Picking Up Hot Latina…Part II

[Originally posted to social media]

Okay, so here’s the continuation of my. interaction with the Latina chick from the previous post, when I decided to inbox her back on Wednesday. 

Here’s virtually the entire chat from start to finish. 

If you don’t speak Spanish; ignore the things I say in Spanish (slang). 

The overall attraction factor here, during the chat, was my VIBE!

I wasn’t coming off as someone of lesser value, lower value than her.

After all; she’s a fucking bartender…a hot one at that. But I’m the one of higher value. Hence, I gave off that vibe. Thus the reason why you’ll see her qualifying numerous times.

You’ll also note that I never complimented her once, wasn’t ass-kissing, wasn’t begging for shit.

Overall, ensure that you check out the caption with each screenshot, because I’ll explain the game psychology behind what’s taking place. 

Remind you; this is our 1st ever chat since she enabled her inbox setting right after she and I had that comment exchange on her pic-post. 


Translation: I told her she looks Columbian, and asked if she’s Dominican. This was just a bit of cold read, and to set the table by opening with something other than a cheesy fucking compliment that every chump comes with.

She accused me of using Google translate LOL.

You always want to appear to be cultured and worldly. Don Miguelo is huge on the Dominican Reggaeton scene. So the fact that I would know of him, creates a good impression in the girl’s mind. It shows that you’re worldly and that you get around.
Another reason why I ALWAYS tell you guys to post the kind of stuff that I post, and quit fucking posting about lame, guy-centric stuff like sports and shit! So clearly she likes that I’m direct and straight up because of the stuff I post. Now, this chick has never posted on anything I post, nor even hit like. But as you can see; she clearly sees my stats and they created an attractive impression on her.

Anytime a girl volunteers info about her work, or where she works, it’s almost always an ioi (a plus).

Again, she further makes fun of herself for not being able to mix drinks. Hot girls would never do this with guys whom they see as having less value/importance. So this was a key indication that she’s attracted to me (my vibe).
I told her I guess I can call you a bottle opener (abrebottellas) since all she does is open beers at the bar. But I added that she’s a bottle opener (abrebotellas) with curves and a fat ass. Why did I mention her having curves and ass? Because I wanted her to know that I’m a SEXUAL dude who’s checking her out! Now, the reason why hot girls reject and block 98% of guys who mention their body, is because those guys are seen as LESSERS in her eyes! Guys of lesser value has no business commenting on a hot girls body! Since this girl sees me as the shit (because of the vibe I created), I am then granted immunity to get sexual with her.
I indirectly negged her by giving her the impression that I only fuck with girls with big asses. Don’t get it twisted; she has a nice ass! She’s only trying to downplay it. But since I’m a tit-man, I did tell her that I prefer big boobs.
Again, if a guy whom she perceived was of lesser value, were to tell her that (that her boobs got bigger since having a kid), she would instantly block him. But, she laughs when I said that, all indicating that I’m an Alpha Male in her eyes.
Since she tried to steer the convo into a direction about tits and ass, I put the brakes on it but telling her we should change the subject. A powerful move in disarming a hot girl.
Also, by me telling her I don’t go through chick’s profiles (which is a lie), it creates an impression of me being a non-stalker.
Who would dare say that to such a girl (about punishing her if I don’t see any sexy pic), but a guy who doesn’t give a fuck, and a guy who’s high-value? So, that’s the vibe I kept creating; that I’m the prize! I’m the man! I’m the chooser! I do the punishing!
I negged her by saying we should hang out even though she doesn’t have a big as. What did that comment do? It makes the girl realize that I’m the chooser, and I’m the one giving her a chance, even though she isn’t my idea type.
Clearly coughs up the digits without a bit of resistance, and without me asking for her # directly.
Now, what did I do here that’s so powerful that I do with every single girl I chat up? I ENDED THE CONVO FIRST! Always be the one to end the chat on the girl as you seen me do by telling her we’ll catch up a bit later. Doing so, makes the girl realize that you have shit to do, you have shit going on and that you aren’t some desperate loser who’s gonna waste his entire day chatting to her. So…always end the convo on her!
Additionally, the one who ends the convo first, leaves with the most value, most leverage, most power and the upper hand and the initiative…which is me.
The fact that she sends me a kiss and heart is just a mute point that she’s into me.
Quick reminder: the whole time before I messaged her, you weren’t able to message her because the message thing on her profile was grayed out. She disabled it because she had tons of lame guys flooding her inbox with bullshit.

Don’t Be This Cuck: Women Aren’t Attracted To Men Who Agree

[Originally posted verbatim to my Facebook on August 5th]

This’ the type of Cuckery that gets me upset. 

