New Neighbor Pull…Fortune Favors The Bold


Hey guys, I’m just going to post this post verbatim as I did 3 nights ago to Facebook. Afterwards, I’ll give an additional take on the matter.

So, I have a new neighbor, a chick who moved in yesterday to the house next to my apartment. As expected from a master pickup artist; I approached her last evening, chatted her up real quick and got her phone #. I haven’t called a chick’s phone in years, but I decided to ring her instead of texting last night. After about 2 minutes of small talk, she mentioned that she’s afraid to sleep alone since she’s new to the area and no one lives with her. I was like, “Ding, Ding, Ding”!!! I took the hint/cue and said to her, ” Well I live alone too. You can come upstairs to my apartment and sleep, or I come down to your house and sleep with you”. She’s like, “Fine! That would be great because I’m scared shit plus it’s dark in this area”! She then threw out a disclaimer (as expected) when she said to me, “Oh! There’s only 1 bed. So we’ll have to sleep in in together. But no sex though”. As a master seducer, I knew this was all standardized game and plausible deniability at work. So I’m like, “Sure! No sex. I’ll keep my distance on the bed”. I grabbed her a water from my fridge and went downstrairs to her yard next door. She lets me into her crib, we sat on the bed and then she began what was a 3 hour ramble about her boyfriend kicking her out, how they spent all day @ the precinct arguing over rights of certain appliances and shit. She also mentioned how her BF (ex) is likely to stalk her while we sleep. That made me a bit uneasy. 

But anyway, after 3 plus hours of ranting and blabbering, I told her to cut the damn bedroom light out because it’s blinding me. That was my cue to her that intimacy was about to go down. We got more comfortable on the bed and I told her to lie down; so we did. She kept chatting away so I playfully said, “Hush”, with my finger to her lips. All this time, my hands were resting on her hips while caressing her thighs. I slowly and gradually escalated (KINO) to sliding my hands under her shirt in order to fondle her tits…to which she didn’t resist…to my surprise. I toyed with her huge-ass nipples for a good 10 minutes. This chick literally has some of the biggest and longest nipples I’ve ever touched in my life! I’m a tit-man, so this really excited the shit out of me! While I played with her breasts with 1 hand, the free hand was rubbing her booty like R. Kelly. My dick began to get that feeling within; an erection had developed. I knew she felt that shit since I was grinding on her ass through the thin fabric of my jogging pants. Long story short- after a while- there came LMR (as expected): she began to show signs of resistance by telling me that it tickles when I breath on her neck. In other words, she was telling me that I’m too close. I backed off by discontinuing to toy with her neck. After a while, and I’m guessing this is when she got really turned on (apparent from her slight moans): she removed my hand from her tits. Remind you guys; this is totally normal(during LMR) with a girl whom you’re laying down with for the first time. She’s bound to stop you at some point from rubbing on her tits or attempting to fondle her vagina. So, I took my hand from beneath her shirt while continuing to rub her thighs with the other hand…which she allowed. Minutes later, back to her tits. She allowed then resisted by removing my hand again. At that point, I felt like saying, “Girl! You’re about to sleep alone! I’m leaving”! But I decided not to go into full-blown savage mode at that moment. In any case,  after the tug of war, I fell asleep just as she did. Woke up around 4:30 AM this morning, attempted a last-ditch effort to fuck her, but it didn’t go down, so I told her I had to get going since it was early/late and the sun was about to break soon, so she had nothing to fear since it was almost sunrise. She walked me out and that was that. 
At the end of the day, what I wish for you guys to take away from this long-ass Facebook post is pretty much 1 theme, ABA: “Always Be Approaching”! Fortune favors the bold! Surely I didn’t get to fuck this total stranger last night, but I took my chances for sure like a real man!!! So, that hot girl who lives next door to you, instead of gawking, stalking and being a pussy-ass chode of a man by not approaching her; be a real man and approach that girl!! It didn’t take 10 seconds for me to make my move once I spotted this girl from upstairs and realized how fuckable she is. I approached immediately! Went to her door, welcomed her to the neighborhood, spat a little game, got her digits and got to sleep in her bed…the same night in less than 3 hours of meeting her. “ABA”: Always Be Approaching!! No need to waste time trying to figure out the girl, trying to find out if she’s single, etc. Make a move and deal with those matters afterwards! 

Lastly, learn how to read women and the subtle cues and signs they give off (verbally and nonverbally). Surely this won’t come over night, but with vast amounts of experience with dealing with lots of women (as I have), you’ll gradually develope an acuity and 6th sense for reading women. 

