I’m not a fan of Tinder simply because I never used it and don’t know what the hell it’s all about.
Nevertheless, I am familiar with the Shock and awe opener because I use it on a regular basis.
RSD Max had posted the following Tinder chat to Facebook earlier today, where he used the Apocalypse Opener aka Shock and Awe Opener in order to pick up a girl on Tinder.
Such an opener is basically an all or nothing approach.
What makes it work for some guys all boil down to congruence and a consistent profile.
Lots of guys utilize such openers with random girls online. 99% of them are shot down by either being flat-out ignored or told to fuck off!
This is usually a product of in-congruence where the girl doesn’t buy what you’re saying since your profile doesn’t match up to that.
Now, I usually get away with this because the girl will skim my profile, see the sexual and forward shit I post and immediately get to see the type of guy I am- forward and sexual- hence my profile is congruent with someone who makes such forward and bold commentaries!
On the other hand, if you were to inbox a girl on Facebook for instance, and tell her that you want to have sex with her and make her squirt, and she skims your profile and see all the “saintly” and non-provocative shit you post, then she will become annoyed due to your in-congruence and inconsistencies, and her reaction [if not just flat-out block or ignore you] will have been a super-negative one.
Women will respect a guy for being so sexually forward, only if he’s congruent with it.
Ok, so when and why should one use such an opener/ice-breaker?
Whenever he pleases.
Why such an opener at times?
It accelerates the process towards sex…obviously by cutting through the guessing game of whether this guy wants to fuck me or not.
Try it out on Tinder or any dating and social-media site just to see how it goes for you.