Banging Ex-Girlfriend’s Friend- Weekend Field Report- Part 5: “After The Movies” [video in-post glitch fix]

By the way guys: I had rented a hotel room in the city, anticipating the lay notch.

The thing is: I live outside of the city, and I don’t drive. So it’s feasible for lay logistics that I rent a hotel room right in the city within walking distance of the date spot.

Anyway, here are some video clips which began at the moment we walked down the stairs from the theatre, to actual sex. 🙂

By the way, this chick is Canadian living in the islands.


[Video below: leaving the hotel @ 3:30 am getting her a cab]

The sex was actually good, and she begged me for more, but my libido is shot, so I was only able to go 1 round of sex.

Banging Ex-Girlfriend’s Friend- Weekend Field Report- Part 5: “After The Movies” [video post]

By the way guys: I had rented a hotel room in the city, anticipating the lay notch.

The thing is: I live outside of the city, and I don’t drive. So it’s feasible for lay logistics that I rent a hotel room right in the city within walking distance of the date spot.

Anyway, here are some video clips which began at the moment we walked down the stairs from the theatre, to actual sex. 🙂

By the way, this chick is Canadian living in the islands.

[Video below: leaving the hotel @ 3:30 am getting her a cab]

The sex was actually good, and she begged me for more, but my libido is shot, so I was only able to go 1 round of sex.

The Unintended Consequence Of Having Too Much Options

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Days ago, I posted this conversation to Facebook in order to illustrate a point about attraction and chemistry having expiration dates.

Here’s the extensive quoted post just to bring that point home.

“Chemistry & Attraction Have An Expiration Date”. About 3 months back, I picked up this skinny chick (total stranger as usual) on Facebook after laying down my killer-online Game upon her. She was totally DTF from the gate, totally into me on every level! But because of my hectic schedule (dating, fucking and partying), I wasn’t able to meet up with her in order to seal the deal. I knew I ran the risk of killing my chances to f-close her as time went by. So a few days ago, I contacted her about coming over to her place. She told me straight up that the chemistry basically died (as I suspected). 

So guys, the lesson here from this blunder of mines is simple: try to meet up with the girl and fuck her ASAP!!! Do so before the attraction and chemistry she has for you and with you die! Guys seem to think that once they manage to game and pick up a girl, she’ll remain game and DTF indefinitely. Big mistake! Attraction and chemistry will expire the longer you wait to fuck a new girl! Hence, it is always to your benefit to try to sleep with the girl right away!! Don’t wait a week! Don’t wait 3 days! Try to meet up with her within 1-2 days while things are still sizzling hot before it wears off!

Unfortunately for me with this girl, because I’m dating and fucking a number of other girls, I just didn’t have the time nor the drive to meet with her sooner. And since I have tons of options; rejecting me didn’t affect me 1 bit. I respected her honesty. So I casually deleted her # and kept it moving! I could’ve easily gamed her up again in order to re-spark the attraction…but for what…when I have other options?
So there are 2 lessons here for you guys: 

1.) Try to fuck the girl right away before the chemistry expires!

2.) Have abundance of women…or at least a few options! This is the buffer in the event where a girl rejects you.
So…anyway, as sexy and DTF as this girl was for me when I picked her up 3 months ago; I have no issues with her rejecting me when I contacted her earlier in the week about meeting up.

Apart from the obvious which was explained from my quotation [one should act swiftly because attraction will die], I just wanted to highlight the importance of having an abundance of women to play with (and I meant that figuratively).

If and when one or a few falls off by the wayside, it’d be akin to a tree falling in the forest.

“I Don’t Do Social Media/Tinder/Online-Dating Sites”: Trick To Easily Getting A Girl’s Phone Number…Online [Examples From Cassidy Sinatra]iuI

There’s a little trick which I use sparingly over the years in order to force a girl to give me her phone number.

Last night, a buddy of mines, fellow PUA coach (Cassidy Sinatra), posted the following screenshots to his Facebook.

I was shocked to see that he used the exact same format which I used a time or 2 in the past. Pay close attention to the very last screenshot.

See what he did there?

“I don’t so social media…”.

That’s the trick!

Simple, wasn’t it?

