Chick Decided To Google Me…”Oh Nooooooo”!!!!!


I sometimes get chicks who Google me.

Do I ever panic?

Not at all.

However, with this chick; I did get a bit panicky because I never anticipated her googling me.

Usually, the occasional girl who
admits to googling me, had always led on to it. So I expected it. But this chick here caught me by surprise! But all in all- it is a HUGE DHV to have women google you- especially if something eyebrow raising pops up…anything short of heinous of course.

By the way, this is a girl whom
I’m currently gaming via Facebook, so it’s crazy ironic that she’s been reading my blog, essentially learning my moves and shit. But again guys; this is a plus!

I want to end this off by asking you this: why isn’t she appalled and royally turned off by this discovery?

Why does she find it interesting opposed from sleazy and awful?

I mean- after all- I write about the sexual exploitation of women [this wouldn’t be my definition, but often that of outside observers].

The thing is, women secretly love the idea of being talked about; whether good or bad.

I posed a status to Facebook the other day saying that 80% of the personal statuses which women post to social media, are about them being talked about, hated on, they’re the center of someone else’s attention in some negative way, and so on and so on.

Chicks are consumed by this notion of being talked about and written about. It is the classic example of no publicity is bad publicity.

Throughout my time of blogging about women, on about 5 separate occasions, I’ve had the girls whom I’d written about, discovered that they were blogged about (sexually).

However they were able to find out is somewhat puzzling to me (perhaps they’d googled me). But the most important take away- at least for me- is that these girls were hardly bothered in any genuine sense upon the discovery that they were the center of attention somewhere out there on the internet.

Of those 5 girls who found out that I blogged about picking them up, and shagging them, not 1 of them requested that I remove the article about her.

Moreover, I had even suggested (via email correspondence with the girl) to remove the blog post if they felt uncomfortable.

To my surprise, the mere thought of me removing the article, seemed to have rubbed them the wrong way. 😯

It’s like they were saying to themselves: “How dare you even suggest removing the article after you’d already written about me, and made me the center of attention for a day or 2 on the internet”!

In a nutshell, it is almost always a plus to have a girl google you and find something apart from your Facebook or social-media accounts.

Accept The DHV & Pre-Selection Props That They Give You


Unlike the greater percentages of males out there, I happen to work with an all-female staff with myself being the lone male.

This dynamic can be good or bad depended on how you look at things.

For instance: women are very catty, petty and bitchy. In the workplace environment there’s no difference.

On the other hand, you can actually learn a lot about women by observing their operations as in a co-worker situation such as myself.

In addition to that, you should take note of nuance circumstances like when your female coworkers inadvertently play you up to other girls (perhaps another female coworker).

Historically; I don’t do coworkers. Not that I have anything against it, nor do I believe it’s unethical and so forth. I just don’t often have the logistical opportunity to bang a coworker (though I have in the past).

In any case, and this doesn’t have to be a coworker situation, there are times when your female coworkers, or women for that matter, will DHV you or make you appear as an attractive man to others women.

Note: this is done inadvertently and sub-consciously.

Ever had women (or a woman) say some slick, snarky shit to you, or about you, in the presence of other chicks?

Of course you have!

We all have!

Generally, guys play the ultra-defensive role in trying to defuse the snarky comment, not realizing that this may actually be a DHV in his favor.

What am I actually getting at?

Well- for example- I have 3 female coworkers who regularly bust my chops and try to play C&F (Cocky-Funny) with me.

We have like a push-pull, banterish sort of relationship.

Over the past few months, the main antagonist would say to me:

“So Kenny, how many women did you sleep with over the weekend since you’re such a whore”?

“BINGO”!

Rationally thinking, the average guy would take such a comment/question in the negative, to either play the defensive or get somewhat annoyed at the audacity of being called a man-whore.

Whenever this prime antagonist of a coworker, around other female coworkers, says that I’m a whore, I flip the script and take it positively.

