Hey chodes, been ages since I posted, but I got a good one for y’all, on gaming women on social media. I just been super busy lately on other media posting pickup content.
Here’s a draft post I made earlier to social media. Haven’t had any time to re-read it, so if it’s laced with spelling erros and shit: pardon me!
I wanna briefly touch on a topic that I hammer to death a while back, and that is the strategy of using False Time Constraints in order to:
1.) Separate yourself from the pack of thirsty men by not looking thirsty/desperate
2.) Build the attraction by making the girl anticipate chatting with you again
3.) Have the girl think while creating Preselection and giving off a high-value vibe.
So, here it is: When contacting a particular girl for the first time on social media (DM), you want to ALWAYS make it seem as though you have to go and that you don’t have the time to chat with her all day.
How do you accomplish this powerful frame? Simply tell the girl that you have to go. You don’t have to be specific either. But for instance, you can tell her that you have to get back to work so y’all will catch up another time.
Sounds pointless, innocuous and- well- not flashy, but it’s a VERY POWERFUL move which accomplishes the 3 things I mentioned above:
1.) Makes you appear non-needy and non-desperate
2.) Makes the girl look forward to chatting again
3.) Makes the girl see you as a guy who has shit going on for himself
4.) Makes the girl think that because you’re telling her bye so soon, you must be a guy who’s well in demand by lots of other women.
Very potent and power stuff just from telling the girl “I have to go now”.
BTW, I do this very very often when gaming girls on social media.
Now, the trick is to OPEN STRONG (with wittiness and humor) as your initial inbox message/DM. You cannot open with some lame, generic shit like “sup”, ask the girl how’s her day, then say bye and expect her to become attracted to your vibe! That technique will NOT work when done that way! You have to open/break the ice with something interesting, and or at least transition into an interesting/funny chitchat, then drop the False-Time Constraint move like a hammer by then telling the target that you have to go
Essentially what I’m teaching you to do (in order to attract girls via DM), is to make the girl’s day then suddenly crash it by bringing it to an unexpected end!
You will stand out from among the 30 chodes who will have inboxed her that day. Not only will most guys try to push lame convo (with interview-type questions), but the girl will eventually ignore them by the 3rd message.
By you being that guy who comes in, makes her laugh, winds down the convo then bounces, the girl begins to see you as a high-value guy… especially if she’s hot!
Now- the ultimate strategy is this- you want to get the girl or get a number to then get the girl (although you don’t need a # nowadays).
I am telling you that you don’t have to attempt this in 1 large swoop. Instead, in mini sequences over days (or weeks).
You talk to her today (via inbox), end the convo abruptly. Hit her up again, perhaps 2 days later. Then hit her up again the next day. Then hit her up 3-4 days later. Bear in mind that all these hitups in her DM, should be kept brief!!! You’re giving her bit by bit, day by day. Also bear in mind that it is highly likely that the girl will hit you up wanting to chitchat/inbox.
With each quick hit up, you’re building or deepening the attraction with good, quick conversation!
For guys who don’t have much to say, or always stall out: this form of game is ideal since you’re not required to have long dialogue.
After you will have done this, there’s a 99.8% chance that grabbing the girl’s number will be successful!
Also, this sort of game works best on the hottest girls who get the most attention.
Anyway, you will see me demonstrate just that in the following screenshots with 2 different hotties. BTW, these 2 chats were from today. Hence, this is the initial round of convo.
Most importantly, note that I create a sexual tone from the get-go! And by doing so, I did NOT piss the girls off, nor was I blocked. Remind you: these are 2 total strangers whom I added on FB less than a week ago. They never comment on my posts, nor have we ever interacted prior.
Again: notice how I dropped some sexual innuendos into the convo. And notice that I told them that we will chat another time. None of this took more than 3-5 minutes. And I instantly created an attractive vibe.
So, why do I get sexual and forward so early? To indirectly let the girl know my intention (to fuck) without outright telegraphing it (which I often do anyway). In addition to that, by dropping sexual innuendos, I avoid EVER getting friendzoned!
Last pointer: when telling the girl that you have to go or that you have something to take care of, you don’t have to actually stop the convo. The fact that you said it will do! You can keep on messaging if you want to!
What often happens too is that the girl will be so captivated by your unusual style, she will often try to keep you there by keep on messaging you, even though you told her that you have to go.
It will often shock them that a guy wants to end such a spirited and fun convo… so fast. Bear in mind that women aren’t used to coming across guys who essentially brush them off by trying to end convo on them (during the pickup phase). So this fucks with their sense of value, while simultaneously sparking attraction as she subconsciously sees you as a rare specimen of equal to higher value.
So, in the screenshots below from chats with 2 girls today, you’ll see me nonchalantly execute all of that. I encircled in orange, the part of the convo [the end] where I used the FTC tactic [False Time Constraint].
As I said: simple shit! Looks very meaningless and trivial. But it’s very powerful stuff in order to have hot girls eventually chase you on social media (once done halfway right).