Super-Rapid Online Pickup Of A Sexy MILF…From Zero Value To Making Her Chase [+ a touch of romance]


This quick Facebook pull goes back 2 weeks after I’d added this chick.

In my method, there are generally 2 approaches I use whenever pulling girls on social media (girls whom you’d added on FB for instance):

1.) Instant attack (while having no value or social proof)

2.) Lay wait while building value and social proof

Either approach depends on certain variables such as time and even my mood at the moment.

With this MILF, my intuition told me to try to pick her up ASAP, upon adding her (as she accepted).

Here’s the full interaction with breakdown between individual screenshots.

My opener was nothing elaborate or gamey at all.

My “Game” began after the opener.

Just a quick note: even if you don’t start out gaming the girl off the opener, you must crank that shit up or else you run the risk of losing her by boring her…and being friendzoned.

My only strategy here is to avoid not coming off as a needy chode. Hence I began my initial message/question by Omitting the question mark [adding question marks tend to make you look and sound needy, eager and desperate].

Additionally, pay attention to how I opened totally formal as I said I would. But then I immediate, 2 messages later, ramp up the ballsy, forward and sexual framing to begin “Game”.

Note #2: my vibe had a bit of romantic flavor at the end of the chat.

[My messages in blue]

Screenshot 1: So the opener was very neutral and non-gamey. But I wanted to set the frame from the get go that my intentions are to meet up. Noticed how I went forward immediately after my opener.

[Her messages in gray]

Screenshot 2: By telling her “we would make good cuddle buddies, I set the sexual frame EARLY” so that she knows the deal!

She kept harping on the pic, so I told her to forget the pic. That’s what you want to do whenever the girl laments on a topic that has already had its effect. Also, I show dominance and balls by doing this. Additionally, she was so shocked that I wanted her, that she had to try to make sure that it was her whom I was checking out since there were 2 women in her profile pic.

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 3: “Talk to me”, she says to me. We hadn’t even been texting for 1 minute, yet she’s already full-on attracted to my vibe to the point that she says “talk to me”. What did I do to flip that switch so hard to have a total stranger chase me within seconds? My ballsy/forward yet artful approach!

I told her I was more sexually attracted (sensually was a typo) to the girl on the right (in her profile pic)…which was her. Again, I doubled down on my “SEXUAL” interest so she doesn’t get the idea that I’m looking to be friends!

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 4: By telling her I don’t sugarcoat, I am setting a trap for her, to where she doesn’t fault me for being sexual and forward. Hence, I strategically followed up that comment with a super-sexual line about wanting to totally fuck her. πŸ™‚ She couldn’t have reacted negatively because I skillfully set the frame of someone who doesn’t sugarcoat. That simple trick of mines enabled me to render the girl sexually receptive to my forwardness.

Again: she wanted to ensure that I was speaking of her and not the other girl in her pic. This goes to show that she sees me as the chooser and the prize. She still couldn’t believe that I wanted her and not the other girl.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 5: humor, humor, humor is key! I continue to set the sexual frame since I now had immunity and permission to be sexual since I told her I don’t sugarcoat. Everything pans out perfectly because of that simple comment: “I don’t sugarcoat”.

Watch how she mirrors me (my statement) by saying “hell no”, after I’d said it. Whenever someone is attracted to another, he or she often mirrors that person (subconsciously).

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 6: she says “hell no” to being married because I said “hell no” to being married. Again- this is called “mirroring”, when a person uses the exact wording (or body language) of another. It says that you 2 are in unison and share a connection. So this was a sure IOI (Indicator Of Interest) that I’d managed to make her attracted to me from scratch.

Whenever a woman pushes rapport in such a situation, by asking questions such as, “how old are you”, it is generally an indication of her interest. BTW, I told her I was 33 instead of 34. I sometimes shave off a year. πŸ™‚

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 7: I honestly wasn’t trying to flatter her by saying 27. I had no idea she was in her 30’s.

My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 8: Women love guys who are straight up. I asked her that just to reinforce in her psyche that I’m a straight-up guy. This is also a common-psychological strategy of mines in deepening the attraction by leading the frame. Whenever a girl is significantly attracted to a new guy, she will tend to almost always agree with his frame, ideas, etc. Hence, when I asked if she likes guys who are straight-up, she said “yes”, following my lead.

When she told me she’s 36, what did I do? I used another powerful seduction tactic called “False Disqualifier”, by telling her she’s too young for me. By doing this, I am essentially blowing her off and rejecting her by saying that her age disqualifies her. This of course isn’t true, but it gives the girl a sense of loss and it makes her feel inadequate and self-conscious of her value.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 9: Again, I strategically blow her off by saying I don’t find much 37 year olds sexy…in essence. In the same breath, that comment of mines made her feel a sense of “special”, that I had chosen her. So it was an indirect compliment, hence the a-okay emoji she sent. So what did I do here? I broke her down while psychologically building her up. I indirectly told her she wasn’t my type [too young]- which was a letdown. Then I indirectly gave her a compliment for making my sexual juices flow…which gave her hope.

When I said to her, “you must be doing something right”, what was I doing here? I was establishing the frame that I, Kenny, am the prize! I am the one who chooses! She’s the one who’s vying for my approval! It wasn’t a case where I was fighting to win her. I framed it to look like she was trying to win me over by telling her she’s doing something right by getting my sexual juices flowing. She laughs “haha”, which is indicative of the fact that she knows what’s up.

Again, I double down on being the one of higher value- me that is- while she’s the one chasing me, trying to win points. Do you see how powerful this is and how I got this random stranger to chase me?

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 10: I play hard-to-get by insinuating to her that girls over FB don’t get my attention easily. What does this line do? It lets her know that I am a man of higher value who doesn’t just entertain any woman…so consider yourself lucky πŸ˜‰ .That’s the message I sent there. Her reaction was “WOW”. She was shocked to come across a guy who’s (so) selective, since 99% of men online are desperate losers who chase.

I gave her an indirect compliment by saying (indirectly) that she’s cute, and I could bet that lots of younger guys try to get with her. This is also indirect flattery. But again, I framed it in a way that made me the prize.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 11: She is now qualifying as we’d say in pickup. She’s now trying to prove to me how wanted and desired she is, when she mentioned the guys who want her, and also telling me that she has a side chick in London. Do you see what’s happening here? She’s full-on trying to prove herself to me. Additionally, why do you think she’s so comfortable with divulging such info to me, essentially not a care of running the risk of looking slutty? Because she’s comfortable since I led/set the frame early that I don’t judge women. And secondly, she’s trying to prove to me that she’s sexually worthy of my attention.

With that, she basically admitted to having a BF who’s 33, and a side chick in London: which means she’s bi-, and is cheating. She’s comfortable with saying these things to me because she sees me as an authority who doesn’t judge, and someone whom she’s trying to please.

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 12: Do I judge her for being a girl who sleeps around, or do I applaud her on her sexual liberty? I commend her by reacting in the positive by telling her that she must have a sweet pussy since she’s so desired. Most men would’ve judged the girl negatively for saying what she said, and essentially killing their chances by judging the girl.

I bring attention to a commonality by telling her that we’re in the same boat: we both have someone. Whenever a girl tells you that she has a BF or some significant other, you always want to counter/match that by telling her you also have someone! In seduction, this is called “Pre-selection”!

