole! Physical escalation theory

Learn scavenger Game for one night stand pulls

Deleting girls

My Friday Night Twitter Feed At The Club (Fri’,13th.). Plus “Almost-Sure” Sex Slipped Through My Hands!!

Twitter madness when the weekend's here for SocialK.

Twitter madness when the weekend’s here for SocialK.

Friday nights: my twitter timeline is hectic as it can get. Was just vibing with my boys J Roc & Ryan from the new MTV’s Pauly D Project, My man LS Fader, a head PUA instructor for Love Systems

9:06 “Just seen my man #Unit.We partying tonight like @DameChar but we bad-boys though”.

9:33 “Getting prepped and ready for the club tonight with my main man #Unit http://twitpic.com/99guzw”.Getting prepped and ready for the club tonight with my main m... on Twitpic

9:35 “My philosophy for tonight: “fuck a #-close, strictly SNL(same night lays) attempts”.

9:42 “Gotta put my #iPhone in my back pocket in case I grind on a chic tonight. Don’t want the shit dialing all types on #’s off a girl’s ass”.

9:50 “@RyanLabbe-If you dare sleep in the #NYC on a Friday night, you might as well give up partying bro!”.

9:57 “Why do I have a strange urge to buy girls drinks tonight like some #AFC(wussy). I might just actually just go out with entree fee only($20)”.

10:00 “I’m peacocked-out.Those who say that peacocking doesn’t help Game. Fucc U! It’s always helped mines over the years”.

10:23 pambrown28803-@SocialKenny “ciroc and frozen strawberry lemonade. #wavy”.

10:30 “@pambrowwn28803-“Lol sounds good. I need to try that mixture of #Ciroc and the lemonade. If it doesn’t taste great, we’re gonna fight”.

10:36 pambrown28803-@SocialKenny it’s awesome!!!! But if ya wanna go at it we can. Haha ha! Happy Saturday”.

10:48 “@ the club getting warmed up. My boy #Unit already almost got into a fight to get kicced out the spot lol”.

11:34 “I’m yet to get active and feel the vibe. Dj plying some dumb Reggae shit”.

11:43 “Fucking DJ’s playing bullshit as usual!!! Where the fucc is the refund when you need it”.

12:11 “This HB8.1 keeps hovering while I tweet. I’m feeling in the zone despite the shitty music. About to grab her for a dance”.

12:18 “Its’ like #Amsterdam up in this bitch! Dudes smoking like chimneys all around me”.

12:34 “Music still sucks but I’m in the zone”.

1:03 “Muthafucka spilled a beer on my Blackberry! Intentional I know ’cause I’m probably grinding on his chic lmao”.

1:30 “Eventhough I promised not to get any #’s, I just #-closed a 7. Ok come on guys, I know a 7 isn’t that impressive but…”.

1:36 “@IamJroc-Lmao throwback #MobbDeep”.

1:37IamJroc-@SocialKenny: #classic”.

1:38 “@IamJroc-No doubt bro’!”.

1:40 “Now they playing #Techno! About fucking time!!! Yea yea yea!!”.

1:45 “Damn!! They killing me with the Trance”.

1:53 “Dancing my ass off right now”.

2:00 “Fist pumpin’ with my boy #Unit like it’s the #JerseyShore”!!!

2:04 “My dick jus got hard grinding on that 7 so I had to take a break lol. I’m moving in on her to fuck her after club”.

2:17 “@LS_Fader-ATB!!!Word!!!?#ATB as in #Trance?”.

2:18 “LS_Fader- @Socialkenny-“Yup. Doing great”.

2:44 Reetweet by @LS_Fader- “ATB surrounded by a bunch of amateur club kids. Omg it’s like Fischer price my 1st club experience lmao http://img.ly/gN6D”.

3:01 “I don’t wanna jinx myself but I might be f-closing this HB7 after some more comfort building”.

4:10 “It’s 4 am, the HB7 supposed to pick my ass up for an after-the club rendez-vous”.

4:20 “This bitch #flaked!!!!? This one is on me. Fucc it!”

4:31 “I’m surprised @RyanLabbe can tweet while #twisted. Or he must be sober as hell tonight”.

4:35 “Fucking feet killing me from all this walking. Trick flaked on scooping me up at the said location(bustop). Same night lay went wrong lol”.

How I let the pussy slip away last night

I spotted 3 hot girls semi dancing as I walked the dance floor. I said to the nearest one(from the side): “Why don’t you free yourself and start dancing? Is your drink not strong enough? She LOL’s, I roll off to come back [part of my strategy].

I returned and danced beside her(without touching as to test the waters of her body language). I said to her, “I know you’re ready for me. Show me how to dance”. She LOL’s and said loudly in my ears, “You look like a dancer already”. I roll off again after eye flirting with her [rolling off is part of my skill set].

I came back a while later and started to grind on her ass with my hands on her shoulders, then her waists…

I repeated this dance with her for 2 minutes, roll off, return, dance again. Doing this (rolling off) shows the girl that you’re not the average needy guy who’s gonna latch onto her all night and not give her space.

