Arguably the most ridiculous thing a chick ever said to me EVER: while chatting to a chick last night at the bar who flaked on me twice prior, this is what she said to me:
Me: “You are the worst excuse maker in the world. Listen, if you didn’t want to see me, you could’ve said that. It’s not like I was gonna cry or something if you didn’t want to go out with me.
Girl: “Well Kenny, you’re the type of guy who expects me to actually stick to my word”.
You damn fucking right girl!
Of course I expect you to keep your word!
If you agree to meet up with me, why would I not expect you to follow through!?
Which guy wouldn’t expect a girl to keep her word as far as a meet-up or date goes?
This only goes to illustrate and prove the fickle and flippant fame/mindset of women…and why no man should ever easily trust anything a girl says due to her innate indecision when it comes to plans and so forth.
The reality is; what a girl says right now and in the moment, she is liable to go back on it an hour later and not see a thing wrong with that…even if it means screwing over someone else in the process (i.e. the person they made plans with).
Honestly speaking; I never hold women to their word because I know how flaky they are.
If a girl agrees to meet up with me at a bar, lounge, food joint, etc. while hoping she would show up, Im always 70% doubtful that she will…hence I manage my expectation differently by leaving a room for disappointment.
If the girl doesn’t show up; I’m not at all surprised.
With this girl from last night however, she did finally show up after standing me up 2 occasions prior. But how fucked in the head are women for saying shit like, “when I make plans with a guy, I’m not expecting that he would expect me to keep my word”.
On a deeper level, this is all psychological and I get why women flake and I expect girls to flake at least twice. So I’m not being naive here to how women operate. Just that this girl’s comment at the bar last night was like a Mack truck hitting me at full speed.