After my scathing article recently about asshole game and its effectiveness, I was tapped by a few guys asking if this could be replicated [asshole game] in real time, with newer girls…over Facebook.
In a sense, I was put to the test by those subscribers of mines: those of who called me out for the sake of it. And those who truly wanted to see if being a douche could actually lead to successful pickups…though I’ve displayed this many times previously.
In late November, I came across this super-hot girl on Facebook while browsing the friend-suggestion field [pictured below].
I checked to ensure of 2 things:
1.) Does she live within reach- as in the same island, or a neighboring island at least, where I can hop on a ferry for the short voyage. She passed.
2.) Does she passe my boner-test…and she does.
I then friend-requested her, followed by my usual online-game schtick.
Ok, so few things before I proceed:
•By no means was I being a dick in a genuine sense. It is all an act! Just a routine!
•I am merely going to illustrate how you can pick up a super-hot girl by being an ass with her…and why you should be dickish…especially if she’s someone who has lots of male fans scooping her poop.
The thing is guys; hot girls are accustomed to men poop-scooping and praising them like the reincarnation of Cleopatra.
For crying out loud; even ugly girls are used to tons of guys outright hitting on them with overly nice approaches, compliments and so forth.
If you can recall few weeks back, an Indian girl whom I’d hooked up with had almost 400 inbox messages on Facebook from random men hitting on her.
Girls in general become desensitized to this shit: guys from all walks of life lauding them with niceties, whether this be online or in person.
My approach here will show you guys how to flip a super-hot girl’s buttons to gaining compliance, getting her to chase, getting the number, to then planning to hook up…all within the span of days [less than a week really].
Although it isn’t necessary, I am going to post the entire chat-log and dialogue between her and me: from the not-so elaborate stuff to the “he fucked up now” pieces.
Anywho, so I came across her FB profile, seen that she lived next door, she passed by boner-test, so I messaged her on the 27th of November [this is after attracting her by a few comments I made perhaps on 3 posts of hers the day I added her].
As usual: her identity and sensitive details will be protected! But everything else unedited.
[Note: Texts read from left-to-right, top rows first then bottom of each screenshotted image. + screenshot-by-screenshot breakdown].
•Above: Girl says she’s weary and fed up of being hit on and it is getting to her. This is the case with most girls regardless of their hotness. This is why instead of outright hitting on her, I did it indirectly with stealth, shielded by a cloud of dickishness. In other words [and this’ indirect game], if one likes a girl; he isn’t supposed to act like a dick towards her, but he should do the opposite. With super-hot girls like she is: you do the opposite as I showed by treating her like a little brat [indirect game].
•She asks me 4 questions, all of which the answers I provided she said were all dealbreakers. She also told me to “get going” if I don’t like her bitchy attitude [token resistance]. So, she claimed that I’d disqualified myself with my 4 answers…yet she kept talking.
•Above: She says she’s a hermit and doesn’t go out. I in turn told her to slow down, indicating to her that I wasn’t asking her out [a false-disqualifier technique]. She plays hard-to-get again by saying “this is my cue to go”. Again- I made a very power play by telling her that I’m not auditioning to be her BF, “so let’s slow down”. I then put the nail in her hot girl coffin by telling her “let’s catch up another day”…in essence, I was rejecting her [flipping the script]. She then went on to applaud me for crude honesty because I said I didn’t want to be her BF. Hot girls are NOT used to guys dismissing them! The following morning, I then threw out a bait to her [curiosity loop] by saying, “I can be honest”.
•Additionally, by telling her she’s proven a lot to me thus far, it flips the dynamics from a situation where I’m chasing her to where she’s chasing me, simply by saying that she’s proven herself worthy…in other words. I strategically withheld the information she wanted to hear…intentionally making her way more curious and anxious. That was to bait and reel her in even more.
•Above: The way I acted towards her at this point was as if she was being and annoyance, and she’s walking on thin ice with me by telling her she’s a brat. I then negged her by saying just because you have “DECENT” boobs doesn’t mean I’ll allow her to trample my manhood. Very powerful whenever you inject the adjective “Decent” into a statement that way. Though “Decent” is a positive, it is often taken as a negative [a neg] when used to describe someone. Hence, when I said she has “decent” boobs, it was as if I was saying she barely passed the boob-test. So it made her a lot insecure and self-conscious…which is the point of a solid neg. This is also exemplified by her reaction when she said “thanks I guess”. By injecting the word “decent”, it threw her off, hence she wasn’t able to process whether it’s a good or bad. 😈 I then drove the curiosity loop deeper by saying “I don’t usually do this”.
