From Picking Up Bubbly Bartender To Paying A Hooker $100 For Blowjob – Friday-Night Field Report


Adventure and risk are huge parts of my lifestyle.

Last night [Friday], I went out early as accustomed to [6:30 PM] in order to grab a snack and hit the bar.

I ran some street game before hitting up any venue.

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Nothing came much of this since I was merely warming up those social engines.

I made my way to a lounge which was heavily trafficked on Main street.

Seen a guy I know- a former wingman from years ago- so we chatted a bit while I scoped out the scenery for something I can pull.

There were some girls in the venue but they were almost sloppy drunk so I passed up on them.

Ordered myself a Smirnoff Ice at the bar counter, went outside of the lounge to a seating area on the roadside to watch on.

Minutes later, I noticed a girl outside speaking to some of the other patrons.

Oblivious that she was 1 of the bartenders [on break], but probably some girl hanging out, I approached her.

Me: “Do you recognize the face”?

This by the way is 1 of my favorite ice-breakers/openers.

The bartender began to look at me closely with a pensive look, “…I don’t think I know you…”.

Me: “Ok, it doesn’t matter. That was in the past. By the way I’m Kenny”.

Key point guys, whenever using such an opener, you always want to snip and stack it fast!

In other words, you change the fucking subject!

Girl: “I’m ******”.

She told me that she was on a break so she decided to grab a seat right where I was standing.

Lots of other guys were trying to cat-call her while she sat. But as expected: cat-callers get ignored.

I was the only guy who had the balls to actually step up with something meaningful.

Seizing an opportune moment, I amped up the sexual temperature right away as she sat and kind of fanned herself with her blouse, which exposed her cleavage since I was standing where she sat.

Me: “Hey, hey, hey, what are you trying to cause out here by exposing your tits? There are kids around”.

Bartender: ” πŸ˜† No kids around! But it’s hot as hell! And I’m not exposing anything”.

She said laughingly.

Me: “Well doing that may cause some bodily reactions. You see all these guys out here”.

Bartender: “Well maybe they need to learn how to control themselves”.

Me: “Easier said than done”!

After a bit of flirting, her break finished and she excused herself and went back into the lounge.

She gave me some non-verbal signals and hints that she would like to further chat inside.

I took the non-verbal cue/hint to follower her inside.

She leaned over the bar counter as if to engage me head on in convo.

This is what we call “Locked In” in the seduction community, when you have the girl displaying subtle body language which makes it clear that she wants to talk/listen…at least clear to someone like myself who is able to read body language.

As she leaned in attentively, I mirrored her [a psychological and subconscious seduction technique].

By “mirroring someone”>, you’re essentially mimicking their movements in order to gain rapport/connection.

Hence when she leaned in towards me [over the counter]; I did the same…which builds trust and connection.

I looked straight into her eyes and down to her lips as we talked.

When faced to face with a girl during convo, you don’t want to exactly keep your eyes laser-focused on her eyes…which is a good thing as you’re establishing eye contact.

What you want to do instead, is to switch your gaze/eyes going from her lips to her eyes.

If you want to get really sexual; you stare at her boobs.

I hear guys and gals say that women don’t like when guys look at their boobs while in convo.

Bullshit!

Women don’t like the “wrong kind of guys” [weak men aka Beta-Males] staring down there.

However, a girl will be pleased and flattered to have a dominant guy admire her goods!

Me: “When you’re done from here, we should hit up the club for some dancing”.

Bartender: “I’m thinking about going out after my shift finishes at 1. But I must tell you though…I have a boyfriend”.

Me: “That’s cool. Hope he doesn’t get jealous knowing you’re here flirting with another guy”.

She laughs.

Bartender: “Nah! He’s a secure guy. He trusts me because he knows the type of woman I am”.

I always laugh whenever girls say this to me: that their significant other can trust them…yet they are out being hit on by some other guy…and enjoying it.

That’s besides the point! πŸ˜‰

I quickly changed the topic off of boyfriend since she wanted to belabor the point.

