How To Spot A Horny Girl [Chick Reveals The Secret]

The revelation I’m about to drop should be common knowledge among sexually-active women.

For men however, this will come as a sick dose of twisted reality mixed with a touch of irony sprinkled with some dashes of “WTF” on the side for good measures!

Firstly, I must admit that this all culminated after reading a super-fucking wicked article by the PUA coach, Chase Amante, written in 2011, where he wrote the following:

“I was out at a bar in Southern California with my then-girlfriend, a close friend of mine who had a prolific history with women, and a few other friends and acquaintances.

My girlfriend at the time was standing away from me, arms crossed, fuming, and acting very short-tempered and tense with me at the time.

“She is so horny right now,” my buddy said as we both looked off in her direction.

“Tell me about it,” I replied. “I haven’t slept with her in a week, just because I’ve been super busy. But yeah, she wants it really bad right now.” And then I stopped. Wait, how did he know that? And how did I know that? She certainly didn’t look anything like what horny looked like in the movies.

I quickly had a series of women’s faces flash through my mind: women I’d known had wanted to go to bed with me, but who had also been acting like…well, like total bitches…”

Hold that excerpt in mind for later reference to the bombshell which I’m about to reveal…to my audience at least.

Chase’s findings, and mines, will all collide in a mass of accordance on the topic of knowing when a girl is horny, lacking or needing sex.

A Female Coworker Drops A Bomb

A week ago while casually chatting the shit with a sexy co-worker of mines, in which I’m actually her supervisor, I noticed that she was uncharacteristically bitchy that morning, so I said to her:

“You seem moody as hell this morning. Chicks and their period”!

Already aware of my shtick as a Pickup-Artist instructor, she would generally confide in me of her relationship issues [cold irony that I’m breaking that code of confidentiality with y’all :)], and looks for me to give her some pointers on the male psyche.

Me: “So what gives with the moody attitude this morning”?

HB Coworker: “Not my period. Boyfriend shit”!

Me: “I thought I’d advised you that all men were biologically programmed to have more than 1 woman :?:”?

HB Coworker: “It’s not about that. He’s been busy working and shit and we haven’t had sex in a while 😦 “.

Me: “Oh ok. And? :idea:”

HB Coworker: “Well that’s the reason I’m in a bitchy mean mood right now”.

Me: “Wait, you’re telling me because you haven’t had sex, you get all bitchy? I mean, I can understand it…I guess”.

HB Coworker: “No! What I’m saying is, I’m irritated and in a bad funk because I’m horny” :oops:.

Me: “WHAT!!!!!????? 😮 ”

[She nonchalantly says to me:]

HB Coworker: “When a girl is horny, she acts mean”.

Me: “You Are Fucking Kidding”!!! 😯

Who’ve kept this from us men 😡 !?

Why haven’t we seen this on TV or talked about in Cosmos or FHM!?

Who’s been guarding this dirty-little secret from us and keeping the genie in the fucking bottle 😡 !?

Ok, let’s back up!

When she said that to me with the coolness of a cucumber as if this was common knowledge among the chick fraternity; I felt as though I had been robbed of 1 of the most crucial piece of information that all women-loving men should have!

Goddamn the fucking girl code!!!

To get some further clarity on the horny-bitchy connection, I made sure that I wasn’t misconstruing what she’d said, so I begged that she break it down.

I threw my proverbial spectacles on and was now in analyst mode, fascinated yet puzzled by this new development [new to me at least] that I can now share with my fellow seductionists.

Me: “I’m confused. So what would be the difference between a girl being on her period, going through PMS and taking it out on others ❓ “?

HB Coworker: “Thing is, when I’m on my period and around people like at work, I keep my bitchiness to myself and keep it on the down low. Every girl I know do the same thing. We only take it out on our boyfriends and kids at home. But outside of the household; we never let moodiness from period show with strangers, even if we have to put up a cheesy smile and front for the day” 👿 .

Me: “Interesting! So the man at home gets the brunt of the bitchiness from your period since he’s already yours and you don’t have to create a false impression for him” ❓ ?

HB Coworker: “Basically”!

Me: “Ok, now where does HORNY come in or tie into being mean and bitchy”?

She wasn’t able to articulate her point, but from what my analytical brain had deduced, coupled with Chase’s 2011 article on HORNY girls, she was trying to say that if you ever come across a chick in a public setting who is (outright) bitchy, or visibly mean towards you: it isn’t her menstrual-cycle hormonal fluctuations [she can easily suppress and down play that irritability], but her sexual arousal, lack of sex and horniness.