I don’t tell her to stop.

I don’t back down from her assertions.

Even when I tell her that I’m an angel, it isn’t believable at all, coupled with the fact that I’m being humorous about the angel part.

Overall, you never want to get offended whenever chicks inadvertently make you look more attractive in the eyes of other women.

If a girl calls you a whore or womanizer; you don’t back down from that claim!

You own it by agreeing with her! Or play it cool while being neutral.

Here’s what I’ve been noticing over the months ever since 3 female coworkers of mines, in particular, have been trying to brand me as a womanizing player (which I am by the way): those same 3, included the others who tend to keep out of the back and forth banter, they have been coming on to me ever so slightly over the past month or so.

This means more subtle IOI’s from them, and more insinuations and sexual innuendos on their part.

Here’s the reality- and this is for guys who aren’t au-fait with what we teach in seduction: women are subconsciously attracted to womanizers, players and ladies’ man.

I won’t get into elaborate details about how and why this is.

As an average thinker who’ve drunk the koolaid of mainstream dating, you’re led to believe that being labeled a womanizing lad would devastate any chance of that guy ever getting a girlfriend or even just to get a girl remotely interested.

Well- top-tier pick-up artists such as myself have debunked this myth time after time.

Hence, as it pertains to the situation between my female coworkers and myself, I was smart enough to see through the facade, and in turn, work it in a way that amplifies the attraction.

Be on guard for the subtle IOI’s and when girls talk you up in the presence of other girls.

Did She Think It Was An April Fools Prank?

When you’re accustomed to picking up so many girls you’re bound to run into the quality problem of picking up girls who have the same name.

This chick whom I’d picked up back in December during DayGame, hit me up this morning. But I mistook her for another girl in my phone who has the same name as hers.

For some weird reason, I didn’t save her name with a nickname as I usually give every girl I pick up.

On another note, it goes to show that when you’re used to picking up lots of chicks, no 1 girl is ever that special…at least not for me.

I often pick up chicks and forget their name and # and don’t even contact them in months…as is the case with this chick whom I was supposed to meet up with back in December but I stood her up due to other plans.

Anyway, I totally didn’t know which Joyanne it was since I have 2 of them in my phone. If I’m up to it; I may just grab a drink with her later.
[Her texts in white. Mines green]

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And no it wasn’t an April Fool’s joke.

Picking Up More Random Girls On Facebook With Boyfriend + Meeting Up @ Hotel As My Designated Rendezvous Spot [Girl 2]


Hey guys, just another day at the office with the Facebook pulls.

This time around, I will detail 2 pulls almost simultaneously, of 2 girls having a boyfriend [but this post will only deal with the 1st pull].

With the 1st hot girl, the script was semi-usual: I came across her profile, checked to see that she was located on the same island, sent her a friend request with an accompanying-inbox message demonstrating high value and so forth.

Just as with 95% of the randoms whom I friend-request: she accepted within the matter of 45 minutes the most.

Now, this was back in April that I met her online and friend-requested her.

As in a handful of cases, I don’t immediately pounce upon the girl for a meet-up or a # if I sense that she has tons of guys hitting her up based on her hotness…and if my fucket-list is already filled.

Hence, I added her since April and literally didn’t inbox her again until July.

Again guys- if you’ve been following my recent posts, you will have noticed that this is part of my strategy where I allow massive chunks of time to pass while subtly popping up on the girl’s radar through the periphery.

In other words, I would comment on every 1 in 4 of her statuses and photos [all cheeky stuff of course], essentially making my presence known but in a way that demonstrates that I won’t chase, I won’t stalk, I won’t get creepy, neither shall I be in her inbox every second begging for her phone number.

Again- this sort of move separates me from the pack of clueless men [98% of them].

The girl will then wonder: “Why isn’t this dude kissing my ass as every other guy does? Why isn’t he inboxing me every second with some lame-ass shit and trying to get my #”?

