When grabbing a girl’s phone #, does she even know the reason why you’re getting her #?
What I mean is, most guys would grab a girl’s # without stating a purpose (a tangible one).
This has the potential of inadvertently giving the girl the impression that you’re just grabbing the # for the sake of it…or worst; just to text.
Before I swap #’s or grab the girl’s, I always ensure to communicate to her my intentions, like, “we should go grab a drink next week”.
Try not to leave it up to the girl to figure and guess what your intentions are. She will almost always choose the most unfavorable ones: “he just wants to text”, for example.
Well, I’m not interested in merely texting, so I always try to ensure that upon the pickup, the girl knows the deal.
I adhere to this online and off line.