More Proof That Women Will Totally Ignore Your Kiss-Ass…Part III


A day ago, some chick on Facebook posted a status which read something along the lines of she’s in need of a teddy bear to cuddle with, so…”Who wants to cuddle with me”?

As always the case, hoards of chumps took the validation bait and quickly went, “me, me, me”, like children in class salivating at becoming teacher’s little favorites and getting a treat for it.

Essentially, the girl was seeking validating by trying to find out how many suckers would take the bait and tool themselves out for her.

For the most part, the girl completely ignores the others while deciding to reply to my comment, which led to more than 20 replies back and forth between us.

As you can see from the screenshot above, my comment sparked a 12 reply discussion which went on.

What was I doing differently from every other guy?

I wasn’t going, “me, me, me! I wanna be your teddy bear”!

I actually (false) disqualified myself by indirectly telling her that I don’t want to cuddle [in pickup, we call this a “False Disqualifier” technique].

By saying to the girl, “they sell them (teddy bears) in stores”, I essentially disqualified myself as someone kissing her ass, giving her validation and chasing her.

Our replies on the post continued.

Clearly you could see my Game in full swing, and the reactions it caused within the girl’s frame.

She was chasing me instead of me chasing her and wanting to cuddle with her.

By her saying, why didn’t I bring the teddy bear by her, was an admission of her chasing. And also an indication of 2 things:

1.) Wanting me to come over

2.) Getting attracted to me (my vibe) because of the fact that I played hard-to-get via False Disqualifying technique.

My frame got her to chase me hard!

Comments continued below.

Basically some hard flirting back and forth.

The replies went on for another 12 comments or so between us.

Why wasn’t she doing this with any of the other guys who had commented?

Why did she blatantly ignore every one of them but me?

In a nutshell: Game…which encompasses psychology and an understanding of women and humans on a whole.

I baited her in by making a comment which made me appear hard-to-get and high value since I wasn’t chasing her!

Every other guy was chasing via cheesy-ass generic compliments and over-eagerness to cuddle with her.

Those guys were quickly blown out by themselves.

Remind you: this is a hot-fucking girl virtually begging for me to come cuddle with her…indirectly so!

The attraction was set within 1 comment: my initial comment.

All of this had absolutely NADA to do with my looks! So for the “looks matter” crowd: fucking shove it!!!

Game, and one’s ability to read women, trump looks virtually all of the time!

With that girl who was obviously sold on me (my vibe), I could’ve inboxed her, secured the # and got to cuddle her and fuck her that same night! But for various reasons (meetups with other women); I chose not to. But I had that option! Those other clowns didn’t!

Before wrapping this up, I want to touch on something which I do quite often when gaming girls on Facebook.

In Facebook Bang, I talk about a nifty strategy of mines which virtually entails gaming the girl (lightly) in the comment section, charming her up (building attraction), and then inboxing her the next day or few days later.

This is a HUGE strategy of mines, particularly used whenever my proverbial cup is filled to the brim.

It is also a great way to show the girl that you aren’t desperate to close.

With that, I often times charm the hell out of the girl on her status (or mines), while she virtually ignores every other guy.

Here’s another example from last night with a Spanish girl. She posted a sexy pic, I commented in Spanish [I’m fluent in Spanish by the way].

As you can see, my comment led to 43 comments between her and me (actually over 50).

Every other guy- the chodes- was basically ignored or received a pity “thank you” from the girl. That’s the most AFC’s get if anything at all.

Now, the super interesting thing with this convo between the Latina and me, is that I had to indirectly tell her to stop commenting, that’s how much she was engaged and locked-in to me.

In the screenshot below, my comment at the top (in Spanish) translates to: “Hey flashy girl, 37 replies between us, people are probably wondering what the hell is happening? What the fuck is this, some kind of soap opera or something”!?

From that comment of mines at the top (about 37 replies between us), I was indirectly taking shots at the chodes who were being ignored by her.

This is a very powerful technique in that it forces the girl to place perceived value upon me while simultaneously lowering the value of the other guys (though they were already deemed valueless in the girl’s eye).

Additionally, I’ve naively asked myself the following: “why can’t guys generate interesting (and flirty) conversations which lead to lengthy dialogue in the way that I do”?

The answer is simple: most guys have jack shit to say! Most guys don’t even know what the fuck to say beyond a cheesy compliment!

Listen- here’s how the typical dialogue goes between 99% of guys on Facebook and the girl…on the girl’s status:

Guy: “You are so beautiful sweetheart. So lovely my darling”!

Girl: “thank you”

Guy: “no…thank you beautiful. How is your day my love”?