For instance, when a girl suggests connecting on (another) social-media site, you can always say to her, “I don’t do social media like that”.

The same can be said when meeting girls on online-dating sites and they suggest or hint at following each other on social media, or adding each other on Facebook. Simply say, “I don’t do Facebook”. Or, “I don’t have a Facebook”.

You get the point, right?

Whenever I’d done this in the past (chatting up a girl on Facebook), this was the format used:

Me: “Hey, by the way, I’m rarely ever on Facebook. I literally check my messages once every 2 months. So…it’s best we exchange numbers”.

This doesn’t have to be factual 1 bit! The point is, you want to propel the girl into coughing up her number through fear of losing you.

By saying to the girl, “I don’t do Facebook”, or, “I don’t do Tinder. Don’t know how longer I would be on here”, you force her hand (proverbially).

Now, there’s a little catch to this. I think “catch” is the wrong word, so bear with me.

In order for this to work for you, you would’ve needed to attract the girl on some level before telling her you don’t do this or that, and you’d want her # instead.

For instance, if your text game sucks ass, there’s no chance in hell that you could successfully use this trick to get the girl to cough up her digits.

She will simply laugh at you and keep it moving.

Hence, the success of this simple trick is relevant only to the amount of perceived value the girl has for you.

This (perceived value and attraction) can be sparked solely by having a solid opener and an interesting follow-up sequence.

For example; you cannot do the following and expect to get the girl’s number.

You: “Hi”

Girl: “Hi”

You: “How are you”?

Girl: “Good”

You: “You are beautiful”

Girl: “Thank you”

You: “You have a boyfriend”?

Girl: “Single”

You: “I don’t usually use Facebook. kinda tired of it actually. Let’s exchange number’s instead”.

That is terrible text game! Ironically, that is how most guys kick off their conversations.

Now, here’s how you should do it (as an example) in order to create attraction, interest and value for the quick number-close trick.

You: “They say girls from your city don’t know how to have fun. You seem quite fun to me”

Girl: “LOL why do they say that? My first time hearing that. And yes I’m fun”

You: “Screw them. We don’t need to address the naysayers. Since you’re fun and I’m fun, let’s become fun buddies”

Girl: “LOL. Fine. That sounds interesting”

You: “By the way, I don’t do social media. It’s kinda annoying getting tons of messages per day on here, so I won’t be logging on for a while. Let’s exchange #’s instead”.

That’s how you do it.

You open with an interesting opener, get the girl engaged and laughing, which builds interest and attraction, and then you go for the # close via the “trick”.

Did you see there difference there between the 2 mock dialogues?

The one (in red) was bland, boring and typical of every AFC chode online.

The 2nd mock dialogue is what you should aim for.

If you look back at the screenshots above from Sinatra, you would see how and why he was able to get the girl’s #.

Now, just as I mentioned at the top of the post: I don’t usually close that fast by using this little trick. It is something that I’ve done years ago [telling the girl I don’t use this or that platform so let’s exchange #’s].

However, there are ample situations where and when I could’ve opened solidly, charm the girl up, then go straight for the number while telling the girl that I don’t do Facebook/social media.

In any case, if you wish to utilize this “trick” in order to get the girl’s phone #, it can be done on any platform: social media or online-dating site.

Another Easy Online Pickup [Forgotten Girls]

I’m sure you remember the following interaction (the opener) which I posted some weeks back in order to demonstrate how to open total strangers online with sexualized comments.

I’d totally forgotten about that girl. But that interaction had continued. So here’s the complete dialogue.

[Her messages in gray]

Above screenshot: since telling her I would message her back sometime after Christmas, I purposely waited until the 2nd of January to appear non-needy. So that’s why she said she was waiting since boxing day.

By the way, she’s not fat. But I used that line as a Neg when I made mention of her gaining 70 lbs. over the holiday.

[Her texts in gray]

Screenshot above: I dropped some sexual innuendos when I said to her that she could burn off the calories by doing something besides exercise (i.e. sex).

From that comment, I was setting a sexual frame. Essentially, I was letting her know that my intentions are of a sexual nature, and not just to become text buddies.