Hence the story with this girl: I added and inboxed her [once] in April then again in July.

I didn’t beg nor ask for her number, nor did I tell her how beautiful and hot she was as 99.9% of men would have done.

Let me just say that there’s nothing intrinsically wrong with complimenting a woman on her beauty. Just that you don’t want to make that your ice-breaker.

You don’t want the girl to believe that the primary reason you’d contacted her was because of her looks.

As shallow as women are, they want to be appreciated for more than just their fucking looks!

Therefore, if your initial message reads something like, “Morning sweetheart. I think your very pretty. Can we talk”? Then you are doing it all wrong!

Now, I know what you’re going to say: “But Kenny, you inbox girls telling them that they’re beautiful and sexy, so what’s the difference”!?

Sexy! But never beautiful!

Rare as it is, about 5-10% of my Facebook openers consist of me saying to the girl that she’s sexy or hot.

However, that observation/compliment still is NOT the focal point of my message.

If I inbox a random on Facebook and tell her that she’s hot, I am not just making that observation alone.

I will have tamper it down by affixing a high-value comment along with the compliment.

Confused?

Here’s an example of what the average guy does, and what I do [5-10% of the time].

Average guy [low-value approach]: “Good morning sweetie. You’re very beautiful. Can we talk sometimes”?

Kenny [high-value approach]: “Hey Jamie, you’re definitely hot. Anyway, I’m Kenny. Looking forward to catch up when the time is right. Later”.

See the difference?

I’m not begging her for anything [convo, #, her time, etc]!

Thus, my approach [initial inbox] was high value, even though I told the girl that she’s hot, while the average guy’s was low value because he mainly focused on her looks while DLV’ing himself further by begging the girl something [conversation].

Therefore, it is not that you shouldn’t tell a girl within your first message online that she’s hot or pretty [though I advise you not to]. It’s just that you shouldn’t highlight her physical beauty [by solely commenting on that] while simultaneously begging her for something.

I mean, think of it this way. If someone is trying to get something out of you, what is the most common tactic he or she would use?

Flattery!

Sweet talk!

Compliments!

Telling a girl she’s pretty, then in the same breath, try to get conversation or a # out of her, will often times inadvertently make you come off as a nefarious character with hidden agendas. Just as the vagrant or street-bum with a pleasant smile, holding the door for you in order to beg spare change.

That is how you come off when you compliment a hot girl, then immediately afterwards try to get her # or some of her time.

This is why strategically “Waiting” is so crucial!

In a recent article, I spoke about Strategic Patience.

Ok, so with this girl, I messaged her back in April [sounds redundant- I know].

Quite frankly- and this is what I’ve been speaking to- I didn’t expect her to reply.

I was merely making an introduction, which doesn’t require reciprocation.

Shoot and go!

Shoot and go!

Meanwhile, while commenting on her statuses [every 1 in 4], I was making my presence known without flooding her inbox like a chode.

July comes around [notice how long I waited], I inboxed her for the 2nd time. So that’s 2 non-needy messages in 3 months. Nowhere in the world a girl would think such an approach is desperate.

As you can see from the FB screenshot with time stamp of the July message.

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Again- she never replied.

No worries!

That was in July.

About 2 weeks ago [in September], I sent a 3rd message on a Friday as you can see in the same screenshot.

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Again- it was a non-needy and non-complimenting comment.

I wasn’t begging for a thing but merely making a trivial observation.

As I eluded to above, you want to appear as non-needy and unattached as possible.

Telling her she looks difference in every photo is a subtle dig which can mean a good or bad thing. Hence, it is hinting towards a girl’s insecurities where she is now left to wonder if she looks good or bad based on my observation on her photo.

Women are very fucking vain!

Remind you- she never replied up to this point [since April] until now.

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Such an innocuous observation was powerful enough to finally get her attention.