•By me calling her bratty and a bitch, she instantly sees herself as such, while unknowingly latching onto me as the source of her brattiness. I further called her bitchy. Who does this to a hot girl whom he’s trying to pick up? No one! I then further dismissed her hot-girl blasé by saying I would beat her, and that I’m old enough to be her dad. This is a false-disqualifying technique once again. As expected when done right: the girl defends herself by qualifying. Instead of seeing me as someone too old for her, she tries to justify why I am NOT too old for her. 🙂
•Above: I further negged her and acted more dickly by telling her she’s nasty for hitting on an old man [me in this case]. Again; who says this to a smoking-hot girl”? No one! I treated her dismissively, sub-communicating to her that her hotness doesn’t sway me 1 bit. By reinforcing “I am old”, I further [falsely] disqualify myself by indirectly telling her that I am not interested. I am too old! I then drop another power-curiosity loop [my 3rd thus far] by saying, “I was thinking about something”. Whenever you say this to someone, they cannot help but become curious and want to know what that thing is. I further treated her like a little pest by calling her out on her sassy shit. Again; no guy does this unless he’s trying to kill his chances. By saying “I think I like you” [“Think” being the potent word], it indicates to her that I am not sold on her, and she’s walking on thin ice. Hence why she asked, “and you think you like me”? That 1 inane word which I used [“think”] went further to dismantle her hot-girl entitlement mechanism. Guys are not supposed to “think” they like a hot girl. They are SUPPOSED to like her without a doubt!
•Additionally, I strategically ignored her question [powerful move] and called her brat. Again; doing this sets yourself up as a guy who is of higher value than she is. And women only chase guys whom they perceive is of more importance than they are. Also, you know when a girl is sold on you when she doesn’t take insults insultingly, but says “thank you” in the way that she did. 😉 .I then drove the dagger deeper by using the powerful word “think” again, when I reiterated that “I think I like you but your bitchy behavior is taking too long to shift to nice”. I then used Mystery’s classic line in order to get a girl to qualify by saying to her, “tell me 1 interesting thing about yourself”. Doing this also sets the tone that you [in this case; me] are the prize! And she is the one who is auditioning to get a role in your movie [in this case: my movie]. By saying, “not bad so far”, I further drill home the point that I am the chooser here…and she took the bait and qualifies herself…as expected!
•Above: Being more of a jerk, I asked her if she was a prostitute. Why? Because I can! I purposely wanted to get under her skin some more, knowing that she was already sold on me and fully attracted. Hence, no matter what I say, she cannot dismiss me! I justified my comment by saying that I’m not good with words. My other remarks in regard to my rude comment about prostitution, were dismissive and illogical on my end. Remember; women operate on an illogical plain. Feed them illogical shit!
•Being confused because I wasn’t genuinely apologetic for calling her a hooker, she conceded and resigned herself to the fact that I am the prize here and she ought to take whatever shit I give her…which is why she said, “I’m a high-class prostitute…perfect”! I gave an indirect apology [which is strategic], again justifying it by saying I am not a smooth guy that she’s used to [by “smooth”, I meant nice-guy wimp…and she also knew what I meant]. I reinforced that I’m an asshole, hence I am not to be held accountable for dickish things I say. Again; who calls a girl a bitch unless he’s itching to kill his chances with the girl? No one…except a master seducer!
•Above: This is powerful here that she accepts being called a bitch. Why did she? Because I called her a bitch and I owned it! The fact that she’s totally attracted to me [my vibe, and not my looks], her brain subconsciously tells her to accept whatever it is I say to her as factual. Hence, I called her a bitch. Instead of taking it negatively; she accepts it in the positive. Why? Because she subconsciously sees me as her superior and someone of higher value! Afterwards, when she said to me, “depends on the whole progress thing”- in other words- she wants us to progress and proceed. This further solidifies my point that it had already hit the hook point where she wants me…which is why she mentions progressing [moving on together]. To this point, I never at all mentioned to her that I wanted us to progress anywhere. Hence, she is the one chasing me! Moreover, how does she reward me for calling her a colossal bitch? She says I’m a persistent asshole. Again; if I’m an asshole [which I am here], why bother with me…unless girls are attracted to assholes”?
•I gave her a proverbial doggy-treat by saying to her that she made me LOL for the 1st time. Again; it sets things up to where I come off as the standard-bearer and I’m judging her as my inferior. So she’s making me laugh, and not the other way around. I again gave her another doggy-treat while simultaneously saying to her that she’s winning some points with me and that humor takes girls a long way with me. Again- who is the one here trying to make whose grade- I or she? Obviously I am the one grading her while she has been put in the role of the one being graded to see whether she qualifies. Powerful shit huh? It is very subtle psychologically, and the girl herself doesn’t see it.