So this girl whom I know personally outside of FB, posted a status about meeting a guy who told her he wanted to chill a week later. The guy then changes up to a date sooner…like the same or next day.

I generally do this too, so I find nothing strange in that. So the chick posted to FB, asking if it’s strange, or is it too soon to meet up with the guy, the same or next day? 

Quite naturally, you expect every girl in the world to yell “TOO SOON”!!!!

However, you would think that men would have a different take on this, and say, “No! It isn’t too soon to meet up”!

But who the fuck was I kidding!
I commented on the post, telling the girl it is NOT too soon to meet up with a new guy the same or next day that he picked you up.

Some lame guy as usual, comments, taking the general viewpoint of women, by saying that it IS too soon to meet up with the guy!

I find such cuckery actions to be blatant cock-blocking! 

Why do chode guys constantly do shit like this; side with women?
Simply in hopes of trying to win the girl over by agreeing with her…or kissing her ass… basically. 

Most guys are guilty of such cuckery! This guy here isn’t an outlier nor glitch in the system. Most guys will falsely agree with women, under the delusion that women will fuck them for the simple fact that they agree with women, thus showing how sensitive and attuned they are to women’s causes.

However, those little agreeable, AFC Beta-Male turds, fail to realize that women aren’t romantically attracted to men who agree with their bullshit causes. 

Contrasts/Opposites attract (as the saying goes)! Sameness/Likeness does NOT attract (women)! 

Hence, it is a foolish tactic to do as this guy did, which was to try to talk the girl out of meeting up with that guy, in an attempt to portray himself as this “Good Guy”.

So…check it out. And check out his replies.

In closing, as I cited above, most guys pull this sort of stunt, as means of portraying themselves to women, as this chivalrous, nice, understanding, empathetic wimp…I mean guy.

In essence, they want to be seen as the quintessential nice guy whom women only dream of meeting.

Interestingly enough, and this speaks to how hypocritical such men are, had that guy been in the position of the guy whom the girl posted about, he would not have been singing the tune (that’s for sure), that it’s too soon for the girl to meet up with him.

This speaks to a realization that I’ve come to some years ago, that so-called nice guys, are really lying assholes pretending to be nice guys, by tricking women into believing that they’re nice and understanding.

Hence, they hide their true motives [to get laid], by putting on an “I’m an agreeable guy” charade.

More to come.

Read Her Like A Book And Draw Her Out…Part 1…The Comments

Just another example of how to separate yourself from the pack of losers. And how to get a hot girl instantly attracted to you with a combination of Humor, Ballsiness, Bilingualism and being unfazed by her beauty.

About 2 days ago, this Spanish chick, posted a status and pic of herself in the mirror.

As you would’ve imagined, tons upon tons of guys commented with praises, adulations, compliments and the rest of the lameness: in English, Spanish, Hindi, Arabic, whatever! GIF’s of hearts and shit like that.

As a reminder, this chick speaks Spanish and English, but she only posts in Spanish.

Anyway, as a strategy, and part of my pick-up method, I knew it would’ve been a HUGE error to give her an ounce of direct praise/compliment (which I never do). So as the dick I am, I commented on her post with something UNRELATED to her beauty, hotness or looks. This is what I call being unaffected and unfazed by a hot girl’s hotness.

Hence, I left a comment saying [in Spanish]: “What a rebellious girl! That’s what the mirror says”.

That’s it! That’s all my comment (but in Spanish) said!

Lo and behold- as expected- I was the only guy up to that point to whom the girl replied, while she ignored the others for their generic, lame bullshit!

As I said guys; this was all strategic on my part. I know that 1 of the only ways to get a hot girl’s attention, especially when she’s fishing for attention/validation, is by ignoring her looks! Rob her of that validation! So that’s what I did when I made the comment that the mirror said that she’s a rebel. That comment of mines had NADA to do with her looks! But her personality and vibe! As I’ve said almost 10 years ago; if you want to compliment a girl, compliment her on 3 things: Attitude, Personality and Style…none of which has anything to do with her physical appearance/beauty. The fact that you focused on her non-physical qualities, will immediately grab her attention! And that’s what happened!

Additionally, she was impressed as hell that I spoke Spanish since I made my comment in Spanish. So that’s a HUGE DHV/a plus! Again, this is why I always implore you guys to learn another language if you desire to pick up girls who speak that other language! It’ll make your chances 10 times easier once the girl realizes that you speak even a bit of her language.

Anyway, so we had a lengthy comment exchange on her status. I told her not to tell anyone that I speak Spanish. It’s a secret of mines that I expect her to take to the grave. Again, I use HUMOR to further attract her to my vibe.

