Quick Example Of Token Resistance And How To Handle It

This is an example of “Token Resistance”, where the girl wants to fuck you so badly, but the logical side of her brain fights with the Reptilian side of her brain [the Hind Brain].

She wants to fuck! But she knows it isn’t rational because I’m a total stranger.Β 

When a girl gives you this sort of resistance; you don’t fight it!

You counter it by feigning agreement. But then you strategically plow via a state of contradiction. On 1 hand (verbally), I agree with her, that we should essentially take it slow. But on the other hand, I plow and conduct myself as though we should rush!

Doing so will confuse her logical-thought pattern, throwing her off while advancing the meet up for sex!

[Her messages in white]

Spotting Token Resistance, Plowing By Feigning Ignorant And Getting The Girl To Chase [textbook online pull]


Token resistance coming from a woman being pursued, usually throws guys off.

Token resistance is so indiscernible for most men, that I even get advanced PUA dating coaches hitting me up on Facebook, wanting to know why a particular girl suddenly went from down to not down within a heartbeat. So token resistance can even throw off the elite in Game since there’s no clear indication to point to token or real.

In this post however, I will show you how a recently picked up chick (via Facebook) gave me (token) resistance, then wind up chasing me to death within minutes!

Before I get into the actual pickup with screenshots as your guide, I just want to give you guys little heads up in regards to token resistance: every woman will have put up some form of (token) resistance throughout the pickup, and even while you have her in bed ready to slay [LMR=”Last Minute ‘Resistance’ “].

What happen though is that most guys- since men are fucking clueless- get psyched out by the girl’s sham attempt at resistance and rejection.

In this post, I will show you how to handle that in 2 ways, by simply plowing and feigning ignorant.

Anyway, 3 days ago, I came across a chick on Facebook, apparently a MILF who passed my proverbial boner-test, so as part of my pre-game method, I briefly scanned her profile to ensure that I encounter in the bio, evidence that she lives nearby, as in the same city or town, so that I don’t waste valuable time gaming a chick, to then find out that she lives in fucking Antarctica! So she passed that prerequisite, and that was my cue to proceed with the seduction.

By the way, if you could recall, this is the same girl with whom I was chatting in the previous post. However, this is a continuation of that interaction.

[My messages in blue]

Screenshot 1 (above): she was correct. That was a routine and a way for me to inbox her by setting myself apart from the boring losers who open with, “good morning. How are you”? So she realizes that this was “creative”.

Always learn how to seize opportunities to go sexual and forward as when I told her that I’m sexually attracted to her and want to impregnate her. I knew she would find it humorous and not offensive! You should adopt such a frame also by spotting those windows of opportunity to go sexual early!

As usual, my uncanny approach and lines catch women off guard, which was why she said she wasn’t ready…meaning ready for me going sexual so soon with a total stranger [her]. Always shock a woman’s reality and what she believes is normal, by doing/saying something out the box! Be unpredictable! That is the only way in which to captivate and hold a new girl’s attention!

You have to remember that women online have the attention span of an ant! You must do/say something shocking in order to register on their radar, or else they’ll just ignore you!

Also, by me going sexual, forward and intimate by saying I want to cuddle her body like a blanket, what I’m actually doing here, apart from the obvious, is that I’m killing any chance of the girl thinking that I’m looking friendship or anything non-sexual. By going sexual early, you ward off the friendzone!

Also, she issues her first token resistance by saying I don’t know her. Most guys would hesitate at that point.

Screenshot 2 (above): in response to her comment about she could be a psycho bitch, and that I don’t know her [token resistance], I sent an emoji of a weeping puppy just to show humor. I then strategically made a case for why it doesn’t matter if she’s a psycho, I am willing to take the risk! Remember what I’ve been preaching to you guys over the weeks: women love risk takers!

Additionally, I kept mixing sexual with humor, just so she clearly knows my intention is to hook up. Hence the reason for making mention of her rack/big boobs. Note: most guys would never do this (and definitely not strategically) because of fear of losing the girl by offending her. I don’t give a fuck! That is the vibe I give off. I take the risk in losing the girl by making sexual declarations. Did I lose her?

Clearly not!