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Her first ever reply in 6 months was an approval-seeking one where she asked if it was a bad thing that she always looks different in every pic.

In pick-up terminology: this psychological tactic is called qualifying, where the girl tries to make your grade instead of you trying to make hers.

Now here it is, that a super-hot chick who had ignored my messages for nearly 6 months, is now trying to prove herself to me in asking if it is a bad or good thing that she looks different in her photos.

What happened?

How did the switch flip, and why didn’t she just continue to ignore me?

The fact that I never chased her for convo, I didn’t flood her inbox with lame texts or at all, and I made her a bit self-conscious, therefore this raised my value in her eyes.

The FB chat continues [her texts in grey. Mines in blue].

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The point isn’t to chat for chatting sake.

My goal is always to hook up…meet up then hook up. Hence, I asked her about her weekends.

My pitch is always the same as of late [drink and snack date @ my hotel or guest house].

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Always assume that the girl has a boyfriend- because the reality is- all girls have boyfriends! But that never deters them from hanging out and hooking up with me. πŸ˜‰

She then called me through Messenger, which I thought was a mistake, so I hung up. We eventually set up the particulars of the meet-up.

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We did manage to meet up over the weekend [Sunday] at my hotel as planned.

A great yet subtle trick I find that works like magic is to tell the girl [because of her relationship status] that it is much safer to dine in a private location [as a hotel] instead of a bar or restaurant where anyone can just walk in.

If you can’t find a cheap hotel, then suggest somewhere else.

Nine in ten times, the girl will oblige.

In fact, I’ve yet to meet a girl over Facebook who declined to meet up at my hotel for drinks under the guise that it is safer.

Which girl who has a boyfriend would decline to meet in private instead of a bar where she could get caught by someone who knows her boyfriend?

Hence, it is a great tactic to getting girls to agree to meet up.

Truth be told: I didn’t get to sleep with this girl. But that’s besides the point.

What I want you to take away from this article are these main points.

*No begging for conversation, and no compliment unless it’s done in a way that makes you seem un-fazed by her beauty.

*If a girl ignores your messages [on Facebook for instance], it may very well be a test to see whether you’ll chode yourself out and go text crazy.

*Always keep things low invested. Structure your texts in a way that give off the vibe that you can take it or leave it.

At the end of the day, the girl sees every message she gets. But she screens out the ones that are low valued where the sender is either asking for something, i.e. number or conversation.

Every Girl I Pick Up Knows The Deal From The Gate


Years ago, even before the pick-up community was fully established around 2001-02, there was this sense in the dating, courtship and mating worlds that a guy must hide his dick.

In non-ambiguous terms: guys were taught to, and also thought to themselves, that it was imperative to NOT GIVE OFF ANY SIGN OF BEING A PLAYER OR A GUY WHO WANTED CASUAL RELATIONSHIPS…i.e. sex.

This was the standard practice and mindset of most guys who were into meeting women.

Their primary aim was to try their best to hide the fact that they wanted sex or that they were already getting sex elsewhere.

Today, this sort of thinking still predominates the male mindset in the dating marketplace.

Guys are still hiding their dicks…proverbially, afraid that if they reveal their card [that they love sex], women will run for the hills.

Now, here’s the thing [at least with me]: you don’t necessarily want to rub it in a girl’s face that you’re Mr. Pimp Daddy, by verbalizing it.

Your vibe and existential factors [such as your social-media postings] should say this…that you’re a ladies’ man.

I mean- let’s put it this way: no one likes a braggy person- AT ALL!

It’s a fucking turn off!

You have these guys who brag and talk about how much money they make and spend, and how many cars they’d driven and owned since college, how many degrees they have, etc, etc, etc.

We all know some of these characters and they are a fucking turnoff to be around!

It isn’t that they have accomplishments which make them proud.

It is simply because they “VERBALIZE” their accomplishments without being asked, which makes them come off as though they are pompous jerks.