Note: whenever a girl falls into a pattern of talking about her BF, you always want to cut that shit early!

Don’t entertain it!

Hence I said to her, “Woa, woa, woa! Why are we talking about your boyfriend here”?

She laughs, sensing that I am a real man who doesn’t give a shit about her relationship status, and that her boyfriend has no relevance to us.

At this juncture, I touched her [KINO] on her hands as they were outstretched towards me.

Another point of psychology here.

Whenever a girl is attracted to a man [without her conscious knowledge]: she physically submits to him!

By stretching her hands out in front of you, it is a subconscious sign that she is surrendering herself to you just as a captive would to his or her captors with their arms extended out.

If a girl is NOT attracted to you, she will keep her body language tight, arms close and close to herself.

In essence, she is building a fortress of resistance against you by keeping her arms inward.

If she does the opposite and leaves her upper-body region exposed by having her arms in front of her (towards you), it is a sign that she’s handing herself over to you…unbeknownst to her.

These are things women cannot hide and cannot control!

They are done on an unconscious or subconscious level without her knowledge.

Hence, a girl can NEVER pretend because her body language will always expose what she truly feels.

As you advanced in this field, you’ll be able to read these signs like a Jedi master.

Anyway, so as we talked, I nonchalantly touched her on the outstretched wrist and hands, letting her know that I was keen on her cues.

During all of this, customers and patrons were always interrupting at intervals, so lots of state breaks [interruptions] occurred.

If you really want to know if a girl is locked-in or interested, pay attention to what she does/says after she would have been interrupted.

As she dealt with a female customer, I turned away with my back towards her as if I was losing interest in her.

She tapped me on the shoulder and let me know she’ll be there in a second.

“BAAM”!

This is the power of the “Body-Rocking Out” technique.

Read: Body Rocking by Mystery, the PUA godfather.

As she finished dealing with the customer, she re-engaged me in convo, so I turned around and faced her again.

Sensing that I had enough IOI’s [Indicators Of Interest] to escalate sexually, I said to her, “I must be real with you”.

Bartender: “Tell me”.

Me: “You have the most sexy fucking lips on the planet…and it’s not the alcohol talking”!

She laughed aloud and blushed at the sexual spike…which was my intention [to cause her to blush].

Long story short: we kept getting interrupted as expected by customers since she was working.

Me: “Hey, I’m gonna get going because it’s a bit too hectic here. I want to whatsapp message you tomorrow and we catch up and maybe meet up at the bar”.

Bartender: “Ok fine. But I don’t have any internet connection to whatsapp you while at work”.

Me: “Isn’t there wifi here”?

Bartender: “I’m not sure”.

Me: “Screw it. I’ll just call you the old-fashion way then to see what’s up”.

Now, this is where “Token Resistance” comes in.

Guys, you need to realize that it is part of the game to have the girl object to your advances.

It doesn’t mean she isn’t interested!

Thus, she said to me as I suggested she give me her #:

“But I work here all the time. You can see me here if you want to talk”.

Don’t fall for it!

This is what I said to her:

Me: “Hey, hey ,hey…don’t run that shit on me ok. I’m a grown fucking man. You’re at work! I don’t want to bug you while you work. So…the number”.

She coughed it up as expected!

A girl just wants a reason to satisfy her brain as to why she should give you her number.

She wants to see that you really mean what you say.

Saying to her (as I did) that she’s working and I don’t want to bug her on the job, is good enough plausible reason.

We exchanged numbers and I walked out shortly afterwards.

It was about 10:45 pm.

My next plan?

Hit up a concert…eventually.

The thing is, this weekend is a weekend of events for the Carnival season here on island.

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Lots of concerts and shows have been taking place since Thursday through Monday.

After leaving the lounge, I decided to hit up a bar in another part of town.

I don’t drive so I walked for about 45 minutes until I got to the seedy bar which is where hookers are known to frequent.

I wasn’t there at all to game any hooker might I add.

I was merely looking to burn some time until the concert kicks off about 1 AM.

It was only about 11:20 at this time, so I had lots of time to burn.