•Also, here is the beauty of indirect game [not outright hitting on a girl]: it leaves girls confused…but in a positive sense; hence why she asked me what do I want from her. Since I’m not hitting on her as 99.9% of other men do; this confuses her brain and what she’s accustomed to from men. I further play difficult while building more intrigue when I said to her “you’ll think I’m a bigger jerk and asshole if I tell”…as in what I want from her. Listen- it is clear! I want to fuck this girl and she knows it! From the get-go, I told her that I wanted to meet up, hence she said to me that she’s a hermit and doesn’t get out. So it’s not like I’m hiding my intention here. Her brain just desires further clarity. She knows I want to fuck her, which is why she said it! Since I’m an asshole [as she puts it], that must mean I want sex. BINGO!
•Above: Again I dropped a 4th curiosity-builder by saying “I’m curious about something last night”. Also, instead of trying to convince her why I’m the guy for her [as most guys do], I did the total opposite by saying “I’m not the nicest guy”. Again- this is a false-disqualifier technique. Instead of trying to prove to the girl why she should choose me, I do the opposite by saying something that would tell her not to choose me [that is the essence of a “False-Disqualifier]. I triple-down on the “FD” by telling her that I’m not a good influence for her and that she’s too young. No guy does this when trying to get with a girl. Thus, it is a super-powerful technique when done effectively. Here it is that I’m a 33 year old guy and she is 19-20. Yet I’m the one disqualifying her, and telling her that she’s too young for me.
•Additionally, I play up the “I’m a bad influence” card by asking what would her parents think if they found out she was talking to a guy like me: an asshole, bad influence…and 13 years older than her. Why do I play this up, apart from the previously mentioned powerful-psychological gambits? Because hot girls love badboys and jerks! Badboys are bad influences…so I play this up, knowing it will be a DHV/ a plus. Here is the deep psychology: though I clearly tell her that I’m a bad influence, instead of running for the hills, she indirectly justifies why it is okay to deal with a guy who’s bad influence.
•Above: Here is where I make my sexual pitch indirectly by further eliminating the boyfriend frame by telling her I’m not looking to be her BF nor her BFF. What was her response: “I know. You just want to fuck”. Not that I ever said that. But my vibe, sub-communications and attitude, imply that I am someone who just wants to hook up…hence she’s down because I didn’t make the mistake of directly hitting on her. I then let her know that I am pre-selected by telling her I have a GF. This further deepens the attraction. The way I put it also gives her the impression that I wouldn’t have sex with her because I have a GF. So again; here it is a guy- myself- turning down a super-hot girl for sex. I once again play up the “I’m an asshole” card, knowing that is the kryptonite here.
•Additionally, her ex-boyfriend situation makes it clear the type of guys this girl [all girls] end up falling for at various and numerous stages of their lives. I am no different from her boyfriend in that I wouldn’t treat her any better…though I’m honest about having someone. Yet, that still doesn’t dissuade her from being super attracted to me.
•Above: It’s always the best policy to be honest with women. It will take you far and women will be honest with you also. It behooves me why guys lie, believing to themselves that girls won’t take them on if they are forthcoming about having a girlfriend, being married, having children, etc. Furthermore, she applauds me for being honest and real about drawing lines [not dating, not wanting female friends and only want to hook up].
•I bust on her again as a real Alpha with options would by telling her “shut up brat”. Again; she now follows my lead by calling me a dog/mut because I called her a bitch numerous times. So, this is a case where she is following my lead and not the other way around.
•Above: we exchange some banter here. This is very powerful as I cited previously with she following my lead and my mantra. Who calls a girl bitch, dog and mut…and still has her attracted? Only a guy who’s high value.
•Now, this is key. I tried to get her # but she objects. Was this a rejection? No! Did I take it as such? No! This is called “token objection” where she tries to preserve some value by playing hard-to-get. Expect this from the hottest girls! Did you notice how she indicates that I can msg her [on FB] to continue? Hence, she not giving me her # at that point was a mute point because I could’ve reached her on FB anyway. I contacted her the following morning working out the logistics. Knowing that she’s already sold on me, I aim to set up the rendezvous, so I threw my pitch of “meet me @ my hotel or guest-house”.
•Above: always try to facilitate the pull whenever possible as I customarily do. In this case, by telling the girl I’ll pay her cab fare [as an inducement]. Thus, she has no excuse of not having transportation.
