When Gaming Hot Girls…Part 3…Learn The Correct Order: Attraction Before Rapport!

[Originally posted to social media]

Why is it a TERRIBLE idea to open a girl with, “Can I get to know you”? And why do girls shame guys for such a lame opener?

Here’s the deal: Pushing for Rapport before you even establish attraction isn’t normal. It’s fucking weird!

This is why in classic pickup, the order is: Attraction, Rapport/Comfort then Seduction (the 3 phases).

You cannot try to fucking gain rapport before making the girl attracted to you (to your vibe)! For instance, if a bum comes up to you on the street, and opens you with, “Can I get to know you”? How would you take to that? You would blow him the fuck off and get weirded out by such a request!

Why is this? Because the bum hadn’t built anything via dialogue before going for rapport! Had the bum showed you an interesting magic trick first, or shared with you a tip on how to do a certain thing [this would be considered Attraction material], and then he says to you, “what’s your name man, and where you come from” [this is a Rapport question], you would likely share rapport information with the bum by saying you are so and so from so and so.

However, had the bum gone straight into that (“who are you and where are you from”) as his opener, or before sharing something of interest/attraction with you, you would tell him to fuck off…or leave yourself.

How does this tie into women online?

Saying to a girl (early), “can we get to know each other”, is equivalent to the bum doing the same with you. The girl would get weirded out and turned off!

Why the fuck would she want to get to know you [enter the Rapport phase] when you haven’t given her a reason to want to know you [i.e. by building interesting convo beforehand]?

Hence, the classic mistake the vast majority of guys make, when they hit chicks up on social media with the lame, “Can I get to know you”?

They’re trying to skip Attraction and go straight into Comfort/Rapport.

It won’t work!

This is why under no circumstances, would you ever see me open a girl with, “can we get to know each other”?

I firstly open with HUMOR which equals Attraction, then build on that, then enter Rapport (which is optional via text).

Also, another reason why girls will blow you out whenever you come with that lame shit, “Can I get to know you”, is the usage of the word “CAN”!

“Can” is a killer in Game! Whenever you use “Can”, you are essentially asking the girl’s permission!

What the fuck would give you the impression that you should have to get someone’s permission to fucking TALK!!!?

That is an extremely Beta and Weak way of approaching women! Women aren’t attracted to men who seek their permission; especially not when it comes to freedom of speech!

Therefore, saying “Can I”, or, “Can we”, should totally be eliminated from your Game! It is low value!

All in all; you don’t have to verbalize to the girl that you want to get to know her! The mere fact that you DM’d her, says that you want to get to know her! So why the fuck state the obvious!? It makes you look inept, stupid and lacking social awareness and intelligence. Plus it makes you look unsure of yourself!

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The Skinny On Long Game: Should You Delete Her Phone Number?

[Originally posted to social media]

“Sometimes, It Takes A While For The Girl To Be Converted And Commit To Meeting Up”.

Okay guys, another instructional post for ya.
What I want to touch on, is staying-power in Game (over text to be exact). 
What do I mean exactly? I mean, how to game a girl for a LONG period of time, without actually speaking to her much over that long period, while avoiding the friend zone at the same time, and ultimately get to the girl to commit to having you come over.
Case in point: this girl here, I picked her up late last year (street approach), ran my usual stellar game, and tried to seal the deal ASAP (as usual).
Although she was game, she just wouldn’t commit to seeing me for the Day2. 
Usually, when a girl gets iffy about seeing me, I sometimes delete her # and keep it pushing. 
However, there are times when it would be in your best interest to keep the girl around, game her periodically, until she either flips/converts, or ultimately fall by the wayside…or she flats out rejects you.
As you will notice in the screenshots, I first started to game this girl last year November when I picked her up.
She wouldn’t commit to the meet up, so I would hit her up every other month.
I hit her up 2 days ago for the 1st time in like 3 months. This morning, she finally committed to seeing me, so she gave me her address (playfully so), so I can stop by her later in the evening.
The point in mentioning that is, if a girl won’t budge right now, feel free to let her go, and re-game her every now and then, in hopes of converting her. 
As the case with this sexy MILF who has a rack to die for, I wasn’t as foolish to waste valuable Game time, texting back and forth with her since November until now.
Fucks no! 
That is friendzone (or text-zone) shit right there!
What I did instead was to hit her up bimonthly, or every 3 months, then game her hard for a few minutes, just to test the waters to see whether she’ll bite (accept meeting up) or not.
With such an approach, I waste no time whatsoever. What is a 5 minute conversation every 2-3 months?
No biggie!
The trick is though, just as you’ll see me demonstrate; you have to come back and re-game her with interesting shit!
Additionally, you ought to take into consideration the fact that women jump in and out of relationships like getting out of bed in the mornings. Their relationships don’t last 3-4 months good. So if you meet a girl today and she doesn’t seem to want to commit to seeing you, it could very well boil down to the fact that she’s in a new relationship and doesn’t want to fuck it up…as yet!
Four, 5, 6 months later: she’s free. Thus, more open to meeting up.
Therefore, before you hit delete on that chick’s phone #, you might want to keep her # for later gaming, in the likely event that she’ll be free/single in 2-3 months time. 
Lastly, this also solidifies a point I’ve been making for years, that you don’t have to take girls out on traditional dates and all of that BS! If you’re skilled enough in Humor Game, you can get girls to give you their address and have to come over. No date required!
Anyway- so again- I started gaming this big-boobed MILF back in November. Although she was totally into me and feeling my vibe [all ioi’s indicated that], she wouldn’t agree to meeting up. So I resorted to putting her on the back burner and gamed her for 5-10 minutes every 3 months or so…until this morning, she told me where she lives (finally), so I’ll be stopping by her later.

#PeriodicGame
#MayTakeMonthsToConvert

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