It’s no secret already that I’m big on selling a “risk”.
I came across this infield pickup video from my friend Robbie Kramer, of Inner Confidence.
At the 1:32 mark of video, the question of occupation came up, in which Rob said:
“I play professional poker, internet marketing…I’m like a hustler…”
Girl: “So you’re all about the risk”
Rob: “I’m a fucking gambler”
A guy who takes risks is a sex person to women.
Having the odd job, the nondescript occupation or doing something unorthodox or controversial, will serve to heighten the “risk” factor, which at the same time, heightens the attraction as the girl sees you as someone who takes risks, lives on the edge, are free-spirited and lives outside the box.
This is why telling a girl that you’re an office drone, almost always does nothing to heighten/deepen the attraction, neither set you apart from the masses.
Moreover, at the 1:59 mark of the video when the girl questions Rob on his go-getter approach, his gives the perfect answer:
“I thrive off of the pressure and excitement…it’s fun”.
Therefore, an in conclusion, whenever a girl asks you your occupation or “what do you do”, you don’t necessarily have to give her a full-detailed description of your boring job…if you do have a boring job which doesn’t include anything risky or edgy.
If you do something boring and lame; then tell her that you do something rad, exciting and unorthodox.
It isn’t that you have to lie, but you can exaggerate and add a few twists to your current occupation…or make it vague.
For instance, if you work as an accountant in a bureaucracy [desk work]- which is pretty fucking boring I should say- you don’t have to divulge this information.
Tell her that you work with figures online, but that your job is so classified that you can’t really get into details about it or you’ll jeopardize the operation.
Doing so will have build intrigue and heighten the risk factor which will help the seduction.
All in all; women are attracted to guys who live on the edge.
You can project yourself as the risk-free guy who’s all about security. Or you can play to a woman’s sense of adventure and risk by being that guy who lives the life of a gambler and a risk-taker.