I love this video because it exposes the mindset of most of us guys when it comes to (trying) to get laid: we are satisfied with the small gains and are wishy-washy on going after sex just to not get rejected. Plus we make excuses for not going after the big win: SEX.
What I’ve also come to realize, and Tyler hints at it in the video, is that most guys really don’t want to win/get laid.
Most guys secretly wish that the girl will stand them up, flake, get pulled away or doesn’t have any time for them.
I can relate with this feeling as we all have been there at 1 point where we didn’t push hard enough because we secretly wished to not have to go through the process to get laid.
We may outwardly bitch and moan about how close we’d gotten to getting the girl, but inwardly we’re celebrating that things had gone wrong just so we can pat ourselves on the shoulder and say: “Well at least I try”.
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