Oh- lastly- as for this girl whom I met last night (my new neighbor), sure I would’ve loved to smash last night since we slept in the same bed! But sometimes, it takes time! It may take a day or 2 before the girl gets comfortable enough to want to accept your dick inside of her. So this wasn’t a failed attempt in my book. This is where Mystery’s “7 hour before the lay” principle comes into effect. A girl whom you’d just met, a sober one, is unlikely to sleep with you before spending at least 5-7 hours with you first. I had only spent 3 hours with the chick before trying to smash. So go figure. The more time spent, the more comfort built. I’m not a man who likes to waste time. If I get a girl’s # today, I’m expecting to fuck her…today! This clearly doesn’t always work out, but it is the thought, mindset and frame that counts (rapid escalation theory). 

Lastly, there are tons of reasons why a girl may not sleep with you at a given time. Perhaps she’s on her period, and she’s feeling all yucky and dirty. Hence, never think that the girl is resisting because of anything on your part. 

#ABA

#AlwaysBeApproaching

#ColdApproachBandits

#FortuneFavorsTheBold

#GetThatGirl

#MasterPickupArtists

Interesting stuff huh?

The lessons here are many, and very instrumental for those who desire to become masters at this.

I however want to briefly tackle the subject of proactivity and rapid escalation, otherwise known as KINO.

There’s nothing to lose in moving swift as a lizard-hawk on its prey. In fact, you should move swiftly.

This is why in pickup we aggressively harp on the 3-second rule, and that you should approach the girl as soon as you spot her!

The more time you allow to just sail by, the greater the chance of losing the girl.

As for rapid-sexual escalation, that should also become your rule of thumb.

When in the company of a girl, being a pussy about putting your hands on her, will ultimately cause you to lose the girl.

I have a theory which I’d been peddling for ages: it is best to be perceived by the girl as a guy who goes after what he wants (sex), than someone who’s afraid to go for it. Even though you may have a failed attempt just as I seemingly did with this girl; a the end of the day, she will respect my game and willingness to gun for what I want unabashedly!

On that note, you will enjoy the follow-up post to this one.

New Neighbor Pull…Part II [It’s Not You; It’s The Girl]



Last night now, the chick who lives in the house beside my apartment, hits me up.

The initial message is mines, from 3 days ago, when I shot her a message after getting her #. That was the same night I slept with her…in her bed that is.

Now, here is a subsequent status I posted minutes after having that text exchange with her.

With that; it’s never you!

When the chick gave me massive LMR the first night I slept in her bed (which was the same night I got her #), I didn’t freak out and beat myself up about it.

Sure I was disappointed. But not distraught nor befuddled.

I knew there was something going on beneath the surface, outside of my control (as it always is): which was her menstrual cycle.

Here’s the deal: when a girl is on her period, she feels yucky, nasty and dirty! She will NOT fuck you, unless you are someone such as her long-term boyfriend, or you convey to her (in some way) that you are totally fine with shagging down while she’s bleeding.

Now, because of that (her yucky feeling), if y’all 2 were to be lying in bed, she will resist your sexual advances by all means! And she’s not going to tell you that it is because of her period as to why she cannot or doesn’t want to have sex. You have to be smart enough to figure this out on your own.

Anyway, she was clearly open to having me come over last night and sleep with her again.

Why though!?

I refuse to visit and lie in bed with a girl who’s on her period. Not because it’s yucky. Shit- I’ve banged girls on their period quite a number of times before. So it isn’t something I find to be a deal-breaker. But if I know ahead of time that the girl is menstruating, I will NOT meet up with her.

Hence, I flaked on the neighbor last night.

All in all guys, I just want to remind you that this is a total stranger whom I’d cold approached 3 nights ago upon the realization that I had a new neighbor in the yard next to my apartment.

I spotted her outside doing some cleaning on the porch, so I approached within 2 seconds (not even thinking), go her digits and was able to sleep in her…that same night!

Surely I didn’t get the lay, but that is a mute point to the bigger picture.

ABA!!! “Always Be Approaching”!

Close Calls Sting As Much As Rejections

Guys whine constantly about having to face rejection.

What about those close calls?

Ok- I admit- having close calls is actually a quality problem in a sense…but it sucks nevertheless.

Over the last 6-8 weeks, I can undoubtedly say that I’ve had 1 or 2 close calls per week…so that would be anything between 6 to 12 girls over the past 6-8 weeks whom I didn’t manage to lay by the skin of my teeth.

By “close calls”, I don’t mean getting a phone number, setting up a date and having the girl flake or stand me up.