Now, when I told her that I checked out 100 of her pics and seen how fuckable she is, most guys- at least the ones privy to pickup theory- would surmise that my comment was needy and shows desperation. What those guys don’t realize is that the girl darn well knows that I did NOT go through 100 of her pictures, and it was just humor! Women get this! Women are very fucking perceptive and are clairvoyant! This is why she wasn’t weirded out by my comment, but she laughed and said “you are killing me”, which meant that she is totally cracking up at what I said. So she clearly gets the humor in it, even when I said that I’m a stalker!

Okay, so she went on to ask me about the work I do. Note: whenever a girl pushes rapport/comfort, it is almost always a sign that she’s interested in you. In other words, by her asking me FIRST about my occupation (any personal question), it was an indication of her interest! If she wasn’t interested, she wouldn’t care to ask that.

She thought I was BS’ing about being a dating coach, likely because she’d probably never heard of guys teaching other guys how to attract women and get dates. Also, she probably would not have expected a guy to be so transparent about such work. However, as I shared with you guys a while back: women are attracted to players, ladies’ men, womanizers, etc. Men teaching men how to attract girls, essentially lumps me into the so-called deplorable basket where womanizers dwell. So, never lie to women about having interest in women! I am actually the first PUA on a coaching level (any level for that matter) who publicly advocated for guys to not hide the fact that they are Pick-Up Artists practitioners or coaches.

Along with telling her that I’m a dating coach for men, I added some intriguing element to it by telling her that it’s a guarded secret that I don’t tell people. What does this do on a psychological level to the girl? It builds intrigue in her mind. It gives her the sense of exclusivity, that I’m cluing her in on something that is exclusive and guarded. Think secret society type of allure.

Screenshot 3 (above): always presume and assume! I made an assumption that we both like meeting new and interesting people. This doesn’t have to be factual. Just say it! Just assume it! It is a light form of embedded commands as they teach in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). By me saying that to her (that she likes meeting interesting new people), as the one who made that assumption, she will likely link me to those keywords “Interesting and new”. So I bypass her conscious brain and embed a soft command into her Hind brain (aka the Reptilian Brain), into her subconscious, to where she will then link me with “new, and interesting”. That is some advanced NLP stuff which I’ll share with you guys in a future article.

Strong-sexual declarations are key!

Thus I told her we’ll be making sex on her desk (since she’s a teacher). What does she do? She issues “TOKEN” resistance by saying that I don’t know her like that, and essentially, we shouldn’t be having this conversation (it’s “premature”…in her words). I recognized it was token/fake resistance, mainly because I elicited it and caused it to happen, so I bantered with it by telling her I like the getting to know each other process.

Also, by her calling me a gigolo, it’s essentially confirmation of her being down with my sexual program. You have to be able to spot these little cracks and cues whenever a girl speaks. They verbally (or textually) reveal stuff in coded language. Only few can decipher them (few men that is). With time and experience, you’ll be able to read women like a book also! But it takes time, which most men aren’t patient enough to take!

Anyway, sensing that she’s already attracted to me [my sexual, uncanny and forward vibe], I make my pitch for the rendezvous. Always get to the point so the girl doesn’t get the impression that you’re merely interested in texting just to merely pass some time.

[My messages in blue]

Screenshot 4 (above): so when I asked her about weekend plans, she sent me a video clip with snow. Essentially trying to say that she’s snowed in. And furthermore, she’s not in the islands where I thought she was. So that is why I asked if she’s in Canada or something.

She suddenly realized that we’d interacted before. I actually didn’t remember. But this could’ve been true since I generally give my out-of-the-box take on love, relationship, sex and the sexes on various Facebook pages about said topics. I mean, I am sometimes all over the place (Facebook) opining on male-female relations. And I’m quite sure she and I had interacted since she’s nailed down my ideals correctly in saying that I had “interesting” (code word for eyebrow-raising and radical) ideas on men’s roles [should be leading], place of women [should not be leading men] and marriage [that monogamous marriages are flawed institutions that go against a man’s nature]. So yea: this chick has definitely ran into me before (online).

I basically ignored what she said about our possible interactions in the past, to stick with the theme of meeting up at my hotel. Again: she hit me with some token/fake resistance by saying that she isn’t a “good time girl”. In other words, she meant that she isn’t the hookup type. I blocked out her following line since it contained sensitive information as far as her work (teaching), name of the school, etc. So she tried to say that since she teaches at so and so prestigious academy, she cannot afford to do things outside of character…which is BS!

