Off the heels of the previous post about the girl who took a while to get back to me, another key insight sprung up which I’m obliged to share with you guys.
One of the most asked questions in the dating world at large, has to be: “How to tell iif the girl likes me”?
There are numerous answers to this oft-asked question: many verbal signs and body-language giveaways.
If a new girl feels the need to have to explain herself to you, then it is a sure sign of her attraction to you and for you.
The psychology behind this is pretty simple: a girl who doesn’t know you from Adam, will not explain shit to you, nor will she feel an ounce of inclination to do so!
For example: you message her online and she doesn’t reply. If she isn’t attracted to you (your vibe), there’s no way in hell she’d waste even 1 character of text to explain to you why she hadn’t responded….unless she perceives you as high value.
Great example from the previous post. This chick hadn’t responded to my message(s) in weeks. She finally did with an elaborate explanation as you’ll see below.
If the girl doesn’t value you: she will never do this! She owes you shit!
If she sees you as valuable in her eyes, she will go out of her way to ensure that you’re satisfied with her explanation about whatever the situation is.
I mean, this is all common practice on every level. If a bum on the streets were to beg you change and you don’t feel like giving him or her any change, you won’t go into a lengthy dissertation as to why you can’t give him or her change.
You might even tell them to fuck off if they persist.
Why so? Because you don’t value a bum on the streets: someone whom you don’t know.
You won’t feel a need to have to explain yourself 1 bit…and you won’t!
This is also pretty much the case in a cold-approach situation. The PUA comes in having no value to the girl until he manages to spark attraction through his PUA gambits. Until he manages to do that, the girl won’t be inclined to giving his a satisfactory answer to why she does what she does.
Therefore, bear all this in mind on future occasions when trying to pick up girls online, but are unsure of whether the girl is keen on you or not.
Here’s another pertinent example from days ago of a chick whom I’d picked up days ago (post made to my Facebook page).
Whenever the chick feels the need to explain herself, or to explain why she didn’t reply to your messages, it is a HUGE surefire IOI (Indicator of Interest). With this chick here, a girl I added on FB just Monday, I invited her out to grab a pizza with me (last night). I then went on to VN her about how sexy she is (but in a high-value way)…but she never replied. This morning- bright and early- she did reply with her explanation as to why she didn’t get back to me. Again- this is surefire way of telling whether the girl is into you or not…or neutral.