Another social-media [Facebook] post of mines from about a week ago:
So last night, I lazily hit this chick up who WAS on my friend list (until I deleted her last night).
I lazily tried to get her #. And the reason I keep stressing “Lazily” is because I didn’t use much Game nor my usual finesse whenever I attempt to # close [get a girl’s digits]. So basically, it was a dry attempt.
Nevertheless, what irked me was the girl’s response to me trying to get her #.
She used the adverb “POLITELY”.
Politely is a synonymous with Nicely.
Essentially, this chick was trying to say that in order for me to get her digits, I had to ask Politely.
I then told her what I told her on that note (as you’ll see).
Fact is, I take real offense to women attempting to Beta-ize me, i.e. getting me to conform to their idea of how a man should go about doing things.
Now, if a girl tells me, “Kenny, you’re not going to get my # because you didn’t ask nicely”, last thing on my mind is to then “ask” her politely.
That is definitely an attempt by a woman to essentially neuter me. Now, you may not see it that way, and you may very well be under the impression that I’m overreacting here, but I just don’t take light to women and demands, commands and anything that threatens my freedom to say what I wanna.
At the end of the day, you never want to put yourself in a situation where you lose major dominance points while tryna court women.
Also bear in mind that women aren’t attracted to men who cave and submit. And I don’t mean this in a sense of ordering pizza and you cave to the girl’s suggestion of getting pepperoni instead of anchovies.
I’m speaking to much significant cases which have the potential to ruin your chances with women, such as a girl telling you to apologize for telling her that she has a nice ass or something among that line.
You don’t want to cave at such moments, or else the chick will surely lose interest.
With the girl above, had I caved and asked her politely for her digits, 2 things might have happened:
1.) She gives me her # by loses attraction and respect for me
2.) She refuses to cough up her # for the simple fact that I submitted to a woman (to her) and that made me appear weak as fuck!
By all means, this set was winable for me even though I didn’t apologize and asked nicely.
I could’ve simply continued the chat and went for the phone # again (without asking politely). But I was so ticked off that I really didn’t want to bother.
On a final note; polite and nice kill attraction!
That is the ultimate takeaway here.
Women love men who are untamed, rude/rudish who don’t conform to what they (women) claim they want!