IGNORED!!!!!!!! 😆 😆

No further replies from the girl.

I mean, I see this shit play out in real time: time after time, day after day, post after post, second by second!

The same scripted conversation that leads to a dead end.

No matter how the frikkin’ guy looks: he gets ignored and rejected subsequent to such a kiss-ass piece of interaction! So when you chodes talk about look matter: matter where!? Not on fucking Facebook! Not in the club or bar when your game is generic as fuck!

Anyway, in order to sporadically spark interesting conversation that gets the girl interested, you must have interesting shit to talk about!

If you can’t manage to get a reply from the girl on her status, then you have zero shot through her inbox!

Thus the problem/sticking-point of the vast vast majority of men trying to attract women on social media.

They lack the ability to generate convo, hence attraction, so they lose the girl’s attention, notwithstanding the fact the they never had the girl’s attention to begin with.

With all that being said, I’m poised to wait a bit, charm and attract the girl with a spirited and somewhat flirty chat on her status or pic upload, and then DM her another day with a sure-shot pull as far as phone-number swap goes.

Some of you reading this will be tempted to say, “But Kenny, you’re conversation on girls’ statuses carry on because you want to prolong it. Other guys may not want to have a convo”.

Bullshit! Every guy who comments some cheesy shit on a girl’s post is looking or hoping to have conversation. They just lack the know-how of making it happen!

You can read further about this technique here: https://kennyspuathoughts.com/2015/01/24/warming-the-periphery-facebook-seduction-tactic-for-men-patience-is-key/

On a final note, what I hoped to have gotten across to you here is the effortlessness and simplicity of attracting random strangers on Facebook, by posting the right kinds of comments which inspire women to have to want to engage and reply.

I wish to convey to you through such posts, the easiness of getting a girl to chase you, just by structuring your comment(s) in a way that de-validates her (robbing her of the validation she seeks) while drawing her in through various means.

You can learn more in Easy guide to picking up girls on Facebook.

I Set Boundaries When It Comes To Sex-pectations


Days ago, a fuck-buddy of mines stood me up after we had a sex and ice cream rendezvous planned at my place.

Below: her texts in white. Mines in green.

Following morning.

That same night, she did come by, but I refused to bring her to a climax (I usually make her cum via cunnilingus). My texts in green below.

That is what I call setting boundaries by being a dick.

This girl gives an amazing fucking blowjob, but she always complains about 2 minutes in, about being tired and that her jaws hurt.

“FACK that pisses me off”!

Hence, she’s never managed to make me climax to date (which is very disappointing).

Usually, I would let it slide, not complain about it, while going down on her for like 45 minutes until she orgasms.

That night, I refused to do it, so she was left to having to make herself cum.

Yesterday evening, she hits me up with the following proposal [her txts in white].

She knew I meant business about her being a lazy ass and needed to step her shit up as far as pleasuring me to a climax.

Honestly guys, I prefer getting a blowjob to having full-on intercourse…half of the time.

Anyway, she did stop by my PUA-pad and she toiled away at blowing me for a good 40 minutes with a fair amount of breakage and stoppages.

Nevertheless, she persisted upon my insistence.

After she left (I kicked her out), I did thank her at least [my texts in green].

What I’ve come to learn is that during sex and cases where girls flake on guys, guys tend to always allow themselves to be shortchanged for the exchange of sex or promise of the girl finally coming through.

What I mean is, there are no boundaries or conditions being set by the guy…generally.

He’s just elated and feels a sense of lucky that he has a girl in his company. So the girl gets to set all rules and conditions while the guy get his sidelined.

I don’t play that!

This is part of my Alpha mindset. An Alpha-Male sets boundaries and put things and people in check whenever he feels a sense of disadvantage.

I set boundaries quite often with women whom I’m sleeping with.

I let them know that if they flake or stand me up, I’ll become an incredible asshole.

Some guys see this as reactive. Sure! But it doesn’t DLV me by ratcheting up the asshole when need be.

Women will respect you for having boundaries and balls, just as the case with this chick.

Stay Alpha!

Fake Profiles


I posted the following status to Facebook days ago, upon receiving a friend request from an obvious fake-Facebook profile.

Now, if you can’t tell this is a fake ass generic profile then you’re either crazy or stupid…or both. Fake profiles like these are usually ran by some unattractive low-self esteem chiclkwho has to make a fake profile in order to get male attention, or some gay dude somewhere looking to trick/catfish clueless thirsty men, or some straight dude in an internet cafe in Nigeria looking to scam men out of $$. Funny thing is, most guys can’t tell a fake profile. All they look at is a cute face and they’re sprung,not even taking into consideration that the chick only has like 10 friends. Which normal chick on FB has just 10 fucking friends!

