Last Saturday (the 10th), I came across the profile of a sexy-bodied Cougar who passed my proverbial boner-test.
If you didn’t know it by now: I have a mean thing for women over the age of 40. So this was a great recipe for something special (Cougar pictured below).
By the way, this one is about 46-years old with a magnificent rack! 🙂
Before reaching out to a total stranger on Facebook (via inbox), I firstly ensure of 3 things:
1.) Her account is a real account
2.) Her photos make my cock tingle
3.) She lives in the same town or a nearby town
This Cougar happened to pass those 3 prerequisites; though I was a bit confused whether she’s located in Jersey or the Caribbean islands (where I reside currently). Her profile indicates that she lives on the island, but it says she’s from Jersey…or something to that effect.
Luckily for me though, before I was able to contact her, she sends me a message almost instantaneously upon friend-requesting her.
It almost always puzzles me whenever chicks make the claim that they like/share my posts/statuses. I mean, from my understanding of seduction; I comprehend why this is. But what always baffles me is that the stuff they like/share is game/pickup related, and is rather womanizing, sexist, chauvinistic, assholish and advocates a player lifestyle.
I mean, I post stuff like: “Men should be allowed to cheat on their girlfriends if it means making the relationship stronger”. That totally doesn’t make any sense (and it doesn’t have to), but it sticks…and they (women) love it!!! Isn’t that a mind-fuck?
I was a bit perplexed about her location. But what I gathered is that she lives in the state of New Jersey [in the USA for those who aren’t familiar with the American landscape]. But she routinely returns to the island. So though she’s not here on island currently, she’ll return shortly.
Anyway guys, here’s the plethora of screenshots without much interruption from me…until the end. 🙂
As you’ll see in the screenshot below, she’s eventually called me for some sexting which lasted 25 minutes.
Anyway, that entire sequence was from start to finish- the same day- all screenshots include the entire conversation. We went on to chitchat a bit on Sep 11th and we exchanged #’s also…which was a mute point to say the least.
Okay guys, what I want to leave you here with are few points:
A.) Sexy women love players
B.) Sexting and getting women to send you nudes is as easy as taking a piss
C.) What you post on social media will either repel or attract women (in my case: it is 1 of deadly attraction)
As for point A (“women love players”), it was pretty apparent that she knew I was a player-type since she mentioned it, and since she sees, reads, likes and shares my posts on Facebook. If you’re operating from a scarcity mentality, and are dumbed-down by mainstream dating, you’d be hard-pressed to believe that women actually find womanizers attractive. But once you learn the concepts of pickup, you’ll quickly get a dose of eye-opener upon the realization that women who are sexually active, are subconsciously attracted to guys who have other women in their lives already…in other words: players.
With this Cougar, did I hide the fact from her that I’m a player, or did I tout it?
I touted it, knowing that such a declaration would deepen her attraction for me.
Also, was I shy about going sexual with her, or did I unabashedly get sexual with her from the onset?
I went sexual RIGHT AWAY!!!!
Did she take it the wrong way (my sexual forwardness)?
She loved it!
Here’s the deal: women love guys who embrace a forward vibe. She follows your lead! I cannot continue to stress that point any further! The women you meet look to follow your lead! If you lead the interaction down the road of platonic friendship: she will follow you and adopt that frame (friendship), and you are friendzoned!
That is what happens all the time with guys who want to appear nice and respectable to women they meet. They kick start the conversation on a nice and saintly vibe, trying to persuade women that they are respecting. But then they shoot themselves in the foot whenever they try to get sexual or forward later on in the interaction! You already convinced the girl that you were a giant pussy who would never get forward with a total stranger! You can’t then 5 minutes later, try to get sexual and forward! Simply because you led it wrong! So that is why you want to start sexual/forward fast, so that the girl knows to follow your lead!
Here’s another caveat: have you ever noticed that women NEVER get offended when I’m sexual, rude and forward with them?
How come they don’t? Because of everything I just explained above: I lead the interaction down the right path: a sexual/forward/rude path.
The girl then says to herself (self-rationalization): “Well- this must be the way he acts with every woman”.
Hence, she excuses my behavior as “NORMAL” and acceptable.
With that, you want to give women the impression that being forward and sexual straight away with women, is just another day at the office for you!
It isn’t rare, it isn’t strange, it isn’t a big fucking deal because it’s normal and standardized operations for you!
Whenever I get rude or sexual with women, 9 in 10 times, their reaction/reply is this:
“You’re crazy”! 😆
“You’re funny”! 😆
That’s it! Just as you’d seen in the screenshots above with this sexy Cougar. She never got offended once by my sexual leads, largely because she sense that this is how I talk with every woman, hence it is normal.
Now, if you hit up a new chick online or wherever have you, and you set the tone/frame from the get-go, that you’re some holy roly, hands-off, respectable kinda guy, then she will in turn expect that such behavior from you throughout. And she will surmise that the holy roly facade is normal for you.
Insta-Sexting follows the same methodology. In order to get a girl to consistently sext with you, and to send nude photos, you must inspire that naughtiness within her by leading the vibe.
Here’s the reality: with almost every girl I manage to pick up via social media, I can sext with her or get her to send me nudes that same day of the online pickup.