[[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 13: I get straight to the point so she knows that this isn’t just some endless convo to nowhere-ville. Always get to the point after you would have built enough attraction as I did!

Additionally, you may ask yourself, “but Kenny, you keep calling her babes. Isn’t that lame and cheesy? And wouldn’t the girl think you’re needy and desperate”? NO!!! It’s all about the context! I am not referring to her as “babes” in a cheesy low-value manner. I am doing so from a higher-value position in comparison to hers. Once you have a girl significantly attracted, what would otherwise see as lame, cheesy and has the potential to get you rejected, would be nullified and interpreted a positive. Also, I was setting a forward, romantic vibe.

Anyway, I let her know that I was to be in her town that coming Saturday (2 weeks ago), and we should meet up the Saturday night.

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 14: by her essentially asking where will I be staying, it was a clear indication that she’s down to meet. She knowing where the hostel/guest house is, was a huge plus on the logistical front. Also, I was assertive in my plans, that she should meet me there, on that date and time. Which guy does things this way? A guy who doesn’t get laid, or a boss who has tons of options? A boss! A boss doesn’t ask! He tells!

Also, by saying “balcony”, it offsets the impression that I was trying to say, “come over and let’s go straight to my room and fuck”! Bear in my mind that a woman’s #1 fear is to be perceived an easy slut-bag. By me strategically saying, “balcony”, it alleviates the slut aspect- because after all- we’re not going to be in an enclosed place where sex could happen. πŸ˜‰ “Who has sex on a balcony anyway”!? Be strategic!!!

[Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 15: “So soon”? Her sole reaction to me setting plans for ‘US’. Did she object to the plan at all? Or was she just asking “why so soon”? She didn’t object to the rendezvous plan. However, the reason she said “so soon”, was not only expected by me, but it is what we call “Token Resistance”. The girl IS down, yet she gives a little token/fake resistance in order to avoid looking too eager and too easily sold. With women, it is all about not looking like an easy slut. Therefore, she spouted out, “So soon”? Most guy being dummies, would’ve interpreted “So soon”, to mean that the girl is rejecting them or their plans. I knew better than that, that it wasn’t a rejection, but a psychological ploy in order to protect herself in the event of sex happening. Additionally- and this is real powerful and deep- a girl will give token resistance ahead of meeting up, as a way to disassociate herself from the burden of responsibility in the even that sex happens. She can always say as justification, “at least I questioned him…by asking ‘why so soon'”.

Read this stunning article of mines to get a better sense of this: Your secret ally to getting laid easily…”Plausible Justifiability”

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 16: Humor! Always learn to pepper in some humor into your overall game. Steer clear of serious tone, while erring more on the side of humor. Hence my line about nonalcoholic cider.

Question: what is arguably the biggest piece of advice I give you guys in relation to online game and text game? Always end it first!!! Hence why I fibbed and told her that my phone was dying. Anything just to end the conversation first! By ending things first (as the guy), you rattle the girl’s reality and perception of how things should be. Women should be the one telling the men that they (women) have to go. When you flip that script as I do, you simultaneously build massive amounts of attraction by essentially blowing the girl off and giving her a dose of her good-old medicine.

Also, I was angling to secure her # since there was no logical reason to continue building attraction when plans to meet were already set. She gladly obliged to coughing up the digits (as expected). I didn’t beg or ask for it like most guys of low-value do. I assumed the sale! I gave off the vibe that it was a given. So it’s much more confident and assertive to say, “Let’s”, when securing her phone number. By “asking”, by saying, “Can I have your #” [it makes me wanna punk just by typing that], it makes you sound like a homeless guy on the streets begging for spare chance.

Again- I looked to end thing by telling her “talk tomorrow”. Here’s the thing guys: you don’t have to actually end the chat at all πŸ˜† LOL! Merely saying it [“talk to you later”] will have sufficed with the same amount of positive impact. So, a very key tip for you guys.

To further solidify her desire to meet up, she tells me to get her champagne and not wine. So, does this chick want to see me at the designated time and place set by me? YES!! Apparently! If a girl isn’t interested, she would never dare to insist or specify some aspect of the proposed rendezvous.

Over time, you will learn how to read these subtle signs and giveaways.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 17: So, apparently, though I said I have to, “TTYL”, “chat tomorrow”; I am still messaging her. So this hearkens back to the point I made above, that you don’t actually have to end the convo at all. Just show the intent by saying so, and you could keep talking. In pickup, this subtle tactic is called a False-Time Constraint, where you falsely give the girl the impression that you’re going/leaving, only to make her panic a bit, while actually staying. Sounds innocuous but very deadly (FTC)!

I employed another 1 of my favorite and potent ploys by telling the girl that we have lots more to talk about. This technique of mines [I actually pioneered it in the pickup community] is called “Building Curiosity Loops”. There are others forms of it, but I originated this 1…at least in the seduction community. By saying to the girl that you have something to tell her, it will keep her on the hook in a state of anticipation ans suspense, wondering what it is you have in store. You’re basically forcing her to become curious…hence a “Curiosity Loop”!

How was her reaction?

Her msgs in gray]

Screenshot 18: she rejoiced by sending a puppy emoji while saying “seen”. The word “Seen”, in the Caribbean-English jargon means “I gotcha”. Hence, “seen” isn’t used as the past participle of the verb “to see” (in the Caribbean). Instead, it is used to mean “I copy that”, “I gotcha”, “Roger that”, etc.

I then strategically gave her some rationalization as to why I decide on us meeting so soon (within a week of meeting online) rather than later. What was my rationalization to her? “I don’t live here” [in her town]. I’m merely visiting. Hence, it is only logical to expedite the meetup since there’s no telling when I’ll be back in her town.

I talked about this strategy in the following video of mines.

If the girl believes to herself that you have all the time in the world to meet up; she will purposely try to put it off and drag it out as long as possible. By telling her “I’m only visiting”, it justifies my hastiness. Capiche? So, always do your best to ensure that you give the girl a sense of time is limited. Even if you have to lie to the girl in saying that you reside in another city when you truly live next door to her; DO IT!!! She won’t hold it against you (for lying) if and when she discovers that you live right in her town! In the grand scheme of things; she wants to hook up too. What is a lie if it means the facilitation of the lay? She will understand why you fibbed.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 19: As further evidence of her wanting to meet up, she hopes that I like her down-to-Earth style.

[My msgs in blue]

Screenshot 20: Feel free to compliment a girl on her PERSONALITY! Not her looks/outer beauty! In fact, 1 of the first videos that I ever posted to my Youtube channel or anywhere, detailed my format for complementing girls by using the SPA Model of complimenting, which I’d originated over 7 years ago: “Style, Personality, Attitude”! By complimenting the girl on those intangible aspects, you’ll avoid looking and sounding like a lame ass-kisser. By me telling the MILF that I love her down-to-Earth vibe, it was a compliment on a personality trait, and NOT a physical one. Here’s 1 of my first ever pick-up related video posted to Youtube years ago! This was over 5 years ago before the revolutionary HD pickup videos and fancy annotations. πŸ˜†

[My msg in blue]

Screenshot 21: I get a bit romantic in a humorous way. This is not seen as needy and weak because I’d already set an Alpha and sex-worthy framework from step 1.

When I told her “let’s sleep”, I was again telling her “bye”, but she took that to mean that I was telling her let’s actually sleep together. Hence she said “Come”. πŸ™‚ …as in come over to sleep. I think it was pretty clear that I’d managed to get her into a hook-up frame as I skillfully planned to do.