Anyways, whenever a girl accuses you of wanting to hook up, you either double down on it by owning it, or you downplay it as I did, by saying that it’s not about a hookup. In other words, hooking up isn’t the sole idea. What you don’t want to do, is to say to her that hooking up is totally off the table. Just find a way to communicate to her that hooking up isn’t the only thing on your mind. Or you full on, shamelessly say “yes! Hooking up is what it’s about”! Either way, this girl here knows my schtick, that I am all about hooking up! I never hid that! So no matter what I say, subcommunications speak louder.

As you could see, she wasn’t buying it (that it wasn’t all about a hookup). The reason I played it that way is because I sensed a thirst/desperation trap. I felt that she was trying to trap me between a rock and a hard place about hooking up. So the best thing for me to have done was what I did by letting her know plainly that I would want to, and I do want to fuck the crap out of her, but if she isn’t down, then it’s all good.

She offered some more token resistance by saying “I’ll pass”, in other words, she’s not interested in meeting up with me because she believes that I would essentially seduce her and fuck her. This was also confirmation that she’s in fact down, but is merely resisting out of custom. So I played it cool and feigned ignorant.

Also, when she mentioned “LJBF”: Let’s just Be Friends, this was NOT a friendzone! I repeat: she did not (attempt to) friendzone me! I gave her not 1 shred of reason to ever think that I was a friendzone candidate. So by her saying, “we can be friends”, it was essentially her saying, “we could be fuck friends”, but cloaked in “friends”. So guys, you ought to learn how to read women and their bag of psychological tricks! You must be able to see through it, feign ignorant, but plow as if what they said wasn’t uttered at all.

Moreover, she playfully hinted at me offering to meet up with her on a date (in public). So she surely wants to meet up, which is why she said “we could make it happen”. Already sensing that she’s DTF, and that her “friends” line meant “fuck” friends, I agreed to being “friends”.

[My messages in blue]

Screenshot 5 (above): even though she said she doesn’t want to meet in private, I stayed the course and gave her details about my location (the hotel), and how often I come to her part of town. By my next visit, she would’ve returned from North America, which meant we could meet. As I eluded to earlier, she’s super willing to meet up with me, indicative of the fact that she said “we have a date then”. As something to take note of: no girl gets excited about going on a date with a guy whom she deems as “just friends”. So again; she did not friendzone me at all! It was a ploy on her part, and I played it smartly by feigning ignorant.

Anyway, she clearly knew where my hotel is, as she listed about 5 establishments surrounding the hotel, hence she said “so many options”. The reason this worked out to be perfect is that, let’s say that she doesn’t want to come straight to my hotel room, we can always meet up for the so-called date at the wine bar that she recognizes which is adjacent to the hotel. In such a close proximity, there’s nothing standing in the way of me saying to her, “let’s go check out my hotel balcony! You will love the awesome view”! Think strategically when it comes down to planning date logistics! Always take the girl somewhere within walking distance from your resting place!

Following that (she saying that “we have a date”), there came the greatest admission of her attraction for me, interest in me, and indication that she’s hooked on the idea of meeting with me (intimately and romantically), when she rang me 3 times back to back via Messenger, without me telling/asking her to call. And to top that off as you can clearly see in the screenshot above, she gave me her phone # without me even asking. This was a sure sign of her interest in me.

By the way, I purposely decided not to take her call as a way to get her to chase me even harder.

Before that though, I rang her back (as you could see in the screenshot), she answered, and I went on to tell her in no uncertain terms are we meeting without hooking up.

After she’d given me her # (without me asking), she went on to ring me again via Messenger (to no avail as I refused to answer.)

By the way, if you notice in the bottom screenshot (on the left), after her missed-call attempts, she sent me a 41 seconds voice note of herself breathing hard and moaning with a faint vibrator sound in the background.

That told me that she was masturbating at the very moment when she tried to call me the last time. Clearly this girl is sexually aroused by me and over the idea of meeting me and hooking up. But you would’ve never guessed this, judging by her token/fake resistance, and she saying that she isn’t the hookup type, and that she wants to be friends only, etc.

I shortly afterwards gave her my phone number, so she then went on to hit me up on Whatsapp (in the very last screenshot), asking why I thought she was a willing victim? By that I figured she meant why I targeted her for a hookup campaign. I wisely let her know that I don’t see her as an easy slut, but a challenge.