•I then feel out her knowledge of the layout of the land by asking her if she’s familiar with the hotel that I usually frequent in her town. She knew about it, so that was a plus for logistics.
•Above: More 2-way banter. I give her my #, knowing she would take it and hit me up. Generally, it is a terrible mistake to give your #. However, if the girl is already sold on you, it isn’t a bad idea. She then agrees to meeting up over the coming weekend.
•I get rough with her [exaggeratingly so] about her #. Is this desperation? No! It isn’t done in a low-valued way but with rough humor. She senses that I was just being humorous and not desperate when telling her to cough up the digits. I knew it was a matter of time until the expected play hard-to-get shit will have evaporated.
•I FB inboxed her the following day [Sunday] saying “waiting”…meaning on her #. Again; this isn’t desperation. It is persistence but in a dominant yet lighthearted way. I make a bold-sexual comment about fucking her as punishment.
•Above: I then strategically ended the conversation before she did. The one who ends the conversation first, leaves having the psychological leverage and upper-hand. So always end things before she does. Hence I told her I will message her later on.
Ok, the most important point I want to deduce from this interaction had been made earlier when she said to me that the 4 questions of hers that I answered, were all deal-breakers.
The fact that I am over 30 years old disqualified me.
Having kids disqualified me.
Having had an STD also disqualified me.
This is all according to her…yet they turn out to not be deal-breakers after all…as expected.
Obviously, that was bullshit as is always the case with things women say they want, what they stand for and what they are about. If you’re socially intelligent; you pay no mind to shit women say as far as deal-breakers.
I often hear married guys complain that they got rejected because the girl doesn’t date nor do married men.
Fuck that! You got rejected because you fell for it dude!
I’ve preached this ad nauseum: there is no such thing as type to women!
Sure she has an ideal type on her proverbial checklist, just as everyone does: a rich guy, tall, dark and handsome, 6-pac abs, drives the most luxurious car on Earth, looks like a reincarnation of an Adonis, owns his own business, prince charming to the core, etc.
However, what kind of guy does the average girl goes and settles for?
The polar opposite from her type: a short guy, potbellied, has kids, married or divorced, has nothing going for himself, piss poor, unemployed or bouncing from job to job, a loser who doesn’t pamper her, etc.
Hence, what she says she wants in a man isn’t important because she’ll likely fuck some guy who doesn’t fit her criteria in the least. So when she says you’re not her type, disregard it and plow forward as though she said you were her ideal type!
All in all, I just want you guys to realize how strategic this pull was.
In order to pull a smoking-hot girl who’s accustomed to hundreds of men hitting on her DAILY, you have to fucking stand out from the pack of clowns and nice guys who are hounding the girl with the same lame game that doesn’t get them anywhere!
Do you need to act like a dick in order to get into a hot girl’s pants?
Not really. However, it is 1 of the most effective ways, especially if you don’t have social value going for you as I didn’t with this girl.
Moreover, you cannot pick up a random-hot girl on Facebook by directly hitting on her. Hence this indirect approach of mines.
The underlying reason why you must act like a dick with a girl who gets tons of male attention is that you have to firstly knock her off of the high horse which most hot girl prance around on.
This goes back to the core of old-school pickup theory in lowering a girl’s perceived value by treating her as if she’s a little pest or beneath you.
You also have to bear in mind that this is a totally random fucking stranger I spotted on Facebook days ago. Therefore, I was starting off from a position of absolutely no value to her at all!
This should’ve been an automatic dismissal and rejection. But because of my Facebook method of picking up random girls, which is the most effective- bar fucking none- I was able to completely sweep this HB off of her feet within a matter of 16 hours of messaging her…by acting like a disrespectful asshole might I add.
Lastly, and for record sake, such pickups are NOT uncommon for me. This is an everyday occurrence for that matter, where I pick up and bed random hot girls whom I meet from Facebook…predominantly with jerk and asshole game. These are girls with who I share zero mutual friends, zero things in common [for starters]. Hence, I have no value to these girls.
Anyway guys, stay tuned for part 2 which will be posted later on or tomorrow [Whatsapp convo]. It gets even crazier.
I’ll detail this entire seduction from beginning to end as it unfolds.
All in all: can one often and successfully pick up random hot girls on Facebook while being a jerk?
Hope this post will have put that all-too-common question to bed.
We are set to meet up over the weekend. I haven’t yet decided which night we will meet since I have shit lined up with about 7 other girls [Friday to Sunday night].