Read Her Like A Book And Draw Her Out…Part 1…The Comments

Just another example of how to separate yourself from the pack of losers. And how to get a hot girl instantly attracted to you with a combination of Humor, Ballsiness, Bilingualism and being unfazed by her beauty.

About 2 days ago, this Spanish chick, posted a status and pic of herself in the mirror.

As you would’ve imagined, tons upon tons of guys commented with praises, adulations, compliments and the rest of the lameness: in English, Spanish, Hindi, Arabic, whatever! GIF’s of hearts and shit like that.

As a reminder, this chick speaks Spanish and English, but she only posts in Spanish.

Anyway, as a strategy, and part of my pick-up method, I knew it would’ve been a HUGE error to give her an ounce of direct praise/compliment (which I never do). So as the dick I am, I commented on her post with something UNRELATED to her beauty, hotness or looks. This is what I call being unaffected and unfazed by a hot girl’s hotness.

Hence, I left a comment saying [in Spanish]: “What a rebellious girl! That’s what the mirror says”.

That’s it! That’s all my comment (but in Spanish) said!

Lo and behold- as expected- I was the only guy up to that point to whom the girl replied, while she ignored the others for their generic, lame bullshit!

As I said guys; this was all strategic on my part. I know that 1 of the only ways to get a hot girl’s attention, especially when she’s fishing for attention/validation, is by ignoring her looks! Rob her of that validation! So that’s what I did when I made the comment that the mirror said that she’s a rebel. That comment of mines had NADA to do with her looks! But her personality and vibe! As I’ve said almost 10 years ago; if you want to compliment a girl, compliment her on 3 things: Attitude, Personality and Style…none of which has anything to do with her physical appearance/beauty. The fact that you focused on her non-physical qualities, will immediately grab her attention! And that’s what happened!

Additionally, she was impressed as hell that I spoke Spanish since I made my comment in Spanish. So that’s a HUGE DHV/a plus! Again, this is why I always implore you guys to learn another language if you desire to pick up girls who speak that other language! It’ll make your chances 10 times easier once the girl realizes that you speak even a bit of her language.

Anyway, so we had a lengthy comment exchange on her status. I told her not to tell anyone that I speak Spanish. It’s a secret of mines that I expect her to take to the grave. Again, I use HUMOR to further attract her to my vibe.

Now here’s the kicker and the key observation on my part: at that point, I decided that I wanted to game her, pick her up and ultimately sleep with her. But; there was a huge obstacle! The “message” button on her profile was grayed out. In other words, she disabled the message feature.

“Fuck”, I said to myself.

Clearly she got tired of being pestered to death by all these low-value losers showering her with compliments, marriage proposals and the usual shit that these clowns are liable of saying.

Anyway, once I realized that I wasn’t able to inbox her, I cheekily commented on the post, saying that I noticed her inbox is disabled because of stalkers. By saying that, I automatically separated myself from the stalkers and losers who caused her to deactivate her message setting.
Now, here’s the most powerful aspect of this entire situation, and it speaks to my genius and power of perception and psychic abilities 😉 .As anticipated, shortly after I’d said that, that she blocked/disabled her inbox because of stalkers, I knew she would now secretly enable it, just so I could hit her up 😉 🙂 .

I checked back her profile about 10 seconds later after we concluded the commenting on her photo post- and Voilà- as I correctly called it, she quickly enabled her message feature so that I could message her.

Now, this is something she would never admit doing. But as a master seducer, I am always 20 steps ahead of the game with women. So…I inboxed her shortly after…knowing that she was fully attracted to me (the vibe I created through a single comment that she’s a rebellious girl).

Remind you; this girl and I have NEVER had any form of communication before 2 days ago when I commented on her pic-post.

All in all guys; it’s about having the awareness to read women, and to draw them out or attract them strategically.

Stay tuned for the follow-up post where I inboxed her, got straight to the point, set up a drink date for next week, and got her digits.

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How Not To Chat Up Girls On Social Media [6 Critical Mistakes]

A female friend had earlier shared the following screenshot with me.

Some more “How not to chat up girls on social media” tidbit.

This guys here is a classic and common example of what not to do.

Mistake #1: The over-use of “Baby”.

Mistake #2: trying to force rapport by telling her he wants to get to know her.

There’s nothing inherently wrong with telling a girl you want to get to know her. The problem comes in when you give the girl zero reasons to want to get to know you.

This guy’s opener/ice-breaker was essentially, “I want to get to know you “. Huge Mistake since he hasn’t built any attraction material by giving the girl a reason with something interesting.

Mistake #3: again, pushing for instant rapport by asking her where she’s from. Additionally, one can access the FB “about me” section in order to see that info. So why ask!? It makes you look like an inept jackass; someone lacking Social Intelligence! Something you’ve seen me stress hard over the past days (social intelligence). So, asking questions you can easily ascertain by looking @ the girl’s profile, will turn women off. It makes you seem lazy, and robs the girl of that special feeling that she was singled out, and that the guy actually did some homework.

Mistake #4: “I am single”! Telling a girl on social media that you’re single, is tantamount to saying, “I’m a registered sex-offender”. Like…”why are you single dude”? The girl may say to herself. Perhaps you’re a fucking serial killer or a lunatic, hence why you’re single, and no women want to associate themselves with you. So, as I’ve been telling you guys for ages; Never tell girls you’re single! If anything, tell her you have a GF, but you’re just looking cool ppl to hang with”. Or, tell her you have a GF, but it’s complicated…or the relationship isn’t working out. But never tell girls you’re single. Only sex offenders, rapists, serial killers, men with AIDS and lunatics are single. Okay!? Think Preselection!

