I concluded the previous post with the following words:
“There are no excuses besides the ones that you make up within your head!
Your race doesn’t matter!
Your age doesn’t matter!
Your height or shortness doesn’t matter!
Not an issue!
I am actually balding and noticeable greying, so what excuses do you have to make for being a chode-ass loser?
Oh- you’re fat? So fucking what!
Always realize that it is vibe/game over physical attributes!
Once you learn how to connect with women [through your vibe], your looks or lack thereof, won’t fucking matter an iota!”
Guys, even those in pickup, seem to think that I’m full of shit whenever I go off on a rant about physical imperfections not being a big deal to women.
Your limiting beliefs are the reason you suck at this!
You think you need to be Brad Pitt in order to get laid.
Well you don’t!
Listen- I’ve been in bars and lounges with hotter guys, younger guys, taller guys [though I’m 6’2], guys with muscles out the ass, etc. yet I eat them up for breakfast!
In the entire venue, I would be the only guy locked-in, chatting up some hottie who’s young enough to be my daughter.
What would all the hotter, younger, buffer guys be doing?
Propping up the bar counter like statuses.
Hence, what profits them to be the ideal guy whom women “claim” to want, but are not going after?
The thing is, so-called good-looking guys rely solely on the looks, just as the wealthy guy relies solely on his wealth and money in order to attract girls.
Looks and money can only take you so far.
The good-looking guy rarely gets laid. And when he does, it is with some fat girl within his social circle or clique…which doesn’t count.
The wealthy guy ends up paying for sex in other words…which doesn’t quite count neither.
Guys like myself who don’t have wealth and Hollywood-esque looks going for us, we have to find another alternative in order to attract women.
That alternative is called Game, which is heavily based on verbal and social skills…which both the wealthy and so-called good-looking guy lack.
Standing inside of a bar and waiting for girls to approach you [as good-looking guys do], is a losing strategy.
No amount of good looks can help you there!
The most that will happen is girls checking you out, giving the eye and giggling to their friends about how cute you are…but that’s it for the so-called pretty boy!
He has to approach…which he’ll not do!
This is why when I’m at the club, lounge or bar, I proactively approach the women I want and run laps around the guys who rely on their looks to no avail.
Prime example is the shy-nerd girl I picked up Saturday night.
Dozens of guys were checking her out inside and outside of the grocery store: but not one approached, not one made an effort to approach…except me.
Therefore, quit the excuses, and quit allowing your self-imposed limitations to stifle your gains and progress with women!
There’s no such fucking thing as a certain girl is out of your league.
There’s also no such thing as “she isn’t into me because of my race”.
You want to believe that but it isn’t the case!
Types are also bullshit!
There’s no such thing as a woman having types and ideal types.
Sure she may have a pre-planned idea of the kind of guy she would prefer. But she’ll still fuck a guy who doesn’t matches her ideal criteria.
Every girl would like to have a tall, dark and handsome guy stud. But who does she go for? A short, not-so handsome guy with a beer belly.
Bear those things in mind.