Every guy who’s ever had a girlfriend in his life would’ve arrived at the crossroads where she attempts to test him, mind fuck him or simply drive him nuts!!!
This isn’t rare by the way.
Women do test, and will test your patience and manhood along the course of the LTR [where you must pass her congruence testing]!
Quite naturally: the more you allow her to get away with such nasty behaviors, the more she’ll double down and fuck your manliness like a piece of shitty toilet paper…and eventually dump you as it’d be difficult for her to be with a guy who allows her to get away with shit [sounds counter-intuitive I know].
So how do you regain dignity, respect and the upper-hand in your LTR?
Punish her, punish her, punish her!
Guys, I can guarantee that once you begin to employ the following tips to your testy relationships; you’ll begin to see changes (for your sanity), and become a dominant guy again.
1.) Whenever she acts up, throws fits, picks fights without a cause; Give her space!!!
*Giving her space in such instance will torture her. The tortuous effect of “space” will have a triple impact if you live alone where she cannot monitor your movements during the “space”.
2.) Whenever she asks for space or does things which would signify that she wants space (or potentially be on a temporary break): Give her space!!!
*In my experience, I notice that women will periodically hint at a break/space when she desires to bang a stray dick or perhaps an orbitor who’s been dying to bang her.
*Worst thing you can do as a guy in this case is to plead and make a case to as to not go on a break. If you sense she’d fucked another guy on her break; then dump her!
3.) If she says something to you (out of anger or after an argument) like: “Don’t call me”! Then don’t fucking call her again!!!
*Ensure that she calls you back first. Try your damn best to refrain from calling her! Even if it means throwing your brand-new iPhone into the East River to keep from calling her; then do it!
4.) When she doesn’t reply to your texts messages or missed calls within a reasonable time frame (or at all); then ignore her until she does!
*I find this to be pretty difficult to maintain at times (personally). This is my achilles heel when it comes to LTR management.
*However, it’s a very powerful play in the game of relationship chess.
5.) If she refuses to have sex or deny you sex (out of spite), give her the impression that you’ll seek pussy elsewhere. Keyword here is: IMPRESSION!!!
*No need to rub it in her face that you’re gonna go pussy-hunting. Just give her the impression by simply remaining cool as a fan on the topic of sex (for a day or 2).
*Your coolness will give her the impression that you’re getting poon somewhere else, or else you’ll be bitching.
6.) If she dumps you unfairly, let’s say after a big fight or whatever, Just move the fuck on!!! Karma will ensure that she gets fucked and regrets her on-the-fly decision to dump you.
The overall strategic message is to punish her by ignoring her [by employing Freeze Outs].
Now, this won’t be the easiest thing to do, so don’t kid yourself into believing that you can follow all or some of the 6 tips with the ease of taking a piss.
As Alpha and dominant as I claim to be, I still struggle with implementing such hard-nose tactics whenever my GF tests me or gets overly disrespectful.
If you’re able to follow through though, the rewards will be self-gratifying.
There’s no greater feeling and boost to one’s ego and sense of worthiness, than to have the violator (in this case, a girlfriend) call you back after a week to apologize, ask for forgiveness or begging to get back with you.
This is a very fucking powerful frame to be the object of!!
On the contrary, you can NEVER attain this blissful feeling of dominance once you’re chasing this girlfriend or -ex [by calling her, texting, going to her place…].
Remember: the one who shows the most willingness to cling to a relationship will always be the one to get fucked since he’s coming from a position of neediness or a need to have this 1 special girl (who apparently isn’t that special).
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