My original wingman- a natural [someone who doesn’t know about pickup but is still good with women]- spotted me again:

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My original and only wingman ever

“Hey Socialkenny Joseph. What’s up”?

We chatted a bit then separated.

Almost 2 hours later, from a distance, I spotted him chatting up a thick light-skinned girl who didn’t appear to be a hooker…at least not from my vantage point.

Some dude, who apparently seen me talking to my former wingman, walked by with a sexy-fucking girl on his arm and he asked, “Hey, where did your friend go”?

Me: “Who’s that”?

Random Guy: “******”.

Me: “Oh! I can’t say. I seen him talking to a girl over there”.

Random Guy: “Oh, a “worker”?

In Caribbean English jargon, a “worker” and “working”, pertain to “sex” worker and prostitution.

Me: “I’m not sure who the girl is”.

Random Guy: “I think she’s working because her friend here is trying to find her…and she’s working too”.

Whatever the random guy was saying to me wasn’t registering. I didn’t know where he was coming from. But I do know that the girl on his arm was highly FUCKABLE!

As the random guy and the hooker walked off [I later learned she’s a hooker], while pacing back and forth, 2 girls stopped me and this happened.

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I was definitely taken-aback by such an aggressive approach.

I see hookers as female versions of PUA’s.

They don’t have much fear in approaching a guy and letting him know what they are about.

Therefore, I respect their game and method…though it always leaves me puzzled since I’m not used to girls approaching me [since girls don’t approach guys anyway].

Since I didn’t have any $5 bill on me, I end up giving her a $10 and went our separate ways with a false promise that I would see them later.

About 10 seconds after, I noticed ahead of me walking were my original wingman and a girl whom I had come to learn is a Jamaican hooker.

Just in back of me as I walked up the avenue, was the other guy- the random dude who asked about my ex-wingman- and the sexy girl on his arm.

Not so apparent to me at the time, this was a double mission to go bang these prostitutes.

As the random guy and the hooker caught up to me while I walked slowly, he asked me if I knew where a certain apartments were.

I told him, and they both detoured.

Something about this hooker bitch had my dick pulsating…perhaps the extra-short skimpy dress!

Generally, I don’t fuck hookers unless I have the money to waste and I come across one who puts my sexual urges into overdrive…which is rare for a prostitute to do.

Last night [Friday] was 1 such night. But the random guy went away with her…to fuck [presumably].

I decided to turn around and head back to the seedy bar in hopes that she returns.

After about 50 minutes of lingering outside of the bar, I spotted them coming back.

There was 1 dilemma.

I didn’t want any ‘regular’ girl outside of the bar to see me make a move with a hooker. So I took preemptive measures. Instead of waiting until they got into plain view right in front of the bar, I decided to meet them half way before they got into plain view.

To my astonishment, the guy sorta knew I was scheming on the hooker, so he said to me:

“Hey man. You want to do business with her”?

Not used to shagging hookers, I was somewhat embarrassed as to what I should say.

The hooker turned back and said, “Wait here. I’ll be back right now”.

I waited on the corner of the avenue and noticed that the girl was returning with my former wingman and the hooker he was with.

“Dammit! Where the fuck is the confidentiality with these bitches”! 😑

I said to myself!

I didn’t want anyone to know I was to fuck a hooker!

In all honesty, I was more interested in getting a blowjob than full-blown sex.

She re-approaches me:

“So what do you want us to do? What are you looking for and how much you willing to spend”?

Me: “It depends. I really just want a blowjob”.

Hooker: “Come on! Let’s go”!

My former wing spots me, “Socialkenny Joseph…my nigga”!

I’m saying to myself, “Fuck”!

However, I was somewhat comforted in know that he had just fucked a prostitute, so I have no reason to feel ashamed for doing the same. But I still wanted some confidentiality dammit!

The 4 of us walked and discussed the logistics.

The girls seemed to know where to go.

I spotted an abandoned building and we headed there.

Naturally, I expected us to enter the fucking building, so I crawled underneath some bushes and made my way inside.