Whenever a girl asks such questions (“do you think I’m easy”), remember it is a trick question, so always tell her that you see her as a challenge, and that you like a challenge. Even though you know she’s easy (as all girls are to me), you clearly cannot say that to the girl (that she’s easy). So exaggerate about how much of a challenge she is!

In other words: feign being that ignorant person.

On that note, I implore you to re-read this post, study the dialogue and take note of the points where the girl dishes out token resistance. Also make a mental note of my reactions.

Believe it or not, but most times, you (the man) is responsible for killing your own chances with women via your poor belief system (limiting beliefs) and misreading of women (their actions and words).

Token/fake resistance for instance is 1 such place where men fall short of getting the girl because they misread it (token resistance) for the real thing.

In the same breath, token resistance is a congruence test, where the girl tests the guy to see whether he’ll fall for the trap, or elude it skillfully.

A perfect example of this (token/resistance built into a congruence test) is when a girl says something like: “You seem like the player type and I don’t think we would get along well. So I would have to politely decline your date proposal”.

Now, if the girl was truly disinterested in a possible date, and if she was truly turned off by this player vibe which she detects from you, then this wouldn’t even become a mention.

Would a girl waste her time saying to a pesky vagrant on the streets asking her out, “you’re not my type”?

Of course not! She would simply keep it moving without saying a word.

Likewise, if a girl online is truly disinterested, she would ignore your messages flat out. And even then, there’s always a remote possibility that she is interested, but is just going through the motions and playing hard-to-get in order to see whether you’ll pursue her or not.

With that being said, my rule is, and this should also be your guideline: as long as the girl replies then it’s still on!

You still have a shot!

The only time that you don’t have a shot is if and when the girl elects to not reply at all!

Hence, if you’re trying to pick up a girl online, and along the way (presuming the chat is going well), and she hits you with, “I have a boyfriend, so no thanks”: Plow forth anyway!

Chances are, it is just token/fake resistance!

The girl merely wants to see how persistent you are (or not).

If you check back the chatlog above between this MILF and me, there were about 4 instances of token resistance where I could’ve given up from misinterpreting her words as a rejection.

However, through vast amounts of experiences, I come to know how women think and behave.

On that note, and from now on, I want you to look at rejection and resistance in a brand-new light.

If a girl (online for instance) says something to you that resembles a rejection, I want you to disregard what she said, or either acknowledge it in passing, but plow anyway with your program (continuing the pickup attempt as you seen me do).

Don’t get befuddled!

Plow until she either gets on board or she flat-out ignores you.

Now, I don’t mean to plow foolishly by begging, chasing and whining.

As you seen in the screenshots, when she said “sorry but no thanks” to the rendezvous on my hotel balcony, I didn’t throw in the towel in the face of her token rejection/resistance.

What she said virtually went through 1 ear and out the other, I plowed anyway by telling her the location of the hotel and asked if she knew where it was.

I didn’t allow her objections to derail my mission!

Stay tuned for a very interesting article on how to captivate and hold a woman’s attention (online), something which you see me do within every pickup.

Hot Cougar With Boyfriend Blows Me Off, I Persist, She Resists, She Cracks And Coughs Up The #, I Ignore Her, She Now Chases Me…[Lesson In Persistence And Strategic Fall Back]



Hey guys, another solid and insightful post on picking up girls online (Facebook to be exact).

This time around, I picked up a sexy Cougar (who has a boyfriend) who first started out a bit indifferent…until I weaseled my way through her defenses.

As regularly noted; this girl is a complete stranger whom I randomly added after coming across her profile in the friend-suggestion field.

The attempted pickup kicked off at the very beginning of August where I actually inboxed her by mistake about going to do karaoke. She responded by saying she doesn’t do karaoke. I then realized that I had messaged the wrong chick. But seeing how hot she was; I decided to pursue.

[My messages in blue]

[Screenshot above] Her response to my Netflix & Chill offer (over coffee or tea) was an obvious brush off when she said “I’ll let you know”. I humored it though by pretending to be heartbroken about it. She knew I was clearly joking when I added that hot girls are always the most heartless…plus with a smiley face. The way I came off here, eliminates the serious factor, and communicates to the girl that I am being humorous.

[Screenshot above…her texts in gray] I then pitched my favorite opener about making cute babies. This gambit of mines by the way (about cute babies) is merely to create an interesting dialogue that the girl may have never heard before. Remember: ALWAYS BE INTERESTING and ORIGINAL!

