3 Mantras That Should Drive You To Approach That Girl-Next-Door


Having approach issues about stepping to that girl-next-door?

Well- here are 4 ways to mentally psyche yourself up to the task at hand.

Before I begin, I just want to point out that during my earlier years of pickup, I had to psyche myself up to approach any woman, just as the case with most of us at the pre-intermediary stage of the game.

My little mantras were as followed:

• “She could get married tomorrow”

• “She could move tomorrow”

• “I may never see her again for some reason”

• “I may die tomorrow in some freak accident”

As hypothetically driven as you may be inclined to believe that these mantras are, they are pretty much practical and rooted in reality on an everyday basis.

The girl whom you’ve been eyeing may very well have been in the process of moving.

Her boyfriend could randomly propose marriage to her tomorrow as means of salvaging a damaged relationship.

For crying out loud; there’s a real chance of getting struck by a bus on your way to work tomorrow.

There’s no incentive to keep putting it off unless you’re being strategic by building attraction bit by bit over time.

However, if your dereliction to approaching the girl stems from approach anxiety, then you ought to get moving at once!

Once you put things into such a perspective where a sense of urgency is born, finally approaching that girl-next-door would become less scary.

Moreover, this should become your frame regardless of the situation, and regardless of whether this girl literally lives next door and she’s someone whom you see regularly, or someone on whom before you’d never laid eyes.

Music also carries that state-building power which helps to propel you into action.

We all have our favorite songs, or at least know of some songs which gets us pumped and hyped and ready to take on whatever and whomever!

As a newbie in pickup, soaking up game on the MPUA forum, we were taught and advised to listen to state-pumping music before hitting in field, as means of boosting our state, energy and vibe.

Along with that, we were also encouraged by the advanced guys to get in front of a mirror and recite some mantras before doing day game (approaching up women on the streets).

Saying all that to say, these little drills and exercises go a long way in getting you psyched up for the task of approaching women.

Quite frankly, at a mastery level which I have since attained, I no longer have to psyche myself up to approach any chick.

No longer is there a need to give myself an internal pep talk about the importance of going now before my chance slips away.

However, if I were you, and struggling with approach-anxiety issues when it comes to approaching the OYD (Object of Your Desire), I would motivate myself into action by being mindful of the following realities:

• “She could get married tomorrow”

• “She could move tomorrow”

• “I may never see her again for some reason”

• “I may die tomorrow in some freak accident”

One thought on “3 Mantras That Should Drive You To Approach That Girl-Next-Door

  1. I’d handle this shit real simple like ladies “Pull a Carrie Underwood on his ass then see what he does” dig them keys into his leather seat ladies yup of the motorcycle whichever leave no stone unturned – metaphor GTOH!!!!!!!! Byeeee!!!

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