Shyness is a social conditioning and probably the reason you aren’t getting laid!
I have a male coworker who possesses the following attributes:
• About 21 years old
• 6’3 in height
• Slim built
• Very good looking
• Has super swagger in mannerism
…Yet he doesn’t get laid…testament of his v-card which he still holds.
This dude has zero reason whatsoever why he shouldn’t be slaying lots of pussy!
He’s society’s ideal of male beauty: tall, dark, young and handsome…very inviting smile and welcoming personality.
The fact that he falls into the nice-guy bracket is another story for another time as to why he doesn’t get laid.
Ok, so after closely examining his dilemma from our many discussions on the subject of women and hooking up, it became readily apparent that the primary reason for this guy not getting laid, is his shyness…nice-guy vibe aside.
The thing that always puzzles me about shy guys is their apparent detachment from the reality of why they suck with women and dating.
They never seem to realize that their most OBVIOUS sticking-point is SHYNESS!
With this being the case, no matter how many techniques and tweaks a guy like myself can provide them [Outer Game]; the techniques still won’t profit them if they’re unable to break out of that shell of shyness.
In my entire years of teaching pickup, I’ve yet to meet a shy guy who realized and admitted that his pitfall with women was his shyness.
I get the impression that most men (the shy types especially), are expecting women to approach them to break the ice.
How do I know that this is the prevailing impression of shy guys?
My coworker in question constantly laments about women not being social and appearing stuck-up.
He arrived at that conclusion [women are stuck-up] because girls aren’t approaching him in spite of his good looks.
Though I never personally give him tips on how to go about meeting women. But even in his presence, I’m constantly approaching and chatting up strangers while we’re out on lunch and tea breaks.
Thus, this guy has more than enough evidence as to why he sucks [shyness] and what he needs to do to get positive results [approach].