Revenge Of The Bearded Men

Once upon a time in the seduction genre, the bearded guy was looked down upon with scorn, disdain and ridicule.

If you were bearded: you were deemed un-dateable.

there were no bearded figure (of prominence) in the seduction community apart from Paul Janka.

Paul Janks: seduction guru

Paul Janks: seduction guru

Having a full beard + scruff was unheard of and seen as bad grooming, tasteless and a lack of style and social intelligence. Hence 99.9 % of the instructors in this genre of seduction were either clean-shaven or wore a very light beard and goatee.

I’d never worn the clean-shaven look [no beard, no mustache]…sorta gives men a pedophile look if you ask me. So I always kept a beard & goatee but the remaining facial hair was completely wacked off.

Prior to just 6 months ago, I would’ve strangled you had you ever insisted that I should grow my sideburns with connected facial hair on both sides- or even the neck-beard look.

However, over the last 5 months, I’ve been rocking out in my full-bearded profile, not giving a shit about social and societal norms and implications nor what anyone thinks. 😯

Kenny going rogue

Kenny going rogue

It’s a liberating feeling to not have to fucking shave or hit the barbershop every few days…plus I get to penny-pinch $20 which I can instead spend on booze! πŸ˜‰

Ok, so what attributed to this shift in the Pickup/Seduction community among the coaches, instructors and gurus: from clean-shaven to semi to fully bearded?

My rigid hypothesis leaves me to surmise that It’s a rebellion against the mainstream media of dating.

The mainstream-dating world has it that a guy ought to be well-groomed or clean-shaven in order to become a viable candidate on the proverbial-dating market.

The PUA Community ate this up like a fat kid in a candy store, hence the reason why prior to 2 years ago, 99% of the PUA blogs were saturated with articles encouraging guys to get those razors and trimmers out if they wanted to attract women and make it to pussy-banging paradise.

We were frikkin’ duped! 😯 😑

With the re-emergence of the dominant Alpha-Male character perhaps 2 and a half years ago, guys in Pickup quickly started to drift away from the beard-less avatar towards adopting the manlier-caveman profile.

As much as I hate to admit, my nemesis RooshV might have been onto something with his consistent adherence to the bearded-Alpha profile, while steering clear of being sucked into the mainstream narrative that a man should be cleanly shaved as to facilitate his journey to pussy-paradise.

RooshV; Turkish-American game-coach out of Washington, DC

RooshV; Turkish-American game-coach out of Washington, DC

Ok, so is this resurgence of the bearded Alpha just a passing fad?

I suppose.

However, I’ve gotten swept up into the windmill for the past 5 months. So much so that I only been to the barbershop once, when prior, I was going every weekend religiously since growing a bear over 15 years ago.

My girlfriend steady busts my chops trying to get me to shave it all off but I won’t budge. 😑 πŸ˜‰

My boss inquires as to the recent-rogue look while subtly insinuating that I would look more attractive chopping it off, but my resolve is strong and I really DGAF! πŸ™‚

I have an electrical trimmer at home which I use to level my beard and keep it at a reasonable length. But apart from that; I wear a full set of facial hair.

Other note-worthy guys in the community who have recently, or for a while now, gone rogue: Liam McRae (Australia), Johnny Berba (of England), James Marshall (Australia), Ace (California, USA), RSD Julien (Switzerland), Nick Sparks of New York, USA (my nemesis)…just to name a few PUA coaches around the globe.

Liam-Mcrae

Liam-Mcrae

James Marshall

James Marshall

Jay Ace

Jay Ace

Johnny Berba

Johnny Berba

RSD Julien (of Switzerland)

RSD Julien (of Switzerland)

Nick Sparks

Nick Sparks

The guy who really did it for me though, was the Pickup guru RSD Owen.

RSD Owen/Tyler

RSD Owen/Tyler

After he went rogue some years ago and his game skyrocketed 1,000%, I was like “WTF; so having facial hair isn’t bad for your game”!? 😯

My reality was fucking shattered like a fallen chandelier from 3 stories high!

Now, are there lessons here for us?

Sure!

The most important 1 is what I’ve been heavily preaching on this website over the past 6-9 months: “Social Deviance”!

Whichever way you’d like to term it; it’ll be a fundamental PLUS to your overall game and attraction value when you can deviate from what society considers normal to then going against that perceived norm.

Sounds radical?

Lemme explain!

Being a social rebel is a tremendously powerful statement with loaded-attraction value that gets those little vaginas of sexy women pulsating and flowing like Niagara Falls on its most fluent days!

It’s not about having facial hair per say which gives you an advantageous edge. It’s the implications and the fact that you’re willing to against the grain.