Holy shit- this makes sense! 😮

It also makes sense that women are able to mask the fact [from men] that they’re on their period, without men having the slightest clue that they’re menstruating.

Basically, a chick is able keep her bitchiness in check as long as it stems from her menstrual cycle.

However, if she’s horny, her moodiness and meanness cannot be masked…at least not easily.

Prime example, the same coworker who had dropped the HORNY-bitchy revelation on me. She had always showed up to work with cheery spirits, or at least never in a mean-spirited mood [over the past 4 months she’s been working with us].

But that day when she was really feeling HORNY but couldn’t get her sex fix because of her boyfriend’s work schedule: she brought the mean with her into the workplace.

She was so fucking horny that it was visibly oozing out of her face! And I don’t mean she had the look of sexual desire in her eyes. But she had a look of, “Leave me the fuck alone”!

This is a far cry from the stereotypical sexually aroused chick who has “Fuck me baby” written all over her face.

In addition to that [her moodiness], she also said to me that she gets slight headaches from being sex depraved and horny at the same time.

CRAZY!!!

We men do not go through this!

She added that whenever women are horny and cannot get sex right away [as in her case], they get slight to moderate headaches which put them in a moodier funk.

Being sex depraved is 1 thing. Being horny and becoming irritable with accompanying headache is a whole different ball game!

Putting This All Together Into A Workable Nutshell

Ok, now that we’ve cracked into the girl code on this once hidden secret of theirs [Horny-Bitchy], it begs the questions: “What is the points, and how does this change my perspective on dating and getting laid”?

Answer:

Whenever you encounter bitchiness from a random girl you’re chatting up somewhere, or from any girl for that matter: it isn’t because she hates you nor that she sees you as the ugliest piece a shit to approach her that night. It means that she’s HORNY, sex depraved and has not been able to attain sexual gratification for whatever reason!

Yes- that’s the frame to adopt!

Her frosty and mean exterior means that she’s not getting any, and she’s HORNY as a dog in heat, so much so that she’s itching to bite anyone’s head off who doesn’t proceed with caution…initially!

How To Approach These Girls:

Conventional wisdom would say to avoid these type of women. But why the fuck would you avoid interacting with chicks who are HORNY!?

Tell conventional wisdom to take a frikkin’ hike!

Now, every guy on Earth has had his fair share of encounters with the bitchy girl: more so if you’re a PUA-Pickup Artist who runs rapid-approach game galore (as we should in a way). So I’m not advocating for you to do anything here which you haven’t done already [approaching bitchy girls].

The key thing to realize here though is that you can now discern the HORNY girls from the ones who aren’t.

Also, there’s a distinct difference between angry, upset, mean and moody.

No shit!

We can all clearly spot an angry chick who had probably gotten into a fight with her boyfriend, or one who’s pretty upset because of some trivial misunderstanding.

We aren’t addressing those girls with those real issues which are liable of making someone upset.

Moody/bitchy on the other hand, is much more subtle, subdued and distinct from angry and upset.

Saying all the obvious to say, spotting an angry girl throwing a tantrum at the bar or anywhere for that matter, is NOT a sign of HORNY.

However, the chick at your workplace or at the bar who has a mean attitude about her [mean- not angry]: she’s most likely HORNY and sexually frustrated, which is causing her to become mean and frosty towards others.

Progressing…

As Chase Amante eluded to in his article, seducing these girls [HORNY ones] in a bar setting is really just a matter of sticking in there through the initial turbulence and bullshit.

The problem with the average guy though; the instant he senses the slightest inkling of resistance and attitude from a girl he’d approached- he throws in the towel, laps his tail and bails.

Irony is, I’ve cited many times on this blog, that the girls who give me initial bitchy responses and are initially frosty towards me, are more likely to go home with me than the girls who were initially receptive and welcoming to my charms [go figure] 😯 !

Therefore, there’s a stark correlation between HORNY and BITCHY. Which is why whenever I’m at a bar or simply running street-game pickup, I never give up on a potential lay solely because the girl gives me a “GTFOH” look.

So instinctively, the master gurus of the seduction/PUA community were right and onto something major when they advocated “PLOWING” and staying the course in the face of shit tests and bitchiness coming from women.

I doubt that the gurus knew what was actually happening [the grand significance]: that these tough cookies were HORNY [my research shows that they had no idea of this], and they were mainly just advocating persistence…

Now you’re armed with the fore-knowledge that the girl who had given you the mean stare; or the one who had acted mean towards you during conversation, wasn’t doing so out of malice and mean-spiritedness, but because she was HORNY.

