The Pussy Will Not Just Hop Into Your Bed [Thinking Steps Ahead In Seducing A Girl]


Being ultra-proactive and having the know-how to think on the fly whenever chasing ass, are key messages in pickup.

Not every seduction of a girl will require for you to dig deep, strategize and push the pedal to the metal per say.

However, in majority of the cases; you will have to fucking play this shit as though it’s a chess match!

“Thinking 3 steps ahead of the immediate situation is pretty much what I’m angling at here.

Most guys, myself included (though sparingly), are in the habit of throwing in the towel whenever things look a bit bleak.

On the same note, some of us are as equally notorious for waiting on the chips to just magically fall into place.

At times: this does happen!

There will be moments where you meet a girl, get her phone number, set up a date, she follows through, sex happens…all without a glitch in the system.

However, this accounts for roughly 20% of the cases (mostly with girls whom you would have met online).

Meaning (hypothetically), for every 10 girl you meet, only 2 of them will have followed the script without a deviating.

No psychological ‘trapping’ required.

No need to have dug deep to summon your energies for a last-ditch effort at getting laid.

Not withstanding the fact that you will have had to approach dozens of girls in order to secure a 2 in 10 ratio…but that’s for another article.

Be as it may, most girls whom you will have met, to seduce them will require a strategic ‘think ahead’ approach in order to take them to bed…or merely just to get a lousy date.

Field Report: Picking Up Hot Girl In Traffic

Ok, key example from a field report of mines, just to illustrate how ‘thinking ahead’ and thinking on your feel works wonders.

Saturday morning, I’d picked up a sexy chick, who on the proverbial looks scale, easily ranked a 9.5…easily!

Since I was driving (something I rarely do), I literally had to pick this girl up while traffic was flowing!

While at a red light, she was standing at the corner as if waiting on someone. So I motioned for her to come over quickly.

I kissed her on the cheek, introduced myself…but at this point, the light had turned green and cars were honking in back of me! πŸ˜† πŸ˜†

I pulled off to the side, chatted her up quickly then proceeded to exchanged phone numbers.

One problem however: she doesn’t know her phone #!

“Huh! WTF”!

Ok, I can explain.

She’s visiting the island from Atlanta, Georgia, which is in the United States.

Being that roaming through her US carrier would’ve been very costly, she instead borrowed a relative’s sim card to use in her smartphone.

Since it isn’t her sim card, and she’d only been using it a day prior, she never had time to remember it by heart.

Hence, I wasn’t able to get her #.

Plan B time!

I can either give up and let her walk, or find another avenue [thinking 3 steps ahead] in order to establish some sort of communication.

It’s either I give her my phone # and bank on it that she’d call me.

However, doing so, is absolutely the worst and lest effective way to go about picking up a girl.

Since girls’ attention spans are as fickle as a faulty light bulb, chances that she’ll actually call or text me later, would’ve been about 10%…or less.

Fuck it!

I have no other options but the least effective 1!

Remind you, the vehicle in which I was driving, was virtually on the sidewalk as I had to pull off to allow traffic to flow [thank Heavens the traffic cops weren’t around πŸ˜‰ ] .

I said to her, take my # instead and ring me and hang up so I can have your # in my phone.

As she proceeded to ring me: Battery DEAD!!!

Dammit! 😑

Knowing how slick women are, I told her to give me the phone so I can try to see if I get it cranked up somehow.

I merely wanted to verify that she wasn’t lying to me.

Indeed: the battery was drained DEAD!

Fuck! 😑

Plan C!

Once again; thinking ahead on my feet!

I told her to get in the car while I jetted to a store right beside us where I can grab a pen and paper to jot down my # quickly!

She hopped in the driver seat and I ran to the store, begged the cashier a pen and piece of scrap paper. Wrote down my phone # and hurried back to the car!

Slid her my phone number.

We hugged and parted ways.

Note: if plan A fails, you must be able to think 3 steps ahead towards a plan B, C, D and so forth.

Ok, that isn’t where it ended though.

A problem still existed in that she has my # and I don’t have hers.

There will have only been a 10% chance that she would call me.

During our quick sidewalk chat, she’d told me where she works [I wisely asked].

Perfecto!

I will stop by her workplace to get her phone # when her phone will have been charged.

About 2 hours later, I drove to her workplace, met her, chit-chatted and we both put each other’s #’s into our phones.

Ok, so that was just an example of where I had to close all exists and resort to extreme game in thinking ahead in order to secure a solid phone #.

Some guys may see this is as desperate and try-hard. But if you remember the epic article I’d written not long ago: The truth about being desperate with women, you would’ve agreed that putting yourself out there to get the girl, isn’t desperate but proactive and persistent.

Bear in mind the theme of this post: The pussy won’t jump into your lap by itself”.

You have to get the girl!

This is where and why most men fail to sleep with 95% of the girls they will have attempted to.