I wrote about this before, where on a personal level, I made a note-worthy observation in respects to my results with women, and the conclusive findings were staggering: 😯

I got laid 60% more when I donned the scruffy-bearded look than when well-groomed and shaved.
Did you fucking hear that!?

I said I got laid far more as a bearded bad ass than when I had fewer facial hair which was kept neatly trimmed!

I’m not gonna get into why having facial hair gets you laid more [that’s for another article] but it involves sex, primates and animals…and no it isn’t bestiality you sick muthafuckers! πŸ™‚

It’s actually rooted deeply in human evolution [pretty fucking deep huh?].

Digressing…

Basically, my lay count shot up when I effectively had an older appearance (bearded) in contrast to my shaved avatar.

This totally annihilates the common myth that the younger you look (facially), the more attractive you’ll look to women, hence the more you’ll attract women and effectively get laid more.

Let’s not even get too deep into the subject of human evolution but it’s undoubtedly clear that throughout history (pre- and modern), the bearded man was deemed manlier, more attractive and simply- well- a real man of course.

After all, the only thing which visibly separates and distinguishes a boy from a man is the growth of facial hair. So it shouldn’t be surprising to hear me say that a guy who looks unkempt should get laid more than a guy who looks as though he’d skinned a baby’s ass and superimposed its skin onto his face to give himself a glossy countenance. 😯

As for detractors and men who will say: “But Kenny, girls tell me that they love men who are clean-shaven and are turned off by dudes with facial hair”!

To that- Kenny says: “STFU”! 😯

Need a common analogy which makes it crystal clear that you should never listen to women?

Chicks say that they love prince-charming nice guys yet they don’t fuck nice guys. Instead, they’re out fucking Fernando, the bearded asshole auto-mechanic who hasn’t had a bath in 10 days, doesn’t change his clothes and hasn’t seen a razor in a month! Or they’re fucking the bearded rebel with stinky-breath who does nothing but puff cigarettes and chug beers for a fucking living!

Hence, if your barometer for measuring success in dating and hooking-up, is based on what women claim they want, then you might as well castrate yourself NOW! 😯

A little word of advice: whatever a woman says she likes, loves or wants and is attracted to; always look at the antithesis (the opposite) as true.

Ok I’ll admit- “ALWAYS” might be a slight overstatement so I’ll restate that by saying “almost always”; 80% of what women say they want and like in dating and in men, should be highly contested and contradicted.

You might wanna read this super insightful and controversial article of mines which a month ago, had made it to the front page of Reddit, pulling in a whopping 10,000 views in less than 24 hours of being posted there…and that was just the first few hours of 2 weeks worth of viral traffic. My blog literally crashed for some hours from the sheer influx and volume of traffic in such a short-time span from 1 source!

For an article or post to make it to the front page of Reddit [the odds are like the lotto], it has to either be super controversial or highly insightful. That viral article of mines had much of both, so I advise every guy to read it after you will have read this article!

Women are transient creatures who live in the moment- for the moment. The linked post on Reddit: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1xu9qb/women_are_transient_creatures_of_the_moment_a/

The gist of the article was that women really don’t have a clue of what they want or like. She may claim to exclusively date men over 6 feet yet with a little research, you’ll be shocked to find out that she’s banging a 5’8 club-promoter.

Ok, back to the subject at hand: how long will this social rebellion of the bearded men lasts before infiltration by shady characters aka internet-marketing gurus?

I have no idea. But while it’s here; I’m gonna fucking enjoy the proverbial decline to the fullest!

Kenny's current-bearded look

Kenny’s current-bearded look

As tribute to the bearded men who brought this to the awareness of many during the years of the seduction community’s peak to present, I’ll leave you with some interesting videos on the topic, such as the following from Paul Janka, which speaks to the issue of communicating sex with women.

Hidden-camera video from Janka running day-game pickup.

As another tribute to the bearded seducer, an instructional video from James Marshall (of Australia) as he demonstrates attitude and skills over looks.

Also, a video from RSD Owen/Tyler, the guru who indirectly encouraged me to take the plunge, speaks of breaking your self-image paradigm and perception and tying that into getting laid and so forth.

Another great video from the bearded ginger [Tyler] which encapsulates the “social rebel” frame which gets guys laid.

Can’t forget one of my favorite bearded caricature: RSD Julien. Pertinent video on being breaking social norms and being comfortable in that skin.


All in all, you will have learned from this post and videos that looks don’t matter but attitude and self-perception do. And the reason you fail and suck with women is due to your self-imprisonment by society, women and the mainstream media which convince us that we have to conform in order to have women in our lives when it’s actually the opposite.

The more you believe looks matter and that you need to fit a certain quota that society sets; the more you’ll get fucked out of your dating potential.

Ciao!

Become A Sexier Man: 4 + Outer Components [video included]

Want to become a guy who’s perceived as a sexy man by his peers [hot girls included]?

