A personal friend of mine wanted my opinion of marrying little over a year ago.
I warned him NOT to get married…plus he was only about 25.
Presently, he has been dumped, his wife is screwing all over town [even I had shagged her before they married] and a divorce is now pending.
I knew the girl before him and better than him, and I also knew that along with myself, she was still fucking other guys while she was engaged to
Hence when I warned him not to get
married: I had good reasons.
Anyway, so his wife was exposed as a grand harlot only a year after marrying.
What this guy doesn’t get though is that the “perfect man shit” that he professes to be, is exactly the reason why his wife cheated and dumped him.
This guy tries to be women’s idea
type, but he doesn’t quite realize that women are very ungrateful beings by nature, and they do NOT reward men for fitting their ideal type [cook, clean, wash, pamper her, etc].
Figuring he had learned a lesson since his wife kicked him out 3 weeks ago [after knowingly cheating on him], and with the fact that I advised
him in the past, but he still doesn’t get it, that being a “nice guy” with women, pampering and spoiling them rotten, is the quickest way to get dismissed.
Here is his most recent Facebook post…his mindset of being the “perfect man for women”, still dominates his perception of what he should be with women…not realizing that he cannot keep a girlfriend, largely because of his pampering ways [I’ve known this guy personally for over 10 years].
He also thinks that good sex keeps a woman from cheating [his wife sure showed him differently].
He’s also an intellectual type…which turns women off. I know this personally since I am also an
intellectual but learned to tone it down whenever dealing with women.
Hopefully this guy will begin to take my advice and become somewhat rebellious and quit trying to mold himself into a woman’s ideal.