The best way to put your accomplishments out there when interacting with new people, is to NOT verbalize them at all [at least not when you’re not asked] but to make them visible!

A classic example of action speaks louder than words let’s say.

You want your actions/accomplishments/tangibles, intangibles and persona to be on display for others to check out.

Hence, instead of being that inept try-hard who blurts out, “I drive a luxury car which cost me $100,000 grand”! You want to not verbalize it at all, but somehow be connected and linked to the luxury car parked outside of the bar. Either you’re seen coming out of it, getting into it, or the question of “do you drive” pops up.

However, never take it upon your own volition to volunteer information that may make you seem pompous, or others will feel as though you’re aiming to please and that you somehow feel as though you’re above them.

Ok, so how does this relate to meeting new women and my format of getting laid?

Well, as I mentioned above, it is never wise to rub it in a girl’s face that you are a man-whore.

Sounds contradicting since I do this all the time…but that’s another story for another time.

Surely I tell girls whom I just met that I want to fuck them with no strings attached and that I’m a gigolo and they’ll have to pay me for my services. πŸ™‚ πŸ˜† πŸ™‚

However, this is done within the context of humor, banter and attraction-building. So “timing” makes all the difference, and you’ll learn how to calibrate this as you get better with attracting women and learning how to flip their internal-attraction switches.

For now though, since you’re not as calibrated in that sense, you want to avoid telling new girls that you’re only interested in sex.

Your vibe, approach, aura and what the girl can see from you, should communicate this…that you’re looking to hook up primarily.

One way in which I communicate this is through my Facebook postings…at least with the hotties I pick up on Facebook.

My Facebook is my DHV [Demonstration of High Value] palace!

I don’t have to tell girls what I’m into!

They see it plastered all across my Facebook!

Hence, there is ZERO fucking ambiguity as to what I want, who I am, and what I expect from the women I meet [SEX].

My Facebook is constructed in such a way [through my posts and statuses] that it speaks for me.

Therefore, whenever I contact a random stranger for example, after I will have picked her up [exchange of numbers], during the pickup itself, the girl would undoubtedly be scanning my Facebook to get a sense of the type of guy I am.

If she doesn’t get to do that in real-time, she would do it afterwards.

She isn’t bound to see any chody/nice-guy, asexual bullshit on my wall.

There is nothing that would give her the impression that I was a take-it-slow kinda guy.

Hence, this is a way to “INDIRECTLY” communicate that I have a dick in my pants and am willing, ready and able to use it…without actually saying it to the girl because that would come off as pompous, try-hard and subsequently be a turn off…though I get away with it anyway! πŸ˜‰

Therefore, when I meet a new girl online, there is no question of, “I wonder what he wants from me”?

Moreover, whenever I throw my super casual “let’s meet up” pitch, I never have to tell the girl that the reason we are meeting up is to have sex.

My Facebook profile would’ve already taken care of that as an unofficial wingman of mines. πŸ˜‰

Thus, when a girl goes out with me, she’s not coming under the impression that she’s getting a free meal, free drink, have a platonic interaction then conclude the so-called date on a friendly hug-and-bye note.

No!

She knows the deal way ahead of time!

This is how you indirectly manage girl’s expectations of you and your desires.

Ok, so what are some of the things I post to my personal Facebook that aid me to communicate to girls that I’m a ladies man who only wants to hook up?

Here are some very recent screenshots.

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Now, most guys are liable to go, “But Kenny, such obnoxious posts are gonna turn women off”! 😦

Au contraire mon frere.

Girls are actually turned off by men who hide their dicks!

The easiest way to have women see you as a non-sexual item, is to post all sorts of lame crap to social media. And by “lame”, I mean sports, movie, shows, songs and the likes.

Women love a man who has his own opinions…usually unorthodox ones.

Posting about the latest football game or Lebron Jame’s spectacular dunk, do nothing whatsoever to convey your opinion and personality to women. Just that you’re a spectator type of guy who passes his time zombied-out in front of a television.