That isn’t a close call.

By “close calls”, I mean either actually lying in bed with the girl, or at least being at her home getting hot and heavy on the sofa, to then have something or someone spoil the sex opportunity.

For instance, about a week back, I got this sexy MILF to my PUA-pad [first time for the year having a girl come back to my place].

As we lie on the bed while I cupped her breasts, the expected LMR [Last-Minute Resistance] materialized where she said to me, “We just met”. In other words; we are moving too fast.

I run the usual LMR troubleshooting tactics [back off then re-engage the girl], began to cup her breasts again while I kissed her gently on the neck and shoulders, ramping up the foreplay ritual leading to penetration.

Before that could happen: her phone rings.

It was the boyfriend.

According to her, he isn’t actually a boyfriend but someone she’s seeing…but that’s another story for another time [most girls will find it convenient to disown their boyfriends when doing wrong].

She allowed the call to go to voicemail [great job hunny] and the romancing proceeded.

Some minutes later, she gets a text message from the boyfriend saying something to the tune of “the kids are up so you need to come put them back to bed”.

Her excuse for escaping the house at that time was that she had a PTA meeting to attend…which was a falsified reason nevertheless 😈

She put away the phone and we resumed the slow action.

I urged her to send him a message in order to buy some time rather than outright ignore his texts and calls which may cause some suspicions.

At times, you have to really think for women because they fail to think for themselves; especially when in heat.

She took heed and sent him a text saying she’ll be there soon…the meeting is taking longer than expected. 😈

Sensing urgency upon us, I knew that I had very limited time to get dick into vagina so I sped up the escalation.

Phone rang once more.

It was the boyfriend again.

“FACK”!!!!!!!!!

Girl answers and said “I’m coming now”.

Coupled with the LMR and boyfriend’s constant calling: I knew the bang opportunity was lost.

Had this had been an ongoing fling or a fuck-buddy, I would’ve simply slid my cock into her vaj and fucked her as fast as possible. But because I never slept with her before, I had to deal with Last-Minute Resistance and the like…which made it that much more difficult to just take the cock out and penetrate her.

Girl: “I have to go. Kids are up and they won’t stop hegging unless I put them to sleep”.

Thus another close call.

I’ve had about 8 of these with 8 different girls over the last 5-6 weeks.

I never get butt-hurt about close calls, simply because they are a part of the process of dating and mating.

Missed opportunities should be expected.

However, those are just some of the quality problems you will undoubtedly encounter as you begin to meet and bed more girls. Just as you will have to deal with more flakes than usual, you will also have to deal with more situations of Last-Minute Resistance and botched sex opportunities.

This reminds of a field report from back in April.

The Easiest Approach To Getting Easy Sex With Tons Of Hot Girls

“Attaining Sex Becomes Easier With A Certain Hack In Mindset”!

Yesterday, I’d posted a video of the Australian seduction coach, James Marshall, at the 21 Convention, speaking about women wanting sex and how society sees women for wanting sex.

If you’re familiar with the pickup/seduction community’s ideology, you would’ve already known very well that 1 of the key pieces of knowledge shared within this underground community about women, is that society views promiscuous women as sluts and harlots for having sexual desires and for wanting to fornicate, i.e. fuck!

Every guy on the planet is well aware of this disparity and quasi-double standard stacked against women.

On 1 hand: men can have sex freely.

Women get crucified for even harboring thoughts of sexual liberalism.

Men on a whole, as members of society of course, foolishly judge women as sluts and in turn, try to, or hope to sleep around with women liberally, while those same foolishly judgmental men get rejected constantly upon their sexual advances.

At the end of the day, men fail to see the underlying reason as to why they cannot get laid.

Well, I’m here to break the news to you that arguably 1 of the biggest reason why you aren’t getting pussy, isn’t your looks, isn’t your lack of capital, isn’t your dick size, but your judgmental attitude towards women who desire to sleep around.

Allow me to highlight a few powerful-keynote quotes from James Marshall’s speech:


“When you get good with women, you will almost always here these words coming from here just before she has sex with you, “Just so you know- I’m not that kinda girl”. Or, “I don’t usually do this”.

Maybe she doesn’t! But they all feel the need very very regularly to say these words to you.

Now, what I do here is something very sneaky but it ties into her fears here.

Girl says, “I can’t have sex with you. I’m not that type of girl”. Or, “I’m a good girl”.

And I’d say to her, “I know. You have a really good heart…I can see that”.