[Screenshot above…her texts in gray] She then hit me with the classic boyfriend line: she’s in a committed relationship. Remember what I told/showed you guys in the previous few posts: relationships mean nothing to most women! Knowing this, I don’t even pay any mind to the fact that she said she’s committed and doesn’t play.

Also, whenever a girl says to me that she has a boyfriend, I always tell her that I have a girlfriend. Not only will this trump her attempt to out-value you, but it adds pre-selection to the entire dynamics. Women want a man whom other women have or desire [think celebrities].

Ultimately, I ended the chatting there and strategically fell back until another time.

The next round of messages (below) began days later on August 4th.
[My messages in blue]

[Screenshot above] When I asked her what time she’s mainly free to chat, note that I didn’t add a question mark. How come? Doing so (omitting question mark) gives the girl the impression that I am not desperate and not in need of a reply. Adding a question marks has a way of giving off the impression of neediness and desperation. Same thing when I asked her about giving out her # (which was pun): no question mark!

[Screenshot above…her texts in gray] I didn’t force the issue when she didn’t give me the phone #. I simply sent a thumb up (knowing it was token/fake resistance), showing that I was unaffected. I fell back (strategically) and re-contacted her 3 days later on August 8th. Although I added a question mark when I asked about what she does on an afternoon like this, it was nullified because the text continued in which I didn’t add a question mark after “beach or work”. In any case, you don’t want the question mark to come at the very end of your message.

[Screenshot above…her texts in gray] Humor is key, hence the whole spoon feed and porridge line. Learn how to pepper in well-timed humor spikes at certain intervals as you see me doing.

[Screenshot above…my texts in blue] I was actually a vegan years ago for many years (sad to say since I cannot stand the idea of vegetarianism nowadays). So I used that as an opportunity to strike a chord of commonality. Always look for little things like those which you two have in common. Caution: don’t overdue it or else you’ll come off as a dancing monkey who’s actively seeking to find things in common.

[Screenshot above…my texts in blue] Again- when I asked, “are you down for that”, I didn’t add a question mark at the end. This communicates non-neediness on my part. Here again, though I added a question mark after…”do you use Whatsapp”, it wasn’t at the very end of the question since I continued with, “I prefer we text there…”. Super key! The position in message in where you place your question marks can either make or break your chances. Very crucial tip!

[Screenshot above…her texts in gray] In essence, that was a so-called rejection, but I didn’t take it as such since I don’t believe in rejections. Hence, I injected some humor about the accent of the people from her hometown. So that’s 1 way in which you can handle a deflection upon trying to number close: you either fall back completely until another time, or you humor her a bit and try again within the same chat session. I did exactly just that: humor her a bit, get a few laughs (LOL) out of her, then I pushed (persisted) for the # again. This is a classic-textbook PUA technique by the way.

[Screenshot above…my texts in blue] As always the case with skillful persistence, you do so in non-desperate fashion, without “Asking/Begging”. With that, I assertively said, “Your number is…”. In essence, I assumed the sale. I assumed that she will give me her phone number…so she coughed It up. Cheers to frame control. πŸ™‚

That was persistence without looking needy, desperate and low value.

Here’s the most crucial thing that I want you to focus on. Upon getting her phone number by slithering through her resistance with persistence, I completely fell off the map in that I never contacted her again via inbox, nor did I even make use of her phone number.

Was this fall back strategic?

Somewhat.

Quite frankly though- as you would’ve known since I made mention of it numerous times- I have a whole lot on my plate as far as women/dating goes.

I would routinely meet and pick up girls today, and completely forget that they even exist the next day!

That was the case with this girl. Apart from strategically reeling her in so that she chases me, I had too much on my plate to even follow up after she coughed up the digits.

Now, what does this show/communicate to the girl? She’s likely saying to herself: “Here it is that this guy finally gets my phone number but he doesn’t utilize it, nor did he follow up on the Vegan date proposal he made to me. He must be a guy of abundance. He probably has other women, hotter than me, to contend with”.

Basically, the girl gets inside of her head and begins to feel somewhat inadequate and less desirable. Subsequently, this cajoles her into wanting to know why am I not following through.

She would’ve likely begun to conjure up all sorts of things within her head like: “Am I not hot enough for him? Am I too old for him? Did I do/say something that turned him off? Was it a post I made that turned him off”?