Now here’s the kicker and the key observation on my part: at that point, I decided that I wanted to game her, pick her up and ultimately sleep with her. But; there was a huge obstacle! The “message” button on her profile was grayed out. In other words, she disabled the message feature.

“Fuck”, I said to myself.

Clearly she got tired of being pestered to death by all these low-value losers showering her with compliments, marriage proposals and the usual shit that these clowns are liable of saying.

Anyway, once I realized that I wasn’t able to inbox her, I cheekily commented on the post, saying that I noticed her inbox is disabled because of stalkers. By saying that, I automatically separated myself from the stalkers and losers who caused her to deactivate her message setting.
Now, here’s the most powerful aspect of this entire situation, and it speaks to my genius and power of perception and psychic abilities 😉 .As anticipated, shortly after I’d said that, that she blocked/disabled her inbox because of stalkers, I knew she would now secretly enable it, just so I could hit her up 😉 🙂 .

I checked back her profile about 10 seconds later after we concluded the commenting on her photo post- and Voilà- as I correctly called it, she quickly enabled her message feature so that I could message her.

Now, this is something she would never admit doing. But as a master seducer, I am always 20 steps ahead of the game with women. So…I inboxed her shortly after…knowing that she was fully attracted to me (the vibe I created through a single comment that she’s a rebellious girl).

Remind you; this girl and I have NEVER had any form of communication before 2 days ago when I commented on her pic-post.

All in all guys; it’s about having the awareness to read women, and to draw them out or attract them strategically.

Stay tuned for the follow-up post where I inboxed her, got straight to the point, set up a drink date for next week, and got her digits.

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How Not To Chat Up Girls On Social Media [6 Critical Mistakes]

A female friend had earlier shared the following screenshot with me.

Some more “How not to chat up girls on social media” tidbit.

This guys here is a classic and common example of what not to do.

Mistake #1: The over-use of “Baby”.

Mistake #2: trying to force rapport by telling her he wants to get to know her.

There’s nothing inherently wrong with telling a girl you want to get to know her. The problem comes in when you give the girl zero reasons to want to get to know you.

This guy’s opener/ice-breaker was essentially, “I want to get to know you “. Huge Mistake since he hasn’t built any attraction material by giving the girl a reason with something interesting.

Mistake #3: again, pushing for instant rapport by asking her where she’s from. Additionally, one can access the FB “about me” section in order to see that info. So why ask!? It makes you look like an inept jackass; someone lacking Social Intelligence! Something you’ve seen me stress hard over the past days (social intelligence). So, asking questions you can easily ascertain by looking @ the girl’s profile, will turn women off. It makes you seem lazy, and robs the girl of that special feeling that she was singled out, and that the guy actually did some homework.

Mistake #4: “I am single”! Telling a girl on social media that you’re single, is tantamount to saying, “I’m a registered sex-offender”. Like…”why are you single dude”? The girl may say to herself. Perhaps you’re a fucking serial killer or a lunatic, hence why you’re single, and no women want to associate themselves with you. So, as I’ve been telling you guys for ages; Never tell girls you’re single! If anything, tell her you have a GF, but you’re just looking cool ppl to hang with”. Or, tell her you have a GF, but it’s complicated…or the relationship isn’t working out. But never tell girls you’re single. Only sex offenders, rapists, serial killers, men with AIDS and lunatics are single. Okay!? Think Preselection!

Mistake #5: “Looking a good woman to be with”. Why is that a mistake? Dude, see why the fuck are you auditioning to become her man, before even having a convo or before fucking!? What if the girl isn’t looking for a relationship? Yet, he killed himself by putting himself into the boyfriend/provider category from the jump, instead of casually going with a, “let’s just chat and see if we like each other” vibe. So, never tell a girl that you’re looking for a GF! Because once she says to you, “I’m not looking for anything serious right now”, you are fucking done! You cannot then go back and say to her, “well…since you’re not tryna get serious…let’s fuck”.

Mistake #6…the most fatal: Ringing someone unannounced through Messenger! As a guy; this pisses me off when women do it. Imagine how women feel when 20 no-game-having Beta-Males are doing it daily! You have to fucking have Empathy in the Game guys! Don’t be a dick! Only call when it’s been agreed upon!

All in all; the guy made 6 common mistakes (some fatal). He isn’t the exception BTW. He’s the norm!

Now, on the flip side, I totally get the opposing argument that girls on FB are always complaining that they’re single, yet their inbox is full of guys trying to get to know them. I understand that rational argument too. But that’s no excuse for HORRIBLE social skills!

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