Sunday Night Field Report – From Blackout To Botched Attempt At Meeting Up With A Married MILF


Where do I even begin!

Sunday night, a young-married MILF whom I’ve been gaming on and off for the last 4 weeks [she’s 1 such girl I’d frozen out by week 1 for anti-DTF behavior], hits me up via Whatsapp Messenger saying that she’s stranded at her girlfriend’s house and doesn’t have a ride to take her home, so she would like me to accompany her home by foot since she doesn’t live far from her girlfriend’s [though it’s very very far from where I live].

The thing is, throughout various parts of the island, intermittent blackouts have been experienced due to maintenance issues by the power-supply company.

It just so happened that the area in which the girl lives, had blacked out, which subsequently led to her contacting me to walk her home…granted she could’ve called a cab.

[My texts in the white background. Hers in blue]

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The question is: why me?

Well- for starters- she knows how I feel about her in that I’m sexually interested in her.

She’s also well aware that I lost a great deal of interest in her as of late, hence this was an opportune moment for her to redeem herself.

Once again, this is a powerful way to get a girl to chase you [by ignoring her after you would’ve done a great deal of attraction].

Having just made it home from having dinner at my grandma’s, disrobed and ready to upload some videos to Youtube, I was contemplating whether to actually put back on some clothes in order to make a long ass journey to meet up with this hot MILF.

Why the hell not?

I’d been salivating for this moment ever since I picked her up some weeks back.

Anyway, so the designated location where I was to meet her was outside of a high school.

Her girlfriend was to walk with her there, then I take over the rest of the way. 😈

[Her texts in blue, mines in white background]

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Anyway, almost an hour later, I got a ride which dropped me off in the vicinity of the high school [this was after 8 PM].

I walked the rest of the way to the school’s area and waited around.

Remind you it was pitch-fucking dark due to the blackout in this area, so I almost couldn’t see my hands in front of me.

I sent her the following message at 8:30 PM.

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I waited around a bit longer but the girl was a no show.

I decided not to text again right away to not appear overly eager and anxious.

After some minutes, I noticed a flashlight emanating from the school grounds. Somehow, I thought it was the girl.

As I approached, I realized it was a security guard with a message for me:

“Excuse me sir. You were waiting on someone right”?

Me: “Yea”.

Security: “She just left about 2 seconds ago. She was looking for you so she asked if I seen a gentleman waiting around but I told her no. She end up getting a taxi and told me to tell you”.

“FUCK”!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Where’s my luck!?

The thing is, it wasn’t that I arrived late.

I happened to be waiting on the Northern side of the high-school premises while she was standing/waiting at the Southern side where the security guard was.

Hence, we were there at the same time but just on opposite streets on opposite sides. 😦 😦 😡 😡

Ok, so this begs the question:

Why the fuck didn’t she just text me and say, “Hey Kenny, I’m standing by the school but I don’t see you”?

As I’ve written about recently: girls won’t necessarily take responsibility and the burden for making things happen.

The more the girl actively participates in such an instance [meeting up, hooking up, etc], the more it makes her feel slutty and she begins to backwards rationalize things, gets buyer’s remorse and plausible deniability issues set in also.

Therefore, you cannot bank on a girl giving you the logistical details or else it’ll make her feel like an accomplice to a crime.

I mean, this same thing happened to me just Friday night with the NYC girl.

In a way, it’s sort of a catch 22 for men.

Girls want you to not appear desperate by texting away eagerly. Yet if you don’t text to get the logistical details down, they [women] won’t provide it on their own volition anyway.

Hence, it’s a damned if you do damned if you don’t kind of situation for men.

Anyway, so the sexy MILF decided to take a taxi as she felt that I took too long to get there…when she could’ve just texted to find out what was keeping me.

Be as it may, what I really want to touch on as a parting tip for you guy, is the idea of seizing every opportunity whenever it arises.

Girls will covertly present you numerous opportunities to hook up with them, spend time with them and to meet up with them.

It is for you as the man, to seize those opportunities before the window closes where the girl no longer presents you those opportunities.

Though I failed last night by inches to meet up on a D2 with the married MILF, that is besides the point.

If a girl likes you, she will throw these baits out there, hoping that you’ll take them and act upon them.

Failure to do so, will result in the girl coming to the conclusion that you’re not serious about spending time with her, you’re all about games, thus she will withdraw all of her interest as a result.

On top of that, you have to have a proactive mentality towards the game.

Laziness won’t pay off!

I’ll go out on a limb to say that the #1 reason why guys fail with women, is because of Laziness.

Too Lazy to go out.

Too Lazy to party.

Too Lazy to get their fitness right.

Too lazy to travel.

Too lazy to walk.

Too Lazy to invest time and energy.

Too Lazy, and too many excuses.

C’mon guys, I’ve pursued bangs in the past which left me having to walk home- on foot- for almost 2 hours.

You can read that field report here: https://kennyspuathoughts.com/2014/04/26/cock-blocked-out-of-sex-by-teen-moms-baby-weekend-field-report/

You may not get to see the girl nor get the lay. But what counts is your awareness and attunement and willingness to be proactive.

Guys still want to lay on their asses and expect that women and dates will just fall out the sky and into their laps.

Be mentally prepared for those moments when a girl sends you that txt message asking, “What are you up to”?

On a related note, if you remember the old Mystery Method model of pickup, Mystery had a theory that it takes 8 hours to sleep with a girl.

What he was trying to say, is that had you done everything correctly [attraction and comfort] and had at least 8 hours in the bank of time spent with a particular girl, then there is no reason why she won’t feel comfortable sleeping with you.

Now, what does this have to do with my situation or with you?

Every minute/hour spent with the girl is time invested in the proverbial bank.

In theory, the more time you get to spend with a girl, the more comfortable she becomes.

Comfort begs sex.

Where most guys go wrong here, is that they linger way too long in the comfort zone and end up getting friendzoned.

However, if you have the format correctly [comfort + seduction], you will have realized the importance of capitalizing off of every breakthrough which presents itself, that allows you time to spend with the girl.

An hour here, 30 minutes there, 10 minutes there, 2 hours here, etc. until the lay opportunity presents itself.

Therefore, if a girl wants you to accompany her home [as in my case from last night]: Do it!

You don’t do it because you’re such a nice guy who cares about safeguarding every woman’s life.

You do it because it is 1 step further to sleeping with the girl.

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