Socialkenny goes home with 2 random girls from a nightclub [in-field video]…

I went out to the bar/club on the 22nd. of February, had a real shitty time in the sense that it was a cock-fest; like 10 dudes to 1 chick in the venue.

Nevertheless, decided to run some scavenger game on the few girls who were there and end up hooking a 2 set (2 girls).

My target was sexy as hell but her oversize friend was not!

Plus being a party-pooper didn’t help.

As any socially smart PUA would, I befriended the fat friend in order to get on her good side [no pun intended] to minimize the possibility of the cock-block.

The girls were obviously bored with the caliber of guys @ the venue, so via “Social Intelligence”, I ran some asshole game and suggested we head back to my PUA bachelor pad.

They objected, I plowed, they object, I plow, they refuse, I plow, they consider, I plow, they accepted, I took them!

When all fail and you’re having a shitty night, instead of opting to go home alone, just plow and plow to see what you can get.

The night didn’t end as I’d planned, but sure beats the shit out of going home alone to watch reruns of MTV’s Friendzone.

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Attitude vs Looks [Jersey Shore’s Mike The Situation & Pauly D]

Mike The Situation (left), Pauly D (right): attitude vs looks.

Mike The Situation (left), Pauly D (right): attitude vs looks.

Socialkenny’s Experimental Consensus On Looks

The seduction community’s position on looks has always been “Looks don’t matter”!

I totally agree! And I’m 1 of the few remaining guys in the community who still advocates this to the FULLEST!

Lately however, seems like the community on a whole has been back peddling and doing 180 flips from it’s original position on looks to where gurus and dating coaches are now saying and insinuating that “Looks” is the biggest weapon in a guy’s arsenal.

With this article, I’m hoping to end it all right here right now, and to squash this newly perpetuated fallacy that good looks get guys laid [over style and attitude]!

You’re more likely to get laid from being in the right place, right time (as every guy has), than by being a super-hot guy.

Solely possessing good looks do not fucking matter!!!

They do not get you laid!!!

It matters as much as pickles on a cheese burger: which is pretty insignificant to the overall eatability of the burger.

From my consensus [I actually took a few], looks (facial-wise) only matter between 5-8 % in the grand scheme of the overall attraction and seduction process.

That is fucking dismal for all the hype and hoopla surrounding this issue over the decades.

Good looks (stunning facial features) is at the bottom of the totem pole when compared to qualities such as:

•Style
•Personality
•Attitude
•Humor
•Confidence
•Tonality
•Voice
•Conversation, etc.

Three years ago, I’d polled 60 female Facebook friends, presenting them the above-mentioned 9 qualities in a guy in which they’d choose the qualities that would possibly aid their decision in sleeping with a guy.

Having good looks (facially) ranked the least: 5%!

So a girl is less likely to sleep with you because you look like Denzel than if you had a bad boy attitude.

Take that pretty boys!

Confidence trumps good looks!

Balls trump good looks.

Attitude trumps good looks.

Know-how and savviness trump good looks.

Wits trump good looks.

Having an infectious sense of humor trumps having good looks.

Being good at conversing trumps good looks.

Every single above-mentioned quality in a guy beats the shit out of having good looks.

This has always been the position of the PUA community, so I really don’t understand how and why we are now perpetuating that good looks matter.

Case Study Of Mike The Situation and Dj Pauly D [of MTV’s Jersey Shore]

I’m a Jersey Shore fanatic, which is why I’d written about these dudes numerous times on the blog.

This time however, I’ll do a virtual case-study on 2 of the guys who featured in the reality show: Mike The Situation and Dj Pauly D.

Mike The Situation (left), Pauly D (right): attitude vs looks.

Mike The Situation (left), Pauly D (right): attitude vs looks.

Those who aren’t familiar with the series, the guy on the left is Mike, Pauly on the right.

From an experiment I did some years ago via Facebook, my female friends unanimously voted Pauly D as the hotter guy in the looks department (face-wise).

Pauly is way hotter (according to women and societal standards of beauty), he has the straighter nose, better tan, women go crazy over his facial affectations.

Mike on the other hand [guy on the left] is more rugged-looking, the bigger nose, facial blemishes, looks older (although Pauly is surprisingly years older).

