On an unusually boring Sunday, I decided to casually browse the internet in search of PUA articles to digest during the down time.
What I stumbled upon instead, were dozens upon dozens of anti-fucking PUA weblogs!
Holy shit :shock:!
Didn’t realize we were so demonized…for simply doing what men have always been doing since the advent of time: getting laid :lol:!!
What really shocked me though, was how readily and willingly guys were to jump on the anti-PUA bandwagon throughout the comment sections of these blog posts. Typical Beta-Male behavior in order to appeal to women: thinking that if they only take a pro-women position on a matter, that they will suddenly want to open their legs to be fucked solely because the guy had agreed with them.
Not gonna happen my Beta friend!
Why Does The Average Guy Hate PUA’s And Guys Who Have A System To Getting Laid (Game)?
The average guy [an Omega or Beta who’s resistant to change] simply cannot relate!
He cannot relate to a system which systematically teaches how to attract and bang chicks.
He sees it as immoral, unethical and down-right sleazy!
The average guy views pickup as something nefarious, demeaning and manipulative.
However, the underlying reason behind the Beta-Male’s disdain for pick-artistry is his inability to think outside of the box.
He’s unwilling to break away from everything his parents had told him about the sexes, and that how women should be pampered, whined and dined to the utmost…at the expense of his dissatisfaction.
He’s unable to fathom an alternate reality from which he was bred into, taught and misinformed about.
Therefore, whenever he comes in contact with a seductionist [be it in person or online]: his proverbial antennae shoots up, and his reality about what chicks respond to is threatened.
On a deeper level, to become a Pickup Artist, it’s sort of like taking one of those AA [Alcohol Anonymous] programs, where you have to firstly admit that you’re fucked up- and in need of help.
Learning pickup is the same thing: a newbie [RAFC] must come to the realization to admit to himself that he is fucked, horrible with women, and has been duped by society, his parents and the media, for the past 20 years of his shitty-little lackluster life.
That is the base mindset of every guy who enters the world of pickup. Starting from scratch to re-framing his entire reality and knowledge-base of women, sex and manhood.
Now, the average guy who falls on the anti-PUA spectrum of the argument, he is so self-deluded, that the furthest thing on his shallow mind is to admit that he’s been wrong all along about women and dating.
The average guy doesn’t want to face that, because admission to being wrong is seen as a sign of weakness and vulnerability.
Also, he doesn’t want to face the reality that he sucks shit with women and getting laid!
PUA’s were once guys who at 1 point, faced the reality that they needed help with getting laid and living a fruitful lifestyle. And that PUA welcomed the help by being humble in the face of harsh criticism from guys who were better than him in that department. But it’s through such humility, he’d learned to become a Rockstar with the ladies.
The average guy who bashes Pickup, is akin to the druggy who doesn’t think that he has a heroin problem when he’s missed work for the past 3 days because he’s been strung out somewhere in a city basement on a drug binge.
So when the average guy encounters a PUA @ the bar engaged in a passionate interaction with a fucking stunning 10: he thinks to himself:
“I would never wanna be that guy parading around the place manipulating women”.
Then he goes home alone to spank the monkey and write another PUA-bashing article just to placate his paper-thin ego.
That’s a fucked-up reality to live!!!
Why Pickup/Game Will Never Be Accepted By Mainstream:
1.) It’s too out of the box for the average guy
2.) It rattles everything the average guy has been taught
3.) Nice guys are ranked at the bottom of the totem pole according to PUA’s
4.) Most PUA’s advocate the dominant badboy persona: which in a feminized society, this is highly looked down upon
5.) Getting laid should not be seen as an art form but something naturally accrued [according to the average guy]
6.) Women’s rights organizations [like feminism] won’t allow it
Does Kenny really care 1 shit if the community goes mainstream or not?
Of course NOT ;)!
The average male’s anti-Game stance, is why I never ever tell any guy who isn’t into pickup, that I have a system for picking up chicks.
Guys on the outside will never understand, nor will they get on board…unless they’d hit rock-bottom on the dating market, got cheated on and dumped like shitty-disposable paper, then decide to seek an alternative for themselves.
This is probably the only way a Beta-male can be saved- which is through extreme heartache.
On the other hand, saying to the average guy (who believes that he has his shit all together): “Hey man, I can give you a few pointers on so and so”, will be the fastest way to create an enemy or have a buddy envy you because he now thinks you’re a maniacal womanizer :evil:.
