Every now and then, I find it of paramount importance to revisit the topic of escalation and its rationale in seduction.
If you aren’t privy to PUA parlance: “Escalation” simple means (as the word implies) to make sexual advances upon the target/girl.
There you go!
Simple as ever! 🙂
The thing is that most guys outside of the seduction/pickup arena dread mostly about escalation, is the fear of possible backlash of getting shut and shot down.
This ‘fear’ keeps most guys paralyzed in check. Thus they never attempt to escalate. Or they do so (escalate) way too late in the game, after having wasted weeks, months and often times YEARS, pining away at that 1 fetishized girl!
Perhaps since I’ve attained master-seducer status, it is easy for me to say and do [“escalate fast”].
However, I’ve been there also, to where I would spend months on end, hanging out and hoping to get into this 1 girl’s panties, but I was just too afraid to pull the trigger; afraid of rejection…essentially!
During those 9 months worth of time wasted on 1 girl- in theory- I could’ve been shagging 9+ other girls.
It is for this reason [saving valuable time] the seduction community, myself included, strongly advocate a “no waste of time approach” towards getting laid.
The only thing you have to lose by manning up and attempting to make a move on women (be it on the date, Netflix and Chillin’, etc.), is time itself!
You want to do this early as possible (risking it)!
The sooner a girl genuinely rejects you; the better (time saved)!
You can move on to someone else who’ll possibly be down with your program.
However, it is totally illogical to spend a month in a girl’s company (without going for it), to then get rejected…after 2 months of anticipation of making a move (physical escalation) on her.
You could’ve saved yourself the frikkin’ time by going for it on the 1st. date!
If she rejects your advances, you can always try again on follow-up dates or rendezvous.
On that note: get rejected early. Not late(r)!