During the dance, I put my phone in her hand and said to her, “punch in your phone # before I get upset”(with a sly, dominant smile). She laughs and punch in her #. I said, Good girl”. She LOL’s.

I lost her during the crowd and darkness, so I sent her a text, “Meet me on the walk way so we can chat”. Replied OK. But we happened to spot each other just after the texts.

She tells me that her girlfriends are ready to leave. I said to her, “But we’re supposed to hang out”(which isn’t true BTW lol, but I’m setting a mental frame here by assuming we’re hanging out. Nice trick).

So she says to me, “Do you wanna come”? So we all bounced to the outside of the club. She tells me she’s driving, so we all 4 go to the car, I’m leaning through her window, she tells me that she’s gonna drop her GF’s home and we hang out after. So, I can hop in now or text her to meet me at a central location.


Instead, I said to her, “Nah, take your friends home, and I’ll text you to meet me at a certain bustop”.


At that juncture, I essentially forfeited the chance to bang this girl.

On her drive home, she now has enough mental space to backwards rationalize the situation and back out and flake.

Had I hopped in her car when she suggested at the get-go, she wouldn’t have the chance to back out, nor the chance to backwards rationalize and think things over.

Why I backed out mystifies the shit out of me!Consider it rust, as I haven’t seriously attempted SNL’s in almost 2 years.

Anyway, so I went to a nearby bustop then texted her to meet me at the bustop on ***** & *** streets. 10 minutes passed: no reply text.

At that point, I already knew what was up. I already knew I fucked up and miscalibrated. And I knew she wasn’t coming back.

It’s almost 5 am, I wasn’t gonna be caught out as the sun rises, so I sent her a last text: “Hey Trish, something came up, so we not gonna be able to meet”.

That text was basically a ploy to play it off (reverse psychology).

A night of pussy-banging vanished fast due to a critical mistake at crunch-time in the pick up.

Let’s follow each other on Twitter for my usual weekend debauchery. http://twitter.com/Socialkenny

The Return Of The Throwback SocialKenny [SNL Bandit]

If you’ve been following my blog since last year, you would’ve known that my primary ‘Sticking Point’ has been the dreaded ‘Flake’.

In 2011, my flake ratio had been about 8 in 10. Meaning; for every 10 phone #’s I got, 8 of them resulted in flakes.

That’s a friggin’ staggering 80% fail ratio!

With that said, I’m making a new proclamation for 2012: A return to my
SNL & “ONS” days

Those unfamiliar with pick-up community jargon: that means Same-Night Lay & One-Night Stand.

*I Socialkenny proclaim that for the remaining quarters of 2012 [if the world doesn’t destruct], I will NO longer focus my Game on “getting phone numbers”, because #’s lead to nowhere (in my case).

*If a girl asks for my #, I will refuse to give it to her. Point blank!

*No matter how tempted I am, I will NOT pursue her # at all, because #’s lead to flakes (in my case).

Make no mistakes about it, this is not the 1st. time I made such declaration to then backslide into the sphere of “#-Closing”. But this time, I’m serious as a depressed- fat girl at an all-you-can eat buffet.

In 2009, my ‘Lay Rate’ was hovering around 6 in 10. Meaning, for every 10 girls I’d tried seducing, I would end up banging 6 of them.

Now that’s fucking Rockstar status almost!!!

I went for the lay the same night. If after trying and the lay just doesn’t materializes, I would get her #. But 6 out of 10 times, I fuck the girl same night or one-nighter.

What has changed in my Game since 2009? I’m no longer going for the ‘BIG win‘, i.e., the pussy. I virtually stagnated myself by settling for a phone #, to then work off that.

I essentially abandoned what was working for me. It’s like an undefeated boxer abandoning what had kept him undefeated, to changing his fight style and now loses 10 in a row.

Why did I abandon the seduction model which was super successful for me (SNL)?

I guess as the pick-up community tilted its focus towards “getting #’s”, I bought into the new hype [I guess]. So, as most PUA materials became ‘date & relationship-focused’, I too became focused on dating then sex. So my knack for banging girls the same night had subsided.

With all that said, I’m now re-shifting my Game back to ‘Instant-Sex Game’

And that entails: ridiculously high amounts of KINO (touching), Escalation (plowing and touching), K-Closing(kissing), Flirting, Making her horny, Seductive Eye Contact (bedroom eyes technique), Voice Tonality shift (the Barry White voice) and Leading (taking her from a public location to a seduction location).

Everything I mentioned in the above paragraph was the essence of my Game back in 2009. I rarely got girls’ phone numbers.

If I spotted a girl I liked, chatted her up, let’s say at a bar, she was coming home with me [6 out of 10 times]. Or we were shagging outdoors somewhere (park, bushes, someone’s garage, abandoned-crack houses, behind dumpsters…).

Now that my focus has been on phone numbers first (since 2010), my ‘Lays’ has dramatically plummeted to a 1 in 10 chance SMFH!!

The old same-night lay Socialkenny has returned. So mothers, please guard your daughters if need be.

2 Reasons Why She Didn’t Give It Up And Flaked [Credits to Thundercat]

No Entry Tonight!!!

