The Grind Caught Up To Me [Canceling On Girl]

​Was so tired so early last night, I had to cancel on this chick who wanted to come over and rub my furry back. 

Note to self: I have to find a way to pace my nights better, or else I’ll have to resort to downing a pint of coffee just to try to stay up on nights that I end up going home early. 

By the way guys; I call every girl “babes”, and half of them call me babes…likewise.

[My texts in green]

Basically, as they wuld say in the U.K. : I was knackered! 

I was actually at the bar taking it light as possible. Grabbed me something to eat, with no intentions of seeing the corridors of my apartment for the rest of the night.

By 8 o’clock though, I just couldn’t manage to stay out. And since this chick had texted me about coming over, I didn’t mine going home to await her arrival. 

In any case, that obviously didn’t materilize since I canceled on her from being so tired.

Be as it may, the dating grind gets so hectic at times that a crash and burn period is inevitable.

Would You Flake On A Girl [Stand Her Up] Just To Build Anticipation?


Do I play head games?

I wouldn’t go so far as to say I do.

I prefer to classify my stuff as tactical approaches rather than trickery and head games. But that’s neither here or there.

Anyway, so I was supposed to meet up with this girl over the weekend (last weekend), but I decided to flake on her at the 11th. hour.

Just to feign somewhat slick, I contacted her as if I were the victim of her flakery, when indeed, I flaked on her.

By the way, when I broke the news to her that “I didn’t get to make it yesterday, nor today”, I was referring to my customary weekend trek by ferry to her side of the island.

Reminder: I stood her up, but I pretended as though she stood me up.

[My txts in green. Hers in white]

Basically, I fibbed a bit.

I did buy a bike and birthday-party stuff for my daughter. But that was this weekend; not last weekend when I flaked on this chick.

When she mentioned making it up to her, I sort of made a promise to her that I wouldn’t fap pending our rendezvous.

This chick is totally DTF as I’ve ever seen a DTF chick before.

Okay, so why did I flake on her at the last second: 2 nights in a row essentially?

Clearly as the post title reveals: I wanted to build the anticipation out the roof.

This chick was ripe for the picking last weekend but I felt that I could’ve amplified the tension and anticipation even more by flaking.

I Flaked On A DTF Girl Friday Afternoon [Frame Battling Over Taxi Fare]


Friday noonday, I hit up a chick whom I’d cussed out and nexted a few months prior, for coming at me like a gold-digging whore.

I knew she was totally into me, so although I cussed her out and blocked her months back, contacting her Friday afternoon, I knew that she would be open to seeing me.

In fact, here is the last time she’d contacted me back in April, subsequent to me cussing her out for approaching me like a gold-digger.

Notice the time stamp said April 16 with her accompanying text in gray. That was the last time we communicated.


Thursday which was the 6th, I hit her up that night but she didn’t get back to me.

Since I’d blocked her on Whatsapp and Facebook, I wondered how else I would be able to reach her.

“IMO”!!!

I then hit her up on IMO Messenger and crossed my fingers and hoped that she’d reply [my texts in blue. Hers in white].


Apparently, she was down for meeting me, and was engaging me on IMO.

She then rings me and begged me to unblock her # on Whatsapp…so I did.

What that exchange was about is she was telling me (via voice notes in white) that if I want her to come over, I would have to pay for her cab fare.

Generally, I wouldn’t mine this!

What’s a cab fare for a lay?

However, I was broke as far as cash was concerned. I had to go to the ATM, but I had no intentions to do that until later on that day.

With that, I was expecting her to pay for the cab and I would reimburse her later on.

She then tried to convince me that I told her over the phone (minutes prior) that I would pay for the cab.

I never fucking agreed to pay for her cab fare!

She was trying to impose that shit upon me!

I don’t stand for such opportunistic shit from women. So I got really offended by her audacity.
[My texts in green]

She relented and agreed to paying her own cab fare. But at that point, I was already turned off by her attempt at frame battling me, especially knowing that we had a fallout back in April due to the same bullshit.

Hence, I decided to stand her up by ignoring her calls and texts.

I posted the following to Facebook.

It’s not about the lousy cab fare. It’s the principle.

Don’t try to fucking hustle me!

Don’t try to get over on me!

Don’t try to use your feminine charms in an attempt to muscle me into paying for shit: doesn’t matter if it’s a $2 soda!

In fact, I wouldn’t mine if she’d said to me that she doesn’t have the cab fare (which is unlikely), and she would like to know if I could pay.

Give me an option! Don’t demand shit! Don’t demand I pay!

Thus, I called off a sure sure lay on the grounds of principles and shit that I stand for…no matter how fuckable the girl is (pictured below).

With options in women, you learn to take way less bullshit.

This is a byproduct of having abundance.

Perhaps I may finally meet up with her down the line, and finally smash her since she’s DTF. But for now; she’s back on the back burner for rubbing me the wrong way…hence the reason I flaked on her Friday noonday.

Kenny Flakes On Horny-Hot Girl Over The Weekend


This chick I met on Facebook few months back was really dying to finally hang out with me over the weekend.

Unfortunately, I had to brush her off ’cause I was just too busy with other chicks.

There are lots of horny women out there going to bed lonely @ night…or stroking themselves to bed.
[My messages in blue]

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