Cougar Insta-Date Pull Field Report


A quick infield-video post which cites:

•How I cold approach women on the streets, and why this is the best way to do so

•How you can make any opener/ice-breaker work…as long as you buy into your own shit!

In the following video from over the weekend (Friday evening), I cold approach this white chick (a Cougar who’s part of a movie-director team) while heading down the bloc.

Once I found out that she’s only going to be here for 2-3 more days, I decided to go for the insta-date instead of the phone # which would’ve been quite useless with such logistics.

Trying to get a random stranger to come along with you sounds like a mammoth task- and perhaps it is- but with time and practice (trial and error) you’ll get a hang of it (how to be persuasive and convincing without being pushy and aggressive).

For one-on-one coaching via Skype, on how to approach and pick up total strangers on the streets, book your session at the following link!

https://kennyspuathoughts.com/need-coaching/

Are You A Go-Getter In The Field?


Guys, when it comes to picking up total strangers while out and about, there are certain ingrained mindsets which make up my Game, such as: BEING A Go-GETTER in the face of bad logistics!

Earlier yesterday , I cold approached and picked up this 21-year old from across a fence, after spotting her standing outside of a building in the courtyard (on her phone) while I was passing on foot. So 2 things: 1.) She was on her phone. 2.) A fence divided us.

Did I allow those 2 bad logistics to stop me from approaching this total stranger?

NO!!!!

Never!!! So, quit using excuses for not approaching hot girls.

Don’t await the “perfect” moment because it hardly ever materializes!

Girl on her phone? So what!

Girl’s on the other side of a gate/fence? So what!!

Those things don’t deter me.

I approach anyway, given poor logistics, just as I demonstrated earlier today when I spotted this 21 year old, got her to get off her phone, come over to me (by the dividing fence), charmed her ass up, time-bridged, got her # and bounced after about 20 minutes of solid conversation.

The video was obviously chopped up extensively. But hopefully you get the mindset/frame in which I operate from while out and about: SCREW the LOGISTICS, APPROACH ANYWAY and ANYWHERE and BECOME A GO-GETTER!

A master pickup artist doesn’t give a rat’s ass about logistics! 

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2 Solid Pickups On A Tuesday Afternoon [American & A Brit]…Field Report


The purpose of this field report is to shed light on something on which lots of guys in pickup tend to miss the ball.

There is allotted day game, then there is sporadic game/pickup.

What do I mean by that?

Most newer guys to the world of pickup, allocate and set aside specific time and days in which to go game girls, practice, sarge, etc.

This isn’t a nad thing by the way.

All newbies start out that way, and should begin that way.

However, as you advance in the game, there’s no longer a need to set aside specific time to game.

You game girls whenever, whenever and however (well- the “however” part is questionable)!

As a master pick-up artist, I no longer set aside (day game) time in order to game women.

The only how I do this is if I’m traveling, in a new city, town, etc. I would then allocate a definite time (9 AM to 6 PM) in which to run day game and pick up women.

However, on a day-to-day basis on a normal weekday, I don’t set aside time in which to day game.

I pick up girls sporadically.

In essence: I am always “in state”! I don’t need to psyche myself up to the task of chatting up women as a newbie would do in order to muster up the courage for the day-game task.

Saying all that to say, on any given day, I am poised to pick up a few girls here and there while on tea break from work, lunch break, running errands, etc.

For example: I work right across the street from a supermarket. If I happen to want to grab a quick snack- a bag of potato chips or something- if there’s a girl to my liking who is shopping at the moment, I would pick her up.

I went into the grocery store to buy some chips, but I’m flexible enough to game girls whom I see in the store.

Hence, sporadic game is what separates men from boys: masters from students.

Picking up the American girl

While chitchatting with a coworker outside of the parking lot of the complex where we work, these 2 girls walk by, and 1 of them happen to give me a glance which caught my attention.

I then said to my coworker, “Hold on! I’ll be back”.

They were heading into the supermarket, so I sped up in order to catch them in time.

I caught up to them just as they entered the door.

I opened with a cheesy pick-up line, she laughed, I talked to the girl she’s with for just a split second, then I transitioned back to my target.

After about 10-15 minutes, all 3 of us walked out of the supermarket; my target having my #, and me having hers.

They caught a cab and that was that.

Before we parted ways, I ensured that she knew what the deal was: “I want to hang out later”.

She agreed that it’s a good idea.

I also found out that they leave back to America on Saturday. So I must act swiftly if I want the lay!

Picking Up The British Girl

About an hour later while on a phone call in the parking lot area, a sex girl in short-shorts saunters by.

I hung up on the person I was talking to.

I gave the girl a curious look as though we know each other.

She looks at me and smile with a curious look and she said, “what”!?

Me: “You don’t know me”?

Of course she doesn’t know me. But that is 1 of my favorite openers: opening girls like we know each other.

From that, I realized her British accent.

She stood on the side walk as if to beckon me to come to her.

I stood my ground as if to say to her, “you come to me”!

We both stood there for a good 5 seconds smiling and laughing at each other.

This is pure chemistry from the gate…exactly the way I love it!

I then decided to break the tension by approaching her.

Me: “I would hug you but my girlfriend is probably hiding behind a car or something nearby”.

We both laughed about it.

This went on for about 25 minutes (the pickup).

She all but told me her address and asked me if I knew where that was.

I am familiar with her area. So with that being said, I grabbed her phone #. But there was a problem: she doesn’t know her phone # by heart.

Remind you; she is here from Britain for 2 weeks. She’s already been here a week now. So she’s using a temporary SIM card while she’s here.

Alas! There was hope!

