[Post written on Wednesday]
I just met up and had lunch with this chick who popped up in my part of town.
She’d hit me up this morning telling me that she’s in my part of town.
After our hour-long lunch date she had to run to do some business. But we are set to meet up again after 2 pm…hopefully at the PUA pad.
What had happened was, after our departure (she went to do business and I went back to work), she was to message me not long later about meeting me somewhere.
She did message me but to say that she was stranded because of the rain storm. I was also stranded at work because of the storm. 😦
What bad fucking timing I said to myself!
It was after 2 PM and the girl had to catch a ferry for 3. So meeting up again was pretty much fucked.
Anyway, what I want to end this post with is a point I touched on in a previous article about the uselessness of phone numbers in this day and age.
Gone are the days where phone numbers and phone calls were the sole modus communique when it comes to dating and meeting up with girls.
Having her as friends on Facebook and other social-media sites, is just as good as having her #.
This girl here was a perfect example.
She doesn’t have my #, nor do I have hers. But she contacted me through Messenger about being in my town, and I was able to set up the rendezvous- through Messenger- just as if we were texting through a standardized sms app.
Most guys harp over phone numbers because. It strokes their egos. Getting a girl’s # is seen as a trophy for most guys. Hence they gun after it with reckless abandonment.
In all reality; why even try to get a girl’s # since you aren’t bound to ring her anyway?
No one calls anyone nowadays (at least not in the western world).
We shoot a text and that’s it. Push comes to shove, we have the option of calling free of charge through services such as IMO, Messenger, Whatsapp, Skype and even the Magic Jack mobile-phone app.
With that, there’s absolutely no reason for a phone number as long as you use social media! Whatsapp would be the only exception where a phone number is required. But that’s still a mute point.
Since I’m not a mental masturbator who’s satisfied with solely talking about it, I began putting this into practice over the weeks, as I demonstrated in this quick video from a day ago where I approached a girl, chatted her up, and added her on Facebook instead of getting her #.