It isn’t necessarily the lack of game and skills, but:

*Failure to cut off all exists

*Failure to think 3 steps ahead of the game and ahead of the girl.

The girl will NOT consciously make hooking up with her easy.

She will NOT facilitate this for you or else she risks looking slutty as a co-conspirator to easy sex.

As the guy, you will have to do virtually all of the work, all of the planning and all of the logistical tweaking.

This is what most guys dread: responsibility.

We are enamored with the fantasy of merely relaxing on our proverbial laurels while the girls chase us and beg for sex…as if this ever happens.

Wake the fuck up guys!

It’s on you to put the girl in compromising situations where it’d be easier for her to sleep with you than to elect not to.

This is the fundamental meaning of courtship and courting a girl.

You have to think 10 steps ahead of your current situation to then psychologically nudge the girl into action.

Hence, 95% of the poon you missed out on in the past, would’ve come down to your failure to nudge the girl while blocking the exists.

By no means is this “blocking” and “nudge” physically but psychologically.

Seduction occurs on a psychological level while a meager 20% accounts for what you do physically [kissing, holding, romantic gestures, etc].

Once you can fuck a girl’s mind: the pussy will follow.

A huge part of fucking her mind is to think ahead and think strategic.

By no means do I mean to operate from a physical chart where you have everything well mapped out and future moves coordinated.

It’s just to take mental notes of your most optimal moves towards sleeping with the girl or securing a rendezvous.

Always Seize The Opportunity To Meet Her Sooner!

With this same girl whom I’d picked up in traffic on Saturday, we were to meet up yesterday evening [Tuesday] after she finishes aerobics at a fitness gym.

Now, that sounds like a great position to be in for most guys!

However, let’s look at it from another angle.

First off, I said to her:

“Hey A*****, I think after the gym will be a bad idea since I have a lot on my plate around that time. I will meet you at the gym instead. That’s a better option”.

Ok, so why did I do that?

Why did I decide to change plans and meet her at the gym instead of afterwards for a so-called date?

Thinking ahead once again.

What are the chances that something could go South after she finishes at the gym, perhaps change in plan on her part?

A high probability!

Therefore, why take that chance?

Who’s to say that she won’t shoot me a text message after her grueling workout saying:

“Sorry Kenny but I’m really exhausted from a hard workout. We have to reschedule”!

Or

“Sorry Kenny but I sprained my ankle on the treadmill. We’ll have to see each other another time”.

Or

“Hey Kenny, I got caught up at the gym and running late. I don’t know if I’ll be able to make the date tonight”.

I mean, these aren’t just hypothetical bullshit!

They are real-world examples of the type of shit that can happen (excuses) when trying to hammer out a meet-up with any given girl.

Why would someone want to go on a so-called date after he or she would’ve been to the gym?

After sorting this out in my mind, I decided that the best option that night [last night] was to rendezvous at the gym itself.

Actual mirror shot of the girl at the gym

Actual mirror shot of the girl at the gym

Once again, thinking 3 steps ahead and having the wherewithal to think on your feet.

We then met up at her fitness gym and enjoyed an evening of comfort-building while getting to know each other a little more…including a round of heavy makeouts to solidify the encounter.

Sure, I wasn’t able to sleep with her yesterday evening. But I’d rather get what I can get now than to play the waiting game while increases the chances of something going off script later on.

Therefore, you will want to seize the opportunity and jump through any opening that presents itself the earliest.

If you have the options to meet/see her at 4 PM or 7 PM, don’t decide to wait until the latter [7 PM] just because the logistics may look brighter.

It’s up to you to make the logistics work because the girl damn sure won’t consciously help you out there!

So guys- With the next girl you meet through whichever mean- ensure that you chose the most optimal decision that will land you the girl.

If a girl asks for your phone number instead of swapping: do NOT fucking give it to her!

Be mindful of how many things that could possibly go wrong if you rely on her to do the work, i.e. contact you.

Therefore, always opt for the optimal play instead of waiting for the girl to just magically chase you for sex.

6 thoughts on “The Pussy Will Not Just Hop Into Your Bed [Thinking Steps Ahead In Seducing A Girl]

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  1. It’s “per se” not “per say” you illiterate fucktard. Learn how to talk above a grade 4 level and you may not have to blackmail them into sleeping with you.

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      1. He’s a troll El Nino. But if it’s 1 thing we learn here is that even the trolls can read and even the white knight trolls love to read PUA blogs to learn how to seduce women. And why is he mad? ‘Cause he doesn’t know how to talk to women in real life so he frequents the internet trolling for attention. Typical AFC. πŸ™‚

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  2. “By no means do I mean to operate from a physical chart where you have everything well mapped out and future moves coordinated.” This I don’t understand. Why not prepare for every contingency? Why leave possible flaws in your gameplan?

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