Last post of 2013. Fuck yea!!!
Talk about going out with a bang; this post is all about “the bang”. 😉
I get asked a lot, “How am I supposed to hook up with a girl the same day I meet her”?
As a follow up to my last 3 articles, this will actually be the applicable guide per say, in how to spot the girl whom you should try to sleep with the same day you’ve met her.
This isn’t only applicable to new girls. But if there’s a girl who you’ve been wanting to get with, perhaps she’s a former classmate or whatever, then the same concept of SNL (Same Night Lay) is applicable.
From my estimation (+ years worth of experience), the peak hour in which you can sleep with a random girl the same day (or night), on a weekday, is between 6 PM and 9:30 PM. But this is no hard and fast rule.
The reason as to why 6-9 PM is the peak time is because most of us who have day jobs, would’ve been off by 6 PM. And for a girl to be roaming the town between 6 and 9:30 (on a weeknight), usually indicates time to burn, boredom or clearing her head.
Your mindset should be, “as long as she’s in public after 6 PM and isn’t working, she is DTF”, and you approach her accordingly.
Doesn’t matter if she’s just running to the store to pick up some items real quick. Doesn’t mean she cannot be sidetracked or distracted.
As back story, I’ll share with you guys a recent field report of such an encounter.
Walking the town 1 night, actually not in the mood to pick up girls (and frankly not dressed the part), but I came across a chick who caught my attention walking in my direction.
Guys, if you have tons of experience with attracting women, you should know “the look”.
“The Look” happens when you encounter a girl for the very first time and you can instantaneously FEEL that she’s open to fuck.
It’s really impossible to put into words. It’s just something you can see, know and sense.
As she approached, I seen “the look”, so I planted (stopped), pointed (at her) and threw 1 of my favorite openers (ice-breaker):
Me: “Hey, do we know each other”!?
With a real curious face (mines) as if it were genuine, it made her stop to actually take a good look at me to see if we know each other [this routine of mines works 99% of the time for me].
This obviously was bullshit in that I didn’t recognize her from Adam, but I played the part perfectly:
Me: “Take a good look at me. 9th grade, lunchroom, high school…”?
Me: “Alright whatever, doesn’t matter! Her name was Maggie, 9th. grade, Morris High school.
Girl: “Nah I’m not Maggie. And never went to Morris”.
Take note: the purpose of this was to get her to stop, yet fuck with her a bit.
This always works for me, which is why it’s my favorite opener to break the ice whenever I’m meeting random women on the streets or at the supermarket, etc.
With this girl, I rapidly transitioned (due to “the look”) to a sexual tone.
Me: “You got some real sexy lips. Why are you looking at me like that by the way”?
Girl: “Like what”!? 🙂 🙂
Me: “Undressing me with your eyes”.
Girl: “LOL” 😆 😆
Me: “What are you up to right now”?
Girl: “Just taking a walk, listening to some music”.
[Sure sign of boredom]
Funny thing happened, 2 girls walked by us and said to me: “Hey mister, she has a boyfriend. Don’t mess with her”.
They obviously knew one another and they all laughed about it.
Ok, she has a boyfriend. No problem with me, especially since she was oozing “the DTF look”.
She obviously wasn’t up to much so I said to her:
“Let’s take a walk”.
Note: just saying to a girl “Let’s take a walk”, isn’t enough to convince her.
You have to mean it, take her hand or convince her verbally by making it safe.
When I told her “let’s take a walk”, I expected hesitancy or indecision, and she was iffy about walking with me so I said to her:
“I’m only going to the nearest pier to catch some breeze. Plus you have a boyfriend and my girlfriend lives in this area and I wouldn’t want either to pop up on us right here, so It’d be safer to walk to a cool spot”.
That was enough to nudge her. In all reality, she wanted to come. Girls will want to come with you, but they just need a verbal nudge or physical lead into doing what they wanted to do in the first place.
Anyway, we got to the pier, chatted, she’s into me, I’m into her (sexually), which led us to making out while overlooking the waters on a stary night.
Moments later, it got heavier. My intentions were to take her to my place. If that fails or I meet too much resistance, I would bang her right there on the boardwalk. 😈
Before either could happen, she gets a call from someone in which the dialogue made me believe it was a boyfriend.
Seemed like he asked about her whereabouts. She told him she was taking a walk, an argument ensues, accusations of her being with another guy, etc.
The long and short of the story is, I wasn’t able to bang her due to the looming distractions and a pissed off boyfriend who was throwing threats and out in search of her. 😯
Technically, this isn’t a problem for me, but she was really distraught about it, which completely changed the mood of me trying to fuck her.
I’ve had numerous close calls like these over the course of 2013 where I whisk away a total stranger for a night of romance but wasn’t able to seal the deal due to external interruptions (boyfriends, parents, etc).
Being able to make this happen on a daily to weekly basis isn’t difficult.
Prerequisites are a combination of verbal + physical leads, flirting and persuasion…and also spotting girls who aren’t doing much.
No matter if she appears to have her plate full or busy, merely trying to get her to come with you won’t hurt.
Although the peak hours for Same Night Sex is between 7 and 9:30 pm (on weekdays), you can still try to pull at any time of the day.