Women on a whole tend to find Mike ugly [as was the case from my Facebook census].

Not only my Female Facebook friends hold this opinion, chicks generally opine that Mike isn’t good-looking.

Fine!

Those who had followed the show know where I’m headed with this.

Ok, so Mike is ugly- Pauly’s hot!

Chicks have spoken!

Now, if I ask you the readers, assuming you’d never watched the show, which guy do you believe got laid more, you would unanimously say Pauly D- guy on the right who’s generally perceived as hotter and has better looks.

Mike The Situation (left), Pauly D (right): attitude vs looks.

Mike The Situation (left), Pauly D (right): attitude vs looks.

However, what if I were to tell you that Mike, the ugly guy [according to general consensus] was pulling way more ass than the cuter guy was!!

Would you believe me?

Of course not! But it’s true!

The Popeye look-alike got laid more!

In fact, of all the male roomates [4 of them], who all had better looks than Mike by the way, Mike still got laid more than the other 4…who were hotter (facially).

The guy who just doesn’t get it, who is still hung up on the looks thing is probably saying “Fuck No! Guy on the right had to have been smashing more vagina than the other guy”!

When you’re able to step out of the matrix and really get to know how attraction and women work; only then you’d come to believe that a socially perceived ugly guy could get laid more than the perceived handsome guy.

You have to understand that women process “Looks” differently than we retarded men do.

For us men; face is a HUGE deal!

For women; attitude is the biggest deal.

What separated Mike from Pauly (apart from the looks) was attitude.

When out, Pauly was too reserved and waited for the action to come to him.

If the action doesn’t come (which it didn’t): he goes home alone.

Mike on the other hand was ULTRA pro-active!

He sought out the action i.e. hot girls without apologies!

He had an aggressive, cocky, bad boy, IDGAF attitude which most women cannot resist, although they’d say that Mike was a douchy asshole!

Mike, [the ugly guy] was actually picking up 2-3 girls and introducing them to Pauly. So he had gotten Pauly laid on numerous occasions throughout the seasons.

Pauly, the hotter guy, was eating Mike’s crumbs.

This also dispels the myth that a hot guy can just lay back and wait for women to approach him and fall at his feet in submission.

Bullshit!

If you’re under the illusion that because you have Brad Pitt looks it means you can just be non-proactive at the bar and hot women will just throw themselves at you: you’re fucking nuts!

The Sitch [Mike] was fearless in his approach to picking up girls at the club and back to his pad!

Although he didn’t have good looks on his side, he did have the more important things though:

Balls
Confidence
Swagger
Fearlessness
Cockiness
Congruence
Forwardness
Badass attitude
Alpha-male traits

These qualities mean something to women.

Being that aggressive badass in the nightclub scene will get you laid a ton: even if you’re butt-ugly.

Guys who’ve been struggling throughout their lives with LSE issues [Low-Self Esteem] stemming from their looks, and have been called ugly and unattractive by women and men alike, look yourself in the mirror and affirm:

Looks do NOT fucking matter!

Make that your mantra and war-cry from henceforth!

If Mike The Situation could pull hot ass constantly [because of his attitude]: then you can!

Make no more excuses to blame “ugly and looks” as reasons to suck with women.

You have an irregularly long or big nose; so fucking what!

Doesn’t matter!

Your hairline receding and you’re going bald; so what!

Suffering from sever acne outbreaks on your face; so what!

Big-lipped, thin-lipped, huge-eyed, chubby-faced, scar-faced, flat-faced, pizza-face, yellow teeth…don’t fucking matter!

Your attitude, style (dressing), swagger, and vibe will override those facial imperfections.

Attending school, I was always teased and made fun of by classmates, being called flat nose, cone-face, banana-face you name it.

It made me very self-conscious growing up.

When I’d discovered the pickup community years ago (by chance), my life totally changed after learning that looks don’t fucking matter!

I can still get laid despite having what society considers to be physical imperfections.

I’d transformed myself from an introverted, self-conscious chode to a social-fucking Rockstar with enough confidence to stretch around the globe 10 times and some!!!