Hooker: “Hey, where are you going? Let’s go behind. We don’t have to go in. This may be someone’s property”.

What an irony that someone who lives such a daring and risky lifestyle, is actually concerned about ownership of a deserted edifice.

Apparently, this chick wanted to fuck literally outside in the bushes…though it was very dark and I’m always game for sex outdoors.

I conceded and we went out back.

The other chick who accompanied my former wingman was sitting there on a mound watching.

I’m like, “WTF! Why is your friend just sitting right there watching us”!?

Hooker: “Are you uncomfortable? It’s ok baby”.

She stretched her hand out.

I pulled out the only money I had left on me…which was a hard $100 bill.

She looked at me like I was crazy.

“Gimme $50 more”.

Me: “I don’t have anything more. Just that”.

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She took it and proceeded.

The thing is, hookers in this part of the Caribbean usually charge between $80-$100 XCD, which is equivalent to about $30 USD.

Imported hookers from Jamaica however, have the tendency and reputation to overcharge for sex.

Spanish hookers [Dominicans] around these parts would do business for $60 (or $15 USD) if you insist.

The ones from Jamaica rarely ever budge. It’s either $100, $150 or no sex.

I know this because I’ve tried to game hookers in the past in order to fuck them for free.

Anyway, as I handed her the last $100 I had on me, as if she had some sort of zip suit on, within a blink of an eye, she was undressed and trying to un-buckle my belt.

Me: “You sure we shouldn’t go inside the building”?

Hooker: “It’s ok here man. Nobody can see us”.

I pulled my pants and boxer-briefs down and she proceeded to slide the condom on with her teeth and lips alone [no fingers- no hands].

“A pro huh”?

I said to myself.

At this point, I had all intentions to fuck her…though I thought I only wanted a blowjob. But after seeing her body unclothed in the faintness of the night, I wanted to be inside of this hot-dirty prostitute!

One dilemma: I couldn’t get a hard enough erection for intercourse.

The blowjob however was fucking Amazing!

Condoms and me don’t agree.

I have an extremely difficult time gaining an erection while wearing a condom since the sensation will have been blunted.

Not last night though!

The blowjob was so amazing that I actually felt as if I were to cum in another 5 seconds had she kept on sucking.

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The screenshot said it all.

Anyways, she turned around and bent over in the doggy-style position and grabbed my cock and tried to jam it in.

Not being fully erect, it was up to me to manually guide it in myself. but she insisted on putting it in herself.

I guess she was afraid that I would slip off the condom on purpose and fuck her raw as some guys are known for doing with sexy hookers.

This was not gonna fucking work!

She turned around to face me, pulled off the condom and started to jack me off while I toyed her clit.

She wouldn’t allow me to fondle her tits…strangely enough.

Within a minute or so, I jizzed on her leg.

She went to pee then her friend hurriedly approached me, “You want to fuck me too”?

Me: “No. I’m broke”!

The 4 of us walked back towards the bar.

As we made it to the intersection, she said to me:

“You have any coins on you”?

I’m like, “coins? Those are my keys in my pocket”.

She already has a $100 from me, and on top of that, she wants to milk me for coins!? 😯 😑 😦

One thing I notice about fucking prostitutes is that the high from the risk and adventure factor is great! But you regret it immediately after cumming, once you come to the realization how quickly your money vanishes into some bitch’s pocket for just a few minutes of fun.

I went out with $250 cash but was flat broke by 2 AM without even making it to the concert grounds or the nightclub, which was my original plan.

I couldn’t go to the nearby ATM since I didn’t have my ATM/debit card on me.

I would’ve had to make the very long trek home and back…which wasn’t feasible being that I was tired already from being on my feet since 6:30 PM Friday night down to 2:30 AM this morning.

With that, I decided to hitch a ride home and call it a night.

However, I should’ve ended my night at this concert.

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A bit on prostitution

In the Eastern Caribbean, and likely the wider Caribbean, prostitution has always been unofficially LEGAL.

The reason why it isn’t Legal on the books, is because of the Christian-Conservative Right which has a major sway upon elected officials.

