“Attaining Sex Becomes Easier With A Certain Hack In Mindset”!
Yesterday, I’d posted a video of the Australian seduction coach, James Marshall, at the 21 Convention, speaking about women wanting sex and how society sees women for wanting sex.
If you’re familiar with the pickup/seduction community’s ideology, you would’ve already known very well that 1 of the key pieces of knowledge shared within this underground community about women, is that society views promiscuous women as sluts and harlots for having sexual desires and for wanting to fornicate, i.e. fuck!
Every guy on the planet is well aware of this disparity and quasi-double standard stacked against women.
On 1 hand: men can have sex freely.
Women get crucified for even harboring thoughts of sexual liberalism.
Men on a whole, as members of society of course, foolishly judge women as sluts and in turn, try to, or hope to sleep around with women liberally, while those same foolishly judgmental men get rejected constantly upon their sexual advances.
At the end of the day, men fail to see the underlying reason as to why they cannot get laid.
Well, I’m here to break the news to you that arguably 1 of the biggest reason why you aren’t getting pussy, isn’t your looks, isn’t your lack of capital, isn’t your dick size, but your judgmental attitude towards women who desire to sleep around.
Allow me to highlight a few powerful-keynote quotes from James Marshall’s speech:
“When you get good with women, you will almost always here these words coming from here just before she has sex with you, “Just so you know- I’m not that kinda girl”. Or, “I don’t usually do this”.
Maybe she doesn’t! But they all feel the need very very regularly to say these words to you.
Now, what I do here is something very sneaky but it ties into her fears here.
Girl says, “I can’t have sex with you. I’m not that type of girl”. Or, “I’m a good girl”.
And I’d say to her, “I know. You have a really good heart…I can see that”.
Now, what have I done in that moment? It’s sneaky but it also demonstrates a lot about my understanding of women.
She said, “I’m a good girl so that’s why I can’t have sex with you tonight”.
I’ve redefined what it means to be a good girl. Because she’s thinking, “If I have sex with this guy right now, he’s gonna think I’m a slut or bad girl. Or I’m not valuable”.
And I’ve said to her [insinuated], “Whether or not you decide to have sex with me or not, is irrelevant in terms of my judgment of you as a person”.
I said to her, “I can see that you have a good heart…that’s why I like you”.
If she have sex with me, that’s not going to affect that. In fact- that’s going to increase my respect for her.
Therefore, she feels okay about doing what she actually wants to do.
If you want to be a man who has a lot of sex in your life, then you’re going to need to be able to wield a very powerful sword…which is the sword of non judgment.
You are going to have to show women that you understand that they have sexual desires”.
Those were some very powerful insights to say the least.
As James stated, lf you start to show a woman that you understand that this world is complicated for her, particularly in her sexual relationships, and you give her reassurance that whenever she’s with you, none of that judging shit matters…that is a major relief for a woman.
The reality is, most of us men will judge, and have been judging women for ages, based on their sexual history or sexual freedom.
Posting shit to your Facebook, Instagram or anywhere else online, about women being easy, slutty, and reckless with their vagina [though true], will instantly send out a red flag to girls who would’ve otherwise taken you on as a sexual option.
Lots of guys ruin their chances for sex simply by what they post on social media, thrashing women in general for sleeping around.
If you call Kim Kardashian a whore for man-hopping quicker than a basketball being passed around the court during full-court pressure, then imagine what you’ll think/say about the no-name Jane who also enjoys dick-hopping.
Chicks are very keen on these subtle signals as warnings to be aware of certain men [the clueless judgers].
For reference sake, if you were to have access to my Facebook timeline, whenever I do post about women [which is every 9 in 10 posts by the way], it is always in acceptance of their sexual liberty and freedoms to sleep around.
My postings are never to bash, shame and berate women who are promiscuous. But to strategically take the opposite approach to encourage all girls to embrace their sexual history. Also to reassure them that “Kenny doesn’t judge”.
One of my more recent Facebook post reflects this perfectly.
Now, if in every post you make to Facebook, includes the new buzz word “Thot”, you’re essentially shooting yourself in the foot by inadvertently alienating and rejecting 99% of women within your Facebook or social-media circle.
I am definitely not implying that every girl is a model of virtue.
However, even the non-slutty girls will become turned off and wary of your thot thrashing and slut shaming.
Same ramifications apply whether you’re in person or over the internet.
Women, though they hate each other, and hate on each other with fervent venom, they will almost always find common grounds to stick together whenever they come under attack by some AFC [Average Frustrated Chump] who’s innately bitter that girls won’t sleep with him [go figure].
Now, the question is this: how many of you guys regularly fall victim to public slut-bashing to some degree or another”?
Just as I’ve though: every one of you.
Interestingly enough, guys who claim to be spiritual and religiously inclined, are also not exempt at all, just because they don’t go the extent to use colorful language in order to slut-shame and put women down.
Merely posting to your Facebook that “some girls are good, and some are bad”, is enough ammunition to keep girls away from you…though you might be a quintessential nice guy who really means no harm.
I also see quite a number of postings from such religious men, who seem to be under the illusion that women will genuinely take their side in the case of separating so-called good girls from the rotten apples.
Having the idea implanted in your head that some women are sexually virtuous while others are sexually defile [which is true], is almost always a fool’s game to play with yourself.
