The purpose of this field report is to shed light on something on which lots of guys in pickup tend to miss the ball.
There is allotted day game, then there is sporadic game/pickup.
What do I mean by that?
Most newer guys to the world of pickup, allocate and set aside specific time and days in which to go game girls, practice, sarge, etc.
This isn’t a nad thing by the way.
All newbies start out that way, and should begin that way.
However, as you advance in the game, there’s no longer a need to set aside specific time to game.
You game girls whenever, whenever and however (well- the “however” part is questionable)!
As a master pick-up artist, I no longer set aside (day game) time in order to game women.
The only how I do this is if I’m traveling, in a new city, town, etc. I would then allocate a definite time (9 AM to 6 PM) in which to run day game and pick up women.
However, on a day-to-day basis on a normal weekday, I don’t set aside time in which to day game.
I pick up girls sporadically.
In essence: I am always “in state”! I don’t need to psyche myself up to the task of chatting up women as a newbie would do in order to muster up the courage for the day-game task.
Saying all that to say, on any given day, I am poised to pick up a few girls here and there while on tea break from work, lunch break, running errands, etc.
For example: I work right across the street from a supermarket. If I happen to want to grab a quick snack- a bag of potato chips or something- if there’s a girl to my liking who is shopping at the moment, I would pick her up.
I went into the grocery store to buy some chips, but I’m flexible enough to game girls whom I see in the store.
Hence, sporadic game is what separates men from boys: masters from students.
Picking up the American girl
While chitchatting with a coworker outside of the parking lot of the complex where we work, these 2 girls walk by, and 1 of them happen to give me a glance which caught my attention.
I then said to my coworker, “Hold on! I’ll be back”.
They were heading into the supermarket, so I sped up in order to catch them in time.
I caught up to them just as they entered the door.
I opened with a cheesy pick-up line, she laughed, I talked to the girl she’s with for just a split second, then I transitioned back to my target.
After about 10-15 minutes, all 3 of us walked out of the supermarket; my target having my #, and me having hers.
They caught a cab and that was that.
Before we parted ways, I ensured that she knew what the deal was: “I want to hang out later”.
She agreed that it’s a good idea.
I also found out that they leave back to America on Saturday. So I must act swiftly if I want the lay!
Picking Up The British Girl
About an hour later while on a phone call in the parking lot area, a sex girl in short-shorts saunters by.
I hung up on the person I was talking to.
I gave the girl a curious look as though we know each other.
She looks at me and smile with a curious look and she said, “what”!?
Me: “You don’t know me”?
Of course she doesn’t know me. But that is 1 of my favorite openers: opening girls like we know each other.
From that, I realized her British accent.
She stood on the side walk as if to beckon me to come to her.
I stood my ground as if to say to her, “you come to me”!
We both stood there for a good 5 seconds smiling and laughing at each other.
This is pure chemistry from the gate…exactly the way I love it!
I then decided to break the tension by approaching her.
Me: “I would hug you but my girlfriend is probably hiding behind a car or something nearby”.
We both laughed about it.
This went on for about 25 minutes (the pickup).
She all but told me her address and asked me if I knew where that was.
I am familiar with her area. So with that being said, I grabbed her phone #. But there was a problem: she doesn’t know her phone # by heart.
Remind you; she is here from Britain for 2 weeks. She’s already been here a week now. So she’s using a temporary SIM card while she’s here.
Alas! There was hope!
Girl: “You know what! What’s your #? I will ring you now and my temporary # will show up”.
Me: “Bravo! I love your smarts”!
She ran me and her # came up.
Sure sign that she’s into me. Any time a girl goes to this extend to invest, it is a full-proof IOI (Indicator of Interest).
We parted ways under the understanding that we will meet up later…at her place.
Me: “So…I’m not sure of your situation, whether you stay with anyone, or whether you have kids with you, so that may mean I may have to come by you since you may not be able to come out”.
Girl: “I can come out. But we can chill by me instead”.
Me: “I think it’s best we chill by you”.
Girl: “Oh wait! I don’t have data or WIFI while here”!
Me: “Damn! So that means Whatsapp is out the question”.
Girl: “Well we’ll have to do it old-fashion way: text or call”.
Again guys: whenever a girl goes to the extent to make the logistics work, it is a sure sign that she’s interested and even DTF!
Anyway, so we parted ways.
Okay, so here you have it. It is 5:30 PM on this Tuesday evening while I compose this quick post.
When faced with a situation like this, where I have 2 girls willing to meet up the same night, which girl do I actually choose to see?
Well, it all varies to be honest.
Generally, I would want to go with the more DTF of the 2, and that is what I go with.
However, there are circumstances where 1 girl may not bite, so I’m left to having to see the only remaining girl.
That just may be the case tonight that the Brit girl is the more favorable options, simply because she gave me her address while we exchanged #’s.
I mean, I wrote about this years ago: if a girl gives you her address during the pickup, it is a virtual invitation for you to show up! Otherwise, she wouldn’t have dared make that mistake to share her address with a guy whom she wouldn’t want to stop by.
Thus, you have to learn how to read these subtle signs and hints that women consciously and subconsciously drop into the conversation, or else you’ll miss out of lots of bang opportunities.
Anyway guys, I’ll keep y’all posted with a part 2 tomorrow.
Hopefully I get to smash 1 of these girls this evening.
The Brit girl is the sexier of the 2. Perhaps because she had on short-shorts, and her boobies were spilling out of her top [I’m a boobs-guy, so that is always a plus].
As far as time frame, it is now 5:41 PM (Tuesday). I usually aim to meet up with new girls between 7 and 7:45-8…8:30 the latest…unless the girl specifies a designated time.
It’s early enough. So the girl cannot realistically use the excuse that she’s tired, sleepy, and that 7:30 is (too) late…since it’s not.
Anything after 8, the girl is liable to cook up some excuse about being tired.
Moreover, through year’s worth of experience, I learn to spot this sweet spot: 7-8 PM.
Anything after 8: the girl gets flaky, doesn’t answer the phone or return texts, etc.
Anything before 7 would obviously be too early…unless that time was designated and agreed upon by both parties.
See you womanizers later!