With that, it was all set: we were on for Saturday night which was a week away from that time.

The chat-to-pickup all took place on October 4th. We texted on Whatsapp (on the 6th).

[My texts in green]

She asked me to send her some pics so I did…even semi-nude shots.

Anyway, so the $ million question is: did we meet up that weekend (2 weeks ago)?

If I tell you, you won’t really believe what transpired.

If you follow my Facebook fan page, and or friends on my personal FB account, then you would’ve known what actually happened.

We did not get to meet up, thanks to the passing of hurricane Matthew which missed the island, but apparently knocked out cell services on my cellular network. 😦 😯 😑

I was fucking livid!!!

Here’s a status of mines from that same weekend!

The MILF was supposed to meet me at my guest-house on Saturday evening. But my network was down from 7 AM until upwards of 9 fucking PM the Saturday!!! Some people didn’t get service until the following morning!

Essentially, I got fucked out of almost sure poon by Hurricane Matthew and my cellphone-network provider! 😦 😑 😑

How fucking unlucky must I have been!

By the way, the cellular network name is Digicel (out of Australia), which is the most widely known and used in the Caribbean.

Girls on my Facebook weighed in on the frustration.

I could neither make, nor receive calls, nor use the internet. The only thing that was up was WIFI service and the other cell networks that Hurricane Matthew didn’t disrupt.

By the time service was restored Saturday night, it was already too late to contact the MILF to come meet me. I still tried…to no avail since her service wasn’t restored.

Luckily for options, I hit up another chick whom I’d pulled on Facebook weeks prior, she met up with me on the fly for drinks, I took her back to the hostel and got the bang notch.

A testament to the beautiful fact that learning to pick up lots of women is always the best route to take.

There it was that my Saturday plans with the sexy MILF got fucked at the last minute in unforeseen fashion. Yet I was able to still get a new lay that night by sheer luck since I didn’t even plan to meet the girl whom I laid that night. I’d messaged her in hail-mary fashion with my fingers crossed, hoping for the best.

All in all, the MILF is still down for seeing me eventually. I just don’t know when that will be.

The primary lesson I wish for you guys to take away from this article, is how potent of an instant-attraction builder it is whenever you adhere to my simple method of pickup!

It all seems complex on the surface, but it is super easy to field test and apply successfully within no time.

The problem is that most guys don’t expect to failure before they master the method.

Additionally, I want to point out an even more bigger aspect of seduction which I’d utilized in this online pull: FRAME!!!

It’s all about leading with the right frame and always having your goal in mind, which should be to meet up then hook up.

You set this leading frame by doing exactly what I demonstrated: get sexual and forward ASAP!!!!

By doing so, the girl doesn’t make that mistake of thinking that you’re looking to become text-pals or friend-zone buddies.

It’s all about the vibe you set from the gate. Had I come off as some wuss-bag or a guy who pretends as though he doesn’t have a cock in his pants by giving off a Mr. Respectful vibe, the girl would’ve accepted and followed that asexual frame, thus responding in a friends-only manner.

At no point was my vibe asexual, timid, chummy and cordial.

My vibe, approach and method give women permission to be slutty, because I don’t make that mistake of coming off as a guy who judges women for being sexual beings.

The underlying reason why girls aren’t open just meeting with you and fucking you, is because they are petrified of being judged by you!

You are guilty of somehow inadvertently (and willfully) giving women that impression and fear, all because you thought that it would’ve been the better approach to come off as a friendly respectable guy! Therefore, women are forced to play the super-cautious role.

By giving off the vibe of an untamed rebel who does/says whatever he pleases [as I do and did with this girl], women will reward you by showing their true colors: someone who wants to hook up!

Lastly, and in conjunction with the aforementioned, I must touch on my favorite line: being someone who doesn’t sugarcoat.

If you sugarcoat; she will sugarcoat! Don’t sugarcoat, and she won’t!

Tell the girl that you don’t do well with holding back your words. Whichever way you choose to phrase it; ensure that you get that message across ASAP: that you aren’t the type of guy who sugarcoats anything!

That simple line will give the girl permission to be open and slutty, just as how this hot MILF instantly opened up without fear, when she told me that she has a BF, yet is cheating on him with a girl in London, while her ex still wants to fuck her…or is fucking her.

What a confession!

I gave her permission to be comfortable in being slutty!

I’m only using “slutty” just to avoid deep semantics [there’s no such thing as a slut in my book].

You think she would’ve dared say what she said had I come off as this Mr. Respectable nice guy, who believes that all women are virtuous creatures to be treated as such!?

Of course not!

On a final final note, you would have seen numerous posts where I pounce upon girls as soon as they accept my friend request on Facebook; essentially having zero value to the girl since she doesn’t know a thing about me.

Other times, and equally so, you would see a protracted, methodical and calculated approach where I draw the girl in over time, build pre-selection and social value, then reel her in by commenting on her updates, and having her comment on mines by reeling her in.

Either approach is potent and yields results!

The latter approach of waiting and baiting is of course the more salient approach since the girl is allowed to get a better sense of your vibe and personality. But more often than not, in my case, it all boils down to time or lack thereof.

If there’s too much on my plate already; I’ll use the slower method.

If the girl whom I add is highly fuckable, I may decide to pounce fast!

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Proof That Using My Facebook Method Will Have Girls Inboxing You Desperately For Sex [Sep 2-4, 2016]


Your social-media postings and status updates could either attract women, repel women or do neither.

Most guys are either stuck in the repel or neither/neutral categories.

Only a lucky few- a minuscule bunch- would have fount themselves attracting the attention of women.

In this post, I will give you my usual play-by-play of an online pickup of another total stranger on the internet.

With this girl, I had added her on Facebook, literally 5 days ago.


From the get-go, she made a comment or 2 on my statuses and hit like here and there.

Nothing out of the ordinary.

Friday afternoon, she inboxes me. Our first time directly communicating besides her comments on my posts.
[Her messages in gray]

[Above] Me having her crack up, calling me crazy and saying that I don’t know how to behave, are in reference to an obnoxious status I posted minutes before she inboxed me.

Note: whenever a girl calls you “Crazy”, it is generally a great sign of attraction for you…unless you’re officially and clinically diagnosed LOCO!

[Above] As usual, my banter, humor and wits game are on full display. Quickest and most effective way to attract and hold the attention of hot girls online (and in person) is to make them laugh. The path to easy pussy is through laughter.

[Above] I then forced an indirect acknowledgment that she likes me (“crazy” guys): everything about me for that matter (she likes).

She goes further to relay to me her deep attraction for me (my vibe) by saying that whenever she wakes, I am the reason she gets on Facebook. Whether this is true or false; it’s besides the point! The key IOI (Indicator Of Interest) lies in the fact that she would even tell me this.

BTW, whenever a girl asks you about your sign, or asks any unorthodox question on her own volition, it is usually a sign of interest.

[Above] Okay, so why did I even mention tongue and naughty? Well, I was planting sexual seeds and steering the conversation to a sexual one. I don’t want to run the risk of landing myself into the friendzone (something that could never happen BTW), so that is why I made a sexual declaration just so she knows this isn’t some platonic bullshit.

