The Grind Caught Up To Me [Canceling On Girl]

​Was so tired so early last night, I had to cancel on this chick who wanted to come over and rub my furry back. 

Note to self: I have to find a way to pace my nights better, or else I’ll have to resort to downing a pint of coffee just to try to stay up on nights that I end up going home early. 

By the way guys; I call every girl “babes”, and half of them call me babes…likewise.

[My texts in green]

Basically, as they wuld say in the U.K. : I was knackered! 

I was actually at the bar taking it light as possible. Grabbed me something to eat, with no intentions of seeing the corridors of my apartment for the rest of the night.

By 8 o’clock though, I just couldn’t manage to stay out. And since this chick had texted me about coming over, I didn’t mine going home to await her arrival. 

In any case, that obviously didn’t materilize since I canceled on her from being so tired.

Be as it may, the dating grind gets so hectic at times that a crash and burn period is inevitable.

Chick Exposes Kenny On Social Media [Put on blast]

The other day, this chick put me on blast for calling her ugly because she tried to play hard-to-get games when I tried to get her phone #.

I mean, chicks get a kick out of putting guys on blast as a way to shame them into submission and to gather online support from other women and sympathetic males.

Guys who get put on blast usually get defensive, cower, fold, submit then disappear by deleting their account.

Surely I was wrong for calling her ugly because she played hard-to-get. But I’ll be damned if a chick thinks she could ever successfully shame me publicly into feeling bad, guilty or deplorable.

It’s all about seeking attention with girls. After all, that’s what they use Facebook for…and I don’t have a problem with that.

Interestingly enough, the girl and I have become good FB buddies ever since.

I never apologized for calling her ugly (which she isn’t). But I did comment on her scathing post about me, clearing up the misunderstanding, however in a high-value way.

Want Proof That Women Are Bipolar And Emotionally Unstable?

​So, do you actually need proof that women are bipolar and highly emotionally unstable and prone to fluctuations in states and moods? 

Okay, so I was texting a bit this afternoon with a sexy chick whom I’d been wanting to bang for almost 3-4 years now. 

She lives in the house next to my apartment complex on the west side. 

Anyway, our convo was going great. I then asked her about her plans for later. 

All of a sudden, she replies with some BS out of left field, saying to stop texting her phone. She further mentioned that she knows that her BF doesn’t like me. 

Why does her BF hate my guts? Because I picked up and fucked his ex-girlfriend almost 3 years ago. 

Since that day, this guy totally hates me…which I can understand…I guess. But this chick already knew that her BF hates me. So to mention it now again is sorta crazy. But anyway, I simply blocked that bitch and deleted her # from my Whatsapp and phone contacts. 

[My texts in green]

All in all: women operate on emotional waves which are constantly fluctuating.

One second she’s down to meet up. Two seconds later; she blows you off unexpectedly.

Chode Shit: Telling Girls To Smile More

Low-valued activities from men, really tick me off!

Not only do they tick me off, but women are also fed up of the chodery and the Beta-Male behaviors which are exhibited by the vast majority of men.

The other day on Facebook, this female whom I know, posted the following meme about smiling.

Seems innocuous.

Here was my response.

Men are indeed full of shit when it comes to things like these!

Give the girl something to smile about instead of trying to tell women that they need to smile more.

I generally hear this complaint a lot from scores of men over the years.

They perceive that a non-smiling girl is a bitchy girl, hence their unwillingness to approach the girl who doesn’t have a cheery expression plastered across her face.

Furthermore, why do men wish for women whom they come across to smile (more)?

It (a smiling face) signals to coward men that they have an easy target, thus having a shot.

If you are guilty of such low-valued expectation as a man; then you are a social coward and an Omega-Male graveling at the bottom of the totem pole, unable to climb.

Sure we all wish that every woman had a pleasant and inviting grin on her face, because that would somehow be encouraging for us to approach her. But whether the girl is smiling or frowning, that shouldn’t discourage you at all from approaching her.

Quit going for the perceived easier targets in women who smile a ton. Looking approaching by having an inviting-facial expression, doesn’t at all indicate how receptive a girl is or will become. So if you believe that telling the girl who works the cash register, that she should smile more, would make your day (or your chances) easier; think again brodie!

I spoke about this a long time ago, and it still rings true to this day: I’ve had more successes with approaching girls who looked bitchy and aggravated than I did (and do) with approaching the ones who were all cheery-looking.

I then accepted the realization through experience, that the girls who appeared to be icy and cold on the exterior, are actually sweethearts once you approach and open!

Go out and field test it!

You’ll be amazed to discovered that the ice queens are often times charming souls just waiting to be greeted. Instead, you either cowardly prance on by them, or make an equally coward move by remarking that they should smile more.

Upon approaching a girl, the absolute last thing I take into consideration is how inviting (or not) her facial expression is.

I can literally care less whether she’s smiling or sulking. So you’ll never hear me ask a girl, “why don’t you smile more”?

Women hate to hear it! So quit saying it because it makes you look low value!

“You Tried To Sleep With My Bestie”

This is the type of shenanigan I hate.

A fuck-buddy hits me up last night saying how disappointed she is that I slept with her bestie and attempted to do the same after I began sleeping with her.

She then asks me to come over and if I can bring a pizza on the way.

I said sure; but only if we’re

She then hits me with the old, “I’m on
my period” skit.


Since you can’t fuck; gimme a blowjob! She then hits me with the “I don’t give blowjobs anymore” line.

No fucky fucky? No sucky sucky? I then called off the whole thing.

Why contact me lamenting about me hooking up with your BFF…though that was before you? Then you try to use “pizza” as bait to get me to come

C’mon girl!