Once you begin to realize that having a perfectly-shaped face doesn’t mean shit without having Game and confidence to back it up, you’ll begin to grasp why dudes like Mike The Situation, in spite of his peculiar nose, can still take hot girls home!

Having Game and learning the seduction skills which I teach, will get you way further than the pretty-boy who believes that his cute face will get him far.

Remember, take a look at yourself in the mirror and say:

“Looks do not fucking matter! My attitude does”!

Meditate on it!

Sleep on it!

Shit while reciting it!

Record it on a voice-recorder or cellphone and replay it a thousand times if you have to.

Please do not let anyone convince you and fool you into thinking that you have to change your facial appearance in order to get laid!

That’s like putting icing on shit [to use PUA coach Josh Pellicer’s analogy].

Icing is decorative and tasty, but to put it on shit will still not make shit eatable.

So altering your facial features (surgery, etc.) will still not miraculously make you good with women if your inner game (confidence and self-esteem) is crappy and suspect.

It’s about attitude (bad boy and aggressive) and style over socially perceived good looks.

Related article:

Why ugly men are so confident with hot women by Socialkenny PUA

I’ll leave you with these photos of Mike The Situation, a Natural Alpha Player, doing his thing over the years on the Jersey Shore reality series.

Watch, look and learn how swagger, dominance, style, asshole game and a bad-boy persona gets girls.

Now have a Rockstar weekend!

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1 Way In Which I’d Assassinated My Fear Of Women

At first, I never knew how instrumental this would be, and the many dividends it would pay off down the line.

There’s quite a number of ways in which to tame the anxiety beast (with women), but 1 of the most effective ways I came to discover was… “Chatting Up Married MILF’s”.

Yes I fucking said it; flirting with ladies who are old enough to be your frikkin’ mother!!

No one was born instinctively knowing limits and boundaries.

A baby doesn’t come into this world knowing its place.

He-she has ZERO fucking bounds!

We were all conditioned to follow social rules and protocols.

Because of this social conditioning as a toddler, most men become incapable of doing things which may seem too radical or forward: like flirting with married women or women older than they are.

This sort of “respect for your elders” frame has become a double-edge sword in the dating scene.

Guys such as I am, are rarities in this world of Betas.

There’s no chick whom I deem as off-limits: whether she’s married, widowed, MILF status, has 20 kids, a judge, nun, teacher, etc.

As long as she’s hot and has a body to my liking.

Respect for your elders as far as women and dating goes, isn’t a motto I abide by at all.

Guys who become extremely good with women have less boundaries and are risqué.

Guys who never become good, or remain below average, have many social hang ups when it comes to sex and dating.

It’s no secret already to regular readers of this blog that I’m an ardent MILF-Hunter, my girlfriend is a 41 year old MILF herself, and I love shagging the shit out of hot cougars and women 15-20 years my elder!

Think Paula Abdul and Michelle Obama!

Sexy Paula Abdul, 50 years old

Sexy Paula Abdul, 50 years old

Sexy 49-year olf Michelle Obama

Sexy 49-year olf Michelle Obama

Apart from getting a sexual gratification of busting a fat-ass nut all over the faces of “respect-worthy” wives: it goes beyond sex.

The skills, ability and confidence to flirt with or pick up a married woman is the pinnacle of Game.

Fuck picking up exotic strippers!

There’s nothing risqué nor ballsy about that!

Strippers and models aren’t forbidden fruit, nor are they hard to seduce!

Try banging the shit out of your high-school teacher or your mother’s hot friend- and then we can talk about confident and Alpha!

There’s a psychological HIGH one gets from knowing he can convince a (so-called) happily-married woman to cough up her phone number.

The Married-Business Woman File

There’s a sexy MILF business owner who runs a chain of supermarkets along with her husband/business partner where I live.

She’s a 52-year old, VERY religious and church-going diva!

The type who always preaches to people that they should accept Christ into their lives and attend church….

I hate religion [I’m an Agnostic], so such attempts to convert me usually leads to a verbal firefight between the “holy people” and I.

Basically, this 52-year old married MILF business-owner is a serious cookie when it comes to religion and her marriage…until she came across moi.