When I’d discovered pickup, it was on the heels of a Valentine’s night some years ago, where the girl of my dreams had taken a box of chocolate, love poem, Teddy bear and rose, returned them to me with an attached note saying, “Sorry but we can only be friends and I don’t see you in that kinda way so I cannot take your gifts”.
That shit fucked me up royally!
However, it prompted me to make the following Google search:
“Do women like nice guys who do nice things for them”?
I was fucking floored shocked when the search-engine results came in:
•Women like badboys
•Why nice guys finish last
•Don’t be nice to women
•Chicks are attracted to assholes
•Stop being nice to women by buying them gifts
Holy shit! My reality of 22 years or so was completely shattered within 1 google search :lol:!
That was how I discovered the PUA community: through a Google search which led me to Seduction Tuition.com, where I had my start in Pickup.
I’d go out on a limb to say that 70% of PUA’s had discovered the community this way [via chance or internet search].
We sought guidance through the Internet and stumbled upon a PUA blog or some pickup artist forum.
On the flip side, had a guy or buddy of mines approached me saying: “Hey Kenny man, I can teach you a thing or 2 about girls”, I would’ve totally fucking rebelled as if he were trying to convince me to snort an envelope of anthrax!!!
Saying all that to say, it’s much easier to dismiss or hate on something you don’t understand which rattles your current reality of how things are supposed to be.
So whenever the average guy stumbles upon a PUA website, he’s immediately offended by declarations such as:
“Women respond to men who treat them badly”
“Fuck women hard and skip the romance”
“Women are biologically attracted to men who cheat”
“Become a badboy to attract more girls”
Those declarations scare the shit out of the average male who’s still trapped within the matrix of romcom-dating advice, which he gobbles up from watching Dr. Phil or reading some chick blog which advocates treating women like entitled princesses :(!
It’s much easier to believe that you can get by with women by just being yourself, following the rules, and listening to Justin Timberlake albums , then it will all come together.
With that outlook on dating, it totally makes sense that the average male [in the western world] will have had only 3 sexual partners on average throughout his entire lifetime.
At my height of pickup, prior to meeting my current girlfriend (in 2009), I was banging 2 new girls every week almost…on a slow week that is :shock:!
A mind-boggling excerpt from an article I recently read on the blog of The Introverted Playboy:
“The first and most important is the average guy. The average guy had a few good friends in high school, maybe kissed two or three girls, had sex with one of them, and that was probably his first girlfriend. (The average male in the US has sex for the first time at age 17.) Then in college he kisses a few more girls, has one or two more girlfriends. And maybe one or two drunken casual sex experiences.
After he graduates college, he gets a job, moves to a new town or city, has two or three more girlfriends over the next decade, whom he meets through friends, his workplace and the occasional bar meeting. One of those girls is the one he eventually marries (the vast majority of spouses are met through social circle zones like school and work)…”
Deep shit, huh!?
That goes to illustrate how trapped within the standardized maze of societal norm of dating and mating the average guy is. And why he berates the pickup artist on the sole basis that the PUA is shattering the norm by stepping outside of the box to sleep with as many women as his cock can manage!!!
The average guy sees such a man as a threat to his little-cozy survival- which in reality he has a point!
This is a classic analogy of the Alpha-male weeding the Omegas and Betas out of existence- literally!
Two weeks ago, I had a guy phoned me up virtually pleading for me to stop fucking his new girlfriend, and that I am ruining a good thing…literally [his relationship] ❓ :).
A good thing!?
He apparently had gone through her phone and read the Whatsapp messages that we had exchanged [plus traced my # through the app].
I mean your precious GF is sneaking around with a man-whore PUA, and the most plausible thing you can find to do is to chastise me while letting the guilty party off the hook instead of dumping the bi**h 😯 !!!?
Had he read this article of mines, he would’ve been better off psychologically as far as expectations go…no hindsight pun intended: Sexual grace period: what you should know about your new girlfriend.
That is the reality of the average male: he gets lucky with 1 or so girl [hooked up through family and friends], then clings onto her like a life-raft in turbulent seas.
Those guys need some serious de-programming from the matrix.
Check out the following 2 killer videos from RSD PUA coaches, RSD Tyler and RSD Julien, as they touch on some of the points I’d raised in this article which will shatter your frikkin’ reality!
[Video below: RSD Tyler on what the mainstream isn’t supposed to know about sex and women]
[Video below: RSD Julien on getting away with anything with girls]
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