[Her texts in white. Mines in green]






Basically, we met about 4 months ago and started to hook up.

Clearly she had [and has] a boyfriend. But as I’ve been preaching to you ad nauseum; boyfriends don’t matter to most girls [the previous 2 articles will clearly in details explain why this lack of respect for the boyfriend].

Prior to meeting her though, about 2 months earlier, I was hooking up with her bestie [a Brit].

In light of all that, I’m merely annoyed by her audacity. The fact that she has a boyfriend yet continually hounds and pounds me each week about trying to sleep with her BFF.

I mean; I would think that me sleeping with her best friend would be a mute and pale point of contention, in comparison to hooking up with me being her boyfriend’s back being a greater foul…wouldn’t you think?

Anyway, make no mistake about it: she is NOT the exception!

Women generally have their priorities topsy-turvy.

Things that they should be concerned about are always neglected, while the emotionally stimulating events are hoisted to the top of their priority list.

On another note, the reason I had slept with her [this girl] was to get back at her best friend [the Brit] for trying to play me for a fool a few months back.

Her bestie [the Brit] whom I slept with first, pulled some stunt on me where she purposely stood me up on a so-called date…so I came to find out.

As retribution, I spotted the Brit’s bestie at a party once- and on the fly- decided to seduce her and sleep with her in order to piss off the Brit.

We exchanged names and Facebooks, and it started there until we were in full-swing hooking up mode within 48 hours.

I quit dealing wih the Brit altogether as I got my point across by sleeping with her bestie [the subject of this post].

I continued hooking up with this girl intermittently until she found out about her bestie [the Brit] and me, having hooked up before we did. And here we are today with the constant drama where this chick feels betrayed that I would sleep with her best friend [though this was before her].

In spite of her “feigning” disappointed and betrayed, it sure doesn’t stop her from wanting me to come by last night to “watch VT and chill”.

The only reason I never bothered to go by her was because of her period.

It is what it is!

This is just how it goes within the secret society of hooking up.

Girl Wanted To Pay Me To F**k Her And To Write About It


Want an interesting story?

This Indian hottie from Vegas contacted me about 7 months ago on Facebook with a proposition.

She claimed that she’s a fan of my work and has been a follower for some time.

She’s also said that she’s into black men, but black guys in Las Vegas have no game and she’s constantly going home alone every night from the club.

Hence, so- she was willing to fly me out to Vegas for a weekend just to fuck her. Or she would take a flight to where I was if that was more convenient.

Great proposition; but I politely declined.

She then went further to say that she would pay me beforehand, if I were to write a false field/lay report about her, essentially lying that I had picked her up, seduced her and fucked her.

Again; I politely declined.

I’m not in the business of writing falsified stories/field reports based on lies…I explained to her.

Anyway, so what was her angle/aim in wanting me to write a blog post about her?

Attention, Recognition and Retribution!

Some chicks are addicted to the camera just as they are to having people talk about them.

Some chicks want recognition through social media, YouTube or the blogger-sphere.

Now, as for the East Indian chick from Vegas, this was actually deeper.


Her boyfriend had dumped her and she wanted a way to get back at him.

What better way to get back at the guy who dumped her, than to have him find out that his ex-girlfriend was fucking some black Pick-Up Artist, and the proof would’ve been in the article circulated on the internet. 😯

The chick actually sent me a virtual stack of photos to use in the article as “Proof”.

She was dead-serious about this shit and was willing to pay a hefty sum for my nefarious assistance!

Again; I declined!

That had nothing to do with ethics or morals on my part.

I have no qualms with treating a girl like trash. But I just don’t believe in writing fake shit in order to make myself look like the biggest Don Juan.

At the end of the day, I took away 2 things from that situation:

1.) Women in America are sex-deprived because the average guy has shitty game…regardless of his race.

2.) Pickup is a huge DHV! This is why I encourage every student of the game to start to embrace this lifestyle and plaster the shit all over social media!

If you didn’t learn by now that chicks love attention, controversy and drama, then you’re either deaf, dumb or blind…or all of the above.

Additionally, this proposition is all indicative of the reality that, though hot women have tons of options- and they surely do- it doesn’t mean that they will use those options.

A girl may be talking to lots of guys at the moment, but they all serve distinctive purposes in her life, not just sexual.

Hence, though she may be talking to 30 guys at the moment [hypothetically], on average, only 2 of them would have been sexual items.

She’s cannot realistically fuck 30 guys within the same cycle…even if she’s into all 30 of them, and even if she wanted to fuck all 30.

Thus, what you have is a case where hot girls have options but those options aren’t passing their fuck-worthy test, so those options either become friend-zoned and or get used as utilities for different purposes like running errands and providing monetary favors.

At the end of the day, it is very telling when a hot girl has to complain about men not knowing how to approach her and how many sexless nights she’s had.

Hence, this is another reason why learning pickup will pay off in the end for both parties.

Spent Valentine’s Afternoon @ Dkini D-Boat Party

Since I’m not the “romance” type, I convinced my girlfriend to let me go party alone then make it up to her in tht evening with something semi-romantic. 😎 😎

I was highly pissed about forgetting to bring my cameras and cellphones in order to record some sets and take some pics with the hot girls on board.

This “D-Boat” thing is a weekly or semi-monthly afternoon party held on a boat which sails about the Northern coast of the island.

A great place without a doubt to meet lots of chicks.

All in all, this little afternoon frolic cemented my weekend.

Not sure which Dkini D-Boat weekend this video is from, but I had massive fun to say the least…and for my 1st time attending this party on a boat.