Girl: “You know what! What’s your #? I will ring you now and my temporary # will show up”.

Me: “Bravo! I love your smarts”!

She ran me and her # came up.

Sure sign that she’s into me. Any time a girl goes to this extend to invest, it is a full-proof IOI (Indicator of Interest).

We parted ways under the understanding that we will meet up later…at her place.

Me: “So…I’m not sure of your situation, whether you stay with anyone, or whether you have kids with you, so that may mean I may have to come by you since you may not be able to come out”.

Girl: “I can come out. But we can chill by me instead”.

Splendid!

Me: “I think it’s best we chill by you”.

Girl: “Oh wait! I don’t have data or WIFI while here”!

Me: “Damn! So that means Whatsapp is out the question”.

Girl: “Well we’ll have to do it old-fashion way: text or call”.

Again guys: whenever a girl goes to the extent to make the logistics work, it is a sure sign that she’s interested and even DTF!

Anyway, so we parted ways.

Okay, so here you have it. It is 5:30 PM on this Tuesday evening while I compose this quick post.

When faced with a situation like this, where I have 2 girls willing to meet up the same night, which girl do I actually choose to see?

Well, it all varies to be honest.

Generally, I would want to go with the more DTF of the 2, and that is what I go with.

However, there are circumstances where 1 girl may not bite, so I’m left to having to see the only remaining girl.

That just may be the case tonight that the Brit girl is the more favorable options, simply because she gave me her address while we exchanged #’s.

I mean, I wrote about this years ago: if a girl gives you her address during the pickup, it is a virtual invitation for you to show up! Otherwise, she wouldn’t have dared make that mistake to share her address with a guy whom she wouldn’t want to stop by.

Thus, you have to learn how to read these subtle signs and hints that women consciously and subconsciously drop into the conversation, or else you’ll miss out of lots of bang opportunities.

Anyway guys, I’ll keep y’all posted with a part 2 tomorrow.

Hopefully I get to smash 1 of these girls this evening.

The Brit girl is the sexier of the 2. Perhaps because she had on short-shorts, and her boobies were spilling out of her top [I’m a boobs-guy, so that is always a plus].

As far as time frame, it is now 5:41 PM (Tuesday). I usually aim to meet up with new girls between 7 and 7:45-8…8:30 the latest…unless the girl specifies a designated time.

Why 7:30?

It’s early enough. So the girl cannot realistically use the excuse that she’s tired, sleepy, and that 7:30 is (too) late…since it’s not.

Anything after 8, the girl is liable to cook up some excuse about being tired.

Moreover, through year’s worth of experience, I learn to spot this sweet spot: 7-8 PM.

Anything after 8: the girl gets flaky, doesn’t answer the phone or return texts, etc.

Anything before 7 would obviously be too early…unless that time was designated and agreed upon by both parties.

See you womanizers later!

Sunday Morning Casual Pickup Of A Security Guard [raw-infield video]

​Hey guys, another raw PUA infield video without the flash, colors and effects which accompany the usual PUA infield videos. This was uploaded directly from my Android phone.

I had intended to post the full 45 minute footage. But I reconsidered in the interest of time. Plus I didn’t want to bore you guys with the monotonous details of a normal pickup. So I snipped and chopped the footage to include some key moments.

Okay, so Sunday morning [Oct’ 9th] while waiting to catch a ferry from the city back to the other side of the island, I came across a security guard (on duty) who was sitting in a cornered-off area. Since she was virtually glued to her post, I had no choice but to chat her up from nearly 20 yards away. Because of that (great distance), you won’t really hear much of her dialogue too well. But you can hear me clearly leading the dialogue and you’ll get a great idea of what’s happening and what you should do. 

BTW, this was about 7 AM, so I totally wasn’t “in state”, but it didn’t matter since I’m always in state because it comes naturally once you become masterful at this [you won’t have to get in state per se].

At the end of the day, what I want you to take away from this raw 8 minute infield video of me picking up a random security girl on her job are these:

1.) I, Kenny, am always approaching! Instead of just sitting/standing there where there are women among you; spark up a conversation!!

2.) Learn the art of chatting away!! Chat about random shit! As long as you believe it’s interesting shit, the girl will also fall into that frame as when I randomly brought up Donald Trump.

3.) Learn how to poke fun @ women and use humor to your advantage! Attract women through humor! Be a test!! By doing this, you sub-communicate to the girl that you don’t give a shit about the outcome. Being free from outcome will tilt the pickup in your favor. 

4.) Quit being intimidated by women! This girl here said that no guy has ever approached her on her job, let alone to try to chat her up on her job. I totally believe her since most guys are pussies!
Most Importantly:

5.) FUCK LOGISTICS! You do NOT need perfect logistics in order to chat up and pick up a girl! Just as I’d demonstrated here, you can do so from across a room. 
Quit waiting for the perfect time, perfect situation, perfect setting, perfect whatever!! 

Work with the fucking environment! 

Work with what the girl presents you! 

If she cannot exactly move from her post in order to chat with you; chat her up from a distance instead of using distance as an excuse to pussy your way out of chatting to her!! 

Lastly; make note of my vibe! I wasn’t nervous and afraid to get testy. I was free spirited with an air of IDGAF because I’m the prize! Also, I hope you would have taken away another key aspect to this pickup, which is that I never ran out of things to say because I was never filtering myself to begin with. I said what I wanted, not giving a shit whether she would find it appealing or appalling. 

Now, I’m not exactly telling you to say any lame shit you want. But say anything that tests her which causes her to invest…as you see me do in the video.

BTW, I’d opened her about a can of Arizona that was left on a table.

“Be A Challenge”!

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