The first thing a guy will learn pretty fast in the world of dating is that chicks don’t approach men!
Quietly sitting at a bar with fingers crossed and hoping that hot women will just approach and open you is recipe for going home alone to watch internet porn for your sexual gratification [not that there’s a problem with that].
If in a rare case that a chick does muster the cojones to approach you, 99.9% of the time, it’ll be something so asinine and innocuous, that you wouldn’t even think that she was trying to hit on you.
However, there’s 1 true case in where a chick will approach you, open you, and compliment you.
In my last post, I wrote about a wickedly fun night at the club where girls were approaching, opening and complimenting me out of no where as if I were a fucking Rockstar!
Was it my Will Smith looks and killer muscles bulging out of my skin-tight shirt?
I’m not Will Smith, nor do I have Jersey Shore Guido muscles like Mike The Situation.
“Then how do you manage to magically get random girls to approach you in the clubs Kenny”?
Those unfamiliar with Pickup jargon, Peacocking is basically accessorizing yourself (in order to attract women).
Just as an actual peacock would in order to attract some hot peahens [if that’s even a word], the PUA does the same with the additions (accessories) to his wardrobe.
The PUA godfather, Mystery, used to peacock by painting his fingernails, wearing unusual hats, and sporting a necklace with attached pendant.
Just as a peacock gets all colorful and blooming with its feathers, a Pick-Up Artist who’s peacocking creates the same effect.
Now imagine Mystery at a bar sipping a cocktail and the nearest hot girl were to notice his polished nails.
Sheer curiosity at the abnormality (guy with painted nails) will lead her to ask, “Why do you paint your nails”?
That’s a classic example of how peacocking will sucker girls into opening you.
“Hey Kenny, How Do I Peacock In Order To Get Chicks Approaching Me”?
It doesn’t take much (nor much accessories) to effectively peacock to attract women.
A simple necklace with an attached pendant will suffice.
As you can see from my photos over the weekend, I merely had on a 2-colored beaded necklace (nothing lavish there) and a brand-new pair of shades.
That’s fucking it [as far as peacocking with accessories goes]!
A nice shirt with some artful-gothic designs or a unique jacket wouldn’t hurt neither.
Just to give a real illustration of how powerful my peacocking game was (with those 2 items only), as I walked into the nightclub, barely made it passed the bouncer, chick in red [Canadian] approaches me:
Canadian: “Hey, what does it say on your shades [meaning the label]”?
Me: “Hottest guy…[can’t remember what else I said]”.
Canadian: “Lol cool, I love your shades. I wanna take some pictures with you. Make sure you have the shades on”!
I mean, this chick literally gave me the celebrity treatment solely because she liked my peacocking item/accessory: a $40 pair of shades!
This was literally less than 1 minute in the fucking venue!
About 45 minutes later while trying my darn best to get away from the Canadian…
A tiny Guidette approaches me:
4’9 Italian girl from Connecticut
Guidette: “Hey, what does your necklace means”?
Me: “Can’t tell you. My little secret”!
Guidette: “Aah come on! What does it mean”!?
[She KINOs me by touching the necklace]
Me: “The blue is for intense fucking love”!
Guidette: “And what does the clear one symbolizes”?
Me: “A sexual charm. If you touch it, you’ll be going home with me. Plus it means intense passion”.
Guidette: “Loo well I’m very passionate and I like your necklace a lot. Where did you buy them”!?
Me: “@ K-Mart”!
Guidette: “Lol so funny and K-Mart doesn’t sell those”!
So there you go guys: within the first hour of being in the club, I had 2 random girls approach and open me.
Both DTF (Down To Fuck)!
My entire night was already cemented with sure sex within 45 minutes, and it all comes down to 2 fucking items which I wore that night:
Nights that I do go out without shades and necklace, I don’t get approached.
I didn’t need to buy drinks, flash $1,000 and buy out the bar.
It was just to wear something attractive, original and appealing enough to catch girls’ eyes.
This doesn’t just appeal to girls neither.
Just last week while running some errands to the post office, I had a guy say to me: “Hey man, cool necklace. Where did you buy it or was it hand made”?
It’s ironic what the guy did because I advise men that they should open other men too by striking up random chats about something they’re wearing [in order to become a social person]. So when this guy said that to me, I was totally impressed that he gets it!
So guys, the next time you go out, please remember to sport an interesting accessory or 2 which will possibly attract women to strike up a conversation with you.
If you don’t have any such item: then fucking buy 1!
*Interesting Necklace (made of beads, shells or string & pendant)
*Colorful bracelet (made of beads or shells)
*Cool shirt with abstract designs or something cheeky printed on it
*Cool hairstyle (like a fohawk)
Those are just few peacocking items in which I personally recommend and also wear regularly with stunning results as far as random girls coming up to me and complimenting me on the streets or at the club.
Don’t just bank on women approaching you and decide to not be proactive and approach women.
That night at the club (as every other night), I had all intentions to approach tons of girls, but it just so happened that girls were beating me to the punch.
I wasn’t going to wallflower and hope that girls would approach me because I was peacocked out.
I knew I had to be proactive regardless!
Why peacocking works so effectively boils down to colors.
Women are intrigued and fascinated by colors and abstractions (which is why they love drinking colorful cocktails) which is another way to attract them while at the bar.
Related articles written by Socialkenny PUA:
Get girls to approach you by the drink in your cup
Cool accessories for men
Wearing shades gets you laid?