[Above] Again, I kept up the sexual insinuations by making mention of Libras and Aquarians making good sex. This of course cannot be verified; but it doesn’t goddamn matter! Had she said she were an extraterrestrial born in the early quarter of the month of November, I would’ve told her that Aquarians and E.T. Scorpios were sexually compatible! You get the point! Not only does this show wits on my part, but it shows sexual leading.

What was the net effect of me making 2 sexual declarations so early during the chat? She follows my lead/frame and mentions that she’s loves sex. πŸ˜‰ See how powerful my timing was in getting this girl to admit that she loves sex?

[Above] Always reward a girl for being on board while you play it cool. Hence, because she said that she loves sex (a very good thing BTW πŸ™‚ ), I rewarded her by saying “we’re on the same page”. However, I played it cool instead of getting all bent out of shape and overly excited like a kid playing with a new toy. You want to act as though women throwing themselves at you sexually, is the norm! That is the vibe I gave off here.

Moreover, she mentioned being tired from work but she can use a good fucking at the moment. Why didn’t I jump on it, grab her # and go fuck this girl? Well- in reality- I wasn’t busy. But I said so in order to feign hard-to-get 😈 . Additionally, it was approaching 6 PM Friday evening, and I had a meetup for that evening with Nerd Girl. So in essence, I was to be busy. In hindsight, I should’ve gone to bang this chick and then went on the D4 with nerd girl, or say “to hell with nerd girl” altogether!

[Above] Always be a challenge to women! Never sell yourself easily (just as how a woman will play as though she isn’t easily fuckable)! Hence, “Don’t play with fire”! Just as the case with another girl I’d spoken about in a recent post, this chick had also seen my FB status about having 3 inches πŸ™‚ . Well- I don’t actually have 3 inches, but I like telling girls that because it creates drama, intrigue and makes me appear confident (which guy would publicly flaunt that he has a 3 inch dick?).

In a nutshell, this is a very powerful-seduction tactic called “False Disqualifier”! Here is the psychology behind a well-placed False Disqualifier: which guy in his right mind would say something to women, which according to conventional wisdom, is supposed to turn women off? No guy does that…except a skilled seducer! πŸ˜‰ Whenever you tell a girl something that flies in the face of what a guy should ordinarily say to a woman he fancies, it builds interest opposed from disinterest.

Moreover, telling girls that I have a 3 incher, establishes a very crucial ingredient to the overall attraction: it makes me look confident in that I don’t give a shit about saying something to women that one would expect to turn women off! Chicks find this ultra-sexy (a guy who doesn’t give a shit about pleasing women in the sense of trying to fit their ideal mole of an attractive man).

Anyway, I then sent her 3 dick pics in order to confirm my 3 inches. Apparently, she was able to see that it wasn’t 3 inches. πŸ‘Ώ All in all, I was planting the sexual seed bright and early.

[Above] The sexual spike (via the dick pic) worked to great effect, indicative of her words, “looks tasty”. Whenever you send a girl dick pics, you want to do so with tact and at the most opportune time. Most guys send dick pics at the absolute wrong time, ultimately making women cringe in disgust. Your dick pic should have women go, “tasty”, and not, “fuck off…you rapist”! I’ve yet to have a girl chide me out, block me, or respond negatively to me sending her an unsolicited dick pic. It all comes down to timing and attraction. If the girl is attracted to you (your vibe), then she will accept virtually anything you do as a positive.

Again- whenever a girl calls you a perv or crazy, in such a context as this girl did, it is an SOI (Sign of Interest)! Guys generally misinterpret a girl calling them pervy to mean something negative. Well- it is…as long as your game sucks!

Challenge put to her, she accepts (“hell yh”)!

[Above] Just to show how much she appreciates my sexual vibing and sexual leads, and how DTF she has become for me, she sends me a pic of herself, seductively sucking on a banana as if to simulate a blowjob. 😯 I didn’t even ask her to send me a pic. If a girl takes the initiative to send you pics (especially of a sexual nature), it is clearly a sign of interest in you.

[Above] I issued another challenge when I said she has the chat but cannot back it up. The dynamics here that I was setting is that I am the prize, I am the one of higher value, and she must prove to me that she’s qualified to get my attention. That is the vibe I set! It isn’t the case where I’m chasing her trying to prove my worthiness. It is the other way around. Again- which guy does this with women? A guy who’s very much in demand, in command and sex-worthy…such as a celeb, rockstar, billionaire, etc. As I eluded to in the recent post about Usain Bolt; you don’t have to be wealthy, nor a celebrity in order to give off such a prize-worthy vibe to women! Your attitude alone can convey this!

[Above] No more reason to waste time, so I grabbed the # which was all academic at that point. Moreover, I played a bit hard-to-get and reserved by telling her I was busy…which I wasn’t πŸ˜‰ , but I was merely preserving some value. As expected, she coughed up the digits without a hiccup.

In any case guys, that was all Friday evening. I didn’t attempt at all to meet up with her, largely because I had plans with nerd girl.

[Above] The Saturday morning- 3:42 am as you seen in the screenshot above- she hits me up on Messenger…at 3:42 AM!

I was wide awake because I was at the nightclub as I cited in the last post about the Day4 with nerd girl.

What this really shows though, wasn’t just her desperation to get laid, but it shows just how crazy it is that women are going to bed at night without getting shagged. Although every girl has scores of men whom they could sleep with at a drop of a dime: women will hardly ever chose the options she has, since 99% of those guys are lame-ass weirdo provider-types who’d been friendzoned by her. So in spite of the fact that women have tons of options, they hardly use them!

[Above] Later on the Saturday noonday, she hits me up again like crazy, trying to wake me, essentially wanting to shag down. She’s in full chase mode for sex! Sending 5 messages without getting a reply from me. This isn’t supposed to happen to women; especially the ones who aren’t ugly! But when dealing with a guy who’s sex-worthy; women cannot help but chase and chase a sex-worthy Alpha.

[Above] Since sending me messages after messages won’t work; why not call? So she rings me like 4 times through Messenger…to no avail. Honestly, I was knocked-out cold in LaLa land, completely exhausted from the night at the club.

[Above] Now, she tries to regain value and save face because she’d desperately chased me, so she said that texting me 5 times is a lot, as if to say that this is beneath her and out of the ordinary (to chase/text a guy so much without a reply). Technically; it is unusual! This is likely the first time in her life that she has had to chase a guy so desperately for sex!

As if texting me to death wasn’t enough, she wanted to know where I live. Another indication that she was full-on attracted to me…and DTF! BTW, I am very familiar with her part of town, so that’s a plus just in case I wanted to see her the Saturday night.

[Above] I was telling her that I went through her pics on FB but she doesn’t have much pics. So that’s why she mentioned not being a pic-lover.

[Above] She makes fun of my fictitious 3 inches…which is all good nevertheless.

I pulled another proverbial takeaway by telling her I’ll get back to her. What does this do on a psychological level? It shocks her to the core! Men aren’t supposed to be the ones telling girls “bye…ttyl”. Women have those rights reserved for them! They should be the ones snuffing and snubbing guys. But here it is, I am that rare guy telling her I’ll get back to her, and not the other way around. Powerful stuff on a subconscious and psychological level!

As if she didn’t already give me her #, she ensured to do it once more. Why did she feel an urgency to give me her phone number again? Because I didn’t call her upon getting her # initially. Most guys would’ve gone into chase mode upon getting the girl’s digits, and call her to death! I didn’t do that! I kept our communication somewhat impersonally…on Facebook. In itself, this is a “False Disqualifying” technique which deepens the attraction.