Who the hell wouldn’t!?

I empathize with you on the basis that I was once a very un-sexy man.

The belief that you’re a sexy man is the first step in the right direction.

Furthermore, which barometer will actually be utilized to measure and discern whether you’re a sexy man or need some work in that department?

When women jokingly say stuff to you like:

“Hey Jimmy, you think you’re God’s gift to mankind”!

“You think you’re all that”!

Have you ever heard such idioms coming your way from women?

If not; you have some work to do…continue reading!

1.) Walking-Swag Factor

Is your Swag turned on or barely making its presence known?

Honestly, I hate the term “Swag” because it has become 1 of those cliche sound bites and pretty-much misused.

Nevertheless, we can all agree that swagger in one’s mannerism and movements is a sexy tool to have in a guy’s arsenal.

Now, how do you put this into action?

Take stock of the manner in which you walk: meaning your hands, shoulders and head movements.

Are you (too) stiff and (up)tight?

Perhaps.

Ok, so that’s something you need to tweak pronto!

A.) Get your hands moving while walking (opposed to being held stationary at your side)!

B.) While walking, slightly swing your arms and shoulders in a swaying motion [don’t over exaggerate this].

C.) While walking, instead of keeping your head straight-ahead, always look left to right while slightly and slowly turning your head simultaneously as you take a quick stock of what’s to the left and right of you.

Incorporate the A, B and C’s of walking with swag.

2.) Slow Motion

In conjunction with #1, you want to slow down your movements.

This may be difficult for you to manage at first, especially if you’re living in a congested city where you’re accustomed to “hustle and bustle”.

It took me a while to slow down, being used to the fast pace of New York City where I grew up and lived virtually my entire life.

Also, Brits have the tendency to move like speeding-bullets as they walk. I’ve never come across a set of individuals who can out-walk Brits (especially the women). 😯

This is very un-sexy and incongruent (for a man to be moving this way if he doesn’t have to).

You want to create the impression as though you’re walking in slow motion or under water.

Think astronauts in space.

Literally- walk in slow motion!

Hustling and hurrying indicate nervousness, antsiness, social awkwardness and jitters: 4 sure-fire components of anti-sexy.

3.) Standing Sexy

The way in which you position yourself as you stand.

The other day while brewing a cup of Joe at my grandma’s house, the stove area is so congested with discarded appliances, I had to contort my body in order to fit semi-comfortably through there.

Where am I going with this?

I took note of my torso positioning and immediately felt like I was standing atop Mt. Everest surrounded by hoards of hot women propping me up. πŸ™‚

When standing, your hip or torso area should be pushed outwards or to 1 side opposed to standing straight up [if you get my illustration], whereas your body would take on a sort of “S” letter shape instead of an of I.

Sorta like the image below where the guy’s entire upper body slants:

Point is, you don’t want to stand straight up as a statue (though your shoulders and back should be straight up and back and not hunched over).

Men who radiate sexy generally assume this posture while chatting with women, or simply while in the zone (if you know the feeling).

This position is great to hold whenever leaning against something (the bar counter, a wall, etc).

You never want to be standing straight as a stick [an “i”].

4.) Assume The Letter “A” Position

In conjunction with #3 [“S” shape], you also want to assume the “A” stance.

Presuming there’s no physical structure in which to prop yourself against (while talking to someone), this is when you assume the shape of the letter “A”.

Once again, you want to avoid a tight and restrictive-body posture by standing with your legs apart; not vertically but at an angle.

This stance [the A] exhibits comfort and confidence, while a straight-up stance is the antithesis (opposite): uncomfortable and non-confident.

Bonus Tip: Foot Against Structure

Assuming there’s a structure in which you can prop yourself up against: lean against it (also while talking to women).

This video from Chris (Good-Looking Loser) demonstrates how powerful it is to lean back against an available structure while chatting up a girl.

However, incorporate the “1 foot against the wall” stance as the photo of myself illustrates below.

Not only is this sexier [according to women], but it comes off as confident and comfortable in the environment and the interaction.

Examples From The American-Political Arena

Mitt Romney is the poster-child of non-sexy, un-calibrated and someone with very poor mannerisms and idiosyncrasies which turn women off.

On the other hand, Barack Obama, a younger Bill Clinton and Rick Perry (of Texas), just to name a few, are great examples of guys with swagger, sex appeal and great movement.

Rick Perry never moves too fast, turns his head slowly and also speaks slowly [speaking slowly is confident while rushed is the opposite].

A younger Bill Clinton’s the same: deliberate movements, walks with swagger and a pep.

Barack Obama, just as Clinton, has swagger and a pep in his step with the added shoulder motions.

