In keeping with the theme of the previous post, I want to delve a bit deeper into ‘Perception and Reality’.
Now that you’re well aware that other men will hate the fact that you’re picking up women and they will try to derail your success, this short post will hopefully aid you in getting your mind in the right place with the realization that you make and shape your own reality.
Now, I can already hear guys going, “De-mystify this Kenny! What do you mean we shape our own reality? Give examples”!
Some of us may be familiar with the saying: “Our thoughts shape our reality”.
In other words: what you think about mostly, will materialize.
Whether this is true or not, it is best to err on the side of it being factual than to believe otherwise.
This piece of insight however rings true in pickup and is very crucial to one’s development in the field.
If you believe that rejection exists, and as a consequence, girls always reject you, then your perception [of rejection] will materialize!
That is the ultimate point at which I’m reaching.
If you’re walking around as a guy with the ideas in your head that you aren’t desired by women, then it becomes akin to a self-fulfilling prophecy on a personal level.
This is why I urge you to begin to think differently about dating and life itself.
You can’t keep going around falling victim to what other people think of you, say of you and what other people’s perception and reality of you are.
Your perception is the only 1 that counts!