[Above] The Saturday evening, she wanted to know what was I doing. I threw a pitch to her about fucking her on her job since she works during the nights (upwards of 11 pm). As expected, she accuses me of having no good behavior. As mentioned earlier: it is always a plus whenever a girl says that you’re rude, crazy, perverted, etc…as long as you have value in her eyes that is…and you’re not actually some rapey perv.

Moreover, I didn’t for a second think she would say, “Okay come! Let’s fuck on my job”! As much as she was down for it, you should always bear in mind that women fear being perceived as dirty sluts. They would engage in slutry! But they don’t want to be perceived as sluts. By her saying to me, “come for a hug”, she was essentially agreeing to me banging her on the job…but cloaked in, “would love to give u a hug”. πŸ™‚

You have to learn how to read women, guys!!!

Everything isn’t verbalized! In fact, hardly anything is ever verbalized with women! They give away themselves with subtle-verbal and non-verbal cues which the guy is expected to grasp and act upon.

Side note: while we were facebooking, I was actually driving to grab me something to eat. I had intentions to swing by her job site, park the vehicle nearby, have her meet me in the parked car, and bang the shit out of her then and there!

The pic post below depicts that moment.


[Above] She wanted to know if I were going to come by her job to collect my hug πŸ˜‰ . I played hard-to-get again. I mean, aside from looking something to eat, I’d gotten caught up in a weird situation that I may blog about very shortly.

[Above] At that point, I was pretty much toying with her a bit. You may ask yourself; “Kenny, why the fuck didn’t you go see this girl”? In my defense: I was at the bar right at that moment after I’d gotten some grub. Not the most plausible excuse for not going to see this DTF girl…but I’ll explain shortly.

[Above] When I’d proposed swinging by her job and we “chill” in the parking lot for a bit, she told me that her coworkers were informants, and they would get all nosy as to why she’d left the compound.

Fair enough!

I could’ve also picked her up as she finished her shift, but I was having a drink @ the bar, and just wasn’t horny enough to go see this girl.

On a side note, when there exist numerous girls with which to hook up, no 1 girl really stands out. Additionally, you’re able to keep any inclination to desperation subdued and at bay.

In addition to that, here’s another secret of mines that I never disclosed to anyone before: at times, I have sex so often, that my cock is now bruised and tender from it.

This revelation in and of itself is a contradiction since I don’t have sex that often (perhaps once weekly).

Over the months, I haven’t given it much time to heal properly by abstaining from sex, as was advised by a physician the last time I had an STI and HIV test done about 6 months ago.

With that, if I were to have sex today (with or without condom), I would undoubtedly irritate the head of my penis, which would result in a somewhat bloated and swollen head…as a result of sexual intercourse.

Even if I were to masturbate semi-vigorously, I would still cause some form of irritation to the penis.

Therefore, I am advised to stay away from any form of penile stimulation: self-induced or otherwise. 😦

Abstinence definitely hasn’t worked out for me since I haven’t abstained…yet.

I am trying though, which is largely the reason I blew this chick off over the entire weekend.

My physician would totally be disgusted upon the revelation that I haven’t been abstaining from sex (while fapping). But have since triple-down since our last visit about 6 months ago! 😯 😯

In order to deal with the acute swelling and irritation, he recommends that I wash with salt water at least 3 times a week. This is largely to prevent any infection and to accelerate the healing process. But I must abstain for at least 2 months in order to realize full-penile recovery back to normalcy.

Okay, enough of the dick talk. Let’s conclude this post on a somewhat non-grotesque note. πŸ™‚

Hopefully when you will have concluded the perusing of this article, you would’ve come away learning a few things about attracting women online (social-media platforms to be exact).

1.) Attraction has very little to do with looks

2.) Getting a girl to chase you for sex, also has very little to do with looks

Ultimately, getting girls to throw themselves at you desperately online, boils down to having the right online persona as illustrated in my Facebook Game products and method.

This by no means was just an outlier and a fluke [the interaction and pull of the girl spoken of].

This is standard operation when you will have employed my deadly Facebook pickup method!

All you’re required to do is to simply post the right shit via status updates!

That’s it! Well, almost it!

That is 80% of it [getting women to chase you].

The remaining 20% accounts for raw game at the inbox and messaging stage of the game.

I mean, the thing is, no matter how successful you are in managing to get a girl to chase you, you need decent frikkin’ text game in order to maintain/deepen the attraction, and to pull [get a phone #, date, etc]!

Everything ultimately comes down to having game (text game) during crunch time!

You could attract the girl out of this world with kick-ass status updates as I advise. If your texting resembles that of a clueless Beta-Male, then the lack of congruence will undoubtedly sink every single 1 of your potential pickups on social media (and in game in general).

For now though, presuming your text-game sucks donkey balls, you can always digest the plethora of information I’d put out since 2009 on how to text girls, via the page link below to my text-game archive.

The “Text-Game” Archive

In conjunction with that, if you do desire to attract and shag lots of hot women via Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, etc. it is incumbent upon you to pimp out your profile by posting high-value shit: the stuff that attracts women!!!

You are already well aware of the stuff (postings) that kills your lay-chances (or doesn’t help them). If you aren’t privy to those, allow me to enlighten you of the attraction-killers via status updates.

β€’Posts about how much you believe in your God and have faith

β€’Posts about your schooling as far as the humdrum of it all

β€’Posts about your family (members) and how much you enjoy being around them

β€’Posts about sports: Period!

β€’Posts which advocate blatant slut-shaming

β€’Posts about how bored you are, and how uninteresting your shitty life is

β€’Posts saying low-value stuff like, “Anyone wants to chill with me tonight”?

β€’Posts which depict you as a constant whiner in life: constant complaints about your job, salary, boss, singledom, etc.

β€’Posts saying, “off to work”, “off to school” or “off to church”. If you’re not saying, “off to the strip club”, then every other “off to”, will make you come off as lame and uninteresting. So make sure wherever you’re off to, is somewhere eyebrow-raising.

On that note, I will post a subsequent article, basically a screenshot montage of posts/statuses, which I post to my personal Facebook that manage to attract hot girls (even the ugly ones too πŸ˜‰ ).

In the meantime, this chick hasn’t stopped hitting me up. Our chitchat continued on into Sunday and today (Monday) where she’d been sending me nudes of herself fingering her pussy. 😯

Will I eventually bang her?

Likely!

Ciao!

Stop Openly Drooling Over Hot Girls On The Internet + Women Are Not As Sluty As We Men Believe

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Facebook game is a delicate art as I speak about ad nauseum.

You can either fumble it or become masterful at it.

Unfortunately- most guys fumble it like a hot potato.

Consequently, most guys neglect to realize that Facebook is NOT an online-dating site!

Chicks aren’t using Facebook primarily to get laid!

They aren’t even using it to get laid period!

There exist tons of online-dating website: everything from hookup sites, social media + dating sites, etc.

If chicks really were in search of dick online, they would chose from a myriad of websites in which to achieve that aim…and they do.

However, Facebook isn’t 1 such website.

Chicks use Facebook for everything except to get laid.

It is no big secret that women enjoy the liberty of having dicks at their disposal wherever and whenever they desire to.

Women do no have shortage of cocks in their life.

It is just that women are very selective and particular about the type of men they allow to grace the insides of their vaginal corridor.