They don’t want prostitution legal on the books as a matter of semantic and politics.

However, it is Legal off the books and is regulated by government.

The law (making it unlawful) is pretty much just on paper.

Prostitutes operate legally within prostitution houses.

The government regulates it [imported prostitution] by benefiting monetarily from certain fees the hookers would have to pay and sign onto.

Most prostitutes are on the books as “sex worker” being their profession…whether they work through a brothel/whore-house, bar or on the streets.

The government merely wants a piece of the pie and everyone gets along fine.

Pimps are also nonexistent in these parts.

Hookers work for themselves without any middleman or overseer. Hence, it’s a lucrative trade for them where they take home 100% of what they make at the end of the night.

What the government gets off the books are monies for papers, documentation, renewal of documents, licensing to operate, etc.

Each prostitute is mandated by law to get weekly checkups for HIV and common STI’s, or else they’ll be fined but not imprisoned…since sex work is technically not illegal.

This is why hookers are known to be some of the cleanest women in these parts. Simply because they are stringent about their health and checkups since their livelihood is dependent on it…plus the government is adamant about imposing those stringent mandates.

It’s the average Jane next door who never had a checkup done in her life, who should be culpable of spreading shit, not knowing whether they have a infection or not.

Now, I’m not here trying to make a case for hooker-banging…though I do hold the opinion that prostitution should be fully legal around the world.

Be as it may, last night was epic as most of my weekends are.

We’ll see what tonight holds!

By the way, this reminds me of a time that a Jamaican hooker tried to game me, just to give you an example of how they operate.

My Personal Sticking-Point In Game And Courtship

As someone who offers radical advice on the subject of getting good with women and approaching strangers, it’s very common to be held in such a standing, particularly by readers who are less skilled, which seems to communicate that I have my shit all together.

Well- I’m here to break the news which is long overdue: I do have sticking-points of my own- some of which I deal with and others that I procrastinate on.

The most nagging sticking-point of mines that I wish to share here and now, is Eye Contact.

While in conversation, I have zero issues maintaining eye contact with the girl.

I am fully adept at that.

My issue is NOT while in conversation but while out of conversation or before approaching the girl to break the ice.

Like if you watch those movies and music videos of guys eyeing down the girl from across the room- I generally have trouble doing that.

It makes me feel as though I’m staring and stalking like a predator, so I avoid eyeing a girl down altogether.

On the approach, I do seek eye contact though.

It is when I’m not approaching the girl as yet, that I get uneasy with looking her in the eyes.

Now don’t get me wrong, by no means am I at the bar with my head and gaze lowered to the floor in order to avoid eye contact with people like a passive anti-social dude!

My head and eyes are always up in the air. However, instead of looking women directly in the eyes, I would elect to scan the room instead by slowly sweeping my eyes and head in various directions.

Ok, so that is my sticking-point which I have been aware of for the greater part of the last 5 years.

Yep- I said 5 fucking years!

Granted I never made a serious effort in correcting this apart from acknowledging the handicap and knowing that it is something I wish to fix.

By the way, this inability to look women in the eyes if I’m not approaching them, only occurs in venues such as nightclubs, bars, stores, restaurants, etc.

If I’m at a fast-food joint ordering a burger and there’s a hottie across the room eating or waiting in another line, I would check her out for sure, but avoid eye contact if I don’t have the logistics to approach her.

If we do lock eyes, I would generally look away.

This is somewhat human instincts by the way [to look away and not stare] which dates back to the pre-historic man…in my hypothesis.

Getting caught staring at another Homo-Erectus’ woman (especially if he’s an Alpha-Male), might get you spared or stoned. So over time, humans becoming self-preservation oriented, began taking measures to appear more non-threatening.

Again- this is actually my theory but sounds plausible. πŸ˜‰

Anywho, so looking away whenever someone catches your eyes isn’t an abnormal neither rare occurrence.

It’s actually the norm to look away…especially for women since fear and safety are bigger factors for them.

Nevertheless, I would love to eye-fuck a hottie from across the bar counter without feeling like Ted Bundy.