#CatfishAlert
#ImCatfishProof
#Denied #Rejected #Blocked

The screenshots of the fakery below.

Now, if you can’t spot all the markings of a fake profile from the screenshots above, then I don’t think you should be reading blogs like mines.

I would go out on a limb to say that most guys on Facebook receive such catfishing friend requests (not just me).

I’d also go out on a limb to say that most guys simply accept and either go on about their business, or they actually try to game these fake-account holders, oblivious to the reality that those are dummy accounts.

Additionally, I’ve come to the realization that most guys can’t spot a fake girl on social media.

No real girl posts statuses to social media saying that she wants to fuck unless she’s a prostitute of some sort. And not even they post stuff so blatant.

That is the 1st tell-tale sign of a fake.

I don’t entertain such things by accepting such requests…at all!

Per day, I get about 3 such friend requests from these fake accounts.

I’m curious to know how you guys go about handling these; do y’all accept or reject?

More Proof That Women Will Totally Ignore Your Kiss-Ass While Being Drawn To Men Who Challenge Them


The other day, as is the case with lots of women on Facebook, this chick posted a status saying, “I’m bored. Who wants to inbox me”?

I call this the validation tester in order to weed out the Beta-Males, where girls post such statuses, hoping to catch guys rushing at the opportunity to kiss their behinds by saying, “me, me, me! I wanna text you”!

As expected: 99% of guys take the bait: hook, line and sinker, like mindless drones. And the girl quickly eliminates them as potential suitors.

Anyway, so the chick went on further to specify that she only wants single men inboxing her. This in turn caused lots of guys to indirectly offer more validation by qualifying themselves to her by making it known that they are single.

If you check the screenshot above where I’d censored the girl’s profile, the 7 replies were her responses to my comment(s). This actually turned into more than 20 replies back and forth between her and me.

Below, other AFC guys (Average Frustrated Chumps) went on further to reply on the post, ass-kissing and qualifying themselves with lame-ass generic compliments and such.

What is the common theme here from previous posts similar to this?

The girl totally ignores every other guy while only paying attention to me (my comments).

“It must be by looks”!!! 😆

“Hahahaha! Kidding”! Just poking fun at the “looks matter” crowd.

Anyway, so you’ve seen this time after time, post after post where girls blow off 99% of guys while electing to interact with me.

Why did this girl choose to do just that?

1.) I challenged her frame by telling her that there’s no such thing as a single male (which isn’t true…of course). So in essence, I showed her that I wasn’t about to kiss her ass and adopt her frame just to win her favor.

2.) Because I never qualified myself by screaming, “me, me, me, I am single”, thus catching her attention as I stood out from the pack.

Additionally, I didn’t do what every other guy did, which is to dish out some kiss-ass cheesy compliment.

My comments in the thread were off-topic for the most part, in that I completely ignored the fact that she was hot, and I also ignored the fact that she was bored and wanted someone to inbox her.

With that, she was likely saying to herself (if not conscious, subconsciously), “this guy must be high value. Why isn’t he throwing himself at me like every other guy does? Didn’t he notice I made a plea for someone to talk to”!?

The fact that I refrained from taking the validating bait, it opened the gate for dialogue and the possibility of attraction.

This is all psychology.

Were they my stunning looks which made the girl decide to converse, or was it my vibe because I’d challenged her frame while simultaneously demonstrating high value [DHV]?

The answer is crystal clear: it had absolutely nothing to do with looks! So again, this crushes “the looks matter” school of thought to which most of you guys are so fucking attached!

While the average guy ardently continues to latch onto the belief that looks matter, I keep drawing girls in because I know looks don’t matter.

Looks- more so on social media- do NOT save the day and compensate for a lack of game and the ability to read women!

Game will get an ugly laid far far more than a guy with stunning looks but no game, and no understanding of how women and attraction work!

With that, although this chick wanted some cool guy to message her privately, she and I went on to have an interesting conversation- in public- right there on the post’s thread, demonstrating, not only was I a cool guy, but someone of high value (for not taking the bait, not qualifying myself to her and not complimenting her about beauty and looks).

With such dynamics, I could’ve easily inboxed her (days ago, or tomorrow), set up plans for a rendezvous while subsequently grabbing her number.

The attraction has already been set (attraction to my vibe from the back and forth conversation we had on her post). So everything else from here would’ve purely been academic (the pickup).

In addition to that, though she said that she didn’t want any guy in a relationship to try to hit her up via inbox, that would not have applied to me at all!

