Quick video and live-infield examples of how to compliment girls the simplest way and not be pooled into the “generic lame” basket.
I stopped a girl [a MILF] heading down the bloc to let her know how much I liked her hair and shades.
Chatted up another MILF pushing a baby-stroller: same compliment (shades).
No hoopla, no magic, no 1,000 words oration of a compliment…
Such compliments aren’t dished out on a day to day basis by men who have the balls to compliment strangers on the streets.
Most women would receive generic compliments on their eyes and looks overall.
This is very tacky and lame in my book.
You would never ever catch me approaching a girl to say to her:
“I just wanted to stop you to let you know how beautiful you were”.
[I know that my U.K. PUA buddies are gonna jump down my throat for this one.] 😉
How about stopping her and letting her know:
“I like your shades”.
Not only is such a compliment original, but it’s rarely ever done since guys are looking to impress and woo women off the compliment openers.
If you want to open a girl with a compliment; keep it original and not based on her looks (physically) but on something she has on: shades, earrings, accessories and even shoes.
It doesn’t only indicate that you have taste and are in-tuned with “trendy”, but it indicates to the girl that you’re not the type of dude who gets easily carried away by beauty and outer appearance, but you can actually appreciate a stylish girl when you see one.
Plus it sets you apart from 99% of men who are hell-bent on complimenting women in order to get brownie points. 🙂
If you want a great guideline on how to compliment women, check out my SPA model [Style, Personality, Attitude]: SPA model of complimenting women.
For the record: I never compliment chicks! The video was just a hypothetical case in order to demonstrate, but compliments I NEVER do!
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