This is something I’ll continue to work on and hopefully master it by year’s end.

I have been making strides over the past week by solidly looking women in the eyes whenever I pass them on the roadside and am unable to chat them up [poor logistics].

Lastly, my sticking-point goes to show that none of us are immune to having glitches in our game.

None of us are too advanced to having flaws neither.

Thus, hopefully you guys will have become comforted by the revelation that Kenny does have sticking-points and he doesn’t have his shit all together.

Ciao!

How To Make Sexual-Eye Contact With A Girl [Bedroom-Eyes Video Demonstration]

I made this post due to the lack of content in the seduction-sphere on the art of sexual-eye contact.

A huge-sticking point of mines has always been EC (Eye Contact); how to use it and hold it the proper way to cause the sort of reaction I wanted from the girl.

Looking someone directly in the eyes isn’t an easy feat as most in the community make it out to be.

It comes off as intrusive and aggressive to stare someone in the eyes.

Once you can get pass the hurdle of not feeling too intrusive to look someone in the eyes, you’re 80% there to mastering proper-eye contact.

Now, the good news with this technique is that you won’t have to look the girl directly in the eyes in order to create the bedroom eyes/ “I wanna fuck you so bad” look.

As a lot of seduction coaches will tell you, you don’t necessarily have to look into the target’s eyes…if you feel that it would be somewhat intrusive.

What you do instead is to focus your eyes in between her eyes or the top of her nose bridge. Your eyes can be focused there, and not necessarily looking into her eyes…at least not at this point in the game.

Check out the photo below of pop-singer Rihanna. Within the blue circle is where you want to look when in conversation face-to-face with the target.

Focus your eyes within the blue circle of Rihanna's face

Focus your eyes within the blue circle of Rihanna’s face

Not that it’s a bad idea to look directly into her eyes, but it’s best to start indirect until you get the nuances and vibe down pat.

Your sexual-eye contact injections should be subtle and in moderation to appear as natural as possible.

The more you convey naturalness with your bedroom eyes: the stronger the impact and realness of the sexualized state you’re trying to create.

See the following set of photos of how you should do this and how to actually position your eyes the right way.

Sexual-Bedroom Eye Contact

Sexual bedroom eyes #1

Sexual bedroom eyes #1

Sexual bedroom eyes #2

Sexual bedroom eyes #2

Sexual bedroom eyes #3

Sexual bedroom eyes #3

Sexual bedroom eyes #4

Sexual bedroom eyes #4

Notice how my eyes are slanted, lids lowered and head tilted to the side a bit (in some of the photos)?

The lowered effect of the eyes gives the impression of sleepy, which is symbolic of the bedroom.

The girl will obviously know that you’re not sleepy or tired since you’re engaged in the dialogue. So you don’t have to worry about sending the wrong signal.


Non-Sexual-Bedroom Eye Contact

The photos below exhibit how not to make bedroom eyes. In other words, the following photos do not create an “I want to fuck you” look. They are neutral-eye contact gestures when NOT trying to create a sexual vibe.

Non-sexual eye contact

Non-sexual eye contact

Non-sexual eye contact

Non-sexual eye contact

Non-sexual eye contact

Non-sexual eye contact

Non-sexual eye contact

Non-sexual eye contact

The wider opened your eyes are, the less sexual effect they communicate.

Conversely, the dimmer they are (within reason of course), the more they communicate sex.

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The next time you’re conversing with a girl, be it on a date (across the table), @ the bar, nightclub, on your sofa, etc. and you’re looking to create a sexual vibe, remember to focus on your eyes and how you position them.

1.) Focus your eyes in between both of hers

2.) Dim the eyes (lower your lids)

3.) Tilt your head sideways as you listen to her talk and while you talk

4.) Vary and alternate the gestures: head tilted to the left, then the right, then straight ahead…

5.) Introduce a bit of lip-biting and lip-licking to heighten the sexual vibe

Watch the video of me illustrating this (sexual-eye contact) and how to create it (sexual-eye contact).

Related content: Eye Contact Flirting, by Chase Amante

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