I’ve since laid down my battle axe in the war against Feminism. But it only takes a little wind to fan the flames and get the proverbial guns blazing again.
While commenting on a post about the “friendzone” over at Ashley’s blog, things got somewhat testy as a feminist blogger by the name of Dani took offense to the advice I was giving.
I decided to take some screen-shots of the actual commentaries just to highlight the discussion.
Now, the reaction of Dani the feminist, is pretty much common for lots of women irrespective of their social status and class.
Men who are openly desirous of casual sex are often dubbed pigs and filthy dogs by most women…although those same women will settle for casual sex anyway.
This speaks to the contradicting nature of a woman, where she will publicly bash the male’s position yet secretly and subconsciously endorse it.
It’s akin to an Atheist who publicly and ardently declares his detest for religion yet goes home to fuck his Christian girlfriend [which as an Agnostic; I have zero qualms with].
Besides the politics, when it pertains to dating, mating and hooking up, the token position of women such as Dani the Feminist, is that hooking up is evil, dehumanizing, immoral, and that men who pick up girls primarily as sexual conquests, should be dragged to the public square and stoned to death Medieval style :shock:!
I further commented on Ashley’s article to clarify some points about the friendzone and casual sex. However Dani was unable to suppress her feministic pride for the moment, thus the “men are pigs” insinuations rolled on.
The reason I’m even citing these comments is to pretty much shed a bit of light on the feminist mindset and its dogmatic stance against those who refuse to conform to societal norms in dating and relationships.
In today’s feminist-dominated society- of the western world that is- a man ought to follow “the script” and continue drinking the proverbial kool-aid of dating and mating or else he begets the title, “a dehumanizing scum”, the moment he deviates from the now norm…even for a bit.
As part of the feminist-subscribed script which you’re automatically opted into without a choice, it becomes your civic duty as a man to:
* Laud women with loads of compliments.
* Accept women as equals in every aspect.
* Only desire monogamy, long-term relationships and marriages.
* Kiss women’s asses.
* Shame your fellow man if he dares to think and live outside the box.
* Chastise your brethren for hooking up with various women.
That is the matrix in and of itself!
Feminists are hell-bent on the subjugation of men who think and date freely.
As a man living in these pre-apocalyptic times, merely thinking outside of the dating box is now seen as a sin of all sins…according to the feminist construct.
Long gone are the days when a husband could freely screw his concubines without his wife throwing a pissy fit and cussing of how unethical cheating is!
Since the advent of the Women Liberation Movement [Women’s Lib], or at its height I should say, men have since been cajoled by the balls and converted into conforming-little wussies while women monopolize the dating market.
Thenceforth born our current reality where chicks enjoy 10 times the options in whom to date, whom to fuck, whom to snub, on whom to flake and toss into the friendzone.
Thanks to Feminism; women now call the shots on the dating and mating market, and wield more power in the judicial system as far as marital and custodial matters are concerned…let’s not forget false-rape accusation charges.
These factors are pretty much commonplace and accepted realities.
Now, if you’re a guy who thinks as I do; you feel somewhat like a gazelle in the wrong forest.
You feel neutered, duped and disenfranchised as a man 😦 !
This new and unpleasant reality in dating, championed by Feminism, accounts for 99% of cases as to why men end up finding the Pickup/Seduction community.
Let me clarify: 99% of the men who become virtual members of the PUA community, were driven there due to the harsh-new reality of dating which leaves men discombobulated and pretty much fucked!
Nice guys finishing last are testimonies to this unfair dating monopoly set up by the feminists [male and female femis].
So men are fucking fed up with the new status quo of dating, relationship and marriage!
As men, we need to regain control of our own testicles from the women responsible for seizing them…or cutting them off!!!
“Is Kenny advocating a revolution”?
Hell yea!!!
“What about a revolt”?
That too!!!
Proponents of the new norm [Feminists] have demonized the promiscuous lifestyle, therefore attributing to it the labels cheating and disloyalty [aka infidelity].
As a real man, and not a lap-dog chode to the status quo, you should look your girlfriend or wife in the eyes and say to her:
“Honey, I’m going out tonight”.
Wife: “Why”?
Husband: “To be a man…to get my balls back”!
Now if you’re single and disengaged, yet still a sheep trapped in the matrix of what dating norm is (according to fem-centric society), I implore you to man the fuck up by firstly making some sort of public declaration which will rub feminist-backers the wrong way!
For instance:
“I think cheating is ok”.
“I love One-Night Stands”!
“Men shouldn’t marry young or at all”.
“Women cheat way more than men do”!
“I want to fuck at least 500 chicks before I kick the bucket”!