Note: never compliment a hot girl on her beauty. So, how did I compliment her? On her humor, and the fact that she enjoys a good laugh. My compliment also had a greater impact when I mentioned that it’s kinda rare to come across a girl with a combination of looks and humor (though I never directly mentioned looks).

In any case, I went straight to the point: to meet up. FYI: I always keep my dwelling place vague as I’d pointed out in numerous posts. Girls generally get mixed messages on my location. Some think I live in their town. Others think I live out of the country completely (outside of the Caribbean region that is). Why do I do this? To create an air of mystery surrounding myself. So I told this chick that I usually come to her side of the island biweekly- when in fact- I live on her side of the island.

[Her messages in gray]

Screenshot above: she verified that she doesn’t work on weekends (nights). So that is perfect for logistics. Lately, I’ve been coming across lots of women who work nightly on weekends. So this was refreshing to say the least.

I then told her where my hostel’s (guest house) located, and she’s familiar with the area.

Screenshot above: the thing is, I never grabbed her # from the last we spoke. So I messaged her today [January 16th] and got the easy number.

In any case, that was just another example of an easy-breezy pickup of a total stranger over Facebook.

I’d forgotten about her honestly since I picked up so many other chicks prior to her.

Easy Guide To Picking Up Girls On Facebook

Arab HB Update

Remember the DTF Arab chick with big melons whom I’d picked up about 3 weeks back on Facebook, but been blowing her off ever since (pictured below)?

Well, I finally decided to put some time aside to meet up with her few days ago (photo of us below taking selfies).

It was actually a meet and greet session opposed from a hookup.

I know she’s extremely DTF and wants to hook up ASAP since she’s been chasing me and hooked like an addict! But I put off the inevitable for another time.

Giving Her Bursts Of Attraction Over Time While Being Patient With The Process [the right kind of patience is a virtue in the game]

In this post, I will talk about how being patient (while being active) will have set you apart from damn near every other guy out there on social media.

Not only that, but you’ll see me employ my infamous roll-off strategy which does something to the girl psychologically.

This online pickup here kicked off back in May with its culmination days ago on December 28th. So that’s virtually 8 months.

Now, I just want to make it clear here that I did NOT spend 8 months, every day, chatting to this girl, hoping to get her number and a rendezvous proposed.

That would be a travesty and a gross waste of time.

What actually happened was I first opened her (via inbox) 8 months ago, then hit her up intermittently (on 3 different occasions) over the course of 8 months.

[My messages in blue]

Screenshot 1 above: by telling the girl that I intended to message her earlier but I was too busy checking out her sexy pic, it does 2 things: 1.) It shows that I am not desperate to reach her. 2.) It shows that I have sexual interest in her.

Also, if you check the time stamp, you will have noticed that she virtually ignored the first 3 messages of mines. Did I get all desperate and beg her to reply to me? Nope. I made an observation that she seems busy. I knew eventually that she would come around. 🙂

She then replied over a month later, saying sorry if I felt that she’s ignoring me. Of course she was ignoring my messages! But women do this at times just to see how the guy would react.

By the way, in order to create some urgency, as I do with almost every girl I pick up, I told her that I come to her city/town every other weekend, when I actually live in the same town. This creates a bit of intrigue as girls always wonder why I’m in their town so frequently( every other weekend).

[My messages in blue]

Screenshot 2 (above): She shit tests me by calling me a whore for saying that I have a GF, but whenever I’m in her part of town, I am virtually single and dating. You noticed how I never backed down from the charge of being a whore, rather I justify it? Key, key play on my part which deepens the attraction.

I strategically employed my roll-off strategy by telling her my battery is dying so I’ll have to hit her up another time. Surely this wasn’t true (it never is). But the reason I do this is to: 1.) Demonstrate that I have other shit to do besides making her the focal point of my day. 2.) I am not desperate, hence I am patient enough to put off gunning for her phone number. 3.) It gives the girl a sense of loss. Those 3 things will have driven your stock way up in the eyes of women…and get their panties wett! So every now and then, you want to do this (roll off).

Additionally, I plant the seed early about netflix and chill @ my hostel or hotel on the balcony. Never lose sight of what your goal should be: to meet up. So you always want to communicate that early so that the girl doesn’t get the impression that you’re trying to become her text-buddy.