With all that being said, though I’d gotten her phone number way back on August 8th, and never followed up; she contacted me yesterday. πŸ™‚

By giving off the impression that I am not the type of guy to chase, she in turn interprets that to mean I am a guy of high(er) value; hence she chases me.

The last set of messages were from yesterday [August 22nd] when she decided to hit me up on Messenger after a few weeks of me falling off the map.
[Her messages in gray]

[Screenshot above] After weeks of no contact, she decides to hit me up saying she’s moving to my side of town. I mentioned this recently: whenever you ignore women, particularly the ones whom you’d picked up, they will often times re-contact you with a flimsy (or plausible) excuse as to their message/call. It is their way of saying, “I miss our chatting and I really want to talk again, but I don’t know how to start it”.

With time and experience, you’ll learn how to read between the lines by osmosis.

[Screenshot above…her texts in gray] Humor again is key.

[Screenshot above…her texts in gray] The “spontaneous” line is just another example of using humor to deepen the attraction.

As expected, she finally comes clean about telling me she’s moving to my part of town. This confirms 2 things for me:

1.) She had only used this excuse (a lie) as a way to reopen me

2.) She is full-on attracted me, hence the reason why she even lied about moving closer to me.

[Screenshot above…my texts in blue] The wings and chicken pizza thing is a joke in reference to a post I posted 2 days ago where I was pigging out on a chicken pizza (pictured below).


Although she never commented nor hit like on the pizza post, she undoubtedly seen it. It’s a subtly way to admit that she’s stalking my profile but elected not to comment on my stuff.

Anyway guys, just another textbook pickup over Facebook, but showing how easy it is to deal with a girl’s objections and then make her chase you by strategically backing off at the right moments.

Additionally, do you recall what she said to me during the 1st round of conversation? “I’m in a committed relationship and I don’t play”. So basically, this girl clearly has a boyfriend (as all women do).

However, does that prevent her from chasing a random stranger on Facebook (Kenny)?

Did her relationship status prevent her from coughing up her digits?

No!

Why not?

“Attraction is not a choice”! The old adage of the seduction community.

A woman cannot help but to be attracted to a guy who presents her with the right doses of attraction material.

Therefore, even though this super-hot cougar has a boyfriend, she cannot help but to want to chase me and to meet up for the vegan date. πŸ™‚

Additionally, most guys get discouraged and disheartened once the girl breaks the news that she has a boyfriend.

Nine in ten times- though true- it is just a frikkin’ test!

As for the meetup for some veggie food (I hate vegs BTW), she is more than down and willing. All I have to do is to make the call (or text) to confirm the day/date.

When will I?

Perhaps…soon. ❓

Seriously, I don’t know when I would eventually try to see this girl. It isn’t on my current to-fuck-list.

See you guys around!

Expect Token Resistance: More Facebook Pickups


Let’s just jump right into another routine pull on Facebook.

Two days ago, I cold-messaged this hottie after coming across her profile [nothing new there].

I used my now-infamous opener which has caught the pick-up world by storm [“Let’s make some babies”].
[Messages read from left to right, top to bottom row. My texts in blue]

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Everything was self explanatory there as far as my approach and vibing.

In the previous 2 screenshot collages, you would have noticed some token resistance on the part of the girl when I tried getting her number.

You may be accustomed to seeing me grab numbers trouble-free.

Don’t get too complacent if you’re using my method!

Bear in mind that women will test you and play hard-to-get (token resistance) when it comes to getting their number, simply because it’s a woman’s job to resist in some form, at some point during the courting.

Expect this!

Where most guys go wrong in cases where the girl doesn’t cough up the # on the 1st try, is that they give up immediately, sensing defeat and rejection.

That is what the girl is waiting to see; whether the guy was sincere or just dicking around about wanting her number.

Most guys foolishly play into this trap by throwing in the towel altogether or by throwing a pissy-fit once the girl doesn’t cough up her number on the 1st go.

At times- I would say 35% of the time in such cases- the girl merely wants to see whether you’d persist or give up if she resists a little or even a lot.

Re-read!

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Did I give up?

Of course not!

Now, here is the thing: what should you do once faced with token resistance from a girl upon trying to get her digits?

Same thing I did:

*Be playful

*Change subjects

*Playfully yet dominantly try to get the # again

If a girl objects or refuses to give you the number on the 1st try, perhaps she wasn’t warmed up enough yet to the task.