Mistake #5: “Looking a good woman to be with”. Why is that a mistake? Dude, see why the fuck are you auditioning to become her man, before even having a convo or before fucking!? What if the girl isn’t looking for a relationship? Yet, he killed himself by putting himself into the boyfriend/provider category from the jump, instead of casually going with a, “let’s just chat and see if we like each other” vibe. So, never tell a girl that you’re looking for a GF! Because once she says to you, “I’m not looking for anything serious right now”, you are fucking done! You cannot then go back and say to her, “well…since you’re not tryna get serious…let’s fuck”.

Mistake #6…the most fatal: Ringing someone unannounced through Messenger! As a guy; this pisses me off when women do it. Imagine how women feel when 20 no-game-having Beta-Males are doing it daily! You have to fucking have Empathy in the Game guys! Don’t be a dick! Only call when it’s been agreed upon!

All in all; the guy made 6 common mistakes (some fatal). He isn’t the exception BTW. He’s the norm!

Now, on the flip side, I totally get the opposing argument that girls on FB are always complaining that they’re single, yet their inbox is full of guys trying to get to know them. I understand that rational argument too. But that’s no excuse for HORRIBLE social skills!

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Last Weekend’s Botched Lay Attempt…Update


Okay guys, so last weekend, I posted a field report about this chick who caught an asthma attack while I was 5 seconds away from penetrating her (almost).

You can read that post here as a refresher: https://kennyspuathoughts.com/2017/07/23/asthma-attack-debacle-field-report-in-botched-weekend-plan/

I totally had no intentions of ever talking to her again. So I hadn’t contacted her since last Saturday.

She then hits me up on Messenger days ago.

I posted the following to my Facebook:

Why’s this chick even contacting me?

Anyway, so guys, if you remembered, over the weekend, I posted about a chick who came to stay the weekend (Saturday) with me. She virtually popped up @ the bus terminal and woke me up @ 7 AM telling me she’s coming to stay with me…unannounced…practically.

She did come, but the shit ended on a crazy note with the chick catching an asthma attack. So she had to be rushed to the hospital. Thing that really irked me is she caught the asthma attack as I getting sexual and about to slide my finger up her vaj! 😦

Long story short: I didn’t get to fuck. So she practically wasted my time, wasted a trip, and got me to pay for her cross-country bus ticket (about $115).

She hits me up on Messenger this evening, wondering why I haven’t hit her up since Sunday morning when she bounced.
I explained how it all went down in a field report on my PUA blog (link below).

All in all; after the shit went down the Saturday night, she took the bus back home the Sunday morning after coming for her shit from my crib. I had no intentions of ever saying shit to this chick again.

Dialogue below.


When Gaming Hot Girls…Part 3…Learn The Correct Order: Attraction Before Rapport!

[Originally posted to social media]

Why is it a TERRIBLE idea to open a girl with, “Can I get to know you”? And why do girls shame guys for such a lame opener?

Here’s the deal: Pushing for Rapport before you even establish attraction isn’t normal. It’s fucking weird!

This is why in classic pickup, the order is: Attraction, Rapport/Comfort then Seduction (the 3 phases).

You cannot try to fucking gain rapport before making the girl attracted to you (to your vibe)! For instance, if a bum comes up to you on the street, and opens you with, “Can I get to know you”? How would you take to that? You would blow him the fuck off and get weirded out by such a request!

Why is this? Because the bum hadn’t built anything via dialogue before going for rapport! Had the bum showed you an interesting magic trick first, or shared with you a tip on how to do a certain thing [this would be considered Attraction material], and then he says to you, “what’s your name man, and where you come from” [this is a Rapport question], you would likely share rapport information with the bum by saying you are so and so from so and so.

However, had the bum gone straight into that (“who are you and where are you from”) as his opener, or before sharing something of interest/attraction with you, you would tell him to fuck off…or leave yourself.

How does this tie into women online?

Saying to a girl (early), “can we get to know each other”, is equivalent to the bum doing the same with you. The girl would get weirded out and turned off!

Why the fuck would she want to get to know you [enter the Rapport phase] when you haven’t given her a reason to want to know you [i.e. by building interesting convo beforehand]?

Hence, the classic mistake the vast majority of guys make, when they hit chicks up on social media with the lame, “Can I get to know you”?

They’re trying to skip Attraction and go straight into Comfort/Rapport.

It won’t work!

This is why under no circumstances, would you ever see me open a girl with, “can we get to know each other”?

I firstly open with HUMOR which equals Attraction, then build on that, then enter Rapport (which is optional via text).

Also, another reason why girls will blow you out whenever you come with that lame shit, “Can I get to know you”, is the usage of the word “CAN”!

“Can” is a killer in Game! Whenever you use “Can”, you are essentially asking the girl’s permission!

What the fuck would give you the impression that you should have to get someone’s permission to fucking TALK!!!?

That is an extremely Beta and Weak way of approaching women! Women aren’t attracted to men who seek their permission; especially not when it comes to freedom of speech!

Therefore, saying “Can I”, or, “Can we”, should totally be eliminated from your Game! It is low value!

All in all; you don’t have to verbalize to the girl that you want to get to know her! The mere fact that you DM’d her, says that you want to get to know her! So why the fuck state the obvious!? It makes you look inept, stupid and lacking social awareness and intelligence. Plus it makes you look unsure of yourself!

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