Now, what have I done in that moment? It’s sneaky but it also demonstrates a lot about my understanding of women.

She said, “I’m a good girl so that’s why I can’t have sex with you tonight”.

I’ve redefined what it means to be a good girl. Because she’s thinking, “If I have sex with this guy right now, he’s gonna think I’m a slut or bad girl. Or I’m not valuable”.

And I’ve said to her [insinuated], “Whether or not you decide to have sex with me or not, is irrelevant in terms of my judgment of you as a person”.

I said to her, “I can see that you have a good heart…that’s why I like you”.

If she have sex with me, that’s not going to affect that. In fact- that’s going to increase my respect for her.

Therefore, she feels okay about doing what she actually wants to do.

If you want to be a man who has a lot of sex in your life, then you’re going to need to be able to wield a very powerful sword…which is the sword of non judgment.

You are going to have to show women that you understand that they have sexual desires”.

Those were some very powerful insights to say the least.

As James stated, lf you start to show a woman that you understand that this world is complicated for her, particularly in her sexual relationships, and you give her reassurance that whenever she’s with you, none of that judging shit matters…that is a major relief for a woman.

The reality is, most of us men will judge, and have been judging women for ages, based on their sexual history or sexual freedom.

Posting shit to your Facebook, Instagram or anywhere else online, about women being easy, slutty, and reckless with their vagina [though true], will instantly send out a red flag to girls who would’ve otherwise taken you on as a sexual option.

Lots of guys ruin their chances for sex simply by what they post on social media, thrashing women in general for sleeping around.

If you call Kim Kardashian a whore for man-hopping quicker than a basketball being passed around the court during full-court pressure, then imagine what you’ll think/say about the no-name Jane who also enjoys dick-hopping.

Chicks are very keen on these subtle signals as warnings to be aware of certain men [the clueless judgers].

For reference sake, if you were to have access to my Facebook timeline, whenever I do post about women [which is every 9 in 10 posts by the way], it is always in acceptance of their sexual liberty and freedoms to sleep around.

My postings are never to bash, shame and berate women who are promiscuous. But to strategically take the opposite approach to encourage all girls to embrace their sexual history. Also to reassure them that “Kenny doesn’t judge”.

One of my more recent Facebook post reflects this perfectly.

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Now, if in every post you make to Facebook, includes the new buzz word “Thot”, you’re essentially shooting yourself in the foot by inadvertently alienating and rejecting 99% of women within your Facebook or social-media circle.

I am definitely not implying that every girl is a model of virtue.

However, even the non-slutty girls will become turned off and wary of your thot thrashing and slut shaming.

Same ramifications apply whether you’re in person or over the internet.

Women, though they hate each other, and hate on each other with fervent venom, they will almost always find common grounds to stick together whenever they come under attack by some AFC [Average Frustrated Chump] who’s innately bitter that girls won’t sleep with him [go figure].

Now, the question is this: how many of you guys regularly fall victim to public slut-bashing to some degree or another”?

Just as I’ve though: every one of you.

Interestingly enough, guys who claim to be spiritual and religiously inclined, are also not exempt at all, just because they don’t go the extent to use colorful language in order to slut-shame and put women down.

Merely posting to your Facebook that “some girls are good, and some are bad”, is enough ammunition to keep girls away from you…though you might be a quintessential nice guy who really means no harm.

I also see quite a number of postings from such religious men, who seem to be under the illusion that women will genuinely take their side in the case of separating so-called good girls from the rotten apples.

Having the idea implanted in your head that some women are sexually virtuous while others are sexually defile [which is true], is almost always a fool’s game to play with yourself.

Whenever a girl first meets a guy, or even if he’s someone she’s already familiar with, especially someone she fancies, she consciously and subconsciously screens and scans for certain things beneath the surface:

“If I fuck this guy; will he judge me afterwards and deem me an easy whore”?

This is a question she would like to have a fucking answer to in order to have closure to proceed or decline!

If she only senses for a nanosecond that you’re the kind of guy who will scandalize her publicly, or secretly harbor shameful feelings towards her [about sleeping with you], then she will NOT fuck you!

On top of that: she will never tell you the reason why she won’t go to bed with you [obviously so].

Now, reflect on this for a minute.

How many pussy have you allowed to slip out of your hands over the years, due to no egregious fault in your game, but for the simple fact that the girl didn’t trust that you will not publicly (or privately) shame her for sleeping with you?

Whether you believe it or not, or fail to see it, you auto-reject 80% of the women whom you didn’t manage to sleep with…assuming you have at least 1 ounce of verbal skills in which to communicate with a girl.