Perhaps she isn’t too keen on you.

Hence, you want to further build the attraction by continuing the conversation (as I did) either then and there, or another time!

Not every time you will get the number during the 1st interaction on Facebook.

In fact; I’ve always urged you to work in stages when trying to pick up a girl on Facebook in particular.

What I mean by that is, instead of going for broke during the initial text-session, you want to have about 3 little sessions firstly.

For example: you message her first on Monday with the usual stuff as far as my method is concerned (via attraction material).

End the conversation!

You then contact her again through inbox/messenger around Wednesday.

Don’t go for the # as yet!

Around Thursday or Friday; have another round of spirited chat then go for the number.

It doesn’t all have to happen in 1 conversation.

It is just because I am so damn skillfully advanced at instantly attracting random hotties online, why I’m able to get their number within the initial conversation…99% of the time!

However, there exist those times where either the girl objects (plays hard-to-get), or I willfully draw out the pickup [grabbing her #] in intervals.

However, as a rule of thumb: don’t necessarily look to get her number during the first conversation.

What you don’t want to happen is upon objecting and resisting, you desperately try to get her number.

You want to exhibit calm and coolness while persisting in a playful manner.

Furthermore, some chicks take a lot longer to warm up than others.

Some women are more skeptical and suspecting than others.

Moreover, women love the cat-and-mouse things which is why they play coy at times.

Those are just 3 reasons why girls may resist during an attempted pickup.

Never take objection or resistance as rejection or else the girl will have sensed your needy/desperate vibe and truly reject you!

As for my now infamous opener about getting girls pregnant and having cute babies: I’ll touch on it in an upcoming post.

More Token Resistance With Another Girl


“Token Resistance”: you better live with it and handle it correctly!

Hey dudes, do you recall the previous post where I spoke about token resistance and that you should expect it?

Interestingly enough, yesterday evening while setting up a rendezvous with a new girl [the third of 3 new girls I picked up from street game over the last 10 days]- as expected- token resistance was shot my way yet picked off like a Jedi master.

Women, their actions, expectations and modus operandi are very predictable, and you will have come to this realization as you become good at this.

There is no such thing as a tough cookie or “different” girl.

I get sick and tired of reading e-mails from guys whining about how difficult a girl is and how she’s un-crackable”!

“I just can’t crack her”!

Subtly, it is a form of pedestalization whenever a guy believes to himself that “this girl is different”, “she is difficult”, yadi, yadi, yada.

To even deem a girl “different” or “difficult” is already a nail in your coffin before the game has even begun.

There’s no such thing as a difficult or different girl. What gives you that illusionary impression is the fact that you’re having difficulties connecting with her, reading her, and subsequently bedding her. But it doesn’t mean she’s difficult or intrinsically different from any other chick in the field.

With every girl I meet, the program and the script always follow the same blueprint: she resists, plays hard-to-get, tries to gain value, tries to score cheap points by instigating frame battles, shit tests me, tries to disqualify me early by doing/saying something in hopes that it would blow me out, etc.

The script is always identical with every girl I meet, and with every girl you will have met!

Some girls give more shit than others.

Some girls are more DTF than others.

Some girls require more game, more comfort or more value from the guy before they crack.

However, it is all the same theme, same play and the same show with different characters.

Digressing!

Anyway, so I met up with a new girl yesterday evening under the guise of grabbing ice cream for both of us.

Prior to our rendezvous, this girl made it her business to emphatically emphasize [over text at least] how much she is NOT interested in me whatsoever!

She was very adamant about it because it wasn’t the first time she exclaimed this since we met about a week ago.

As often the case, I ignore token resistance [girl saying she isn’t interested], agree to whatever the girl says, play with it a bit then disregard it while sticking to my meet-up plan aka Day2. In this case, it was grabbing some ice cream while I met up with her. So much for not being interested. πŸ˜‰

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You can’t take chicks seriously.

Here are the screenshots from Whatsapp [my texts in green. Hers in white]

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“Token Resistance” is handled by joking around with it, hence stripping away its intended effect which is to rattle the guy’s frame and expose him as a weak Beta pretending to be an assertive Alpha.

Women will often test you just to make sure you’re the real deal.

If you’re not [by being offended, frazzled, dejected or defensive]: then it’s sayonara- she will move on while laughing at you.