It is because of this reality I recently made a declaration that women aren’t slutty as we men may think them to be.

If we were to put women in our shoes and trade places for a week, to where we men were the ones with loads of options in the opposite sex, men would actually go pussy-crazed and literally try to fuck every single 1 of his options as quickly as humanly possible!

Men would rarely discriminate if we were to have such options and powers of selectivity as women do.

On the other hand, women do have choices and options of cocks to chose from, yet women are very discriminative and selective, and they are NOT out there fucking every Joe Blow who presents them a brand-new shiny dick!

A girl cannot realistically allow every guy who fancies her to have sex with her…or he vaj would be out of commission for life by week 2.

Thus, she has to be ultra-selective, has to discriminate, has to be choosy and has to screen and filter the men who approach her.

A male on the other hand, if he were to have the option of 10 new-hot girls per week vying for their chance to fuck him; he would literally try to fuck all 10 girls within the shortest amount of time possible! πŸ˜†

A female, on the contrary, would scale down the 10 new-hot guys trying to fuck her, and select the most sex-worthy and Alpha of the 10.

She wouldn’t try to fuck all 10 guys on the basis that they are hot!

Therefore, as much as guys may want to believe that women are slutty-little androids, salivating at their chance to fuck a new guy every other day; it is not so…at all!

We men must also bear in mind that women choose the men whom they have sex with, based on different criteria.

For men; it is all about looks!

As long as she has tits, ass and a cute face- or either 1 of those 3 attributes- she is deemed fuckable!

As for women: they more so (and by far) take into consideration the non-physical qualities in the guy…such as his behavior, attitude, style, swag, lingo, confidence, aura, etc, etc, etc.

Not many guys fit her criterion.

On a related note, you must also realize that women have pregnancy to contend with.

In other words; she cannot just let any Joe Blow fuck her, because he can actually impregnate her and knock her off of the dating and mating market for an entire year!

That means she has to endure almost a full year with low-self esteem issues, thinking herself as fat and unattractive, bloated all the time, hormonal changes for the worse…and those are just the tip of the iceberg.

Hence, she has way more to lose by wantonly sleeping around with any old dude who comes along…so she doesn’t do so…which is why she’s so selective and discriminative, has criteria and blows off tons of guys [figuratively speaking πŸ˜‰ ].

A male on the other hand has nothing to worry about (physiologically and biologically) if he sleeps around wantonly with 10 new girls per week…though STI’s from unprotected sex can put a damper on things.

In any case, a guy can realistically sleep with a new girl every single day for the next 2 years- even impregnating a handful of them- without trepidation of being put off of the dating market as in the case of pregnancy.

Now, I’m not saying that there aren’t so-called sluts [though as a PUA, we are encouraged not to view women as sluts…and we don’t], and lots of women sleep around. But it is done with selectivity nevertheless. She isn’t just banging every guy as a man would if he were to have those options.

There is no imperical datum and statistic on this- at least not that I know of- but from my observation, experience and time around women and dealing with women (innumerable amounts of them), I am reasonably led to believe that the average girl who’s sexually active and claims to be single, has roughly 2 sexual partners at the moment, and will maintain this trend for the duration until she either gets into a relationship, marriage or gets too old to be deemed sex-worthy.

Occasionally, a girl who’s so-called single will deviate from her customary pattern and bang an extra guy (a third). But for the most part, the average girl who “claims” to be single, will have been sleeping with 2 guys on average during her “claimed” single-hood.

She may sleep with guy 1 on Monday, for instance, then guy 2 sometime midweek.

She will continue to alternately sleep with both guys, periodically subbing 1 of the 2 for a 3rd. guy.

This “subbing” is due to the fact that she may realistically have a fallout with 1 guy (for myriads of reasons), and decide to sub him out for another, in order to keep that #2 slot filled.

Quite often also, she would at times be content with just screwing 1 guy for the duration if she doesn’t see a worthy guy who can fill that #2 slot.

With all that being said on that matter, women are not maxing out their sex opportunities by sleeping with dozens of guys during a specific rotation.

The average Jane is fine with having just 2 cocks- the same 2 cocks might I add- for the next 6-8 months, even though there are 20 hot-new cocks knocking at her door on a daily basis!

Hence, women are not actual sluts as we may think they are. Because if a guy realistically had 20 hot girls knocking on his door, ready, willing and able to spread those legs for him, he would fuck all 20 of them! πŸ™‚

“Ok Kenny, so what does this major digression have to do with guys openly hitting on girls online and why they shouldn’t do so”?

Simple: girls have many options outside of the internet and on online-dating sites, so there is no need for them to jump on Facebook and social media, actively in search of cock. Hence the reason they don’t actively, nor passively use Facebook in hopes to meet men!

This however, doesn’t at all mean that they cannot be picked up on Facebook!

I think I’ve already demonstrated hand over fist that women can be picked up easily on Facebook.

It is just that guys go about this the wrong way!

What is 1 such “wrong way” in which guys go about trying to attract and sleep with hotties from Facebook?

Drooling, Slobbering, Salivating, Thirsting, Beasting and openly Hitting on girls via statuses and updates posted by hotties.

Exhibit A: yesterday, a hottie on Facebook posted a pic and status about rearranging her furnitures.

Let the thirst begin!

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What was so eye-opening about those comments?

Every guy’s comment got blatantly and purposely ignored but mines. πŸ˜‰

Also as interesting: my comment was the lamest in the sense that it wasn’t elaborate, wasn’t smooth, wasn’t sexy and wasn’t romantic.

It wasn’t no “I love yous”!

However, the beauty lies in just that: a cheeky comment.

You see, hot girls- women in general- have a sixth sense for spotting bullshit, desperation and neediness in men.

Apart from that, hot chicks also get turned off by men who supplicate and offer their services as in a helping hand.

Take for instance the guy in the screenshot above who commented that he would’ve helped her rearrange her furnitures but she didn’t say anything.

In essence; he’s saying he wants to, and would’ve loved to provide help.

However, his comment was flat out ignored. So again- hot girls are NOT impressed by men who supplicate and provide their service/help when they (the girl) haven’t done anything to deserve the guy’s help.

My comment however, was the only one which had no desperation and thirst on it.

I wasn’t looking to give her a helping hand (supplication of her acceptance).
I wasn’t sneakily trying to get her to invite me over.

I wasn’t complimenting her!

I wasn’t telling her how ripe her boobs are, or how much I’m in love with her!

My comment was dismissive of her hotness: beauty, tits and ass.

Side note: If you want to get a hot girl’s attention (online), disregard her beauty.

Treat her as though she’s an ugly duckling!

How do you achieve this?

Simply by not fawning over her, and not commenting about her beauty or physical assets…just as I strategically demonstrated with my comment which was the only 1 that stood out from the pack of Beta’s.

For shits and giggles, other guys commented after I did. They too got ignored for their lamery and downright neediness. πŸ™‚

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Allow me to drill this point home: if an ugly girl, or someone whom those guys weren’t attracted to, were to have posted that status to Facebook, would those guys have acted the way they did by ass-kissing, offering help, saying “I love you”, etc?

Of course not!

Well- why not treat a hot girl like you would an ugly girl then?

Why not comment in a way which totally dismisses yourself as a potential suitor…as I did?

To us pick-up artists – at least the skilled ones like myself- this technique is called a “False Disqualifier”.

It is when you treat a girl whom you truly desire, as though you don’t want her at all.