Most guys auto-reject girls without realizing it.

Thus, you can have at your disposal all of the nifty tricks and PUA tactics known to man, they will still come to naught as long as you’re stuck in the slut-shaming house of death.

As James Marshall pointed out in his speech at the 21 Convention hosted by Anthony Johnson, whenever a girl gives him [LMR] Last-Minute Resistance before having sex with him for the 1st time, he counters this by assuring the girl [via subtle insinuations] that he trusts her heart.

Photo courtesy of www.thejamesmarshall.com
Photo courtesy of http://www.thejamesmarshall.com

As a piece of advice for you guys, you don’t necessarily have to have colorful and artful words to communicate to a girl that she can trust you to not judge her poorly after sex, or if sex does materialize.

Simply saying to the girl: “I’m not the type of guy to judge women for what they say and do”, will suffice.

You don’t truly have to believe this neither…which is the hidden beauty.

Listen- at the core of it all- all men judge women!

All men of sane reasoning, make distinctions between sexually good girls and sexually rotten ones.

Having such a defined line is a natural part of the mating game.

I’m not exactly telling you to do away with such beliefs about women and sex.

Just that you should be wise enough to keep them to yourself.

“Aha”!

Therein lies the magic!

It is just to keep your mouth shut when it comes to your not-so-pleasant views about women who sleep around.

As hard as I push the “No woman is a slut” mantra, in alignment with the Pick-Up Community’s stance on the subject, I more than anyone know that sluts exist and they are highly active in all areas of society.

However, I’m smart enough to keep my slut-shaming to myself, or at least confine it to my circle of bros within the pick-up sphere.

You’ll never see me post anything to social media which blatantly signals to women that I judge them based on their sexual history; past, recent or present.

Once again, this isn’t because I’m drunk off of naivete and have my head buried in the sand about the obvious [that sluts exist].

It is simply a matter of strategy in getting the girl comfortable with her sexual desires by opening up without fear of being persecuted.

Hence, there are only 2 things a girl truly requires from you in order to go to bed comfortably with that decision:

1.) Trust

2.) Comfort

“Trust”, in that you won’t think bad or less of her in the end.

“Comfort”, in that she can become comfortable in expressing her true self to you.

Everything else besides those 2 prerequisites will have just been sprinkles on top of the ice cream.

All in all, when you come across posts and articles of mines with attached screenshots for illustrative purposes, 1 of the subtle plot lines beneath the surface as to why and how I get these hot girls to chase me so hard, is everything I’d expounded upon within this article: I make women feel comfortable about being dirty-little sluts! 😈 😈

I make girls feel at ease with the idea of cheating on their boyfriends.

By simply not coming off as a judgmental guy in relation to women and promiscuity, I set the stage where trust and comfort are instantly built.

I don’t view women who cheat as “cheaters”.

Well actually- I do! But I would never share that piece of information with any girl whom I’m planning to seduce and take to bed.

When interacting with a girl who has a boyfriend, that reality will almost always lingers in the back of her mind that she has a boyfriend [or husband]. Hence, the slightest move on the guy’s part will almost always cause the girl to go: “I have a boyfriend”.

It is sort of a defense mechanism in order to protect her outward perception and social value.

However, when you can artfully communicate to the girl that having a boyfriend yet feeling sexual attraction for another, isn’t a crime, and it is actually normal, the girl will have become at ease with the idea of fucking you…though she has someone at home.

She just needs assurance [subtly] that you won’t fuck her over in the end by exposing her as a cheating harlot.

This can be achieved in various ways with verbal gambits such as saying things to the girl [during casual chitchat while getting acquainted] like:

“Society is hard on women when it comes to choices and their decisions to live their life however they want”

“I never call girls cheaters. Cheating is such a dirty word for someone feeling sexual desires for someone else”

“Promiscuity isn’t a crime”

“I respect all women when it comes to their decisions in life”

“Why should women be stoned for cheating? Shit happens”!

Now, as I stated earlier; you don’t have to truly believe any of this!

Just as long as the girl hears it from you, it’ll make her a lot comfortable with the idea of casual sex, one-night stands and cheating.

Any woman-bashing opinions you have: keep them far from the girl you’re trying to get with.

When you would have done this successfully, you will realize how women react differently towards you and your sexual advances.

Furthermore, having skills with women is great! But without the proper mindset to go along with it, it’s like building a house without a reasonably solid foundation.

If you haven’t seen it already, feel free to check out the very-long speech from James Marshall on the topic of how to get a woman comfortable with sex.

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