Women want to see what you’re made of ahead of time!

She doesn’t want that during the friend-to-friend date, you whip your cock out expecting to get a blowjob when her impressions of you were that of a non-sexual wuss-bag without an opinion of his own in life!

On that note, the parting message here for you guys is that if you’re looking to pick up girls on Facebook, and to convey that you’re a sex-worthy guy, begin to build your Facebook in a way that communicates this by posting things which are congruent with a guy who knows his way around the bedroom.

Need some examples?

Re-read my screenshots above!

If you’re too pussy to tweak your personal Facebook in such a way [perhaps you have family members as friends]; create another Facebook account specific to online game. Or post statuses and content to specific friends through the privatization and friend-list filter.

When you will have done that, you’ll begin to meet women who know upfront what your deal is.

A girl may very well just want to hook up with you. But for the simple fact that she cannot gauge your persona or personality, she will pretend as though she’s adverse to the idea of casual sex.

Thus, before you even inbox a girl on Facebook, you should have already tweaked your FB by having a slew of bad-ass statuses on your wall that she’s free to check out.

Hence, you’ll be putting it out there that you’re a pussy-slayer [even though you’re not] without actually verbalizing it…which comes off as try-hard.

In a recently posted infield video of mines [from the Caribbean], the script was the same.

I met this chick online, she knew what I was about [through browsing my stuff], hence she knew that to go out with me, meant that sex was inevitable, and the rest was history.

Ciao!

Girl Wanted To Pay Me To F**k Her And To Write About It

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Want an interesting story?

This Indian hottie from Vegas contacted me about 7 months ago on Facebook with a proposition.

She claimed that she’s a fan of my work and has been a follower for some time.

She’s also said that she’s into black men, but black guys in Las Vegas have no game and she’s constantly going home alone every night from the club.

Hence, so- she was willing to fly me out to Vegas for a weekend just to fuck her. Or she would take a flight to where I was if that was more convenient.

Great proposition; but I politely declined.

She then went further to say that she would pay me beforehand, if I were to write a false field/lay report about her, essentially lying that I had picked her up, seduced her and fucked her.

Again; I politely declined.

I’m not in the business of writing falsified stories/field reports based on lies…I explained to her.

Anyway, so what was her angle/aim in wanting me to write a blog post about her?

Attention, Recognition and Retribution!

Some chicks are addicted to the camera just as they are to having people talk about them.

Some chicks want recognition through social media, YouTube or the blogger-sphere.

Now, as for the East Indian chick from Vegas, this was actually deeper.

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Her boyfriend had dumped her and she wanted a way to get back at him.

What better way to get back at the guy who dumped her, than to have him find out that his ex-girlfriend was fucking some black Pick-Up Artist, and the proof would’ve been in the article circulated on the internet. 😯

The chick actually sent me a virtual stack of photos to use in the article as “Proof”.

She was dead-serious about this shit and was willing to pay a hefty sum for my nefarious assistance!

Again; I declined!

That had nothing to do with ethics or morals on my part.

I have no qualms with treating a girl like trash. But I just don’t believe in writing fake shit in order to make myself look like the biggest Don Juan.

At the end of the day, I took away 2 things from that situation:

1.) Women in America are sex-deprived because the average guy has shitty game…regardless of his race.

2.) Pickup is a huge DHV! This is why I encourage every student of the game to start to embrace this lifestyle and plaster the shit all over social media!

If you didn’t learn by now that chicks love attention, controversy and drama, then you’re either deaf, dumb or blind…or all of the above.

Additionally, this proposition is all indicative of the reality that, though hot women have tons of options- and they surely do- it doesn’t mean that they will use those options.

A girl may be talking to lots of guys at the moment, but they all serve distinctive purposes in her life, not just sexual.

Hence, though she may be talking to 30 guys at the moment [hypothetically], on average, only 2 of them would have been sexual items.