Such declarations are sure to drive femi-lovers bat-shit crazy!
It’d be your first stance in liberating yourself as a man from the tyrannical grips of “Femi-Nazism”.
No longer should you dread the thought of having a girl bound,gagged and bent over in a bathroom stall as you fuck her pussy juice out…CONSENSUALLY that is!!!
No longer should you surmise such fantasies as diabolical and dehumanizing to those precious damsels who are so enamored with the idea of boring sex in bed [yea right]!!!
You have to become a new man with a new brain: a brain which hasn’t been polluted and dumbed down by society’s mess.
Undoubtedly, with such radicalized-throwback mentality, you will have incurred a bunch of haters [male and female] who will want nothing more than to have you hung out to dry by the balls like sour prunes!
Ask Sean Larson the Pick-up Artist about it!
This is the real reason why most men who get into Pickup/Seduction will fail. They aren’t able to push through from the social blow-backs, so they take the easier route and regress into the role of dumbed-down daters who chase after 1 woman…to no avail.
Any guy who fails at pickup is due to his inability to withstand social pressure and criticism.
It has nothing to do with Pick-up material being weird or unnatural as the naysayers would want you to believe. But it speaks to the guy’s inability to man-up and break out of his shell.
You will become a proverbial sacrificial lamb and a dating terrorist according to others who haven’t seen the light yet.
Your fellow man will even ostracize you and say:
“Hey Kenny man; you can’t be thinking like that. You can’t be hooking up with all these women! It ain’t cool bro’! Just wait it out until you find a good girlfriend candidate then shower her with gifts, dinners and love”.
Hence the reason Pick-Up Artists are so hated by Feminists and the mainstream-dating construct. 98% of our dating, lifestyle and philosophical materials contravene the status quo.
All in all, the soft attack by Dani the feminist [a chick], further served to confirm and solidify 4 points:
1.) Feminists hate men.
2.) Why Feminism should be eradicated.
3.) Feminists are unwilling to bargain (with men).
4.) Why feminism may lead to the extinction of men…thus humankind.
Now- I’ve been attacked by many cyber-blogging feminists over the years in various ways: overt and covert…many times…
*Kiki attacks Socialkenny via subtle insults
*Nikki B attacks Socialkenny as a woman-hater
*Erin attacks Kenny and Pickup over fat comment
What do all these man-hating feminists have in common?
They’re threatened by the idea and reality of men who strictly want to hook up without any string attached.
Your average Jane who doesn’t subscribe to this femi-mess, has more of a “willing to take it or leave it” disposition without the bigotry towards promiscuous men.
Feminists often pride themselves on the “I’m an independent, hard-working woman” bullshit…until they get the cock-urge and need that fix as an addict needs the heroine.
Anyway, I’d promised myself not to publish another anti-feminist post again as to not come off as 1 of those MRA nuts; but I reneged…kill me!
Fingers crossed that I won’t have to instigate another cyber insurrection against the Femi-Nazi machine!
Guns are back in the holsters 😉 .
With that, I leave you a solid video from Pickup guru, RSD Tyler, as he straight talk it on the topic of breaking out of the mainstream-dating matrix (for Pickup newbies) and getting outside of the box of dating, sex and life in general.






![mystery03.jpg It takes balls and a disregard for social norm to pull this off on a regular basis [original PUA's]](https://kennyspuathoughts.files.wordpress.com/2013/11/mystery03.jpg?w=736)

I don’t know if you said anything beyond what you posted here, but what you said is hardly controversial even by feminist standards. Bitch probably has a bug up her ass.
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I definitely wasn’t being disrespectful by any means. I guess she had a bad day or as you put it: “a bug up the ass”. Thanks for chiming in. I’m guessing you’re being pro nor anti feminism? Perhaps on middle grounds.
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No, he cropped pretty selectively. The “terrible, dehumanizing advice” I was referring to was Kenny’s suggestion to “treat every girl you’re interested in as sex-buddies. That way you will never get friendzoned.” It’s dehumanizing because it implies that male strategies (or failure to use those strategies) are the primary criteria for whether or not a woman is going to enter a sexual relationship. Different women want different things and advocating one-size-fits-all approach to all of them strips them of their individuality.
My second post was in response to this comment: “Assuming you’re a woman; I expect you to see this as dehumanizing. Assuming you’re a feminist by your name, I expect you to hate my comment even more. We in the pickup/seduction community have had it pretty rough with the online feminist bloggers who see what we do as dehumanizing. This recent article of mines from 2 days ago may make you cringe:”
I don’t know about you, but when someone tells me that they expected me to see something they wrote as dehumanizing (because I’m a woman) and gives me a link to something else they wrote that they think will “make me cringe”, I don’t have much interest in reading it.