No Entry Tonight!!!

I was browsing the blog of 1 of my mentors in “Game”, Thundercat, a well-known PUA and dating coach. And I stumbled upon a great-short article entitled: “Reasons why a girl won’t have sex with you “.

One of the greatest points he made was that girls flake, or don’t give up the booty because of her menstrual period, or grooming-related matters.

Very eye opening! And I’ll add my 2 cents to Thundercat’s.

#1: She’s on her Period

A regular-female commentor to my blog made this great comment yesterday about why she’d flake:

Roxem commented: “Sooo fuckn true!! Cuz at first we like the guy so we want to make sure we make the best impression & we want everything to go perfectly. So if we have plans but then I get my period, yeah plans canceled!! (keep in mind I have endometriosis so my periods are WAY worse than normal). If I’m severely tired.. cancelled. OMG I have a huge zit?!! Cancelled“!

Roxem basically confirmed that menstruation is a key reason as to why a girl doesn’t give it up or flake. This is an eye-opener for me (since I wasn’t aware of this prior to reading Thundercat’s post last night).

As I retrospect (look back) on my many flakes of 2011, I used to beat myself up trying to figure out why certain girls flaked. With this new revelation: it makes massive amounts of sense now!

Everyone knows that women are somewhat ashamed to admit that they’re on their periods. They only share such a thing with other chics, because most men are weirded out by the thought of “Period”.

It makes sense as to why a girl won’t meet up, nor go on a date with a guy she wants to have sex with, since she figures he won’t bang her on her cycle ’cause it would gross him out.

If she does go on the date or meet up (whether at his place, etc.), if the guy tries making a move, she will put up resistance higher than Mt. Everest. Most times, she won’t even say, “I’m on my period”. She’d feel nasty and dirty and just keep rejecting his advances.

This happened to me a ton of times, but I never figured that she could’ve been bleeding, thus embarrassed, so sex won’t happen.

#2: She isn’t (well) groomed/caught off-guard

As the Master Pick-Up Artist Thundercat eluded to in his post, “Grooming” (or lack there of), is a major reason why chics flake or don’t give up the goods.

Seems fucking humorous, but think about it guy!

If a girl didn’t shave,l et’s say her legs today (might’ve forgotten), she will not be comfortable lying with a guy, with the possibility of he carressing her, to then find out that her legs are hairier than his!

Let’s say she neglected to shave or trim her cunt in like 2 months. So it’s pretty scary down there. She’d obviously become self-conscious about it, thus stopping sex from happening (since she doesn’t want to be embarrassed). So she’d either flake, stand him up, or if she does meet up, she would put up major resistance: as we call it in the PUA community LMR (last-minute resistance).

The above 2 examples spill off into “being caught off guard”. The girl never expected to have sex that particular night or week. She never thought she’d have met you. So the sheer fact that she got caught by surprise-she won’t have a choice but to NOT give it up.

Same goes for attempts at SNL’s (Same Night Lays) or ONS (One-Nigh Stands): the girl was caught off guard, so she might not have shaved her legs to perfection, coochie unkempt, pedicure lacking…), so she will not give it up that night.

I can't see him looking like this!

I can’t see him looking like this!

*Bad-hair day is another classic reason for flakes and why she won’t meet up/no chance of having sex.

We all fucking know that chics are obsessed with their hair. Most sane girls will NOT go on a date with a jacked-up hairdo, stale weave, etc. She’s just not gonna meet up! Period!!

Then again, she’s not gonna tell you the reason as to why she flaked or not willing to meet up. This is essentially Chic-Logics and how women are irrational beings.

Guys, please don’t look at it as bullshit. Imagine if you forgot to brush your teeth, ate some onion-rings, and your date wanted to tongue you down. Of course you won’t fucking do it LMAO!!

Funny story. I remembered once (years ago), I met a girl at the club, seduced her, she invited me to her place (of course via some PUA tactics on my part). When we got there, she insisted that I remove my sneakers before entering the bedroom (some shit about the rug). Not expecting to take a girl home that night, I got careless and I wore a pair of kicks that smelled like an NYC sewer SMFH! So when she told me to remove them,in my head,I was like, “Oh shit, hell NO!!! I’m not about to embarrass myself and have this chic’s crib smelling like a bag of stale-corn chips“! I tried working around it (having sex in the living room instead), but she insisted the bedroom. I eventually gave up, and hit her with some lame excuse as to why I had to leave. So I essentially didn’t give her the dick she wanted because of stinky feet.

Adding to that, a lot of us guys who have pride, or are pretty much sane, would’ve done the same to avoid an awkward situation.

Same as a girl who has pride would be embarrassed to remove her shoes to get in bed if her toes were visibly jacked-up.

Same as she would flake or turn you down for sex if she’s on her period.

Just as a girl who gave a shit about her appearance won’t show up on a date on a bad-hair day.

But it’s so ironic after all these years of studying Game, I never thought that flaking and LMR (last-minute resistance) could’ve been results of her Period & Grooming (lack there of). My PUA mentor Thundercat aka Joseph Matthews, was spot on with his observations.

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