She’s cannot realistically fuck 30 guys within the same cycle…even if she’s into all 30 of them, and even if she wanted to fuck all 30.

Thus, what you have is a case where hot girls have options but those options aren’t passing their fuck-worthy test, so those options either become friend-zoned and or get used as utilities for different purposes like running errands and providing monetary favors.

At the end of the day, it is very telling when a hot girl has to complain about men not knowing how to approach her and how many sexless nights she’s had.

Hence, this is another reason why learning pickup will pay off in the end for both parties.

Why You’re Stupid For Not Chatting Up Fatties


If you follow me on Facebook and once followed my old Twitter account, you would have been familiar with my shtick and knack for gaming girls.

A huge part of my success in game and becoming a social master, is the fact that I chat up and flirt with anyone…as in any girl!

Most guys who get into pickup, are lulled into the HB hype by thinking that if they don’t chat up women of immaculate beauty: it somehow doesn’t count.

How absurd!

This backwards ideology has stunted guy’s progress and set them back by at least half.

In other words, had the average PUA newbie been chatting up every girl he gets a crack at, he would have progressed at a much faster rate opposed to only singling out the super-hot girls in whom to chat up and game.

I am actually the 1st in pickup to advocate that all women are game-worthy…though I was once notorious for fat-shaming.

It doesn’t mean you have to fuck every girl or the ones you find reprehensibly unattractive.

I’m simply saying that by chatting up more girls- all girls- you will have put yourself way ahead of those guys who are combing the venues and streets in search of the HB8’s and better.

Some years ago [back in 2012], a clown blogger who goes by the name of Matt Forney, had created the following meme in an attempt to defame me and somewhat shame me for chatting up “fatties” on Twitter…according to him.

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Little did the idiot know- including his minions- I was continually building my reservoir of social skills and flexing my flirting muscles while they were busy circle-jerking each other in Twitter mentions when they could’ve been honing their craft by @mentioning women over Twitter.

Hence, while I was progressing in game and refining my craft [by chatting up every girl], other guys were bunting their potential progress by limiting themselves to only chatting up the sparingly hot girl who comes along ever so often.

Outside of the internet: the same can be said for aspiring PUA’s.

When I was a newbie, many many years ago, I used to hit the bars and nightclubs religiously. But only gunning for the hottest girl in the venue.

Sure this makes for a great challenge and ego-boost, in knowing you can chat to the hottest girl in the venue.

However, there was hardly any guarantee that I would even get to the hottest girl…let alone get the logistical chance to chat her up.

What would in turn happen, was an entire-fucking night wasted with no sets under my belt to show for it- simply because I was prowling for the elusive HB10’s!

Hypothetically, what if there was none in the venue at all!?

What I should have done instead was to chat up the 1st girl who happened to be in my way upon entrance into the club.

Moreover, I should have chatted up the 4, 5’s, 6’s and 7’s instead of wall-flowering and pacing around like someone who had missed the bus when social skills were being handed out.

To this day, I see other PUA’s making the same mistakes as I did when I was a newbie, which is to talk to no girl at all unless she’s a solid 10 in everyone’s book.

As for online and trying to attract girls over Facebook: the “chat up everyone” approach is still applicable and rational.

Guys fail to realize that pre-selection is viewed completely differently through the eyes of women and men.

In other words: girls don’t judge other women on how old, young, fat or skinny they are.

Any girl presents a threat to another girl just by virtue of being a girl.

That’s it!

Likewise, any girl who comments on your statuses, will have managed to draw in other girls…even if she is butt ugly and way below the societal standards of beauty.

Once again: women don’t look at other women and judge their value based on how they look.

That is what men do as the ‘Visually’ stimulated creatures we are.

For men, it is all about the girl’s appearance.

For women, the actions and sub-communications are way more important.

Hence, I have all types of women who regularly comment on my Facebook status updates who will serve as pawns in the game of seduction in attracting hotter girls who may have been lingering in the periphery.