He and I both made other posts in the discussion, but those don’t really support the angle he’s going for. He also said that women don’t tell the truth about what we want, that we don’t know what we want, and that we don’t make the decision to have sex with people we’re interested in because we’re worried about “turning guys off”.
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I really couldn’t have posted the entire convo with all the screenshots. The discussion was too lengthy. Just wanted to highlight your aggression. But my screenshots weren’t altered to make me look like the victim.
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Nice of you to plug their blogs. I couldn’t make it through the initial post. Wait, I peeped how you threw the word “thenceforth” in there too. LOL. Okay now. I really have no comments on the argument, since I didn’t read the whole thing, but I do know that guys will settle for less than the type of relationship they want with a woman (romantic) for whatever reason. Women do the same thing. I have a friend now who really likes a guy, and thinks he may feel the same, but can’t get up the nerve to tell him. I haven’t really thought about who ends up in the so-called “friend zone” more often – men or women. In any case, I’m not mad about it! lol
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Well in the grand scheme of things, I may be seen as an ass to many in this hub, but at least I plug :). I’ve been talked about over the past in quite a few articles but never plugged and just happened to come across it by sheer chance.
As for your friend, that is 1 of the points I tried to make which is that the average woman may be open to casual sex. Not such a big deal to the guy on the receiving end if that’s what he wants too.
BTW, you’re a feminist, but a cool 1 at least :).
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Shut up (with your backhanded compliments)!!. Don’t try to put me in your “feminist” box so your commenters can slander me. LOL. Honestly, I write whatever strikes me, and you — having been reading my blog for a while now, know that I don’t slander men or hate men (that’s the box people like to put feminist in), but I do think I inspire women and perhaps empower women, just by telling stories that people can relate to. I’m a storyteller. I’m happy to be able to do it. Eventually (maybe) you’ll get to read my more serious stuff. I saw the point you made about women being open to casual sex and pretending they’re not because of the potential to be slut-shamed (I know you didn’t use that word), but honestly, I think as people mature (women included) you appreciate when people just come to you with their true intentions. That way, there’s no need for lies. If the person is not consenting to what you want, just keep it moving. I would much rather someone tell me what they want, and give me the option of saying yes or no, rather than lying to get what they want, or playing games.
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Alright, I apologize for trying to drag you into a fight. I know you can handle yourself unlike the fully feminists who throw fits when guys talk about sex and one night stands.
As for slut-shaming, that’s a very popular term in this genre although I never used it before. But you made another good point about casual sex, maturity, consent and all of that.
I sort of expected you to come with guns blazing to defend “the girls”, but as expected from unbiased folks, you can see the male’s point of view.
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Well thank you. Yea, if two adults are consenting to a one night stand, it’ s really between them. I didn’t think your first reply on that other blog was derogatory either.
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I’m hearing the term “feminist” thrown around so much lately (in a negative way) that I am going to research the movement and see where it stemmed from. I’m sure it’s not the picture you’re painting.
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Well you’re right. It isn’t as dark as I paint it to be. As a black dude, it (feminism) has correlation with Civil Rights issues and so forth where women felt that they had zero rights. So a worthy cause I guess. But as usual, worth causes get hijacked by fringe elements. Think Republicans with the infiltration by the Tea Party who pushed all sorts of crazy issues plus guys such as…can’t remember his name, who had the legitimate rape gaff. So I think that’s what happened to feminism. It got hijacked by women who weren’t getting any sex play and decided to take it out on men…I guess.
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I’m gonna look into it. If I get inspired, I’ll write something.
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As a black woman, you should not be looking into feminism. Stay very far away. Very far.
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Kenny’s putting extras on it to possibly rev up some controversy. It can’t be that bad
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I know. That’s his thing!
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🙂 🙂 🙂
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I know. That’s his thing!
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As a woman I don’t think you should be feeding into the nonsense and women hating. I am not sayin you should be arguing but at least speak your mind instead of beinf passive in letting men get their way with you
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Thanks Felecia. I’m not passive at all. I just don’t care much about the argument and felt no need to take sides or get upset. Read some of my blog and you will see that when I have an opinion, I express it.
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Agreed!
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Women hating is an interesting choice of words – definitely misplaced.