“But Why Be Mean When She Can Just Be Nice During Her HORNY Phase”?

Great question!

A woman who’s HORNY yet being mean simultaneously, is doing so as a way to screen and filter out the guys who just don’t get it.

She wants to fuck!!! Not talk about where you grew up and how great your college experience was!!!

Chatting her up for 20 minutes without getting sexual: leaves her no choice but to do or say something mean in order to end the show in hopes that another dude comes along who gets it [seduction guru, Tyler Durden, explains this in The Secret Society of sex]!

Being mean in a social setting is a girl’s way of keeping the Beta-Males at bay [the guys who don’t get it, who aren’t aware of the secret-society code].

Having a mean and unapproachable exterior [i.e. closed body language], is her way of pre-rejecting the guys who are not DTF, and would’ve been content with blabbling her ears off for 3 hours without sexually rewarding her after listening to you… for 3 hours straight!

Also: “Make the hoe say no” [pardon the vulgarity :)]!

If a girl you approached is being mean to you: continue chatting her up until either the following 3 things happen:

1.) She says NO [and means it]!

2.) She leaves

3.) Or she warms up and becomes engaging in a positive way

The classic rule of pickup applies here, that if the girl is still standing there: then she’s game! It’s ON!

If she really doesn’t want to talk: then she’ll walk off!

The fact that she hasn’t bounced is your indication to continue doing your thing until she comes around…hopefully.

In Closing:

It’s crazy how before the recent revelation laid out to me by a female coworker, I literally believed that all bitchy women were being bitchy because they were just bitchy mean people with major issues in their personal lives.

I had no clue that this was hinting to something more- something to my liking- which is that these seemingly bitchy girls were actually HORNY!

Are there exceptions? Sure- quite naturally! But as we strongly teach in the seduction community; always assume that it’s ON! No matter the situation; assume that the girl likes you until she proves otherwise.

With that being said, for every mean girl you approach; assume that she’s HORNY and opened to getting laid.

If your assumption is wrong: what’s the worst that could realistically happen besides the girl telling you to scram or she walks away…which would be a definitive sign of her lack of interest [which is still a maybe].

All in all, it’d be interesting to know how many of you guys out there were already aware of this HORNY-bitchy connection in women. Equally as important is to hear from my female audience as to everything I’d laid out in this article about HORNY women being mean women.

Related articles:

How to tell if a girl is horny without her having to tell you, by Chase Amante

The Secret Society most women know about, but only a selected few men know about, by RSD Tyler


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63 thoughts on “How To Spot A Horny Girl [Chick Reveals The Secret]

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  1. Can’t believe I seen this on my facebook tl when u could sent it to me directly.

    From a woman like myself, I feel what the girl is saying- the co worker u have. I can be the first to say I get headaches and mad irritated when Im horny and dude won’t pay attention to me because he with his friends or what not. So the girl is right, when a girl is horny she get moody and shit

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    1. What!? It did show on your timeline!? I thought I had my post links sent to my page by default :shocked: ?

      Anyway, thanks for chiming in Kim. The women are really representing and making their voices heard on this 1. As I told Lori, it’s good to get a general feel on this and to know that it’s across the board with women.

      Hopefully you don’t clobber your BF for holding out so long.

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      1. this my first time commenting on a blog and this is quirky as hell. Not sure if I posting this comment to the right place or section. Oh well!

        i got a little story from when last week about this. We was @ the table @ work chatting shit with girls talk as we always do and the topic of horny bitches came up so my girl teesha brought up how when she was @ a house warming party a month ago in s. carolina, some dude approach her the wrong way so she gave him the bizness and told him to get lost. another dude came up to her with the same lame shit so she turned him down too with a mean attitude. Then 1 of the guys shouted that teesha must be on her period why she acting so fucked up lmbao

        little do they know teesha wasnt even seeing her period that time like she was telling up. she was just horny as hell and wast in the mood to talk with any lames who was just going to bore the shit outa her more. that how girls do it

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        1. You did post in the correct field. You’ll get a hang of it 😉

          Interesting story!

          I can see how your friend Teesha felt about the lame approaches. This is why we teach in pickup that the guy should actually always assume the girl is DTF.

          These are the type of snippets the audience of this blog would love to hear since they give credibility to the information. And mind you; I was totally oblivious to this just a week ago.

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    1. Nah, we should spare her life for this 1. She let the cat out the bag is right, but she’s only human 😉

      Good to find out that this is actually true and not just 1 girl’s experience.

