A very common question I get asked is:
“How many girls do you pick up”?
The answer simply varies due to numerous factors.
How I Manage My Rotation Of Girls
Managing one’s bang-prospects in the form of girls picked up, requires the strategic approach of an ardent tactician in his craft.
I may go a week where I deliberately pick up 2 girls.
The following week, I may pick up 20.
By “pickup”, I mean to get their phone numbers.
There are some weeks where I would be ‘On’ like a precision-guided missile, hitting up every avenue and crevice on the streets like a pick-up madman.
Other weeks, I’d be content with just 1 new number as I would’ve already been gaming up a significant portion of women to begin with.
Be as it may, on average, I pick up about 3 new girls a day during a decent week while on a hot streak.
Pickups over the internet account for about 25-30% of my overall conquests as far as phone numbers go.
If I pick up 20 girls this week, 6 or so of them, would’ve been from Facebook or an online-dating site.
However, the vast majority of my pulls are made from street pickup [cold approaches].
Now, the raw fact is this: if and when I do pick up an average of 20 new girls during a week, there’s no way humanly possibly that I or anyone for that matter, could actually game 20 girls simultaneously and still remain effective.
The numbers are just too great without enough time within a 24 hour span to grab and keep the attention of 20 new girls…not withstanding that young girls are ADD and ADHD.
What would typically happen in such a case is, I would narrow down the 20 to a workable and manageable 5-6 girls.
By a process of rapid elimination, I would marginalize or delete the girls whom I deem are more prone to flakiness and head-games.
How do I come to the determination of which of the 20 girls are into head-games?
I would have gathered this piece of information from our initial interaction.
Now, this doesn’t mean that my assessments are always spot on.
For all I know, I routinely eliminate solid leads who may have been DTF, while keeping on board flaky girls who have no intentions to ever meet up.
It is a gamble nevertheless and an elimination process must take place.
At times, presuming that most of the 20 girls picked up were solid fuck-prospects, instead of elimination 15 of them by deleting their numbers, I would keep their numbers stored in my phone for future seduction purposes where I can game them the following week or so.
Why I don’t particularly like doing this is because of the potential and likelihood that the initial-bubbly vibe will have evaporated and the girl will not have remembered who I was.
In the event that 2 or 3 of the selected 5 girls turn out to be flakes and dead leads, I can always substitute them out for 2 to 3 of the other prospects which I’d put on the back-burner to potentially be eliminated.
Be as it may, 5 to 6 new girls a week are workable…at least for me.
Presently [as of this week], I would say that I’m working on 6 girls actually.
By “working on”, I mean trying to fuck.
If by a week’s time there is no significant breakthrough with a specific girl: I eliminate her by either:
1.) Deleting her #
2.) Putting her on the back-burner by freezing her out while subbing her for another girl
If by about 10 days and a significant breakthrough doesn’t materialize in a meet-up with the girl: I basically move on, knowing that the following week, I will have met and picked up a new set of 20 girls anyway.
Hence, I have low to zero tolerance for going back and forth via text or phone convo for weeks and months on end like most guys do.
If by week 1 the girl doesn’t commit to meeting up for the Day2; I suddenly lose interest in pursuing the lay.
I also sparingly recycle girls who may have fucked around and flaked on me a time or 2.
For instance, if a girl decides to play head-games in week 1 [though all women are prone to playing head-games to some degree], I would cut her off, freeze her out but keep her number stored on standby.
Perhaps 3 months down the line, I would hit her up again to start afresh…essentially giving her a chance to redeem herself.
You have to take into consideration existential factors which might have been at play on a prior occasion.
Perhaps the girl was going through a mean breakup when I picked her up and she just wasn’t quite ready to commit to fucking another guy yet…hence her flaky and indecisive behavior.
I would put such a girl on the proverbial back-burner for about 3 months, and hope that whatever she might have been going through, would no longer be an impediment to a rendezvous together.
Hence, a quasi-recycling procedure in your overall seduction repertoire is advisable.
I’ve met girls who were cold and bitchy today, but were darlings 4 months later. So, I always try to exercise discretion and to think for the girl since it’s very unlikely that she would come clean as to why she’s being flaky, bitchy and so froth.
Current affairs can turn a charming darling into a wretched-cold woman overnight.
Anyway, so at any given time, I’m poised to tackle 5 or 6 women through a combination of texting and phone calls, with the next goal in mind being to meet up.
I see no point to engage a girl in texts and calls for 5 successive months just to make something happen.
The reality is, and from my experience, if by the 2nd week [3rd week the latest], and you haven’t managed to meet up with the girl yet, it is good as dead.
Hence, it is advantageous to get the ball rolling right away while the initial attraction is still there and at a reasonable temperature.
I’ll speak more to that in a subsequent post.