How so?

I wisely (and this is psychological and strategic) said to her in other words, that all men have girlfriends (which is far from the truth). So in essence, I imposed the frame upon her that if I were to hit her up privately, I would be exempted from her quasi-rule of not wanting to talk to any guy in a relationship.

Do you see how that works?

Any other guy was likely rejected, and would’ve gotten rejected, once the girl inquires about a GF, or browses his profile and reads “in a relationship”.

My profile does say “in a relationship” (and I am in a relationship as most long-time subscribers would know). But again, I would not have gotten rejected since I set the frame in a way which granted me immunity and a status of exception/exemption.

For example, this is no different from a girl saying, “I never have sex on the first date”!

To such a girl, I would say, or convey somehow [setting the frame], that sex on the first date is normal, acceptable, cool and what most sane people do!

She doesn’t have to believe that shit! But it doesn’t matter! As long as I believe it, and as long as I convey this unequivocally! She will in turn believe it also, or grant me exception status by fucking me on the 1st date!

I mean, situations like these in Game are what I encounter and finagle and on a daily basis.

In seduction, this is called Frame Control.

Whenever you capitulate to a woman in such a case as cited above, you hand the frame over to her! Well- in all actuality- she had the frame control to begin with. But once you agree with the premise of the shit women say, such as, “don’t contact me unless you’re single”, your capitulation and submission on the matter, gives the girl control of the frame (which she already had) while killing your chances in 1-giant swoop!

By saying to the girl, “I’m single”, upon her setting the frame that she only wants to talk to guys who are single, you are essentially capitulating and submitting to her frame/will by fitting her mold in such a case!

In pickup, we call this all-too-familiar mistake, “Qualifying”.


Women don’t find guys who can’t hold a frame (guys who qualify to them), attractive!

Even if you’re single, you don’t fucking say it in such a situation like when a girl is seeking validating and trying to weed out weak men who submit to her POV!

Women aren’t attracted to men who either submit to them, who try to fit their ideal mold, or those who cannot hold a frame (i.e. nice guys and Beta Males)!

This is essentially why stereotypical nice guys don’t get laid.

They inherently are turnoffs for women because they cannot and do not even attempt to hold/control a frame with, and over women.

They agree with most things women agree with, they fight women’s causes and battles (white knights), women are never wrong in their eyes, they validate women on every issue under the sun, etc, etc, etc.

Their frame is the antithesis/opposite of a challenge…which is pure submission.

Therefore, do you now see why women on social media often ignore these guys, while instead being drawn into my frame by engaging me? While your stupid ass is there thinking it’s about fucking looks, you really have not 1 smidgen of a clue about attraction and its workings (speaking of, and to the vast majority of adult males on the globe)!

Here’s another great example which I’d randomly dug up in the archives, of ass-kissing and qualifying at its best.

Now, chances would have it that since this status was posted by a woman, it’s likely that she’s of the opinion that Long-Distant Relationships work. The guys clearly sense that also (that the chick’s position is “yes: they do work), hence the guy’s comment in support.

I mean, let’s get real here guys: do you really believe that these guys actually believe that LDR’s (Long-Distant Relationships) work? Or are they only saying that LDR’s can work, in hopes of getting the girl to like them because they agreed with her position/frame?

Clearly to a prudent person who knows how to read social dynamics; these guys are all full of shit!

“Yes, Yes, Yes”!!!

I was the only guy willing to take an opposing position! I didn’t just take that position to be a disagreeable dick. I really believe so (that LDR’s can’t work)! But it is really telling when you have guys co-signing a position which they truly don’t buy into! And that is what most guys do, under the impression that if they agree with the woman’s position, she will fuck them for it!

I went as far as calling their asses out on their bullshit when I said in my comment that both parties won’t commit to it. Surely 1 or both will commit in words. But in deed; they won’t stay the course without infidelity on some level!

Furthermore, why don’t guys disagree with the positions of hot women, and the women whom they’re trying to get with?

Fear of losing her!

Fear of getting on the girl’s bad side and being tabulated onto her shit list!

Instead of risking that occurring, “I need to play it safe”, is what AFC’s say to themselves in an attempt at rationalization and justification for their chodery and not having an opinion or voice.

Interestingly enough- but not surprising- the girl who posted that status flat-out ignored the other guys while tackling my comment, thus getting drawn into a deeper dialogue which sparks interest.

I can go on and on with screenshots after screenshots, dating back to 3 years ago, demonstrating the same thing with girl after girl: guys agreeing and getting ignored and rejected, while I hold my frame in disagreement, to subsequently picking up the girl.

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