Instead of outright hitting on her for the world to see, you would elect to not hit on her at all, thus lowering her perceived-social value so she thinks to herself that you- the guy- are the prize, and not her.

Furthermore, whenever you disregard and dismiss a hot girl’s hotness and beauty by not acknowledging her hotness and beauty at all, it makes her feel inadequate and doubtful about her beauty.

You don’t want to tell a hot girl that she’s fucking hot!

Ok- sure you do and can do so- but you don’t want that fact to be out there too early, or the girl gets to feeling that you’re some lame-ass chump who rarely interacts with women of her caliber.

Though this may strike you as contradicting; I often tell hot girls that they are hot!

However, it is the context and timing that make it work whenever I tell a girl on Facebook that she’s hot, opposed from when you say it, and you get flat-out ignored and dismissed.

Sub-communication is key also.

As I mentioned previously, a woman can sense desperation from a mile away.

She has clairvoyant abilities out the ass!

Therefore, when you tell a hot girl on Facebook that she’s beautiful, she instantly gets turned off because she can sense that your comment is either coming from a position of desperation, neediness or lacking.

Now, when I tell a hot girl online that she’s beautiful [which I never ever do BTW: I would say “sexy” instead of beautiful], she doesn’t get turned off because her perceptive abilities sense that I am NOT operating from a frame of desperation, nor was I telling her that she’s beautiful from a position of neediness and low value.

Therefore, context and the vibe you give off are key to attracting women on Facebook.

What you’ll get away with is depended upon what the girl senses from your vibe [“is he desperate or free-spirited ❓ ].

Furthermore, the risk you run by hitting on a hot girl on Facebook, is that doing so would have communicated to her that you aren’t the type of guy who is accustomed to having hot women in his company.

I hinted to this point in the previous article [Fat girls and marketplace value], that if you want a 10, you must first have to be a 10 or act the part of a 10!

In other words, if you’re a guy who’s a 6, for argument sake [personality and lifestyle-wise], in order to snag yourself a girl who’s a 10, you will have to behave like a man who’s a 10!

Tens only get with 10’s…unless you’re a wealthy-old white billionaire who can afford to buy an island! Only then will a girl who’s a 10 take you on board if you yourself isn’t a 10.

Oh- and in 1 other case- you’re a sugar-daddy and are being used for monetary purposes.

However, if you aren’t looking to buy a 10, then you must firstly have to be a 10 or behave like a 10.

For the record- I can’t keep myself from having to have to reiterate the following point: a guy who’s deemed a 10 by women, has little to do with his looks, his face, nor his 6-pac abs!

What makes a guy a 10, or any other # on the attraction and looks scale for that matter, is his personality, attitude and vibe.

Digressing.

Anyways, so how do you attract a 10 in general?

Treat her like a 6 [“False Disqualifier”] while giving her the impression that you are a 10, and that you routinely enjoy the company of women who are 10’s.

In fact, ignoring her hotness will simultaneously give her the impression that you’re accustomed to dealing with hotter girls.

Therefore, it doesn’t take any voodoo-istic charm nor complicated routine in order to get the girl to think that you usually date girls hotter than she is.

The bare-minimum requirement is to simply refrain from hitting on her openly (as via comments on Facebook), restrain yourself from drooling over her pics and selfies, all while turning a blind eye to her hotness.

Listen man, hot chicks know that they are hot!

No need pointing out the fucking obvious!

This is why she doesn’t even pay mind to your comments because you aren’t telling her anything that she hasn’t already heard ad nauseum for the fucking day!

You think you’re the only guy for the day who told her that she’s hot, or that you love her!?

Fucks no!

Twenty other chumps already beat you to it! Just as she’d ignored them; she will ignore you!

Telling a hot girl, whether on Facebook or in person, that she’s hot, is essentially saying to her that you aren’t used to talking to girls of her caliber…hence the reason she rejected you because you aren’t in her virtual league.

With that, you must give hot women the impression that hot women, according to your standards, aren’t these frikkin’ idolized goddesses with whom you have minimal to zero contact.

Give her the impression that hot girls come and go!

You wouldn’t go crazy over Masa Toro with caviar if you’re accustomed to eating it [$240 a plate] at Bar Masa in Downtown, Manhattan every weekend, would you?

We humans only go crazy over things that are out of our reach, and which we place high value on…such as a hot girl talking to us, pricey cars, precious jewelry, etc.

However, if you’re accustomed to lavish things, you won’t at all go crazy over them.

The hot girl with perfect boobs, shapely ass and the cutest face, won’t at all excite you, neither will you be propelled to leave kiss-ass comments on her Facebook statuses and pics…as though you never laid eyes on a stunner before!

By the way, this mindset/frame of mines isn’t just applicable to the hottest girls.

You want to adopt this frame of mines with women in general (online especially): regardless of how high or low they register on the proverbial hot meter.

If she’s an HB8; treat her like a 4!

Instead of pointing out how beautiful she is whenever she posts selfies with caption, “I’m so beautiful”, point to something random in her photo which has nothing to do with her looks, and comment on that.

Here’s another tangent that you might not be aware of: women often post photos and statuses to Facebook in order to fish for attention and validation from men.

They want guys to scoop their poop!

Ironically, the guys who fall for this bait and do comment something lovely and complementing, are almost always the ones to get rejected by the girls who were coyly baiting them to praise them in the first place!

On 1 hand: women do want the praise and validation whenever they post stuff. But they get turned off by the guys who actually offer those validating words.

It isn’t that women are confused bitches who don’t know what they want.

More so, men are the problem, as we fed into the media and pop-culture hype and lies about what women really want in a man.

Coupled with that, are parents (mothers primarily), who at a tender age, feed their sons garbage about how women are queens and should be treated likewise.

I have no qualms with girls being princesses and queens and demanding to be treated as such! But dammit- boys are princes and kings by virtue of equity, and we demand to be treated as such…that’s if women want to be treated like royalty!

Let’s be fair about it! And that is the problem with mothers and the western media; they pump the “treat women like princesses” rhetoric, yet they forgot to mention that boys/men should also be treated like royalty.

Anyway, at the end of the day, women are NOT looking to have their poop scooped, and they are NOT looking to be treated like queens! Because at no point in human history, women on a whole as a gender, was treated like royalty.

If you’re in doubt as to my claims that women were always the subordinates to men: you can simply consult the Bible or the Quraan if you subscribe to the religious philosophies.

With that, because women in human history aren’t used to being pedestalized and deified like goddesses, they don’t know how to act accordingly if a guy were to treat them as such.

This is why whenever you treat a girl (too) nicely, ingratitude quickly sets in and she takes you for granted and subsequently treats you like disposable goods.

We’re all all-too-familiar with the clichΓ©, “Nice guys finish last”.

As cliche as it is: there are lots truth to it…and most quote unquote nice guys can attest to this [I was also a nice guy].

Women aren’t fucking over badboys or taking advantage of guys who aren’t taking care of their every need.

They’re only screwing over so-called good guys. And this is because women don’t want to be spoiled rotten by men. And even if she verbally claims that that is what she wants, chances are, she won’t know how to manage it, therefore she would screw it all up by taking the nice guy for granted, cheat on him and subsequently dump him.

In light of the mouthful I said about women historically aren’t accustomed to praise-worthy treatment from men, you should now get an even more clearer picture of why women on Facebook often repel men who openly laud them with praises and direct compliments.