Just yesterday, I had a guy(random stranger) say to me while exiting the supermarket, “Dude, how the fuck did you get away with that LOL”!!!?

This is what he’s referring to:

Yesterday, the married MILF happened to have popped into 1 of her establishments which I frequent to buy groceries:

Married MILF: “So how was your Valentine’s”?

Me: “I was waiting for your call so you can take me out but you stood me up so I didn’t go anywhere”.

Married MILF: “LOL weren’t you supposed to take me out!? You’re the man”!

Me: “New times, new things. Women take men out nowadays”.

Married MILF: “So you say. So how’s you and your girlfriend”?

Me: “Every time I come in this place to shop, you’re always inquiring about my GF! She’s ok! Worry about us- you and me”!

Married MILF: “Lol young man, I’m way too old for you. I probably have kids your age”.

Me: “Age is just a #”. Your husband better not slip up or I’ll be sleeping with you in no time”!

Married MILF: “LOL you can say some things to make me laugh sometimes boy! I don’t know where they got you from”.

Me: “Nah seriously, set a date and time and we’ll go out”.

Married MILF: “I’m too old for that now. I passed those days. I haven’t gone out in ages”.

Me: “A sexy piece of ass like you shouldn’t restrict herself so much from getting out some”.

Married MILF: “[Blushing pink] LOL you checking me out or something”?

Me: “Come on Mrs. **********, you act like this is my first time here. I been coming here for months and you know I’m always checking you out”.

Married MILF: “Such a perv young man.

Me: “Your husband’s time is limited before I really try seducing you”.

Married MILF: “LOL whatever you say boss”.

I took her hand and gave it a kiss on her wrist as I was leaving which left her stoked and blushing bright red!

Such interactions between us is customary.

This will happen at least 3 times weekly; at times for an entire half hour whenever she’s doing inventory checks throughout the store.

This is just the way I operate with 90% of women I regularly come in contact with, irrespective of her social standings or age…unless she’s OLD and OLD-looking!

The guy who had asked me how did I get away with such forward shit, and even the guys reading this wondering how and why she doesn’t chastise me and put me in my place…

Well reason is because I own my shit!

I’m super congruent and confident whenever I say such ballsy shit.

The moment she or any girl for that matter, senses or notices that you’re iffy, nervous and faltering in the forward shit you’re saying and doing, she will weed you the fuck out and put you in instant check!

So it’s all about the attitude, your ownership of that attitude and your willingness to be forward.

As religious as she is, she never brings the religion shit my way!

She’s never preachy with me!

Ninety percent of our interactions are sexual and forward.

Now, I’m not realistically trying to pick up this married MILF.

She did give me her # months ago but I never bothered to call.

I’m more concerned with social vibing and building my repository of social skills.

The spin off effect of doing this [flirting with women who are way older than you are] is that you learn to become fearless of all women!

Once you can approach and flirt with women who are supposed to be off-limits, you’d be able to approach and flirt with women of your own age group and younger.

So that is the spin-off effect of seducing MILF’s, teachers, preachers, doctors, your mom’s best friend, etc.

You don’t necessarily have to pick them up!

The act alone of flirting with them, flattering them and being sexual with them will inevitably make you almost immune to approach anxiety.

Then approaching and chatting up a super hot teenager will become effortless!

With that said, the next married woman you come across; flirt with her!

If you see it as unethical and wrong to seduce married women; then don’t seduce them! Just flirt with them and see how far you can go.

Have no agenda of actually picking them up.

Just flatter them and say something sexually-charged to them.

If you’re a high-schooler; get flirty with your fine-ass teacher!

It doesn’t have to lead to sex [although that would be nice]. You’re just gradually eliminating your fear of women.

However, if all you’re talking to are women within your comfort zone [your age group or younger], you will never progress.

To use a boxing analogy taught to me by my boxing coach:

“If you always stop at 5 pushups [your comfort zone], you will never be able to do 6”.

Therefore, you need to exceed your limits and go beyond what is comfortable to you.

At this stage of my life (over the past 3 years), I’ve become a rebel on steroids when it comes to sociability.

Want to assassinate your fear of women?

Start doing the unthinkable and break out of that fucking shell!

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