The Grind Caught Up To Me [Canceling On Girl]

​Was so tired so early last night, I had to cancel on this chick who wanted to come over and rub my furry back. 

Note to self: I have to find a way to pace my nights better, or else I’ll have to resort to downing a pint of coffee just to try to stay up on nights that I end up going home early. 

By the way guys; I call every girl “babes”, and half of them call me babes…likewise.

[My texts in green]

Basically, as they wuld say in the U.K. : I was knackered! 

I was actually at the bar taking it light as possible. Grabbed me something to eat, with no intentions of seeing the corridors of my apartment for the rest of the night.

By 8 o’clock though, I just couldn’t manage to stay out. And since this chick had texted me about coming over, I didn’t mine going home to await her arrival. 

In any case, that obviously didn’t materilize since I canceled on her from being so tired.

Be as it may, the dating grind gets so hectic at times that a crash and burn period is inevitable.

Chick Exposes Kenny On Social Media [Put on blast]


The other day, this chick put me on blast for calling her ugly because she tried to play hard-to-get games when I tried to get her phone #.

I mean, chicks get a kick out of putting guys on blast as a way to shame them into submission and to gather online support from other women and sympathetic males.

Guys who get put on blast usually get defensive, cower, fold, submit then disappear by deleting their account.

Surely I was wrong for calling her ugly because she played hard-to-get. But I’ll be damned if a chick thinks she could ever successfully shame me publicly into feeling bad, guilty or deplorable.

It’s all about seeking attention with girls. After all, that’s what they use Facebook for…and I don’t have a problem with that.

Interestingly enough, the girl and I have become good FB buddies ever since.

I never apologized for calling her ugly (which she isn’t). But I did comment on her scathing post about me, clearing up the misunderstanding, however in a high-value way.

Want Proof That Women Are Bipolar And Emotionally Unstable?

​So, do you actually need proof that women are bipolar and highly emotionally unstable and prone to fluctuations in states and moods? 

Okay, so I was texting a bit this afternoon with a sexy chick whom I’d been wanting to bang for almost 3-4 years now. 

She lives in the house next to my apartment complex on the west side. 

Anyway, our convo was going great. I then asked her about her plans for later. 

All of a sudden, she replies with some BS out of left field, saying to stop texting her phone. She further mentioned that she knows that her BF doesn’t like me. 

Why does her BF hate my guts? Because I picked up and fucked his ex-girlfriend almost 3 years ago. 

Since that day, this guy totally hates me…which I can understand…I guess. But this chick already knew that her BF hates me. So to mention it now again is sorta crazy. But anyway, I simply blocked that bitch and deleted her # from my Whatsapp and phone contacts. 

[My texts in green]

All in all: women operate on emotional waves which are constantly fluctuating.

One second she’s down to meet up. Two seconds later; she blows you off unexpectedly.

Chode Shit: Telling Girls To Smile More


Low-valued activities from men, really tick me off!

Not only do they tick me off, but women are also fed up of the chodery and the Beta-Male behaviors which are exhibited by the vast majority of men.

The other day on Facebook, this female whom I know, posted the following meme about smiling.

Seems innocuous.

Here was my response.

Men are indeed full of shit when it comes to things like these!

Give the girl something to smile about instead of trying to tell women that they need to smile more.

I generally hear this complaint a lot from scores of men over the years.

They perceive that a non-smiling girl is a bitchy girl, hence their unwillingness to approach the girl who doesn’t have a cheery expression plastered across her face.

Furthermore, why do men wish for women whom they come across to smile (more)?

It (a smiling face) signals to coward men that they have an easy target, thus having a shot.

If you are guilty of such low-valued expectation as a man; then you are a social coward and an Omega-Male graveling at the bottom of the totem pole, unable to climb.

Sure we all wish that every woman had a pleasant and inviting grin on her face, because that would somehow be encouraging for us to approach her. But whether the girl is smiling or frowning, that shouldn’t discourage you at all from approaching her.

Quit going for the perceived easier targets in women who smile a ton. Looking approaching by having an inviting-facial expression, doesn’t at all indicate how receptive a girl is or will become. So if you believe that telling the girl who works the cash register, that she should smile more, would make your day (or your chances) easier; think again brodie!

I spoke about this a long time ago, and it still rings true to this day: I’ve had more successes with approaching girls who looked bitchy and aggravated than I did (and do) with approaching the ones who were all cheery-looking.

I then accepted the realization through experience, that the girls who appeared to be icy and cold on the exterior, are actually sweethearts once you approach and open!

Go out and field test it!

You’ll be amazed to discovered that the ice queens are often times charming souls just waiting to be greeted. Instead, you either cowardly prance on by them, or make an equally coward move by remarking that they should smile more.

Upon approaching a girl, the absolute last thing I take into consideration is how inviting (or not) her facial expression is.

I can literally care less whether she’s smiling or sulking. So you’ll never hear me ask a girl, “why don’t you smile more”?

Women hate to hear it! So quit saying it because it makes you look low value!

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