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    1. I wouldn’t say pimping since it’s not about prostituting chicks and making a profit. To put it in the simplest form, it’s about men learning what it takes to become good at dealing with women. That’s a general view of what we do.

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          1. Great article Socialkenny! I’ll have to keep this in mind for future reference when running bar game bro.

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  2. And kenny, I updated this article on my facebook and got a few laughs from my girls lol they wondering why is a man tryna know this shit for and this should be our secret

    P.S. The Queen Bitch

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  3. Kool. I might have to tell my brother about this since he need game and I always tell him shit about girls and to talk with them but he always too shy

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          1. Nope, I wouldn’t tell you that. And that’s my point. Every woman has her own way and timing for how we exhibit our feelings and desires. One woman’s behavior won’t speak for all.

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  4. As a female seduction coach working with Dean Cortez, I typically teach men about this, but instead of from a single girl’s standpoint, I teach them this (recognizing a horny woman) from a husband to a wife perspective, since that’s the focus of my teachings (marriage game).

    Thanks for sending me the link on Facebook Kenny. We’ll catch up @ a later time buddy.

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  5. This is just Sooo general to be real. I like the idea of the post, but I know a few women who get really moody (bitching, complaining, talking about their period alll the damn time, being grouchy, etc) I hate it because they act like it doesn’t come every month (if we’re lucky) AND I just don’t wanna hear about anyone’s period! Those same women are more likely to be playful (to other females) when horny. I think each individual needs to know and recognize unique signals for when their partner wants the D. Furthermore if you’re that damn horny, there are products for that!

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    1. We get tht it seems generalization, but what Kenny was trying to say, and you as a woman can relate, that when a female is around men, or let’s say she’s on a date with a guy, she isn’t going to complain and whine about menstrual cycle stuff. She won’t even bring it up let alone let her crankiness show. She wants to create a lasting and good impression on others and strangers. That’s what Kenny was saying. So among their girl groups, of course women will complain and period pains and all. But she won’t do that to a man or strangers like let’s say if she works in sales or cashier or something. She will put up a facade.

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      1. I couldn’t have said it better. To add to this point, we now have a polarity between period and horny. A menstruating chick will get to any extend to mask her irritability. But she being sexually depraved and horny, creates a situation where she gets aggravated to the point that she doesn’t mask it.

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      2. Right, and I agree about the dating part and putting your best foot forward. But I think the initial conversation he was having was with a woman who has a boyfriend and the topic was horny behavior.

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          1. Oh I take no offense! I’m entitled to my opinions. As far as the topic of your post, how to spot a horny chick, it’s not something that ever crossed my mind (being a female), but if I had to guess I would say a woman would more likely be playful and flirtatious (more touchy, batting lashes, wearing certain things, giving verbal clues) with a man she wants to sleep with. As far as how she treats the rest of the world when she doesn’t get it, the idea is just too broad and almost silly. What woman has time to be mad at the world over sex?

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          2. True in that the general notion about a girl who’s sexually aroused would be one of flirtatious and so forth. That is true totally! But what I was pointing out is that just because a female is in a sulky, moody mood, doesn’t mean she isn’t sexually or horny. I’ve always been of the impression that a horny girl is the typical girl you see in a movie who’s acting sexual and provocative. Until my female coworker shockingly told me she was horny, and that was the cause of her moodiness. This is shocking to me!

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    2. Lol I had to laugh p products for horniness. You’re totally right. Why not just use some sex toys or masturbate to get it over with? But I guess this only lasts for a time before the mood swing return where she craves the real thing again.

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  6. Just goes to show you, there’s always more to learn about dating and seduction, lol. It does make sense. I remember this one girl that I saw casually for a while, she was always WAY nicer to me after I fucked her than before, lol. She would smile, laugh at all my jokes, be friendly, etc.

    It goes in line with women’s primal desire to be conquered and overwhelmed. Interesting stuff to think about.

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  7. We all put up facades. Men too, just as much as women. Take a guy who goes up to a girl at a bar, acting really nice and friendly and soft. The girl thinks “wow, what a nice, friendly guy!” when in reality he’s just trying to get in her pants. But he thinks he has to put on that act to get sex.

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    1. @ Introvert I don’t know if this was in response to my comment but it seems so. I am on board with you all the way on the point of facade. The nice guy isn’t really a nice guy when you think about it from doing everything from buying drinks and expecting something to materialize later, down to doing niceties to get sex. The nice guy is the worst fraud.

