Those who follow me on Twitter would’ve caught a whiff of the debauchery in progress: Socialkenny’s live tweet after walking out on date.
Don’t mean to come off as a GOA (Grand-Old Asshole), but I digress…and I can explain.
It’s pretty rare that a woman actually picks up a guy and be so ballsy as to ask him for his phone #; but these Canadians are pretty fucking ballsy LOL!
While working (government-security detail), a cute MILF-type with an obvious tourist look comes up to me:
HB-Cougar: “Ahmmmm, can I take a picture of you”?
Me: “[looking like a deer caught in the headlights] Yea, sure”!
HB-Cougar: “BTW I’m ********, a photographer from Canada”.
Me: “Wow cool! First Canadian I met for the month. But don’t think you’re special though”!
[10 minutes passes, she takes about 15 pics’ with a huge-ass industrialized camera]
HB-Cougar: “I’d like to take your # so we can go grab a beer if possible tomorrow”.
Me: “Don’t do beers on weekends. How about red wine”?
HB-Cougar: “Lol that’s great. Good for the heart”.
She punched my name and # in and took off [to learn how to seduce tourists, download my free, short e-book: “How To Bang Foreign Girls”].
The Thursday night(following night) which was supposed to be the date night; she flaked by not calling [no prob’ since I didn’t even recall we had a date to be honest].
Friday afternoon, she surprisingly stops by my job site:
HB-Cougar: “Hey Kenny, I was trying to call you all night last night. Is this your #”?
[She actually had 1 digit wrong in my phone #, so that’s why she wasn’t reaching me last night. What a DTF cougar to actually go back to my workplace to find me].
Date was set for later that night(Friday) @ a bar-and-grill joint beside the lagoon[pretty intimate local too]. Since the setting is smoke-filled (from the grills), and in a sandy area, I specifically told her to dress down in some sandals/slippers, etc. I wasn’t gonna dress up neither.
9:30 PM, we’re on the date sipping some beers (I actually had a glass of Cherry Brandy instead). It’s all going fine and dandy [at least the first half hour] until she drops the F-Bomb, “I’m a Feminist”!!!
Talk about anti-climactic and anti-PUA. It gets no more anti-PUA than a feminist. This is like dining with the fucking enemigo; Hitler & Stalin at the round table with bombs within arm’s reach!!!
Apart from dropping the F-Bomb, it went pretty well…so it would seem, until she made the following declarations over the duration of the date:
*“Every country I go to, men are always throwing themselves at me. I was in Fiji, and …”.
*“Younger men are always hitting on me…”.
*“Men are sharks who try to prey on easy women…”.
*“I bet you think you’re taking me home tonight. Think again. I know your type.”
At that point, I was pretty turned off by bullshit assertions and attempts at making herself seem way more desirable than she was[although I knew it was just plausible deniablility/backwards rationalization at play in case something/sex was to go down].
She came off with the classic feminist-talking points of “all men are dog”, which turned me off to the max. I would’ve understood had she said that “I” was a dog.
So she made 2 critical faux pas which were sure boner-killers for me: 1.) Over stating that guys throw themselves at her (which came off as insecure). 2.) Coming off as man-hating brute.
Having enough of the pageantry, I looked @ my cellphone and say to her:
Me: “Welllllllll, it’s getting pretty late. I don’t know what you’re up to, but I have things to do”.
HB-Cougar: “Is the date over so prematurely [with a shocked facial expression of, “I fucked up now”]?
I just walked off and phoned an HB8.4 whom I’d met weeks prior…and she’s definitely DTF without the male-bashing headache.
Remember guys; whenever you have an abundance mentality like I do, no 1 girl is too special to NOT walk out on.
No 1 girl becomes so special that you’d take male-bashing insults just to TRY to get a piece of her pie.
Surely I could’ve stayed on the date and had an 8-10 chance of f-closing the Canadian-Cougar Photographer perhaps on the secluded pier just 20 yards from where we were.
However, you’re presented at times with situations where you should man up, stand up, put a quick lay aside and walk away.
What I’d done didn’t only show dominance and assholishness, but it communicated to the date that as an Alpha-Male, I have certain obligations to my manliness, and certain bounds I won’t let her cross…in spite of how horny I was and wanted the easy lay.
And the lessons here for women are pretty straight forward:
1.) Don’t go on dates and start to male-bash.
2.) Don’t go on dates with a pre-conceived notion that the guy will fall head over heels for you just as every other guy did (allegedly).
3.) Keep blabbing to a minimum, or you run the risk of saying something that would cost you the guy.
4.) Keep your emotional baggages home. If the last 3 guys you’d dated fucked you over; don’t project this negative emotion onto other men. Same as a pick-up artist doesn’t brand all women as lazy just because his past 2 dates had flaked on him.
Overall, it was a good date! I just got turned off and wasn’t anymore interested in pursuing this ass which showed every sign of being DTF [on top of that; she was the one who literally picked me up, so she was DEFINITELY into me].
Another tangent: just as RooshV once wrote, Never cancel on a sure thing(sure pussy) for one that is unsure.
The black chic was super DTF in that she wanted to hook up for 3 weeks now. The Canadian Cougar, although super DTF, I would’ve had to play the dance/cat and mouse a bit more to get to bang-ville.
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