By passing her shit tests and congruence tests as I showed in the screenshot, she gets confirmation that you are the real deal, thus she will proceed and play her position in order to facilitate meeting up.

I want you to really take not of how I handled her token resistance and congruence test by flipping the script! Instead of becoming defensive and trying to qualify by telling her why she should be interested in me, I did the complete opposite by agreeing with her, that she shouldn’t be interested in me and that I clearly get that…NOW LET’S PROCEED!

That was my frame!

Thus, whenever a girl says she isn’t interested in you, you want to take it NOT personal. Instead, have fun with it.

If she really isn’t interested in you: you will know for sure!

However, more often than not, a girl telling you that she isn’t interested- after the fact of exchanging numbers and being engaging communication wise- is a downright lie which should be attributed to token resistance.

You have to be able to spot these inconsistencies in the girl’s story, or else you risk blowing yourself out because of ignorance of female behavior during courtship.

I cannot begin to count the amount of e-mails [with accompanying screenshots] I receive on a daily basis from guys who had blown themselves out, believing that the girl was genuinely not interested because of something she said to that effect [all token resistance].

After I will have scanned their screenshots and read the girl’s tone, it becomes readily transparent as to why these guys were stumbling and rejecting themselves, yet thinking that the girl had rejected them.

Learn to read between the lines and execute social intelligence in determining whether a girl is truly disinterested or is interested.

Perfect example was lst night.

Had I taken this chick seriously about not being into me [as she had said dozens of times within a week], I would not have been able to meet up with her last night for ice cream on the Day2.

I didn’t even try to bang her since I already had sex yesterday evening. But that’s besides the point.

Always stick to the game plan and the objective!

What is the objective?

To meet up!

Sex is the ultimate goal and end game which can only be reached by meeting up with the girl.

Hence, getting her to meet up with you is the most important step in the game. But along the way, the girl will try to trip you up.

Token Resistance Before A Girl Decides To Hook Up With You + How To Handle It


Whenever a girl reaches a point where she’s about to pop, her resistance level wavers, she becomes more erratic and irrational than usual, and her token resistance become more apparent than normal.

This is all within the context of raw contradictions where her actions say 1 thing but her words/texts say another.

When trying to sleep with a new girl for the first time, what tends to happen at times- when the girl is on the verge on succumbing- she throw out these blatant tests which often confound the guy on the receiving end of those tests.

Case in point: here are 2 screenshots from 2 separate girls over the past 2 days, of conversations between us, illustrating just that- innate contradictions and somewhat erratic behavior which betrays true intention [to hook up].

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Did you notice the token resistance from girl in the 1st screenshot who mentioned that her BF is the only guy with whom she’ll engage in sexual deviance?

She firstly hits me up after 10 PM- sure sign that she’s thinking of me during the hours where hooking up largely takes place- yet she tries to throw a monkey-wrench in the game by bringing up her boyfriend in order to not appear slutty.

Girl in the 2nd screenshot, also contacts me first- a sure sign of someone’s interest- yet she plays somewhat difficult by trying to appear as though she isn’t about to pop [try to hook up] by feigning indifference.

What do these 2 girls and their modus operandi have in common apart from what I mentioned above?

They have reached a point where they decided to themselves that sex is inevitable [with me], so they must make a last-ditch effort to resist…though their actions [contacting me first and at the particular hour and the subject matter] betray their words.

Not all girls operate this way at crunch time…or near it.

Some do however.

How do you handle it?

Just stay cool!

Most guys do not understand token resistance, hence they take it to heart and believe that girls are wasting their time whenever they [girls] get all erratic and send mixed messages.

That is the best indicator that a girl is on the verge of telling you to come over…or that she wants to come over.

It’s like her psyche got hit by a freight-train and she doesn’t know how to process things [the fact that she’s so sexually taken by you].

As the guy, you handle all of this erratic behavior by just being cool instead of believing that the girl is playing some sort of twisted head-game [which she is in a way].

However, as a note from me to you: if a [new] girl contacts you [unsolicited] after 10 PM, she is obviously bored and up for seeing you and to possibly hook up, but she doesn’t quite know how to express this without appearing slutty, so she’s likely to do/say something which totally contradicts her actions.

Also, if a [new] girl contacts you during the night- unsolicited- chances are, she wants to hang out but doesn’t really know how to say it without appearing desperate or slutty.

Don’t think that she isn’t interested.

She is! And she will crack real soon. Just go with the motions