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If you’re interested in reading about feminism, you’re going to have a heck of a time wading through the muck. A lot of the older stuff has been subject to revisionist history, highlighting the roles of rich, white women and ignoring the meaningful contributions of parallel movements made by women of color – which is awful and inexcusable. I would encourage you to look into intersectional feminism (which lines up pretty well with what most of the feminist conversation looks like in forward-thinking circles today) and stay as far away from radical feminism as you can possibly get. I have a post from a few days ago on feminist theory which could be a decent starting point as it’s a lot of information condensed into a relatively tight format, but since I’m the object of ire in this post, I can understand if you’d prefer to seek other sources.
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Thanks for the info. I’m not taking any of this seriously as far as the posts/ comments.
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I’m not a hater, so I would never unfairly stop info from being disseminated. Which is why I said you’re free to post some links or post from you to shed some light from your side as to what you’re about.
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Kenny those are some huge can of worms you’re opening. I salute you mate.
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Kenny’s just tryna drum up blog views with the hate
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Poor way to do it to have to resorr to hate and name calling just to get some blog views and traffic. That’s the definition of childish. Grow up men.
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I personally, I never really got to understand what this feminine movement is all about. I know they have social gripes and stuff they want addressed and changes. I am for all that I guess but I did not realize they have a reputation for being bigots and rigid in their beliefs
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That’s what google and research is for
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bro doesnt faminist mean they dont eat cuz that chick looks hella fat
like in church this one time there was like a famine and no food so how could a chick be a faminist &be fat as fuck shit dosnt make sence
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What the hell is this nonsensical babbling. I would be curious to know which church you attend. #crazy
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Degenerates like f close franks are the reason why puas look bad and get a bad name. Just saying
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And it isn’t faminist idiot it is feminist (smh)
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I try to avoid arguments about feminism because I am still trying to learn what all it entails and what it doesn’t. Not to mention that carrying the feminist label brings on more shit than I’d ever want to deal with. As soon as you call yourself a feminist, you’re automatically a man hater. What is with that shit?
I have my own views, standards, values, etc…and a lot of it resonates with feminist views, and some of it doesn’t. But for me, I’d like to deal with the actual issues I’m concerned with when it comes to gender relations rather than concerning myself with standing on any sort of side against another side.
When it comes to feminism, I’d really like all of the name calling to just stop. It has become a war that neither feminists or anti-feminists are winning.
I don’t know that Dani woman. I recently discovered her blog and liked one of her posts and I guess she then followed the link back to me. But I really don’t see how she could be called a man hater any more than you could be called a woman hater, judging by the argument on my page alone.
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I must admit I wanted to drag you into an argument of some sort ;). I like your opinions and the stuff you write about. That’s pretty apparent since I’ve been reading and commenting on your work for a while now. As I said, feminism isn’t bad…in essence. I might be exaggerating with the nazi connection but I view feminists as a girls club type of thing where girls rally and have fun. Some may bash men but not on a whole.
As for Dani and gender hating, I can see why I get called woman-hater and she gets called man-hater. But at the end oif the day, we cannot actually hate the opposite sex when we lie down with them and marry them and mingle with them.
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🙂
Your last statement was pretty true.
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The Ashley girl makes some good observation but deccided to take shots in her deliberations. A true trait of a feminist is to take subliminal shots at men. It’s part of the feminazi agenda to degrade men. Instead of outright disrespecting, the fly under the radar with fake compliments as Ashley just did.
Men should be wise and learn from the core tenants of this article and such other like what the manosphere usually published exposing these femi cunts for who they really are; man hating bitches!
Anti-feminist
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What do you mean by fake compliments?
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@ anti feminist they have a manifesto? i did not know this. And in that manifesto includes what you commented?
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Who said manifesto? I said agenda. Read before you speak…or comment.
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Yeah, I’m guessing if you actually read my blog you might have noticed that I frequently advocate for sexual liberation, which includes women (and men) having as many or as few consensual sex partners as they feel comfortable with. Lots of women love casual sex. The reason why I took issue with your posts is because they advocate for manipulating women and treating them like they choose their sex partners totally arbitrarily.
As far as man-hating, lots of feminists (myself included!) focus extensively on the ways that patriarchy hurts men too – by putting them first on the chopping block in military conflicts, by limiting the time they can spend with their children and families, by harming relationships…
But whatever, I guess you’re right. I guess I’m a “feminazi” and by your logic wanting women to be treated like people instead of objects is the equivalent of the Holocaust.
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Well it’s sort of strange because I figured feminists would advocate sexual liberation since they are for liberation in other facets of life. But I get the impression that feminists are traditionalists in stuff the advocate. Blame the misconceptions on fem bloggers.
I admit that some blanket statements were made in insinuating all who subscribe to feminism are the same.
And as I said, I expected you to take issues with my comments. 95% of what I advocate and write come off ass offensive to I would say 95% of the women who comment here. So that’s why I mentioned in the post that your reaction is common among women in regards to my viewpoints.
