When will we ever learn?
Some weeks back, I saved a few screenshots from Facebook which a girl had posted as a way to out guys who were constantly in her inbox trying to get with her.
If you’ve been following me for any time now, you would know that I am dead-set against hitting up girls in their inbox in this sort of fashion.
However, I do applaud the elderly man for going for it…though online, it doesn’t really count at all as “going for it”.
That escalated fast!
Ok, so what did the elderly fellow do wrong?
Many things to be exact.
However, indirectly putting the girl on a pedestal was the biggest turnoff and mistake that he made.
Saying to a girl over Facebook, “I want to get to know you because you’re beautiful”, isn’t nearly a good enough reason to make a girl want to get to know you.
Telling a girl she’s beautiful and that’s the only reason you want to get to know her is as shallow as a puddle on a rainy day.
Guys think it’s flattering but fail to realize that it is a huge fucking turnoff!
Secondly, the elderly guy gets all annoyed when the girl merely rebutted to his comment about her beauty.
Thirdly, he gets really pissed when the girl asked his age which led to some colorful words. 😆 😆
At the end of the day guy, I’ve always said it and I’ll say it again: picking up girls on Facebook is easy. However, it requires skills, timing, calibration and a lot more components to make this happen on a consistent basis.
This is what led me to write Facebook Bang