I know I’ve said that grabbing a girl’s phone number is quite useless in an age where social media dominates communication.
However, if you’re gonna attempt to grab a girl’s number; then do it right dammit!
The chick from the previous post who’s notorious for trolling and calling out men who display lame-ass game, posted the following status.
By the way, she copied this style of mines from reading my statuses where I would post short mock conversations between a girl and a guy.
Needless to say, she makes a great point in pointing out how lame guy’s game is.
I talked about this in the past and how stupid it is to try to go for a number close without building attraction.
Most guys approach getting a girl’s # as though it’s a fucking sprint!
They virtually go from opener to attempted # close within 1 swoop!
In the “trying to meet girls” game, you have the guy who never pulls the trigger. And then you have the guy who squeezes too quickly.
Both extremes are regressive and quite stupid to be frank.
Here’s another example which the same girl had posted yesterday to Facebook.
What was the mistake that this guy made?
He went from opener to trying to get her phone # (asking if she has Whatsapp) within # swoop, before having built anything, let alone some attraction. Not to mention that the girl was literally blowing him off by acting like a dick with replies such as: “I’m from Earth”, “Minding my business”, “Check back next week” (in relation to getting her #). How foolish can you get by trying to get a girl’s # on a downward spiral!?
Unfortunately, most guys do this! They gun for the # as a last ditch effort before things implode. But why would a girl give you her # when she’s acting like a total bitch towards you?
She won’t! But it’s a clear sign of desperation and ineptitude on any guy’s part, when he displays such shitty game and lack of social intelligence, by asking lame interview-type questions to nowhere, then rapidly topping it off with a lame-shit effort at swapping numbers.
Here’s the other thing: the lamest and most annoying thing you could ever ask a girl (one whom you don’t know personally) is, “what you doing”?
What the girl is doing shouldn’t mean shit to you. Hence, you shouldn’t ask!
Secondly, by asking a girl, “what are you doing” as an opener, clearly shows that you have nothing much to provide the girl via conversation. You’re basically leeching off of her state, disposition and her current situation. So that is why girls get annoyed whenever a guy asks, “Sup. What u doing”?
Additionally, being asked the frikkin’ obvious is also another pet peeve of women.
Online, it isn’t that difficult to find out where someone is from, lives or have lived.
That info is usually clearly visibly on the person’s Profile. Or you could easily find that out by tapping “about”. So asking a girl the lame-ass interview-type question, “where you’re from”, will often times elicit a negative reaction within the girl’s mind, especially if this information could’ve been easily ascertained by a 2 second scan of her profile.
In any case, this sort of horrible game should be called out.
Going from opener/ice-breaker to “can I have your #”, is akin to shifting gears in a manual-transmission vehicle, straight from 1st to 5th: you just won’t get anywhere but a wrecked transmission and gear box.
In closing, I just wished to have cautioned you guys about the many follies and pitfalls in game (or having a lack of game).
In this case, it is in respect to securing a number.
This should be done wisely and strategically!
Before successfully securing a girl’s phone number, you will have had to build a sufficient amount of attraction in order to make this happen.
This varies from girl to girl (the amount of attraction material needed). But by all means, you’re going to look real stupid going for the phone number within seconds of chatting to the girl.
Not to harp on the obvious, but the reason why the vast majority of men rush for the phone number is because they do not trust themselves to not run out of things to say. So they go from, “Hi what’s your name”, to, “Can I get your #”, because they don’t have anything to say between those 2 points.
On that note, you may like this video of mines which deals with that point in detail.