As far as how patriarchy hurts men, I would like you to post a link of an article of your which talk about this.
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I don’t have an entire post dedicated to the topic of patriarchy hurting men, but there are references to this concept woven through a few of my entries. If you’d like to read a focused article that discusses this idea, I’d recommend reading this one: http://www.xyonline.net/sites/default/files/Connell,%20Change%20among.pdf Change among the Gatekeepers: Men, Masculinities, and
Gender Equality in the Global Arena by R.W. Connell. She’s a stronger writer than I am (in addition to being famous and highly regarded in the feminist community) and the article has a lot of great examples.
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I’ll also admit that femi-nazi wasn’t the best word to describe you and the cause. I’m a traditional man in the sense of believing men are superior. Not biologically but in other aspects. Sounds sexist?
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Also, you chose your screenshots pretty selectively, choosing to highlight only the mildest part of your comments and the angriest parts of mine. Par for the course I guess. I also don’t really know where you’re getting the “feminists love monogamy” thing from – I’m a big proponent of couples in honest relationships setting whatever boundaries they feel good about in their relationships – whether that’s strict monogamy, polyamory, a “monogamish” relationship where it’s okay too hook up with people outside the relationship but only under a certain set of agreed upon rules – whatever.
What I am not okay with is people who lie to and manipulate their partners to get what they want out of a relationship that leaves the other person extremely unhappy. If you want to pursue a non-monogamous relationship, go for it, but make sure you choose a partner that’s into that too, rather than selecting at random and crossing your fingers. Women are adults and deserve to have their choices laid out in front of them in an honest way – so do men, and that’s also important to acknowledge because women are sometimes dishonest and manipulative as well. I think the great tragedy is that our culture has indoctrinated people with the idea that you can’t have the kinds of relationships you want without using a strategy or playing a game to trick the other person into participation.
And just because I think you said something reductionist and shitty doesn’t mean that I think men are disgusting. My life is full of men who are honest and respectful of women – my husband, my friends, my brothers, etc. Sorry that doesn’t fit as neatly into your hyperbolic narrative.
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It’s all good. No malice on a personal level. Sure I said some other things which might have heated things up a bit but I wanted to base things strictly on the selected screenshots.
All in all, I believe men in general are confused about feminism also. Why I say that is lots of Lesbians subscribe to feminist doctrine, so they seem pretty alternative as far as relationship goes. But then, they (feminists) take offense to guys hooking up with girls. So I think that’s where lots of the confusion and contradictions come in.
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Well Kenny, i must say it takes some skill to spin two edited down comments into approximately one thousand paragraphs of PUA boilerplate. Great writing dude, truly a beacon of masculinity (which I think, in 2013, means acting as much like a spoiled 12 year old as possible) in these dark times. Also loving the unironic worship of the dude with the dumb hat and facial hair (Mystery, is it? It’s too fucking easy with you pathetic PUA man-children… FUCKING MYSTERY?!? AHAHAHAH). Jesus Christ, dude. Get your shit together.
Also, to others commenting: if you read this and thought it was interesting, thought-provoking, or worthy of discussion WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU?
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Lol some low blow and jabs but it’s nothing new. As for the down comments; expected.
As for Mystery, the godfather of Pickup, I think he’s a cool guy and it’s due to him and his writings why I enjoy multiplicity as far as dating and women go. So I don’t think you should take away from the guy.
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That femi girl and Kenny should just get a room and call it a fucking day and done.
@Kenny- Dude, they will never get it. Feminists are man’s enemies as you said in the article.
@Femi chic- I skimmed your blog and the stuff you cry about doesn’t make sense. I never understodd what difference it would make if we had a female president. Same shit no big deal
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It’s about to go down. Let’s get the popcorn 😆
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Whoa, color me surprised that it was difficult for you to make sense of complex arguments by “skimming” my blog.
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Wasn’t the complexity of it. The wishful thinking was too much to swallow.
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Who was the famous black guy that once said “can’t we all just get along”?
Hi Dani you’re not a bad chick after all. Socialkenny was merely saying women don’t have to always throw fits whenever men say something a bit out there and class it as sexism or misandy or…
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@Mike- Dude stop swallowing the pill.
As a man defending feminist crap, how does that make you feel?
I am not a pua but as part of the manosphere, if you know what that is, I subscribe to pickup theories and find it very disheartening when men defend women against their own interest.
Sleep well if you can. The article wasn’t eye opening for me but I does sound the battle cry to change things.
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you suck.
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i know this is off topic but can you recommend me a post on dealing with confidence stuff and embodying that attitude?
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