You want to give off the impression that communication with women of her caliber is customary for you.

You cannot appear to genuinely give off this impression if you’re drooling over women’s pics and statuses!

That is NOT the way in which a guy with options behave!

You must be able to walk through a den of lions and keep your cool…at least on the surface!

Learn to harbor an “I can take it or leave it” attitude.

Women find that interesting and appealing!

Personally, I’m so accustomed to sleeping with random hotties (from Facebook) that I can take it or leave it. Not only do I embody and exude this belief; but I live it.

I will talk more about this in a subsequent post.

As a reminder, my Skype is back in operation, so if you want to talk about your Facebook woes and how to get them fixed; check out my Skype coaching program.

In the meantime, grab your copy of Facebook Bang, to learn how to attract and pick up girls on Facebook.

More PUA Instructor-Level Text-Game: “False Disqualifying”, Push-Pull & Playing Hard-To-Get With Hot Girls


Ok guys, some more personal text-game examples via screenshots for you.

Some days ago, a hot chick from the past hit me up on Facebook…I guess to catch up.

Background: I picked her up during some street game a few years back [perhaps 4 years ago].

We hit it off of course, but because she had to fly out, I wasn’t able to pursue the bang.

Whenever I miss a bang opportunity in such a fashion, I usually NEXT the girl since I don’t believe in long-distance romancing unless the chick will return shortly…in the matter of a day or 2.

Anyway, upon departure, she friend-requested me on Facebook. Though I wasn’t interested anymore, I accepted the request anyways.

Although she returned shortly after, my interest level was at zero, since I had a plethora of other chicks on my proverbial bang-list.

This is the beauty of the masterful PUA who has attained a level of abundance with women: any 1 girl does NOT count!

Doesn’t matter how hot a girl is- and this chick is smoking-fucking hot by the way- a master PUA who enjoys an abundance of hot women, does NOT get hung up on any 1 particular chick.

Anyway, so few days ago, she hits me up on Facebook out of the blue.

Remind you: I had deleted her from Facebook over a year ago.

Why?

Because I can! πŸ˜‰

I have a knack for treating hot girls like disposable paper.

That is part of my bad-boy persona: to flip the script on women, and become the one who plays indifferent and hard-to-get.

One cannot play hard-to-get when he has no options.

When you have options; brushing women off will have become easy-breezy.

Be as it may, here is the text-log via Facebook Messenger from a few days ago [Saturday].

I want you to take note of my vibe, disposition and push-pull strategy.

By the way, an obscured photo of this HB is below.

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[Her texts in gray. Mines in blue]

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She confirmed that I did delete her from my Facebook…and I did. Again; deleting a hot girl for no apparent reason, will deliver a punishing blow to her hot-girl ego since no guy out there has the heart and balls to pull such a move on such a hot girl.

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I did add her back the night before, after taking notice of her through a mutual friend’s post.

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I flatter her a bit as an attempt to butter her up. She claimed that I put up a front when we first met so she moved on. So- why did I put up a front? I didn’t! I simply had more girls on my plate whom I needed to prioritize before her…so I put her on the back-burner and she took it to mean I was being a dick, putting up a front and playing hard-to-get.

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Basically, she assumed that I wouldn’t date her…if she were single. When a girl does/says this, it indicates that she’s qualifying and she’s the one in the position of lesser value/power. She’s the beggar, and she’s in the seller frame. This is a far cry from the usual frame where guys are trying to get a girl into a relationship. She is trying to get me into a relationship…if she were single she claims. πŸ˜‰

She also said “I know you”. In other words; she knows the type of guy I am…someone who enjoys abundance with women, and isn’t about any drawn-out affair.

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Again, she tries to make her case/pitch as to why I should want to be in a relationship with her: I would get her sexy body as a perk of the relationship. In essence, she tries a subtle bribe. Now this is where I get creative with some “False Disqualifiers” by telling her that she’s too young for me. She then “qualifies” herself by saying “so what”…meaning she isn’t too young for me. That is the power of effectively using “False Disqualifiers”.

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Again I rained on her parade by telling her that she’s too young and not my type in other words, if she isn’t over 28. I mean, which man in his right mind would say this to a hot 24-year old? NONE…except a man who has lots of women and choices in his life!

She then mentions that she’s close to 28 [being 24] πŸ™‚ πŸ™‚ .Again; she qualifies herself to me. This is what you want happening when trying to seduce a hot girl. You want her begging and trying to prove herself worthy to be with you.

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I play hard-to-get even more by telling her in other words, that it isn’t practical for me to wait until she reaches 28 because anything can happen tomorrow. Then she qualifies again by saying in other words that 3 more years isn’t a long way.

I then throw her for a loop [push-pull technique] by telling her that I like her. Remember what I told you recently that you want to become a contradiction with women? You go left then suddenly take her right. Say/do something which contradicts something you’d said/done previously. This is exactly what I’m doing here.

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I’m making her feel a bit inadequate by saying that she doesn’t measure up since she isn’t 28 +. Again, she tries to convince me that she doesn’t have issues as most girls under 28 do…according to moi. πŸ˜‰

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I don’t quite know why the hell she would think I was open to marriage. Anyway, I told her that I break hearts. Adding to the bad-boy frame which I try to project.

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Here, she tries to match my bad-boy, heart-breaker frame by implying that she and I are alike…or that she’s more heartless than I am. Again- she qualifies herself again and again and again.


Ok, so what is this “Qualifying” concept I keep citing?

“Qualifying, or “to qualify”, is a pick-up term we use to describe the act of one trying to prove him/herself to another person.

It is equivalent to the average job interview process, where the interviewee presents his or her credentials and “Qualifications” for the job or position.

That is qualifying.

The person who attempts to show/prove that he or she qualifies for the job [for instance], is essentially at the mercy of the person to which he/she qualifies.

The one who tries to qualify, essentially has less value!

The person seeking the job [the qualifier], has less value than the one who hires.

Just as the boss, supervisor or manager has more value than the employee whom he or she oversees.

Hence, in dating, the one who presents their qualifications as to why he or she should be taken on board, is the one having lesser value than the other.

Therefore, when I say to a girl, “You’re too young for me”, and she goes, “No I’m not. I’m old enough”. She is essentially saying that she qualifies and has the qualifications though she’s younger than what I’m looking for.

Do you get it?

When it comes to dating and getting laid a ton, it is often a power play on both sides.

However, most times, it is the girl who has the guy trying to prove himself to her [qualifying] through words and actions.

My text-game method flips the script, and gets the girl trying to prove herself to me instead.

Hence, I am the one with the power, leverage and the chooser’s frame.

With that being said: how do you get a girl to qualify and try to prove herself to you…and chase you like this girl is doing?

A combination of factors which emanated from my vibing during the text-log.

1.) Learn to dismiss girls!

2.) Ignore her texts ever so often!

3.) Delete them from your Facebook!

4.) Develop a rebellious vibe

5.) Give off a player vibe and hit on other women [pre-selection theory]

Those are just 5 key factors in how I get hot girls to chase and qualify themselves to me.

Do you have to do this with every hot girl [dismiss her, etc]?

No you don’t.

However, since hot girls are accustomed to guys chasing and begging, it is a much wiser approach to utilize this sort of text game.

Also, this works great with girls who are stuck-up and snobbish.

Overall, I’m hoping that you realize how powerful it is to be the chasee and not the chaser.