In keeping with the previous 3 posts, I want to expound exclusively on a strategic concept in game that is super powerful when utilized correctly.
Ignoring a girl’s texts messages or phone calls isn’t just crafty and sinister but effective when timing is opportune. 😈
Before I delve into this any deeper, I want to firstly say that chicks are notorious for engaging in such activities, ignoring guy’s texts just because they can.
However, it gets even deeper and sinister with your average Jane.
Women not only willfully ignore guy’s texts and calls because they can, but they also do this in order to gain power in the interaction, leverage over the guy and a subtle upper-hand.
Now, here is where it really gets fucked-up: women purposely ignore guy’s messages in order to boost their egos and self-esteem.
It’s really a power play…and women are great at this game.
We’ve all heard stories and cases where girls would show their texts and missed calls to other girls in a show of “who has the most guys chasing them”.
It’s a lot of chest-bumping when chicks congregate with their BFF’s and besties.
It becomes a contest of “which girl is ignoring and stringing along the most guys”. 😦 😦
A sad fucking reality to say the least where men are proverbially treated like disposable paper and laughingstock at a roast fest.
Welcome to the not-so-pretty world of texting. 🙂
Now, if you’ve been following me for any time now, you will have known that I am a strong proponent of giving women a dose of their own medicine.
Whenever I say this, I usually receive tons of backlash from men out of everyone, branding me a douchy advocate of head games and trickery.
I take such criticisms like a man.
However, it just goes to highlight how deeply ignorant men are of what ultimately attracts a liberal amount of poon into bed.
Be as it may, in order to tip the scales in your favor as the guy in the equation [for example: texting back and forth], you will have to do unto women what they do unto you.
Women look at everything and every dealing they have with every man as a strategic-power struggle.
She will actively and slyly seek to gain the upper-hand if she doesn’t already have it.
She will look to check-mate and 1-up every move the guy makes in order to come out as the victor in a battle which she instigates to begin with.
Prime example: out of nowhere ignoring a guy’s text messages or Facebook inbox messages in order to see how much he will chase her.
The more he chases (without a strategy), the faster his chances tank.
She uses the strategy of ignoring a guy’s messages as a way to test the guy’s resolve [to see whether he’s a needy pest or guy who doesn’t give 2 fucks], and also to cause him to DLV himself [Demonstrate Lower Value] by chasing her even harder.
The verdict is still out on whether chicks do this consciously or subconsciously. But my hunch tells me that most girls aren’t aware that they engage in such bamboozlement until pointed out to them…such as what I’m doing here right now.
In any case, it is all about a power grab with women.
The more leverage she has with and over the guy, the more validation she can suck from him whenever she’s having a shitty day.
She can have this guy scoop her poop like precious gold…once she has the leverage and the power between the 2.
Ironically, 97+% of men on this globe are overly poised to give away their power on a silver platter to every girl they come across. Hence, the girl starts out in the first place having the leverage and power since the guy would have willingly coughed it up from the get-go.
Those guys hardly every get anywhere with women besides a cozy seat in the text-zone…or friend-zone.
Women are innately attracted to guys whom they can’t control, and whom they can’t quite manage to manipulate in a grab for power.
By (purposely) ignoring girl’s text messages and phone calls, you will have placed yourself into the bracket of the desirables.
If a woman cannot (quite) manage to get her way with you, her brain translates this to mean that you are someone of higher value, power and pre-selection.
Ignoring her attempts at communication [i.e. texts] is 1 way in which you can make this happen.
We humans place more value upon things which we cannot so readily get so easily.
This is widely accepted as true by most people with a grain of understanding of human-behavioral psychology.
In essence; this is akin to playing hard-to-get…another strategy which women employ religiously!
Now, which man out there is even thinking about playing hard-to-get games with women?
Absolutely NONE…except the rare pick-up artist [PUA] who had backwards-engineered the whole game.
Men don’t play hard-to-get!
Every girl on the face of the Earth plays hard to get!
I mean, this is expected of her.
This is no secret by any stretch of the imagination [that every woman plays hard-to-get to some degree].
Since men generally tend to be opposed to the idea of playing hard to get, whenever we do meet a woman, she can virtually predict how everything will play out on the guy’s end.
She knows there will be no push-pull, no challenge from the guy, no angles, no deviation, etc…then you wonder why women get quickly bored with 98% of the guys they would have met.
Once you can present a woman with some challenges and difficulties as through texting, she won’t ever get bored.
Such “challenge” can come by way of ignoring her communiques. 😉
I do it pretty frequently…I must confess.
Alright, this actually happens not on purpose to be precise.
When it comes to taking phone calls, I am the absolute goddamn worst.
My phone is almost always on silent mode because of the nature of my day job.
Thus there would be girls trying to ring me and their calls would often times go unnoticed until I see their missed calls an hour later.
This is usually accompanied by some text messages such as:
“Hi Kenny. This is Jen. We met the other day at *******. We texted a bit but I decided to call you and talk but you I couldn’t reach you”.
I don’t even ignore girl’s calls and texts intentionally. Well half of the time I do…but that’s besides the point.
Again I say: People want what they can’t easily have.
Most guys are actually hung up on a particular girl because he cannot have her.
This fucks with him psychologically, thus in turn, he interprets this [the girl being inaccessible] to mean ‘Love’.
He ends up putting the girl on a pedestal and seeing her as more valuable than other girls.
It is very much the same for women also. They get hung up on a guy who isn’t quite interested, and they interpret those emotions and feelings to mean love.
The reality is, they are only so into the person because he or she is somewhat inaccessible, out of reach, hard to get and being a bit indifferent.
Therefore, the more availability you present a woman, the less she will want you. So- be unavailable at times!
Don’t be so easily accessible to any girl whom you’re texting!
If she texts you at 11 AM, ignore her message(s) for a few hours…granted it isn’t an emergency.
What does the average guy do when he receives a text from a girl whom he’s been trying to get with?
He texts her back IMMEDIATELY!
He leaves no space for wonder.
This is a bad idea!
Women don’t operate this way!
They will intentionally ignore your messages, knowing that doing so, will have caused the guy to idealize her more and chase her more.
Ok, so lemme wrap this up by sharing some added examples of how to raise your stock in a woman’s eye by ignoring her texts and calls.
Always try to delay the time in which you contact her by replying to her text or call.
An hour or longer is ideal.
Anything less than 5 minutes will get you in the red.
The beauty about my Whatsapp Messenger app- and I’m sure it’s a glitch- is that I only receive messages while I have the app itself opened.
As long as I’m not currently using Whatsapp messaging someone, I won’t receive notifications that I received a message.
Hence, whenever I do open the app to run my Whatsapp Course at the designated time, I would meet tons of messages from girls who had messaged me about hours before.
With that being said, when it comes to new girls especially, you always want to leave a gap in the time that you respond to her messages.
She texts you at 5: text her back at 6:30.
The only exception being emergencies and cases where you’re already locked into a conversation with the girl as you’re trying to build some attraction at the beginning.
However, it is all a balancing act.
Never go to the extreme or the girl will feel as though you’re not interested in her at all.
Therefore, work both angles intermittently.
Engage her right away this time.
The next: ignore her messages and calls for a few hours…even a day or 2 depended on the nature of her message.
Keep alternating how frequently and how soon you return her messages.
When you will have done that, you will get the girl thinking about you more, thus raising your stock in her eyes.