Mimic those 3 guys’ movements while avoiding Mitt Romney’s like the fucking plague [his body movements that is].

Before I go, a quick point which I must clue you in on [if you didn’t know]: A girl already knows if she’s gonna fuck you within a nanosecond of spotting you (or you spotting her).

Even before your mouth opens to utter a pick-up line or ice-breaker, she already knows whether she’ll fuck you or not.

Most guys are pre-rejected before saying a word.

Why is this?

Poor mannerisms, poor idiosyncrasies and poor-body language which equal non-sexy.

Hence, within a split second, she has already decided that you aren’t a sex-worthy candidate, not because of what you might say while approaching her, but due to your non-sexy mannerisms and body language.

Therefore, it’ll be beneficial and life-changing to fix your posture and the mode in which you walk and move around.

When in doubt: simply ask a hot girl of her honest opinion on whether you’re sexy or not. πŸ™‚

Also bear in mind: “sexy” has nothing to do with your face (features)!

Looks [facial features] do NOT fucking matter in determining whether you’re sexy, fuck-worthy or not!

Sexiness or sex appeal, comes from within, in conjunction with one’s physiological mannerisms and body movements.

Likewise, by the way you move (physically), a girl can and will immediate judge whether you’ll suck donkey balls in bed or whether you’ll be a decent sex-partner!

Looks (the features of your face) has absolutely NOTHING to do with this split-decision making process by women.

She isn’t looking at your face to determine whether she’ll fuck you or not [face/looks has nothing to do with how masterfully you’d fuck her].

She’s sizing up [within a flash] the way you walk, move, position your hands, body, feet, torso, head, etc [subconsciously so most times].

This is why 1st. impression is key and means so much to women.

If you enter a bar in a non-sexy way [jittery, shifty, nervous…], little do you know, you will have already killed your chances with 95% of the women in the venue who might have spotted your lame entrance.

This has ZERO to do with you facial structure, how big or long your nose is, etc.

Once again, the “Looks Matter” theory has been debunked by myself: Looks don’t matter.

Lastly, this begs the question: “can I still attract women and get laid with having poor-body posture and movements”?

Sure!

It only makes your job harder, whereas if you had sexier or more fluent posture and movements, your work will have been cut out for you.

In the video below, I encapsulated every aspect of a sexier man [mannerisms] as far as body and head postures and movements are concerned.

Also some examples of un-sexy.

The Alpha-Badboy Look [that’d leave her pussy moist]

The prototype of the “Badboy” Alpha-Male which drives women crazy and soak their Barbie panties.

*The chic-badboy look has always appealed to women since the post-Great Depression times of the 1930’s.

*Also during the World War 2 era, where real men did real work (manual labor) along with warring, which subsequently attracted droves of hot lasses.

*Picture that asshole-guy puffing away at his camel cigarette at the bar while sipping on some brandy[how appealing].

*The James Bond appeal embedded with the “I’ll kill you MOFO” look!

*Women have been attracted to the bad-boy persona types since time immemorial.

*And that’s why I advocate fucking her like an animal.

*Below are few of the ideal prototype of a chic badboy.

[Photos courtesy of Justin Chung Photography, how to talk to girls @ parties.com, and Masculine Style].

*Grow your goatee with some shrubs on the side.

*Leave that hair disheveled, Mohawked or styled like The Fonze.

*Attract her by becoming her badboy, and stop being a Beta-Male Pussy!!

I’m really digging the ‘Casual’ look for the Spring season

This look says ‘Badass’20120118-092029.jpg

Long gone should be the days where men donned over-sized white t-shirts which fall below their knees, or the sleeves extend beyond their elbows [that’s just tacky]. My boy Reema wrote about this a while back.

What I’m actually feeling though as of late: The casual/preppy look. I’ve always been a versatile dresser[urban, casual, pro- to sports-look]. However, nothing says sexy as a guy who can pull off the casual look. The dating coach/PUA, Mark Manson gives a good fashion lesson in an article over at his Post Masculine blog. You can read it here.

I’m just gonna post some random pics’ of ‘the casual look’, in which I’m enamored.

I thought this was a bit too preppy but it’s doable. 20120118-092426.jpg Not the suit, jacket and blazer type. This definitely says Alpha. 20120118-093449.jpg
Dude rocks the hell out of this leather and scarf! 20120118-092733.jpg I was never a fan of short sleeves under vests, but I can pull this off and feel fashionable. 20120118-093859.jpg
Sitch got more swag than Obama!! I like the combo of urban with a touch of casual.20120118-094021.jpg I just love this dressy shirt and how the jeans compliments it. 20120118-094607.jpg I can dig this look [well-fitted leather]. 20120118-094714.jpg

Ladies, feel free to chime in. After all: we men do base our fashion on what chicks perceive as fashionable.