This is unfortunately what most guys miss by thinking that it’s a DLV (Demonstration of Lower Value] to engage girls who aren’t that hot on their statuses.

I’ve proven this to be pure bullshit time and time again.

Another problem that most guys in pickup face, is the fact that they’re looking to impress other men rather than appeal to women.

Guys: you’re not in pickup to pick up other men!

Who gives a fuck what other men think of you and your approach to getting laid!?

You’re in this to attract women…right!?

Therefore, pay no mind to guys who may attempt to shame you because of “fat girls” commenting on your wall or status updates.

They can’t pull that shit on me…At All!

I’ve been in pickup way too long for Johnny-Come-Latelies to dare try to question my approach and method to picking up women.

As someone who commands a following in this genre, over the years, I manage to awaken guys to a novel approach in game, which is that every approach counts!

Every approach you don’t make will count against you!

Hence, if you’re running Day-Game for instance and you haven’t chatted up any girls within the 1st few minutes of being in the field: then you’re obviously doing it wrong!

You are running up and down, burning yourself out by trying to extract the hottest girl out of the crowd of random women.

This approach is only plausible if and when you’re looking to take someone home.

However, if you’re ‘Practicing’, there is no reason why you should utilize this backwards and antiquated approach to getting good with women by only approaching the hot girl who sparingly walks by.

Every girl whom you potentially approach is practice time, field time and experience in the fucking bank!

Contrarily, waiting for the perfect target to approach will only diminish your field and experience time by 75%!

Listen- there are countless nights in the past when I would hit up a bar and there would be absolute ZERO fucking hot girl in the entire venue!

I would bar hop to another spot and the odds would get dimmer and the girls are more unattractive, more guys to contend with and so forth.

I would end up going home prematurely without a single set under my belt- not a single social muscle flexed in the entire night!

After years of going through this, I said to myself,

“This has to stop! I can’t be going out every weekend and not have shit to show for it”!

That is when my style changed from gunning for HB10’s to chatting up anyone in the venue who has a vagina!

Now, this doesn’t mean you have to take women whom you deem as unattractive home!

You can pretty much use that time and that approach to get in state if need be.

There is such a thing as warm-up set you know. ❓

You don’t actually have to approach your idea girl at the time of night when you aren’t socially warmed-up.

Those times should be spent on gaming girls whom you have no interest in taking home…which are the fat girls and grannies…granted you’re not into shagging them.

Gone are the days where you should be expected to wall-flower inside the bar like an AFC, just because no hot girls are presently there.

I’m reminded of a recent Facebook post by pick-up’s wannabe comedian/troll, Mike Casanova, in an attempt to make fun of PUA guru, Jeff Allen [JLaix], where Mike posted the following photo of Jeffy chatting to a girl inside of a Vega venue.

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PUA guru, RSD Jeffy

Mike Casanova was pretty much insinuating that PUA gurus were chatting up “Fat girls”, contrary to what their promo-pieces state, and it is absolutely reprehensible to talk to a girl who isn’t stick-figured!

I chimed in on the same post with a fair assessment.

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As you would’ve read from the screenshot: Mike’s justification was warranted…by him at least.

Nevertheless, it could have very well been a case of what I described earlier as warm-up sets or limited sets…or simply that JLaix doesn’t mind shagging girls on the thicker side…like I enjoy doing [but that’s no surprise as a black dude]. πŸ˜‰

Be as it may, as the running title clearly states: “You’re stupid for not chatting up fatties”!

Over the internet- Facebook for example- I implore guys to apply the very same approach and rational towards gaming girls online.

If “Game” opportunity presents itself by way of a girl who isn’t your type: Take advantage of it anyway!

Doing so cannot and will not hurt you, nor your advancement, but to accelerate it and push you way ahead of the guys who are solely scheming on opportunities to chat up the hottest girls.