Your failure would depend on how much the girl has going on for her at that moment. If it’s 10 AM and this girl works at the bank and is in a hurry to get back; then that might be a loss cause, but still worth trying to derail her path and sleep with her.
On the brighter side, not every girl who’s out and about during the AM is actually working.
The idle or window-shopper is a great candidate for Same Day Sex.
Tourists: great candidates.
Girls on their lunch breaks: great candidates.
The instant date is a great suggestion when trying to sleep with random women. But I find the instant walk (insta-walk) to be a more viable suggestion which the girl won’t object to as much.
In a recent in-field video of mines, I’d picked up a teacher and took her on an instant walk.
An insta-walk could then transition into an insta-date quite naturally.
If you find yourself chatting up a girl and happen to ask her:
“So, what are you up to right now”.
Girl: “Nothing much. Just trying to do some last minute shopping”.
This is a great time to suggest an insta-walk!
Me: “Ok cool. Why don’t you take me shopping with you and show me what girls like. Then we can take a little stroll afterwards or perhaps right now. Your shopping can always wait until tomorrow”.
It’s at this point you lead or nudge her by slightly walking off with perhaps saying to her:
“You were headed this direction right? I know a nice place that sells cute girlie stuff”.
You’re already assuming that she’s down and coming.
If you do this correctly, 8 in 10 times, she will come with you.
Her disposition will be that of:
“Well what the heck! Might as well”!
The beauty is, you don’t have to actually take her to any stores whatsoever. On the insta-walk, you can slip into a cafe, snack joint, art gallery, museum, etc, and within a twinkling of an eye: you 2 are on a date which wasn’t fucking pre-planned.
No flaking to be wary of. She cannot stand you up. 🙂
I mean, I’ve done this consistently on a weekly basis over the years. Just convince girls to drop whatever they’re doing and take a walk with me which usually leads to either:
* Instant Date
* Making out
* Sex (One-Night Stand, Same Day Lay)
The simple keys here are:
I’ve also had cases where I approach a girl on the street (headed the same direction), we walk and chat, get near a park, and simply take her arm and lead her into the park:
Me: “Let’s sit in the park for a bit”.
To further develop that killer instinct for hooking up with girls the same day, you must realize that women are suckers for spontaneity.
Also realize that people often get sidetracked and change their minds every day. So if you approach a girl and her current situation is that she’s grabbing something from the pharmacy or is busy, it doesn’t mean she wouldn’t scrap that plan to go with you.
You should also be smart about it. You’re not approaching random girls by first saying to them: “Hey let’s take a walk”.
That’s pretty tactless.
What you will do is suggest the walk after a certain point in the conversation.
Me: “Hey Jessica, I kinda have to run. It was fun chatting with you although you are a bit too crazy for my blood. By the way, I’m headed to *********, would be fun if you tag along”.
Jessica: “Aah, I don’t know”.
Me: “You are so lame and I thought you were cool”! 🙂 🙂
At this point, you can sense that she’s willing to come but doesn’t want to appear too willing and eager. So you do either of the 4 things (or combination):
* Throw your arm around her and take her.
* Take her hand and lead her.
* Slightly walk off and motion to her “let’s go”.
* Say something like: “Don’t make me get on my knees right here right now and beg in front of everybody. I would totally embarrass you”.
Either of the 4 works very well in order to gain compliance.
Keep in mind: she wants to come along but needs reassurance that you’re safe and aren’t some serial-killer, you’re dominant (which means she can trust you) and that you’re fun.
Earlier in the week, a great friend of mines [Satori PUA] had sent me a video from his personal archives where he pulled a Same-Day Lay by fucking an Asian MILF on top of a Manhattan roof top whom he’d met in the subway not long earlier.
By the way, had he gone for the phone # and vanished, this would not have happened. Just saying. 🙂
Sleeping with random strangers isn’t impossible and doesn’t only happen in the nightclub setting where chicks are inebriated or pissy drunk.
You can fuck a girl the same day in which you met her while she’s sober as a bat!
You can also have One-Night Stands every day of the week as long as you get the fundamentals right.
Your biggest hindrance will be a failure to gain compliance, in other words, an inability to get the target to comply.
After re-reading this post, you will have realized how easy it is to make a woman comply with your leads and suggestions.
Bear in mind that she isn’t doing shit anyways.
People live boring fucking lives! The average chick (or guy) does practically the same shit she’s been doing for the past 5-10 years: work to home, shopping, meet with girls friends, boring boyfriend- same routine!
This is why it’s easy to drag them off of their routine and into doing something risky and unconventional; like going with a random stranger to eventually have sex! 🙂 🙂
The 4 additional-key strategic mindset for pulling One-Night Stand, Same Day Sex and getting a girl back to your place are:
* Spotting the right girls who are DTF.
* Willingness to stay in set and not get a phone # and leave.
* Confidence and ability to be carefree, ballsy, lead and persuade.
* Get sexual early in order to gauge her reaction.
I found this video guide of RSD Julien to be very pertinent and instructional in convincing girls to go with you.
In the video below, Todd Valentine shares some basic to advanced tips on how to get girls to go home with you the same night. It’s more based on a nightclub setting but still applicable to any setting.
Lastly, Alexander Attitude shares some tips and insights on getting girls to comply with you in order to come along for the ride (sex).