I often get guys ask, “Hey Kenny, why is majority of your text game based around sex”?
As crazy as that question looks on the surface- because after all, a man should desire to talk sex with the women he’s sexually attracted to- yet it is actually a reasonable question in my estimation.
However, it gets deeper than that.
My question is, why shouldn’t you want to get sexual with the women you interact with?
Why are men in general, so adverse to the idea of getting sexual with women?
At the core of it all, it is the misconception that women are sexual saints, prudish and are turned off by the thought, talk and idea of casual sex.
In simplest terms: most guys believe that women don’t like sex as nearly as much as men do.
With this misconception swirling about in the average guy’s head, he cannot help but be taken-aback by my sexual approach.
Hence, his question is a valid one, given his current reality that women and casual sex don’t mix well.
The actual-universal reality is: Chicks Love Dicks!
Only thing is, they are repulsed by the manner in which the average guy goes about it [getting sexual].
Case in point: if you’re randomly inboxing chicks dick pics on Facebook with an accompanying messaging reading, “Can I have your #”? You will leave with the impression that women are stuck-up prudes after they will have chided you out and blocked you from contacting them.
Hence, it isn’t that women don’t like the idea of sex and getting sexual. They are just turned off by the way you [the guy] approach it.
On the other hand, you have the guys who make sex or the talk of sex such a big fucking deal.
When you take things too seriously, women will likely do the same since they generally feed off of the vibe, energy and frame you present them.
Therefore, if you make sex seem like just another day at the office [a fun day that is], women will also adopt that frame.
At the end of the day, there is a method to my madness and why I get sexual pretty fast with every girl I meet.
Not only do women want that. But they are drawn to a guy who’s on the ‘IN’, in that he knows what women want [sex] and how to lead them there.