Fact of the matter is, I don’t game bartenders [hired-guns], thus I rarely ever do pick them up.
My few bartender pulls throughout my pick-up career had occurred outside of my knowledge (unbeknownst to me that those girls were bartenders).
Two reasons why I’m not in favor of gaming bartenders (on the job):
1.) Girls in the service industry are already predisposed to the idea of guys swarming them and hitting on them. Thus they become desensitized and rather jaded from being hit on by clueless drunk guys while at work. They also build up a quasi-resistance against it (being hit on at work)
2.) These girls are so pedestalized, idolized and fetishized by AFC’s (average guys), that every guy who approaches them, by a process of automation, is tossed into the “he thinks I’m a goddess” basket. So a guy like myself who doesn’t put any woman on any pedestal, is forced to strategize differently.
Due to those 2 precarious positions, trying to pick up a bartender (on her job) is a delicate undertaking. So the deck is already staked against you once you enter such an arena. But make no mistakes about it: they are paid to be friendly and courteous to you by giving fake IOI’s (Indication Of Interest).
Notwithstanding that, last week Thursday, I decided to game and pick up a bartender at a karaoke joint.
Note: when picking up bartenders, always use Indirect Game.
I’m huge on Indirect Game to begin with. But it’s more so required when attempting to pick up girls whom are constantly bombarded with male attention (which is virtually every girl for that matter).
Here’s a video clip from me doing just that (Indirect Game), and end up catching the bartender outside where I grabbed her phone # after minutes of token resistance to giving me her #.
That was also a lesson in persistence.
Why did she resist when it came to coughing up her digits? Was it because I’m so repulsively ugly? 🙂
Again: hired-guns (bartenders among them) are accustomed to desperate men begging for their number.
What separated me from the pack is that I didn’t laud her with praises, I didn’t put her on a pedestal, I treated her like a bratty little sister, and I was dominant at the same time.
Surely she still gave token resistance. But eventually coughed up the # once she realized how persistent I was.
That was last Thursday.
Note: whenever I get a girl’s #, either then and there, or later on, I would add her on Facebook.
This is pretty much an automatic process.
Why do I do this?
Facebook DHV’s me as I’ve pointed out numerous times in the past.
My Facebook is a set up in a way to attract women by showing them how cool, original and provocative I am.
Thus, my social media posts are like the perfect wingmen which compliment my game. So if a woman whom I’d just picked up isn’t too keen or sold on me, my Facebook usually seals that deal.
During the week now, I hit her up on Messenger, saying something to the effect of “since it’s cold, we should grab a coffee”.
This Thursday now (last Thursday), I met up with her at the karaoke joint at where she works.
She tried to force me to sing…but it wasn’t happening.
I filmed her while she sang before the karaoke session was officially on.
When it comes to gaming bartenders, 1 of the things I do is to hit the establishment early when not much people are there so I can get some time with the girl.
That’s exactly what I did there, and we were virtually alone for like 30 minutes with the occasional patron coming and going before the venue started to amass people.
In any case, this is an ongoing seduction on which I’ll update you guys.
My next move is to get her outside of the confines of her work environment.
Always remember that when a bartender is at work, or in that environment, she’s effectively in work mode. Which means nearly everything she gives you would’ve been faked.
To my credit though, because I’m a master seductionist, I was able to get her to genuinely open up and shed her work persona when we goofed around while she was cuing up the karaoke thingamajig.
Also, because I’ve had innumerable amounts of experiences and interactions with innumerable amounts of women, I learned to develop the skill set of being able to spot fake IOI’s from women. So I’m able to discern genuine smile from the “I’m being nice to him just to get him to buy more drinks and tip me big” smile.
Anyway fellaz, I’ll keep you posted on this ongoing seduction.
Lots more interesting posts to come!