Lastly, I always test women for independence. No one likes to admit that they aren’t independent. So by putting the girl in a corner by assuming that she’s NOT independent, she will likely rebut in defiance of any man trying to lock her down by rebutting with, “I’m an independent girl…and unruly”. On that note, I got sexual. Again- always look to make a sexual declaration early as possible so the girl gets no idea that you’re merely looking to become friends.

[My messages in blue]

Screenshot 3 (above): I baited her into a challenge frame to where she said I can’t handle her. Key note there guys: by following what you seen me do with the previous lines about independent, it would’ve led the girl into the direction of saying something like, “you can’t handle me”.

Again I hit her with “my battery’s dying” line, so we’ll have to catch up. This’ my 2nd time pulling such a stunt with her.

I then hit her back on July 1st with some sexual humor, making her laugh. Note: when getting sexual with a girl over text, always try to do so by mixing humor and sexual. Humor will keep the girl from getting offended.

All throughout, you keep seeing me mixing humorous and sexual.

Again: I hit her with “I’m gonna message you back when free”… By appearing busy, it gives the girl the impression (a good impression) that you’re someone whose time is needed elsewhere. In other words; you’re important. Subcommunicating to the girl that you’re willing to stay on the phone, or talk with her indefinitely, gives off the impression that you’re lonely, desperate and have nothing else going on for you.

[My messages in blue]

Screenshot 4 (above): challenge frame again. What I love about sexually challenging girls is that it’s essentially flirting. Also, you should make assumptions in the negative as I did when I said to her, “boring guys just don’t seem to do it for you”. By framing my line in such a way, it forces the girl to say that she doesn’t like boring guys. And since I mentioned it, I couldn’t possibly be one of those boring guy.

[My messages in blue]

Screenshot 5 (above): Okay, so now I hit her back up about 5 months later on Christmas day (as you see in the time stamp of the screenshot above). So that was days ago. Honestly, I had completely forgotten about her since I’m so used to gaming tons of girls per week on Facebook! She only came to mind once I seen her posted a sexy-ass pic on Christmas. So I messaged her upon that.

Once I sensed that she was still open for meeting up, I threw my ultimate pitch of Netflix & Chill at my hotel when I’m back in her town on the weekend (which I am in her town, but I strategically say I’m not in order to build intrigue).

The fact that she knew where the hotel is, made things (logistics) much easier.

[Her messages in gray]

Screenshot above (the 6th): she said “of course”, in response to knowing where the hotel is located since it’s a centralized location in the city anyway.

Here’s th thing also that you should take note of that I mentioned in screenshot #5: I almost always leave things open by telling the girl I’ll be available between Thursday-Sunday for us to meet up.

In the pick-up community, that is generally considered a faux pas (a huge blunder), since the time of a so-called date should be defined and agreed upon. Surely I agree! However, by giving the girl a wider window between Thursday and Sunday instead of 1 day/night, it creates a situation to where the girl has flexibility also, in the event that she’s busy on the night that you chose to purpose the rendezvous.

Hence, by me saying “Thursday to Sunday”, if she’s busy Thursday night, she will immediately say so and suggest Friday, Saturday or Sunday. By pinning her down to 1 day and 1 day only, it increases the chances of flaking on you. Because if she had prior plans for that same night, she will decline…or stand you up. So I find it a more prudent strategy to give the girl 3 nights from which to choose.

Anyway, I tried securing her # on the 25, but I didn’t get a response from her until the 28th.

Did I panic? Of course not!

I was patient with the process.

Overall guys, this is what I call spiking attraction over time.

When a girl isn’t quite biting, or she’s replying infrequently (albeit with good vibing), you don’t have to rush the brush and press the issue.

That is why I strategically decided on 3-4 different occasions to discontinue the chat (while on great note) in order allow the attraction to grow with each instance of me falling back.

Also, by chatting up loads of other girls, it actually keeps me occupied to where I don’t feel any sort of urgency to look back on a girl whom I strategically put on the back burner in order to build intrigue and attraction.

Lastly, when you could show a woman that you don’t have to go for it right away, it sets you apart in her eyes as someone of value and importance.

More online pickups to come.