Whenever a girl first meets a guy, or even if he’s someone she’s already familiar with, especially someone she fancies, she consciously and subconsciously screens and scans for certain things beneath the surface:
“If I fuck this guy; will he judge me afterwards and deem me an easy whore”?
This is a question she would like to have a fucking answer to in order to have closure to proceed or decline!
If she only senses for a nanosecond that you’re the kind of guy who will scandalize her publicly, or secretly harbor shameful feelings towards her [about sleeping with you], then she will NOT fuck you!
On top of that: she will never tell you the reason why she won’t go to bed with you [obviously so].
Now, reflect on this for a minute.
How many pussy have you allowed to slip out of your hands over the years, due to no egregious fault in your game, but for the simple fact that the girl didn’t trust that you will not publicly (or privately) shame her for sleeping with you?
Whether you believe it or not, or fail to see it, you auto-reject 80% of the women whom you didn’t manage to sleep with…assuming you have at least 1 ounce of verbal skills in which to communicate with a girl.
Most guys auto-reject girls without realizing it.
Thus, you can have at your disposal all of the nifty tricks and PUA tactics known to man, they will still come to naught as long as you’re stuck in the slut-shaming house of death.
As James Marshall pointed out in his speech at the 21 Convention hosted by Anthony Johnson, whenever a girl gives him [LMR] Last-Minute Resistance before having sex with him for the 1st time, he counters this by assuring the girl [via subtle insinuations] that he trusts her heart.
As a piece of advice for you guys, you don’t necessarily have to have colorful and artful words to communicate to a girl that she can trust you to not judge her poorly after sex, or if sex does materialize.
Simply saying to the girl: “I’m not the type of guy to judge women for what they say and do”, will suffice.
You don’t truly have to believe this neither…which is the hidden beauty.
Listen- at the core of it all- all men judge women!
All men of sane reasoning, make distinctions between sexually good girls and sexually rotten ones.
Having such a defined line is a natural part of the mating game.
I’m not exactly telling you to do away with such beliefs about women and sex.
Just that you should be wise enough to keep them to yourself.
Therein lies the magic!
It is just to keep your mouth shut when it comes to your not-so-pleasant views about women who sleep around.
As hard as I push the “No woman is a slut” mantra, in alignment with the Pick-Up Community’s stance on the subject, I more than anyone know that sluts exist and they are highly active in all areas of society.
However, I’m smart enough to keep my slut-shaming to myself, or at least confine it to my circle of bros within the pick-up sphere.
You’ll never see me post anything to social media which blatantly signals to women that I judge them based on their sexual history; past, recent or present.
Once again, this isn’t because I’m drunk off of naivete and have my head buried in the sand about the obvious [that sluts exist].
It is simply a matter of strategy in getting the girl comfortable with her sexual desires by opening up without fear of being persecuted.
Hence, there are only 2 things a girl truly requires from you in order to go to bed comfortably with that decision:
“Trust”, in that you won’t think bad or less of her in the end.
“Comfort”, in that she can become comfortable in expressing her true self to you.
Everything else besides those 2 prerequisites will have just been sprinkles on top of the ice cream.
All in all, when you come across posts and articles of mines with attached screenshots for illustrative purposes, 1 of the subtle plot lines beneath the surface as to why and how I get these hot girls to chase me so hard, is everything I’d expounded upon within this article: I make women feel comfortable about being dirty-little sluts! 😈 😈
I make girls feel at ease with the idea of cheating on their boyfriends.
By simply not coming off as a judgmental guy in relation to women and promiscuity, I set the stage where trust and comfort are instantly built.
I don’t view women who cheat as “cheaters”.
Well actually- I do! But I would never share that piece of information with any girl whom I’m planning to seduce and take to bed.
When interacting with a girl who has a boyfriend, that reality will almost always lingers in the back of her mind that she has a boyfriend [or husband]. Hence, the slightest move on the guy’s part will almost always cause the girl to go: “I have a boyfriend”.
It is sort of a defense mechanism in order to protect her outward perception and social value.
However, when you can artfully communicate to the girl that having a boyfriend yet feeling sexual attraction for another, isn’t a crime, and it is actually normal, the girl will have become at ease with the idea of fucking you…though she has someone at home.
She just needs assurance [subtly] that you won’t fuck her over in the end by exposing her as a cheating harlot.
This can be achieved in various ways with verbal gambits such as saying things to the girl [during casual chitchat while getting acquainted] like:
“Society is hard on women when it comes to choices and their decisions to live their life however they want”
“I never call girls cheaters. Cheating is such a dirty word for someone feeling sexual desires for someone else”
“Promiscuity isn’t a crime”
“I respect all women when it comes to their decisions in life”
“Why should women be stoned for cheating? Shit happens”!
Now, as I stated earlier; you don’t have to truly believe any of this!
Just as long as the girl hears it from you, it’ll make her a lot comfortable with the idea of casual sex, one-night stands and cheating.
Any woman-bashing opinions you have: keep them far from the girl you’re trying to get with.
When you would have done this successfully, you will realize how women react differently towards you and your sexual advances.
Furthermore, having skills with women is great! But without the proper mindset to go along with it, it’s like building a house without a reasonably solid foundation.
If you haven’t seen it already, feel free to check out the very-long speech from James Marshall on the topic of how to get a woman comfortable with sex.