I full-on sext with about 1 in 4 women I pull over Facebook. That means having her send me nudes, exchanging nudes, then having phone or video sex either through Messenger, IMO or Skype (as was the case with this Cougar via FB Messenger).
Furthermore, a girl literally never objects to me telling her to send me naked pics. Either she has them already, or she takes new ones upon my request if she doesn’t already have any stored in her mobile device.
Additionally,girls practically never turn me down for sexting, nor do they react negatively to the dick pics I send them.
Why so? This all stems from the vibe I create (sexual off the bat): which says that I’m an untamed, unruly, perverted (not in a creepy way) and whimsical.
Create the right vibe and women will accept you for it!
The Looks & Attraction Factors
On a final note, ask yourself this: “what attracted this Cougar to me in the first place”?
Were they my looks, or the things I said which were conveyed through my status updates?
My posts! My status updates as you can clearly see in the 1st screenshot where she mentioned liking the stuff I post.
With that, I stress the oft-repeated point: looks don’t fucking matter when it comes to attracting women and getting laid like a rockstar!!!
You may also be tempted to say: “But Kenny, it’s your height! The girl said that she likes tall guys…and you are 6’2”!!!
Well dude: my profile doesn’t even indicate my height, so this chick had no way in knowing that I was 6’2. She assumed I was tall from my photos (as she pointed out). But what if she were wrong and I was rally 5’2!? Would that have instantly killed the vibe and killed the attraction?
Of course not!
Hence, it is not about looks, height and the many other superficial components which guys tend to use in order to justify their suckery with women.
Women go off of your vibe, personality (and what you convey of it) and the other non-tangible aspects of your being…as cliche as it sounds.
You may want to read this old article of minds, where I did a virtual case-study on the guys from MTV’s Jersey Shore, to shed some light on why Mike The Situation- the so-called ugly guy in the house- was attracting and pulling more girls, than the way more attractive guys in the house (Pauly D, Ronnie & Vinny).
Attitude vs Looks: Jersey Shore’s Mike The Situation & Pauly D
Surely women are attracted to 6-pac abs, chest, a chiseled physique, a guy with all his teeth, clean skin, etc. Those things are deemed very attractive by women!
However, what you’ve been forced to believe is that without those physical affectations, you stand no chance in attracting (hot) women!
This is utter bullshit!
I always challenge guys on this by putting forth the following:
If you really believe that looks matter, I would be willing to set up a fake Facebook profile (for the first time), make it look as real as possible, use the photos of a drop-dead handsome Adonis, then begin to add and hit up random women on Facebook…however…with no game! Just strictly normal, bland, boring generic stuff. I would strictly rely on his looks while messaging girls like an AFC (average guy who doesn’t have game). The purpose would’ve been to discover whether solely possession stunning looks, will trump shitty game (or lack thereof). And would this super-handsome guys be able to get girls consistently from his looks alone.
I already know the answer: and that is a flat-out NO!
On the other hand, while operating the fake profile of a stunningly handsome guy, but who has no game, from my official FB profile, I would’ve contacted the same women as my fake profile did: add them and hit them up. However, I would be using my usual game (but without the stunning looks). Thus, both profiles of mines (the fake and real one) would’ve been simultaneously trying to pick up the same girls contacted.
Now, who would pull more random strangers on Facebook? The fake Kenny profile of the drop-dead handsome guy who has no game, or the real Kenny profile, who isn’t drop-dead handsome, but possesses a world of game?
The answer should be crystal clear: I would pull 10 times the women as he would.
I’ve already done this is various ways just to prove to myself that Game and attitude trump looks almost all the time!
Anyway, so with this girl, the Cougar, I cannot actually try to meet up with her at the moment since she’s living in Jersey and I’m in the Caribbean.
Generally, I wouldn’t chat up, nor attempt to pick up a girl whom I cannot realistically bang (such as a girl living in another country). But because she hit me up first, and she often returns to the islands, I pursued it.
Lastly, I know I’ve been teasing you guys over the last 2 months with promise of putting together a post which features a quasi-collage of a bunch of status updates which I post to my Facebook and Twitter simultaneously.
The purpose of that post would’ve been to showcase for you guys, the type of stuff which grabs the attention of women: the high-value stuff, opposed from the low-value shit that you guys are accustomed to posting.
After all, this big-boob cougar here did take the initiative to hit me up in less than 1 minute of accepting my friend request. Also indirectly admitting that my posts were what attracted her in the first place.
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If you aren’t sure of how to put this all together, and perhaps you just prefer to dialogue with me over Skype: schedule your slot (30/60 minutes).
Most importantly guys, I want you to re-scan every screenshot, from first to last, just to get a sense of my vibing and humor!
Please- I urge you- it is all in the vibing…well almost all!
Take note of how my vibe and conversational threads were interesting, witty and humorous. Not bland, generic, tedious and lame.
You have to be able to keep a girl’s attention or you’ll have no shot of consistently laying new girls!
By the way, if you haven’t seen it already, here is a recently posted video of mines, detailing everything you want to know about gaming and picking up Cougars and older women. You also see me pick up a 45-year old Cougar in the infield snippet of the 13 minute video.
Here’s another video of mines, but this 1 dates back to over 3 years ago, where I talk about how to get girls to send you nudes.