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      1. Japan–exactly. And what makes it even worse is that these guys think they are treating women with “respect” and all that nonsense by not being straight with them and just being honest. They think treating women like idiots is “respecting” them.

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  8. Yes and you believe that or are you 1 of those women who are still under the illusion that most men are nice because we genuinely want to be nice without ulterior motives?

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  9. I get the 1st. part of your point that we both agree on but I am not sure I get your last point of disrespecting. Nice guys dont treat women like idiots. They suck up to them and treat them like princesses even though it is coming from a wrong place. Maybe you can clarify.

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    1. That’s kind of what I meant. Instead of idiots, a “baby” might be a better analogy. Or a princess like you said–either way, she’s made out to be a delicate, helpless, sexless creature that you have to treat a certain way, and then spring sex on her at the last minute. (Nice guys always assume that women don’t want/ need sex like we do.) Which is insulting to her intelligence and her capacity to make sexual choices for herself.

      The interesting thing is that treating someone like a princess or a baby superficially seems to be giving them more “respect”, but in reality it’s actually disrespecting them.

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  10. This is similar to how I get mega bitchy when I’m hungry. When a lady’s body is out of balance, she gets bitchy. I think getting some dick has a calming effect on the females and I’ve always said that when chicks are acting all bent out of shape about every little thing, they just need some. This is also how you can tell if I guy is doing his gf properly. If she is still a mega cunt all the time, he probably is not satisfying her.

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    1. @Jew Girl- It makes sense now coming from women to hear all this and confirmation. I really just thought that chicks get that way on their period only and not when in need of cock.

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  11. I am way tardy to this party!
    I do think your post is a bit over-generalized but yeah, horniness can make us bitchy!
    Women can be aggressive too and need a release. When something in our bodies is off and we are uncomfortable (like our period or need to get laid) we will get into a bitchy mood! I think we just have less patience for stuff we can usually shrug off and then the bitch-monster comes.
    I say it’s overgeneralized because there are many reasons for women to be bitchy; I get bitchy when I am feeling sick too. Also when I am bored, I enjoy being bitchy just because (also I am a bitch, it’s just part of who I am). And yes, when I’m at the club I will put a bitchface on in the hopes of dissuading guys to approach me.
    Also, when I’m on my period I do take it out on the people I work with. Most women hide it because they are afraid that someone will point it out and they will seem less competent in the workplace but I am HOPING someone will say “are you on your period?” so I can fuss their ass out and feel good about it and somehow make them feel bad for bringing it up. It has yet to happen. When I’m horny-bitchy I prefer to take that out on my boyfriend or whomever I’m dating because I want THEM to do something about it. And some just run away scared. Oh well. One of my ex’s got it and really loved it though.
    However, I do like your advice to approach anyway. I will drop my bitchface in the club if a guy approaches me and is cool and then just have a good time.

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    1. Sure they’re various reasons for female bitchiness, but this info was coming from a chick (co-worker) who’s info was corroborated by my other 2 co-workers. So this sounds genuine to me.

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  12. I say a lot of this is irrelevant BS, though a few useful gems are there, that’s not going to help a guy pickup women. This is more “girlfriend talk”, that’s of very limited usefulness. A guy isn’t going to be able to distinguish nor decipher the cause of a moody woman’s behavior in an intial meeting scenario. The good part of this was telling guys to keeping going until failure or success. If she truly doesn’t like you, she will: continously tell you to F’off, the continous negative body language will make the situation clear, or she will walk off.

    The better concept is to focus on verbal and indirect sexually suggestive talk, KINO, and attempting to move her to a more private or romantic location. In this way, the guy is attempting to escalate and make progress. If she’s truly horny or into the guy, they will escalate to a sexual encounter or at least exchange contact info.

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  13. Seems I’m late in responding to this but I can personally agree with the bitchy part when horny. I’m not always bitchy though and can hide it well but guys seem to sense when I am. I was out and about and super horny and guys were turning around to look at me. I was a bit taken back by it. I asked my husband do I have something on my face because guys keep turning around and looking at me and he’s like no he said are you horny? I’m like yes… he said that’s why you give off a scent?? I didn’t know this lol. Do we really do that?

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  14. Next time please write: BLACK GIRLS not FEMALE.
    And “master seducer”? Really?
    Shit man, no sane women other than cheap black girls would want to go to bed with you. Eww. Fuck!
    I think even good black girls wouldn’t want to go out with you.
    And btw picking up girls in pubs/nightclubs/bars/discos is not something u should brag about.
    Really disgusting.
    A real player doesn’t need to brag. Hell, he didn’t even have time to write a fucking blog!

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